Pooner dating adventures

Bi dude that somehow keeps ended up dating pooners here. I don't even know why I keep doing this to myself but clearly everyone involved desperately needs psychiatric help. Myself included. Last serious go was about a year ago.
>meet what I thought was another cute theyfab with an undercut and a septum piercing on tinder
>first date was getting Irish coffees at a divebar at 8am before drunk driving to his apartment
>notice that the username on the PS4 is trans related
>end up banging on the couch while watching kung fu movies (malebrained behavior)
>second date turned into just doing coke off a poetry book on his coffee table before progressing onto doing whippits at like 5am
>he opens up to me about being trans
>explain that I'm going to be attracted to him either way
>relationship continues to progress for a few weeks
>sex is fun
>he talks about being in the process of getting a bpd diagnosis
>I foolishly choose to overlook this because I've learned nothing from the last four times I have made this mistake
>he tells me he's going to Olympia for the weekend to see some friends
>Ok
>get ghosted for almost a month
>worry
>eventually start to move on
>then he reappears
>turns out he was relapsing on heroin under the bridge where Kurt Cobain used to shoot up
>go on a few more dates but it quickly becomes clear that he's just angling for money because he's been unemployed for a bit
>get blocked and ghosted after I refuse to pay his rent for him
Why are pooners like this? Why do I keep doing this to myself?

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Another short one
    >meet another pooner on tinder
    >prior military
    >vapes constantly whenever not inside the mall
    >go on a date to an escape room
    >have a ton of fun
    >he asks to hang out again the following night
    >we end up staying in at my place and smoking a ton of weed while watching Stargate SG-1
    >he tells me he's only looking for friends with benefits
    >bang
    >get ghosted the next day
    >end up matching on a different app a few months later but never speak again
    I think there's some advanced fear of emotional vulnerability or some shit going on here.

  2. 1 week ago
    Joe

    >picrel
    Funny cause he said that about brandon teena

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I chose it because I fully realize that I am part of the problem here. I did not have that additional context.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Do you have a link to the clip?

  3. 1 week ago
    Joe

    >Why are pooners like this?
    It’s the bpd not the poonerism. He would be a more successful at being a pooner itself if not for bpd

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I think I've met maybe one pooner so far that didn't have BPD, undiagnosed or otherwise and if the pooners on this board are anything to go off of my experiences are not outliers.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t know any ftm that has bpd irl or online, maybe you’re just talking to the wrong people

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      If he didn't have bpd he wouldn't have the poon urges

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    any time you date people other than normie cis women or cis gays you're going to run into bpdfags

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, but, hear me out, I am drawn to androgyny and mental illness.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        People with cluster b illnesses almost exclusively date each other because they have a superiority complex about it

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          The only thing I have been diagnosed with so far is autism/adhd

          • 1 week ago
            Joe

            Most ftms are this
            t. Adhd autist

            Do you have a link to the clip?

            Nah you should find it just by searching the words from the screencap or norm Macdonald Brandon teena joke

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah that tracks. I'm not a pooner tho.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Proof ftm’s are all psychotic bpd women

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      If they're women why do they engage in so much malebrained behavior?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >but drug abuse and manipulating people into funding your habits is malebrained! :D!!!

        Have you ever interacted with women, especially women who abuse drugs or alcohol? Or women with cluster b personality disorders?

        People with cluster b illnesses almost exclusively date each other because they have a superiority complex about it

        Subhuman scum are drawn to other subhuman scum because normal, well adjusted people avoid subhuman scum

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I had an on and off relationship with a bipolar theyfab for like a year and it was a very different experience.

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