>send chaser my selfie
>get ghosted again
Im so sick of never being wanted, I've done everything right, exercising, surgeries, dressing well, doing my best to control my mental health.
I have to accept no one will ever want me. And it hurts. Im going to die alone and i cant handle it.
chaser here, I've ghosted before out of insecurity
believe it or not men can be just as brainwormed about this stuff
But... im literally the least threatening person possible. Why would anyone be insecure around me? I thought men were like terminators, very predatory and dont have any emotions other than what their dick thinks? Idk im just guessing because no man has ever come near me
It sucks 🙁 sorry you get ghosted too
No, he literally said send me pics, so i sent him a pic, nothing. I must be really bad. I think im a legit 2/10
Please dont play with peoples emotions, no one should be ghosted
>no one should get ghosted
ghosting is a woman’s best defense. irl, if a guy is creepy on a date? just ghost. if a guy is weird? ghost. if i just dont like him? ghost. ghosting is the only safe way to date imo
Yeah i understand keeping yourself safe, but ghosting random people for superficial reasons perpetuates the cycle and then everyone ends up miserable and alone. Even a "im not interested" provides closure.
Ghosting is evil.
Ahhh im not posting here, maybe discord. Im ugly though, and just broken
Nils Karlsson Pyssling#8528
alr send me face then, ill be honest but not mean
Ok will add
just so you are aware he is a nazi, oh sorry he's "not a nazi" just a race realist or some shit, anyway you get the general idea I'm sure
Added, nice hat
Ok but i cant ever send selfies
Because if a guy gets treated badly they're more likely to treat others badly.
what cycle does it perpetuate lol ive never been ghosted by a man
Megabat#6741 if you wanted to add me for an honest take for anyone I will and won't be mean.
Ok will add
>Why would anyone be insecure around me? I thought men were like terminators, very predatory and dont have any emotions other than what their dick thinks?
Yeah and this kind of shit is why I ghost. I can fool some of the women some of the time, some of the women all of the time, but the combination of tranners pushing all my broken bird buttons plus the fact that I NEED to be the perfect mate and be everything she wants out of a man makes the pressure build up like you wouldn't believe.
Ahhh why though? No one reasonable is expecting you to be perfect, we're all human. Just please dont ghost
Yeah I know it's wrong, it's an overwhelming urge though. That ghosting last year was the first time I consciously understood it was a recurring pattern in my life, something I've done it to other people but always had a rock solid reason I came up with in my head why it was the right thing to do but this time it felt particularly illogical and disconnected from my will which was new and unsettling.
I've since been talking with another girl and even met her a few times, and the urge has come up several times and each time I can feel it coming from a mile away and all I can do is brace myself and try to ride it out (I blocked and unblocked her multiple times, deleted our chats and then undeleted them, etc). Now that I know the warning signs I can sort of prepare myself but I'm intentionally not letting this turn romantic because it will make it flare up beyond my ability to handle it with any coping skills I currently have and I will definitely block and probably send her an insane rambling message to make it so I can't undo it. I have to not let that happen because I want to teach myself to be a normal person and she is really sweet and kind and when I'm not under the control of the demon I want to be friends with her for as long as I can.
I mean some chasers are way out of your league or they just find you hideous, that's just how it works. You should cast a wider net and lower your standards. Post your face pic ITT and I bet my life someone will say they'd date you.
>I thought men were like terminators, very predatory and dont have any emotions other than what their dick thinks?
Not even remotely close to true. Any guy who's desperate enough to search for love on /lgbt/ is probably mentally ill in some way. Depression and/or anxiety would be the most common examples. They're probably very sensitive and are constantly trying to mask their insecurities because they're terrified you'll hate them if they show one ounce of vulnerability.
>re constantly trying to mask their insecurities because they're terrified you'll hate them if they show one ounce of vulnerability.
Yeah I ghosted a very nice girl about 6 months ago who was pretty and beautiful and cultured and basically the whole package, and I hate myself for it but I also can't even bring myself to explain myself to her because when I type out why I ghosted I'm disgusted with myself for even trying to pursue her, I feel like such a fraud and a predator and a loser it's unreal. I put up a front and I'd send her pics from my life and share little tidbits here and there to make myself sound cool and successful and popular, the way people do on social media, but in reality I'm a terrible person and that is why I'm alone and I always have been alone and my friends just pretend to put up with me out of politeness
Just thinking about what I would say to her right now makes me feel like I can't breathe
>no one should be ghosted
Almost everyone on discord is ghosted sometimes. Not a tranny specific thing. They're just people on the internet and are likely to be introverted and easily spooked by intensifying commitment or actualizatiom of a connection with an internet friend.
As a chaser I've had similar situations. Sorry you keep getting ghosted
I've ghosted many people simply because their annoying/creepy demeanor irritates me, so it might not have been the face. Are you an annoying tranny?
>i ghost chasers because i hate myself for my trauma sexuality and wanting intimacy but not searching for it irl
could be worse
Nobody wants to see his ugly rat face anon
my name is not anon it is nils, and i wanna see her face
Shut the fuck up you ugly rat human. I don't give a shit about your gay made-up name. Your parents didn't name you Nils
Can you not be mean?
they did nils is my middle name irl im named Victor Nils
Whatever you say Victor.
Might I recommend a psychiatric visit if you're that bothered by innocuous internet comments
I've had psychiatrists, psychologists, counsellors, therapists, everything
I cant handle it, why ask for pics if they're not ready for that next stage. Hurts
Yeah its a lesson in life to realise my position in the hierarchy. Im probably 3/10 on a good day with my hair and make up done. You're right i had to adjust my expectations, which are already close to zero.
And why are men so insecure? Why cant they just be honest about their feelings?
>which are already close to zero.
If you have low standards you probably just need to cast a wider net. I.e. post your pic on /lgbt/ and accept one of the dozens of chasers who'll say they'll date you instead of talking to 1 person at a time and feeling worse and worse after every ghost when you don't even know how pitifully easy it is to find men attracted to you as long as you're not horrendously deformed.
>Why cant they just be honest about their feelings?
Because they're persistently judged for having them and not being stoic gods. The only emotions men are allowed to have is anger or having 1 tear shed when their mother dies.
>And why are men so insecure? Why cant they just be honest about their feelings?
society has told us to treat people like you with kid gloves. Youve been groomed into an insular community that tells you what you are doing is okay and normal when it is not. The truth is the only thing youll be able to achieve is some ugly weirdo fetishist. Youve mutilated yourself beyond human recognition and people only placate you out of nicety.
I'll edate you mommy
>be babygay a few years ago
>be on rural grindr
>have pictures of myself where my face is visible, but not like taking the full frame
>some men ask me for body pics
>send them body pics and they wanted to fuck, they ask for a bigger face pic before, though
>take a selfie and send it
that happened like two times to me and it kinda fucked me up mentally 🙁
I understand how you feel. Pain.
Thanks 🙁 I'm glad I don't have to use grindr anymore. It made me feel like shit. I could change my body to look good, but in the end I still was not good enough due to things I couldn't change, that made me feel helpless I think.
And also the shame of getting rejected after having sent them pictures of my body, it felt pretty gross. It sucked being so desperate for male validation. Or like when you share pictures of your body anonymously and men stop talking after they masturbated. Lol. Did stuff like that happen to you?
stop going for gigachad chasers, they can pick between young passing trannies. lower your standards sweaty
i could give you free advice on how to pass
as a unclocked girlmoder (former hon)
Misty#4321, just make sure to use the passcode so i know ur from this place and not a random server the passcode is boofycakes88
Can I also add? I look bad, though and am manmoding...
Have added nervous, im a giga turbo rape hon. Im worried I'll end up a meme
Ahhh sent friend request but when i typed in the password it said i cant send you a message
>Send chaser my selfie
>They become even more of a chaser to the point where it ruins the relationship
Like how? Did they focus on your appearance, or like mention masculine features? Seems pretty bad, sorry that happened.
If you are a chaser do not go through this and just fuck a hooker trans girl. I was a crazy chaser and spent hours dealing with this shit and after I fucked one I just went back to mostly hetro who could date a non skitzo tranny.
a lot of guys who like transgirls are beta as fuck for some reason
because theyre closeted homosexuals uncomfortable with their own sexuality
they're just desperate incels who cant get girls so they make a last ditch attempt with trannies
Depends on the person
>ghost 99 chasers
>take that chaser scum, you actually thought you have a chance lmaoooo
>1 chaser ghosts first
>arghhhh why me, gonna die alone aaaaaa
karma is quite a bitch sometimes, my dear
Hiii I may want you <3 CreeperKönig00#2887
>picking people that specifically objectify you
>are surprised when they treat you like an object
god damn women are dumb
If you're like most trannies you probably push away people just as much as you get pushed away yourself.