Out of the blue message from ex-girlfriend

I dated this girl a very long time ago. Believe it was 2005-2007. It was a long distance relationship for part of the time.

We originally met online before this (2003-2004). We both played Everquest II and were kind of elite level characters on our server. We spent hours and hours together talking online before we ever actually met in person.

Anyway, eventually we met and started dating. Things were great for a while and eventually she kind of broke things off abruptly and to be honest I never really understood why. The way it went down was she basically just out of the blue stopped responding to texts/calls. I assumed she probably met someone else. I was busy with school and other things so I was obviously heartbroken for a few months but got over it.

I end up meeting someone else in 2008 and then get married the following year. Sort of out of the blue in 2009 she messaged me via Facebook and tries to make small talk and 'catch up.' Its been so long ago I forget how my wife saw or found out I was facebook friends with an "ex" but she didn't like it so I immediately unfriended her and that was that.

Fast forward to 2022. Haven't had any messages or anything and again out of the blue I get this message via Facebook.

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Hi John! It’s ironic to see how our conversations ended because I didn’t move to XXX in 2009 and moved to YYY instead. But I moved to YYY last month!!! I just saw you on my FB!!! I was like what a…???!! I guess because we are near by?? I don’t even really use FB anymore - but happened to be looking up something here. I was like WOW. I am currently living in XXX but moving to XXX when this condo opens up.
    I can’t believe you are in YYY , I’m in awe haha. I hope all is well with you and your senpai! (and you have kids now? Woooow!)
    I just looked you up online sorry because I just had to! Your office in XXX? I’m there often! It’d be so great if we could have coffee or something
    My number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. Yeah the same
    I don’t want to cause any trouble so understand if you don’t want to be friends though…

    Hugs!
    XXX

    Part of me thinks it would be interesting to sit down and catch up. In a totally platonic way. I’m fairly certain my wife would not be happy if I did this though. Writing this down already has basically confirmed what I should do but I suppose I’ll post anyway so everyone can tell me I’d be an idiot to actually meet with her.

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Dont do it anon if you gave a single frick about your wife

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Ignore her like how she ignored you in 2008. Also it would be incredibly disrespectful to your wife since she already requested that you unfriend this woman. Actually meeting her would be beyond the pale.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I agree. This feels like the right option. I just feel like I had a really great connection with this person and actually would be friends with them if circumstances were different.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        So you are still making up excuses to cheat?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Sticking my dick in her would be cheating. I have no intention of doing that.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >I have no intention of doing that.
            Right, and you'll continue to tell yourself that it wasn't premeditated at all, but just a moment of weakness, a mistake, bla bla bla.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >I have no intention of doing that
            At the moment you don’t, until she starts flirting with you and you want to stick your dick inside of her. Ignore her you fricking loser. You have kids for fricks sake

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >I just feel like I had a really great connection with this person and actually would be friends with them if circumstances were different.
        but they weren't so you aren't. simple as

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        You just want to cheat don't you? I hope your wife cucks you with her ex

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        yeah you had a great connection but she still dropped you for some random wiener. Frick that prostitute. Stay loyal to your wife.

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    how the frick do people meet someone and get married just a year later?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Believable if they’re religious or moral
      Otherwise just moronic

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    It was closer to 2 years. We met in like Jan 2008 and married in Nov 2009. Not religious or moral. I guess we are just moronic.

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If you're gonna cheat don't do it with someone who cucked you.

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think EQ2 was out in 2003 or 2004

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      It was released in 2004. Sorry my dates are slightly off. Its been a fricking long time ago.

      You anon's are fricking savage though. Thank you for the brutal honesty.

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She has moved to a new place and is lonely and is taking the chance of meeting up with old friends. Nothing more.

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