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people on here told me i needed to transition or my emotions would just get worse and worse until i couldn't bear them

people on here told me i needed to transition or my emotions would just get worse and worse until i couldn't bear them
however, i've ignored them for about a year, and they've actually gotten better

  1. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

    Repressors should unironically be shot.

    • 4 days ago
      Anonymous

      cope, i'm getting happier while staying a man

      • 4 days ago
        future wife

        how can you judge that again? what are you comparing?
        You feel happier? that's great. maybe unrelated things improved in your life. I wouldn't take this as a surefire indicator of 'i'm going to be okay', considering plenty repressors metion dysphoria getting better or worse over time, the genderal trend being worse.

        people on here told me i needed to transition or my emotions would just get worse and worse until i couldn't bear them
        however, i've ignored them for about a year, and they've actually gotten better

        then again, if some anons on LULZ told you i wouldn't trust that. self evaluate using e.g. genderdysphoria.fyi and see a doctor about it if you have reason to believe that you're trans.

        • 4 days ago
          Anonymous

          idk i just feel happy, i had a lot of really bad months from about 16-17, but i've been on an upward trend since i turned 18, it's gradual but noticeable, i still have my bad times, but i feel okay 🙂
          whenever i try and articulate my feelings on this, people call me a tranny and stuff, but also i will not be seeing a doctor on this subject as i hate them!

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          let me stress that if OP is genuinely dysphoric and this was obvious then I would of course suggest a different approach. But OP clearly is still in the process of articulating their feelings, and has a really hard time with it. So I am conservative in my estimate and urge to look more into it.
          [...]
          >yeah, i'm super lame
          shush. Don't feel bad, you are working against your weaknesses.

          i am trying really hard to work on this stuff, but also i am kinda slow
          if i were smarter i would've figured this stuff out by now, lol
          ty for talking to me btw, i don't really have anyone irl that would

          • 4 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Turned 18
            Dude how old are you?

            • 4 days ago
              Anonymous

              i am currently 19

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                I thought I was getting better from 24-27. Guess who ordered some HRT last week

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                that blows, tho good for you, i think?
                idk, i don't think all trans (or maybe not trans in my case?) are the same

                There's no such thing as trutrans it's just like if you're not ok with getting to be a hairy chested bald man over the next few years then you should probably take e

                i don't have chest hair, or balding genetics :))
                but i get what you mean, but idk i feel like there are degrees to this stuff, like i could probably cope into old age, cause it's not THAT bad, not all tranny feelings are debilitating

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                Please stop using the adjective trans as a noun. I am not "a trans".

                Literally sounds worse than calling me a shemale have a nice day

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                it was just a typo, i meant to write trans ppl :/

                Whatever you say, if you have already decided that you don't want to transition and that you're getting better, leave and never come back. There's no reason for you to be here if you are truly not repressing and cisgender + straight.

                well, i'm not straight, lol
                not at all, so that's a good excuse to be here 🙂

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                Whatever you say, if you have already decided that you don't want to transition and that you're getting better, leave and never come back. There's no reason for you to be here if you are truly not repressing and cisgender + straight.

          • 4 days ago
            future wife

            >people call me a tranny and stuff, but also i will not be seeing a doctor on this subject as i hate them!
            oh fuck. this is the funniest thing about transphobia, plenty of transphobes ought to be trans but can't recieve treatment because they are in denial.
            again, do reading with genderdysphoria.fyi. you might be well advised to work through your transphobia either way.

            • 4 days ago
              Anonymous

              i dislike doctors for a different reason, they've fucked me over like multiple times in the past for unrelated mental health stuff, esp when i was still underaged
              i've read over that site, and i sometimes really relate to a lot of it, but then other times i read it and don't relate at all
              i feel like my emotions are constantly shifting, and like, idk
              i'm not very smart

              • 4 days ago
                future wife

                sounds like you're in for some further research. maybe talk to a few trans people on discord somewhere. maybe that would help you figure yourself out.

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                i've tried trans discords before, and a lot of people are either kinda mean, or like a little bit too excited to tell me i'm definitely trans, yk?
                idk, i'll keep trying, i would love to talk to someone about this, i've probably just been asking around in the wrong places
                this stuff is just all so hard, i hate it

              • 4 days ago
                future wife

                it is, yes. if you have gender dysphoria that's always a great indicator, work from there to see how other people realized.

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                where would you recommend i go to talk to people about this kinda stuff?

              • 4 days ago
                future wife

                i've never used discord but probably there.
                alternatively trans twitter is almost overinvolved in helping their peers. Just going there and asking for someone to chat with might help.
                reddit also very big, it has communities like asktransgender or egg_irl that have secondary community discords for all i know.

    • 4 days ago
      The Overman

      You unironically should be shot. If OP is happy living his life a certain way then that’s all that should matter.

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

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        That's awesome, anon!

        thank you :))
        today was actually a really good day, and i've actually had comparably a really good month too
        it hasn't been easy, but i feel content

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

        The likelihood that a repressor can lead a happy life is so astronomically slim, that it is literally brain-dead to even try.

        • 4 days ago
          Anonymous

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          Not every repper is a repper.

          • 4 days ago
            Anonymous

            cryptic, idk what that means, lol

            • 4 days ago
              Anonymous

              It was cryptic because people usually try to crucify anyone who even suggests that, but: Sometimes self-diagnosed dysphoria is exactly that. Self-diagnosed, and not the actual root cause of anything. This is not a matter of trender, or even trutrans. It's just life.

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                i think that's true, idk if i'm actually trans or not
                i could just be fucking retarded

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

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                It's okay to take your time figuring things out.
                If you feel like you are genuinely repressing something, it is always a good idea to try and talk to a therapist. Plenty of them suck but it at least gives you something to work with.

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                i cannot stand therapists and i don't think i can force myself to talk to one again, they always fuck me over and i hate it
                i don't trust them at all, and so i really prefer to sort stuff out myself :/
                the only issue is that i'm really dumb and bad at interpreting my feelings

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

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                You people are fucking dorks.
                Yeah, you will need to talk to a lot of people then. Keep in mind when talking to trannies that a lot of them would have deeply regretted not transitioning. Survivorship bias and all.

              • 4 days ago
                Anonymous

                yeah, i'm super lame and i do a lot of stuff that's stupid and unreasonable, but idk that's just how i am
                i am trying to talk to lots of people about this, tho the only people who really seem vested in talking to me are either super pro-trans trans people, or anti-trans dogmatics, both of whom i don't feel give a particularly unbiased perspective

                Anon, I ignored my feelings for almost my whole life. But the euphoria I felt from being how I felt was great.
                Dysphoria (not detransitioning; they try to twist this) is bacically rom a lack of trans acceptance.
                Maybe OP isnt trans. I dont fucking know. But if I had to guess, OP would probably feel better accepting femininity and going through that dark part of their soul than ignoring it and pretending it isnt there.

                This isnt "great". Yeah, you can be relatively happy single or without a perfect career or with debilitating mental and/or physical conditions, sure.

                But assuming OP isnt a troll (and I do assume OP isnt a troll), then OP iwunequivocally avoiding a side of themself and trying to justify it simpky because theyre so deep, they cant see the surface.

                Psych problems are not easy to deal with at first.

                last time i tried to embrace femininity i cried a lot and cut myself, which in hindsight was super fucking dumb, i can't even wear short shorts anymore
                idk, it conjures up a lot of bad emotions for me, so i choose to just ignore it entirely
                idk, i feel somewhat content as is, but also ik if i said my age, which is admittedly quite young (still over 18 tho), people would tell me it doesn't last after you turn 20
                i have a lot of emotions that i'm not sure what to do with, so yeah i'm uncertain
                and for the record i do sometimes troll post, but i'm really trying to be open and honest rn 🙂

  2. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

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    That's awesome, anon!

    • 4 days ago
      Anonymous

      Anon, I ignored my feelings for almost my whole life. But the euphoria I felt from being how I felt was great.
      Dysphoria (not detransitioning; they try to twist this) is bacically rom a lack of trans acceptance.
      Maybe OP isnt trans. I dont fucking know. But if I had to guess, OP would probably feel better accepting femininity and going through that dark part of their soul than ignoring it and pretending it isnt there.

      This isnt "great". Yeah, you can be relatively happy single or without a perfect career or with debilitating mental and/or physical conditions, sure.

      But assuming OP isnt a troll (and I do assume OP isnt a troll), then OP iwunequivocally avoiding a side of themself and trying to justify it simpky because theyre so deep, they cant see the surface.

      Psych problems are not easy to deal with at first.

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

        >iwunequivocally
        is unequivocally*

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

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        Read

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        Not every repper is a repper.

        onward. I put on a flag since the post you referenced. I think we largely agree.

        • 4 days ago
          Anonymous

          Oh. It wasnt loading properly for some reason until just now. Huh.

          • 4 days ago
            Anonymous

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            let me stress that if OP is genuinely dysphoric and this was obvious then I would of course suggest a different approach. But OP clearly is still in the process of articulating their feelings, and has a really hard time with it. So I am conservative in my estimate and urge to look more into it.

            yeah, i'm super lame and i do a lot of stuff that's stupid and unreasonable, but idk that's just how i am
            i am trying to talk to lots of people about this, tho the only people who really seem vested in talking to me are either super pro-trans trans people, or anti-trans dogmatics, both of whom i don't feel give a particularly unbiased perspective
            [...]
            last time i tried to embrace femininity i cried a lot and cut myself, which in hindsight was super fucking dumb, i can't even wear short shorts anymore
            idk, it conjures up a lot of bad emotions for me, so i choose to just ignore it entirely
            idk, i feel somewhat content as is, but also ik if i said my age, which is admittedly quite young (still over 18 tho), people would tell me it doesn't last after you turn 20
            i have a lot of emotions that i'm not sure what to do with, so yeah i'm uncertain
            and for the record i do sometimes troll post, but i'm really trying to be open and honest rn 🙂

            >yeah, i'm super lame
            shush. Don't feel bad, you are working against your weaknesses.

  3. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

    when?

    • 4 days ago
      Anonymous

      when what?
      when did they say that?
      idk, late last year

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

        no, when did anyone ask bitch lmao

  4. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me
    >Figure out im trans at ~14
    >Decide to be really smart and repress
    >Goes ok for a few years
    >Gets shitty
    >Trooned out at 27 anyway

    Yeah you're dumb op

    • 4 days ago
      Anonymous

      well idk if i really am trans, some other posts have made me question, what if i'm just not trans?
      that'd be pretty embarrassing
      also, i legitimately am okay right now

      • 4 days ago
        Anonymous

        There's no such thing as trutrans it's just like if you're not ok with getting to be a hairy chested bald man over the next few years then you should probably take e

  5. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

    trannies keep saying you'll know if you're trans, but they aren't doctors or scientists
    I used to be depressed and question my gender and every single tranny went hard on me being trans, but today I'm a content cis man
    lol imagine if I went through with it

  6. 4 days ago
    Anonymous

    theyre trying to groom you you fucking idiot, leave this board

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