Oldhons and elder troons of tttt, how old are you turning this year? What do you do for work?

Oldhons and elder troons of tttt, how old are you turning this year? What do you do for work? Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths? Picrel im turning 37 this year

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  1. 10 months ago
    Just a girl who likes frogs

    I'm gonna be 41 this year, I'm unemployed but my bf works in tech. I've talked to a few about my experiences and feelings, but I'm not a mommy.

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      oh how long have you been with your bf? glad you have a good one anon!

      >im turning 37 this year
      no fricking way

      yes way. brown girls + estrogen age well

      >how old are you turning this year?
      25 next year
      >What do you do for work?
      i could not last 1 day as a cashier so unemployed for now. ffs later this year.

      how do you take care of yourself love?

      I turned 33 a few months ago. I used to work in tech but since I've had a massive mental decline I can no longer hold a full-time job and rely on my partner. Trying to hold out for FFS instead of roping. And no, I like caring for people but have never done so for any youngshits that actually know that I'm trans.

      so what have you done since then? what was causing your mental decline? 🙁

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >yes way
        well, guess you truly deserve to be called mommy then

      • 10 months ago
        Just a girl who likes frogs

        >oh how long have you been with your bf?
        About a year and a half now, I'll be moving in with him by the end of the year.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >so what have you done since then? what was causing your mental decline? 🙁

        Lots of things. Like how the first time I was on HRT my life got fricked up by my roommate suddenly turning my apartment into a trap house, the IRS going "whoops" at my paperwork and deciding I have a bunch of debt I shouldn't, counselors being either patronizing or borderline transphobic, doctors and psychiatrists ignoring my medical history and just generally being stupid.

        "Hey maybe spiro is the cause of these symptoms that are similar to low blood pressure. You know, that medicine used to treat high blood pressure?" Doc: No dumbfrick only people who went to med school know how to read.

        I should be making bank since I went through the tech troony pipeline right but instead I can't hold down a job without going insane and having hours long screaming fits. So yeah, life sucks. If I can last till ffs I'll do my best to try and hope for good things again but right now it's surgery or rope.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >im turning 37 this year
    no fricking way

    • 10 months ago
      dannie

      Makeup + softening filter

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Clock that tea

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i don't know dude, i used to talk to her on snap and she looked just fine in her pics without filter and everything

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how old are you turning this year?
    25 next year
    >What do you do for work?
    i could not last 1 day as a cashier so unemployed for now. ffs later this year.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      > ffs later this year.
      With who btw? I'm looking through doctors and probably going to go for someone in Korea or Thailand for cost reasons. Also as an Asian tranner someone more used to my features sounds reassuring.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mittermiller, who is trained by Keojampa. My insurance covers him, I probably won't be able to ever afford Keo since my quote will be around 70k(or more kek), and it would probably take years to save for that.

      • 10 months ago
        Korra

        god i wish i could afford ffs 🙁

        >how old are you turning this year?
        Just turned 30.
        > What do you do for work?
        Was a nurse, but I burned out now and am too broken to work.
        > Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
        I've given some advice here and there, but never a strong mentor relationship.

        how do you make ends meet if u don't work anon? not being rude just curious

        God help me I'm 32 this year. I managed to score a pretty decent job at a big hospital doing insurance claims and medical records processing, so I get to mostly sit at a computer all day and make a few phone calls. It's pretty cushy but I work essentially alone for most of my time and it does start to get to me sometimes. It's winnowed my social circle a lot and I have no idea how to make friends as an adult.

        it's honestly hard to make friends as an adult i have to be somewhat assertive and approachable to make friends

        >yes way
        well, guess you truly deserve to be called mommy then

        aww ty anon <3

        >oh how long have you been with your bf?
        About a year and a half now, I'll be moving in with him by the end of the year.

        gl anon! i hope you two settle down together !

        • 10 months ago
          Just a girl who likes frogs

          >i hope you two settle down together
          So do I, he's so sweet. He just bought me a cute froggy blanket for when we cuddle on the couch.

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            adorable anon! bunnies are my fave I have a blanket like urs too

            >aww ty anon <3
            i did it a long time ago as a joke when we used to talk but didn't expect it to be so fitting honestly

            heh. im blushing irl uwu

            >how do you make ends meet if u don't work anon? not being rude just curious
            I live with my parents again. I don't think I'll make it out again with my disabilities. It's pretty miserable but sometimes life falls apart and you get sick. I had a good run

            I do hope things turn around for you some day darling 🙁

          • 10 months ago
            Just a girl who likes frogs

            I like frogs, they're kinda my thing and a bit of a running gag in our social group.

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            absolute qt . like u i have a plush and blanket but with bunnies instead. keep being cool anon!

            So btw, kind of curious but are we primarily older girlmoders itt, manmoders, or what?

            I've given up on actively trying to make friends but joining social groups has at least kind of worked in the past. Right now I'm a mental wreck and mostly interact with people on the internet but I do wish I had people to practice my voice with.

            older girlmoder here been at it for about a decade now. yea adult friend making is hard and a mixed bag. i go for lgbt safe spaces personally. ever if you bump into me I will be happy to swap vocaroos to practice ur voice!

            >god i wish i could afford ffs 🙁
            i can't either that's why i'm trying to get insurance to cover it. ):
            [...]
            >how do you take care of yourself love?
            improving my social skills and hoping to get a job soon after ffs, you sound so sweet korra <3 i wish you the best <3

            aww ur the sweet one boo. right back at you. all the best !

            A failure because I'm a disgusting boomerhon freak who will never pass. 3.5y hrt currently.

            you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older. for us older girls it takes about 5 yrs to become androgynous looking enough to be able to pass as a woman with the right makeup hair and clothes. it isn't frauding to use help to polish ur assets if they are a lil lacking

            don't fall for the tttt Instagram model with no makeup meme. even cis women on Instagram don't look like that lol. ur gonna make it sis chin up

          • 10 months ago
            Just a girl who likes frogs

            >absolute qt
            Thanks!
            >keep being cool anon!
            You to!

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            i will be 37 this year too

            i’m turning 32 this year, just hit 4 years hrt. things have been cruising for awhile honestly. i didn’t really mentor youngshits specifically but i tried to help the baby trannies along the best i could for awhile. i find myself having less and less energy for it as time goes on though

            I'm turning 33 this year, I work retail at an ulta, no even pretending to be a mom makes me feel some level of sadness anymore knowing that I'll never raise a family.
            >life is just a cope till you rope deal isnt it

            38 this year.
            what even qualifies as youngshit these days? i was a youngshit in my time (15/16 on hrt) but that seems to be “midshit” now.
            I don’t really do much irl, I do talk to a few adult trans women online who started hrt younger (as well as those who didn’t) bc I want to be helpful and at this point it is a friendship/mentor/both type of relationship with them. they’re def not sociopaths.

            turning 35. i work in IT for a radom software company.

            i dont really know any youngshits irl but i try to chip in a bit in babytran communities and answer the standard newbie questions, try to give people clearly having a rough time someone to talk to.

            you look great btw!

            trans woman are totally made for FUB lust and affections. You're all beautiful, and deserve to be sweated all over, plowed, and cuddled for hours

          • 10 months ago
            Just a girl who likes frogs

            thanks frog fren

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            based froggie fren

            you cant be expected to do everyones emotional processing for them but it doesnt feel good to have to step back 🙁

            [...]
            aww ty! im leaning into it :3

            [...]
            ummm

            it's working!

            >I'll check again.....
            Maybe your tag was incorrect

            i just literally copied and posted it's
            Aqua #1339

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >i just literally copied and posted it's
            >Aqua #1339
            I guess it wasn't meant to be 🙁

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            it's over

            Stop posting all this coomer anime shit you fricking malebrained frick.

            nope. And I'm going to double down on it to piss (You) off 😉

            that level of sexual narcissism in an adult of your age is ridiculous. but i suppose, unavoidable when one chooses to follow a life of fetishistic pleasure.

            >he isn't a based trans queen living his truth daily
            >he doesn't enjoy making chuds seethe and mald just by being seen
            NGMI lad

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >it's over

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >heh. im blushing irl uwu
            glad i made you a little happy then

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            ur an angel bb *mwah*

            Liar. Fricking liar...
            [...]
            >you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older.
            Lol. I wasn't b9rn yesterday. I have a mirror. Don't bullshit me. I've been around long enough to know it's over. Not everyone makes it

            hmm well okay anon gl with your life wishing u all the best and sending love! <3

            Can I bottom for you?
            m-mommy

            depends. are you into gentle femdom with rough sex mixed up with headpats and words of encouragement followed by post sex cuddles? because......

            >absolute qt
            Thanks!
            >keep being cool anon!
            You to!

            <3

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >depends. are you into gentle femdom with rough sex mixed up with headpats and words of encouragement followed by post sex cuddles? because......
            Yes Yes Yes!

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            drop that discord. bottom.

            >how old are you turning this year?
            25 🙁

            >What do you do for work?
            play video games, am a neet 🙁

            >Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
            i've never met another mtf irl, and the only two ftms i know were older than me

            >2 ftms
            im so sry bb

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >drop that discord. bottom.
            N-no
            you drop yours

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            aqua #1339

            >ur an angel bb *mwah*
            i don't think i deserve such praise but thank you

            you deserve only nice things anon ;D

            >im so sry bb
            eh it wasnt too bad, one was my therapist and he was very good at it
            the other one kinda hates me now tho

            F in the chat. ive sadly never had a pleasant experience with ftms irl

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >aqua #1339
            I..sent you a request

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            lies you coward bottom

            33 here, don’t wanna dox myself but starting my dream job soon 🙂
            never had a trans friend mentee or daughter irl, it’s kinda sad that no one understands me but most trans communities seem toxic anyway so i’m trying to make the best of blending in with the cissies.

            gl sis! I hope u have a fantastic time at the new job!

            i will be 37 this year too

            holy shit you are so hot bbg wtf i feel mogged

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >lies you coward bottom
            I did!

          • 10 months ago
            Rank 1 Boymoder

            >im so sry bb
            eh it wasnt too bad, one was my therapist and he was very good at it
            the other one kinda hates me now tho

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >ur an angel bb *mwah*
            i don't think i deserve such praise but thank you

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Stop posting all this coomer anime shit you fricking malebrained frick.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >aww ty anon <3
          i did it a long time ago as a joke when we used to talk but didn't expect it to be so fitting honestly

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >how do you make ends meet if u don't work anon? not being rude just curious
          I live with my parents again. I don't think I'll make it out again with my disabilities. It's pretty miserable but sometimes life falls apart and you get sick. I had a good run

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          So btw, kind of curious but are we primarily older girlmoders itt, manmoders, or what?

          I've given up on actively trying to make friends but joining social groups has at least kind of worked in the past. Right now I'm a mental wreck and mostly interact with people on the internet but I do wish I had people to practice my voice with.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >god i wish i could afford ffs 🙁
          i can't either that's why i'm trying to get insurance to cover it. ):

          oh how long have you been with your bf? glad you have a good one anon!

          [...]
          yes way. brown girls + estrogen age well

          [...]
          how do you take care of yourself love?

          [...]
          so what have you done since then? what was causing your mental decline? 🙁

          >how do you take care of yourself love?
          improving my social skills and hoping to get a job soon after ffs, you sound so sweet korra <3 i wish you the best <3

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I turned 33 a few months ago. I used to work in tech but since I've had a massive mental decline I can no longer hold a full-time job and rely on my partner. Trying to hold out for FFS instead of roping. And no, I like caring for people but have never done so for any youngshits that actually know that I'm trans.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how old are you turning this year?
    Just turned 30.
    > What do you do for work?
    Was a nurse, but I burned out now and am too broken to work.
    > Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
    I've given some advice here and there, but never a strong mentor relationship.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    God help me I'm 32 this year. I managed to score a pretty decent job at a big hospital doing insurance claims and medical records processing, so I get to mostly sit at a computer all day and make a few phone calls. It's pretty cushy but I work essentially alone for most of my time and it does start to get to me sometimes. It's winnowed my social circle a lot and I have no idea how to make friends as an adult.

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm gonna be 43 this year. I hate myself and want to kms so much, but i can't for reasons people here could never understand. I am involved in environmental conservation in some capacity. Lol, who tf am i going to mentor. My transition has been a complete failure and I'm detransitioning in October. I'm drunk and sad and been crying this afternoon. Fml

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      why do u think it was a failure? when did u start and how long were u trying? u look like someone's butch lesbian aunt tbh

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        A failure because I'm a disgusting boomerhon freak who will never pass. 3.5y hrt currently.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      boomer mogs me

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Liar. Fricking liar...

        absolute qt . like u i have a plush and blanket but with bunnies instead. keep being cool anon!

        [...]
        older girlmoder here been at it for about a decade now. yea adult friend making is hard and a mixed bag. i go for lgbt safe spaces personally. ever if you bump into me I will be happy to swap vocaroos to practice ur voice!

        [...]
        aww ur the sweet one boo. right back at you. all the best !

        [...]
        you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older. for us older girls it takes about 5 yrs to become androgynous looking enough to be able to pass as a woman with the right makeup hair and clothes. it isn't frauding to use help to polish ur assets if they are a lil lacking

        don't fall for the tttt Instagram model with no makeup meme. even cis women on Instagram don't look like that lol. ur gonna make it sis chin up

        >you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older.
        Lol. I wasn't b9rn yesterday. I have a mirror. Don't bullshit me. I've been around long enough to know it's over. Not everyone makes it

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      flowers? is that you in manmode?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        ;_; yes

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      could you post a pic without those filters

      how has your transition been a failure
      I really like you and I hate to see you feel so bad

      i will be 37 this year too

      no frickign way

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >how has your transition been a failure
        You can see the photo, right? Pretty obvious

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          she looks like a lesbian there
          with makeup and long hair she is gorgeous and very feminine

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Lmfao, touch grass. That's a man's face

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            get real not all women look like instagram influencers
            average 40+ women do not look great

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            The average 40+ woman doesn't look like a man either

      • 10 months ago
        )*Kassandra of Ellaphae|PSO2

        another from like ~1mo later (april, post mental hospital stay for slicing my arm open)

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      U pass as a female while still mogging most males (and some females) in the looks department.

      We are in the midst of global warming and the last thing we need is some environment conservation officer killing themselves.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        None of this is true

        • 10 months ago
          Korra

          the brainworms have got you bad sis

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Brainworms is just how hugboxers cope when people reject their lies

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I am involved in environmental conservation in some capacity. Lol, who tf am i going to mentor.
      hey that's pretty cool, your transition and your hairline are fricking inspiring btw

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gross

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can I bottom for you?
    m-mommy

  10. 10 months ago
    Rank 1 Boymoder

    >how old are you turning this year?
    25 🙁

    >What do you do for work?
    play video games, am a neet 🙁

    >Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
    i've never met another mtf irl, and the only two ftms i know were older than me

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    33 here, don’t wanna dox myself but starting my dream job soon 🙂
    never had a trans friend mentee or daughter irl, it’s kinda sad that no one understands me but most trans communities seem toxic anyway so i’m trying to make the best of blending in with the cissies.

  12. 10 months ago
    )*Kassandra of Ellaphae|PSO

    i will be 37 this year too

  13. 10 months ago
    swiftie

    30

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      swiftie no way! you look so freaking young babydoll! ur pulling my leg right? when u crossdress you legit look like a zoomer college girl <3

      • 10 months ago
        swiftie

        Im gonna be 30 this year babe
        not lying

        my sis did a genetic test a while ago, apparently we all have stupidly longer telomers which increases resistance to cancer and make everyone age way too slow

        apparently we all look 5 years younger

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm turning 42. I keep getting told I don't look so I'm happy with that cause I feel it. Lol.

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      i’m turning 32 this year, just hit 4 years hrt. things have been cruising for awhile honestly. i didn’t really mentor youngshits specifically but i tried to help the baby trannies along the best i could for awhile. i find myself having less and less energy for it as time goes on though

      Based fellow oldshits

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i’m turning 32 this year, just hit 4 years hrt. things have been cruising for awhile honestly. i didn’t really mentor youngshits specifically but i tried to help the baby trannies along the best i could for awhile. i find myself having less and less energy for it as time goes on though

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    36 this year I'm glad I'm not the only old shit here

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      Ur in good company sister

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh I didn't answer the other thread questions

      Currently unemployed /a housewife I used to work in roading but estrogen made me weak and the atmosphere was toxic so didn't want to stay there when I left manmode

      Haven't mentored anyone barely able to keep my own life together

      • 10 months ago
        Korra

        why do you think so many of us are housewives or unemployed sis? shit is hard out there 🙁

        turned 30 this year, I survived it by going on estrogen and I feel a little better now

        how long on estrogen?

        I'm turning 33 this year, I work retail at an ulta, no even pretending to be a mom makes me feel some level of sadness anymore knowing that I'll never raise a family.
        >life is just a cope till you rope deal isnt it

        based fellow intersex oldhons. keep ur head up sis ur gonna make it

        Im gonna be 30 this year babe
        not lying

        my sis did a genetic test a while ago, apparently we all have stupidly longer telomers which increases resistance to cancer and make everyone age way too slow

        apparently we all look 5 years younger

        holy shit swiftie you look amazing babe! talk about genetically blessed I'm jelly and my zoomer gf is seething seeing ur pics

        >lies you coward bottom
        I did!

        I'll check again.....

        >how old are you turning this year?
        24
        >what do you do for work?
        retraining in medicine
        >are they all sociopaths?
        yes.

        >24
        >old
        ok

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I'll check again.....
          Maybe your tag was incorrect

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    turned 30 this year, I survived it by going on estrogen and I feel a little better now

  18. 10 months ago
    Madchan

    I'm turning 33 this year, I work retail at an ulta, no even pretending to be a mom makes me feel some level of sadness anymore knowing that I'll never raise a family.
    >life is just a cope till you rope deal isnt it

  19. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how old are you turning this year?
    24
    >what do you do for work?
    retraining in medicine
    >are they all sociopaths?
    yes.

  20. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    post a nude korra. :3

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      i keep getting banned so here is a censored one. no bully. i think i have a smoking hot body

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        u are hot. can u post the uncensored one as unsee pls. ;-;

        • 10 months ago
          Korra

          post unsee please

          you're an annoying pickme but you're hot so I pardon you

          ...fine here is an unsee
          https://unsee
          cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            look like it was only one view

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            can u please post one which doesn't have only one view? i didn't see it. ;-;

            seethe, it's still on my screen and it's glorious

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            why are you talking about seething, that make no sense lol

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            mommy

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            can u please post one which doesn't have only one view? i didn't see it. ;-;

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        post unsee please

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        you're an annoying pickme but you're hot so I pardon you

      • 10 months ago
        Just a girl who likes frogs

        [...]
        [...]
        ...fine here is an unsee
        https://unsee
        cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB

        so yes. trans women actually age better than cis women because cis women lose estrogen and age their body ~10 years per birth along with losing estrogen production as they age. Trans women keep a consistent does of estrogen our whole life so we look younger and more fem compared to cis women that age

        [...]
        I wish you all the best anon. it is hard to unfrick all the repression damage ;_;

        [...]
        Aww crykee you passoid angel. ur honestly goals mommy <3 youngshits are 25 and younger trans women rn

        [...]
        [...]
        attempt number 2 I changed it to timer

        https://unsee
        cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB

        >dat pp and booba!
        you're hot!

        I've always been curious if trans women just continuously age as female forever because I've literally never seen a trans women in the age of 60 at all.
        maybe its just cuz majority of transgenders are zoomers and millennials and are yet to hit old age

        I know a troony granny, she looks like every other 60+ ciswoman I know.

  21. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've always been curious if trans women just continuously age as female forever because I've literally never seen a trans women in the age of 60 at all.
    maybe its just cuz majority of transgenders are zoomers and millennials and are yet to hit old age

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      so yes. trans women actually age better than cis women because cis women lose estrogen and age their body ~10 years per birth along with losing estrogen production as they age. Trans women keep a consistent does of estrogen our whole life so we look younger and more fem compared to cis women that age

      >how old are you turning this year?
      i'll be 27 in october. my three year anniversary on HRT is this tuesday.
      >what do you do for work?
      i work in translation at a large multinational but it's not going well. :/ corporate environments really aren't for me, i'm suffocating from middle management's bullshit and i want to just do what i'm good at. i'm considering retraining for a different career, it feels like the industry is dying.
      >have you mentored any youngshits?
      nah, i don't really hang around trans spaces much. i feel like i'm a bad role model for baby transes because of how cynical and deeply unhappy i am lol i have been happier since meeting my bf but repressing for as long as i did messed me up badly and i'm on a long road to recovery.

      I wish you all the best anon. it is hard to unfrick all the repression damage ;_;

      38 this year.
      what even qualifies as youngshit these days? i was a youngshit in my time (15/16 on hrt) but that seems to be “midshit” now.
      I don’t really do much irl, I do talk to a few adult trans women online who started hrt younger (as well as those who didn’t) bc I want to be helpful and at this point it is a friendship/mentor/both type of relationship with them. they’re def not sociopaths.

      Aww crykee you passoid angel. ur honestly goals mommy <3 youngshits are 25 and younger trans women rn

      look like it was only one view

      can u please post one which doesn't have only one view? i didn't see it. ;-;

      attempt number 2 I changed it to timer

      https://unsee
      cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not either of those anons but you look great. I'm pretty happy with where my body is but my face needs some touch-ups. Gonna try to stealth after that but we'll see.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        looking as good as i remember from back when we used to talk

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        u look amazing. would date. <3

        • 10 months ago
          Korra

          im sure you do too love! :3

          turning 35. i work in IT for a radom software company.

          i dont really know any youngshits irl but i try to chip in a bit in babytran communities and answer the standard newbie questions, try to give people clearly having a rough time someone to talk to.

          you look great btw!

          Tyyy! You look so good too def mommy vibes

          Turned 38 recently. Unemployed. Yes, I have played mom to a younger transwoman.

          based keep it up anon

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            are u a top or a bottom?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            please be a dominant power bottom please be dominant power bottom

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            what do u mean?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            dom bottom? as in being in control while receiving? it ain't that complicated

      • 10 months ago
        crykee

        >goals
        lol you already have better skin and a better body than i do…
        and im not really a passoid. i need to voice train more and ive recently decided that i wanna get ffs.
        >youngshits are 25 and younger
        that’s kind of the definition that was around when i was a kid but i do think there’s something to looking at key development age ranges as targets for transition bc it can help trans ppl avoid the effects of going through wrong puberty (and surgical correction costs etc down the road that result from it). not something im interested in personally intervening in but just for health care best practices etc.

        [...]

        >hatecrimed
        lel exactly

        That's more or less my niche, yeah. Thankfully there is no shortage of 18-21 year old babytrans that could use a nudge in the right direction.

        yeh, it’s always rly sad to see 18-21 year olds act like it’s too late for them so they should repress or whatever, like they have no idea how much more damage T has waiting for them in the years to follow lol

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      They do just continue to age normally yes

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        my god. they age into becoming old british females!!!! the horror.....

  22. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how old are you turning this year?
    i'll be 27 in october. my three year anniversary on HRT is this tuesday.
    >what do you do for work?
    i work in translation at a large multinational but it's not going well. :/ corporate environments really aren't for me, i'm suffocating from middle management's bullshit and i want to just do what i'm good at. i'm considering retraining for a different career, it feels like the industry is dying.
    >have you mentored any youngshits?
    nah, i don't really hang around trans spaces much. i feel like i'm a bad role model for baby transes because of how cynical and deeply unhappy i am lol i have been happier since meeting my bf but repressing for as long as i did messed me up badly and i'm on a long road to recovery.

  23. 10 months ago
    crykee

    38 this year.
    what even qualifies as youngshit these days? i was a youngshit in my time (15/16 on hrt) but that seems to be “midshit” now.
    I don’t really do much irl, I do talk to a few adult trans women online who started hrt younger (as well as those who didn’t) bc I want to be helpful and at this point it is a friendship/mentor/both type of relationship with them. they’re def not sociopaths.

  24. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Turning 32 in November, I've been transing since I was 24. I'm kind of opposed to trying to mentor/mom youngshits because it can be easily misconstrued as grooming, but I try to give them advice when and where I can if they ask.

    >what do you do for work?
    I own a business. I'll leave it at that. No it's not sex work.

    >are they all sociopaths
    Not really, no. They're just as confused and scared as I was at their age, but with the luxury of the internet being full of resources and other trannies.

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      >misconstrued as grooming
      yeah that’s also why i only talk to to trans women who are over 18 and really only those who have already started transition (not so much with undecided/repping/etc sorts).

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's more or less my niche, yeah. Thankfully there is no shortage of 18-21 year old babytrans that could use a nudge in the right direction.

  25. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >turn 30 last November
    >Keep telling people I "just turned 30"
    >Said same thing to someone the other day
    >realized right after that I'm only 6 months from turning 31
    Someone slow down the time please

  26. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Turned 38 recently. Unemployed. Yes, I have played mom to a younger transwoman.

  27. 10 months ago
    MisandristMommy

    turning 35. i work in IT for a radom software company.

    i dont really know any youngshits irl but i try to chip in a bit in babytran communities and answer the standard newbie questions, try to give people clearly having a rough time someone to talk to.

    you look great btw!

  28. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >oh damn girl okay werk! ig the mean and sociopathic youngshits all congregate on tttt and play up the mean girl stereotype to feel better about themselves? At least in passgen from my experience
    Passgen isn't really indicative of the wider trans community. Honestly neither is tttt, despite claims that it's RAW and UNFILTERED.

    >gl baby. i did stealth for a few years and it is stressful if you haven't had srs or have a clocky voice
    I likely won't be getting bottom surgery any time soon, but my voice was one of the first things I worked on, before even HRT, so I'm pretty confident there. Either way, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years, so it's really not anyone's concern what I'm working with as far as my junk.

    [...]

    >based mommymoder. tttt youngshits are extra moronic and especially prone to falling for malicious disinfo and memes ;-;
    They are, yeah. I'm tired of seeing those infographs being posted. You know the ones.

  29. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    everybody in this thread is really hot i think i have brain damage

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      why would that give u brain damage?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        i'm not into women normally, i don't wanna be agp

  30. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >q1 how old
    Mid 40s crossdresser, Repper I guess?
    >q2 work?
    Work from home as a professional.
    >q3 mentor?
    Whenever I interact with this board I feel either far too old to relate, or since I never transitioned and only cross-dress my experience isn't on point. I do see crossovers between communities but /tttt/ seems pretty hostile to non-transitioning boomer repper crossdressers, so, /shrug. I mostly chime in on fashion threads and try to work through some of the crimes I see there.

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      you should prob start hrt if you’re a repper. you don’t have to come out or transition or anything but the hrt might help you feel a little more comfortable with your body so you don’t John, 50 (only a few years away for you tbh).
      don’t take this as hostility or anything, im not judging u over it or whatever just don’t think repping is rly viable for anyone

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I appreciate the response. I've had what I think is my own John, 50 moment already. Working from home during the pandemic cracked my egg? That's probably the wrong metaphor since I knew I was trans-attracted since my teen years. What did change was I came out of the closet to my family and friends as bisexual, and I'm going out in public in drag more and more. However, I'm bald, Norwood 7, and if I attempted a transition I'd have to wear wigs or caps daily, plus I don't have extreme dysphoria as some here describe.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          minoxidil + finasteride + microneedling. it'll bring out decent amount of hair and not to forget HRT will give you hair too. even in this case you can also do hair transplant.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            dut is better than finasteride

            also someone linked the ur-chaser cat doctor's hair recipe a while back on reddit, that shit looks dope it also has a bunch of other stuff in it

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            true to some degree but if finasteride does the job the dut is pointless. and its harder to get dut because it can't get prescribed by a doctor since it hasn't been patented yet.
            also i remember see that post before, it does sound intriguing but im unsure if its accessible that easily considering it seems to be special compound orders which might be also expensive.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >because it can't get prescribed by a doctor
            that's rather odd considering I've gotten 2 separate prescriptions for it already

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            maybe it changed? at least i think its the case in canada.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I live in the US so that might be it. here you just download an app, answer about 5 questions about your health, upload your drivers license, and 4 days later your dut arrives in the mail

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous
  31. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    im 44 look way better than when i was in my 20s trying to pass. I just said frick it and focused on getting fit and finding a good paying job. man moded for a few years than just started dressing in things i thought looked good on me. actually for the most part stopped using make up and wigs. don't even take hrt just finasteride and hi s.o.y. diet lots of cardio. I don't pass but frick i get hit on all the time from guys and galls. feel pretty loved I have a boy friend and a girl friend.

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      > don't even take hrt
      sorry about ur detrans, sad sad.

      i'm not into women normally, i don't wanna be agp

      liking women isn’t agp, but honestly who even cares about agp anymore? like what you like, no one cares except insecure busybodies.

      I appreciate the response. I've had what I think is my own John, 50 moment already. Working from home during the pandemic cracked my egg? That's probably the wrong metaphor since I knew I was trans-attracted since my teen years. What did change was I came out of the closet to my family and friends as bisexual, and I'm going out in public in drag more and more. However, I'm bald, Norwood 7, and if I attempted a transition I'd have to wear wigs or caps daily, plus I don't have extreme dysphoria as some here describe.

      listen to

      minoxidil + finasteride + microneedling. it'll bring out decent amount of hair and not to forget HRT will give you hair too. even in this case you can also do hair transplant.

      , this could help.
      you’ll probably never have beautiful hair but you may get decent regrowth if ur lucky

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Im in my mid 40s, I am not rich and I will never be. I'm facing the declining years of my life now and I don't want to risk alienation of my family that I will need to increasingly lean on as I get older. Its not worth exchanging that familial security to have whisper thin hair on my head and sad AA troony breasts.

        • 10 months ago
          crykee

          yeah that’s why i said u don’t need to come out or anything. at your age the only real effects of hrt are gonna be better skin and hair, maybe mild gyno, and possibly erectile dysfunction and shrinkage (although you may be able to avoid that using t gel applied directly to the penis); im not telling you that you should socially transition, but hrt is good for trannies and reppers are trannies.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think i look to bad for a old fart.

        • 10 months ago
          crykee

          u shoulda stayed on hrt if you started in your twenties, think you’d have turned out much differently.
          if you’re happy with yourself tho more power to you.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            i was super fat in my 20s pretty gross but I did pass everyone thought I was a girl until I hit 30 ish than blam turbo hon. Now Pretty happy looks are not everything I just think people get to caught up on how they look instead of just having fun with who you are nothing real matters tbh.

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            you seem like a real piece of shit

            [...]
            what happened in your thirties?
            there’s a chance it was just your voice. i found that it started mattering more with age.

            too late to do anything about it now tho so maybe i should stop pushing the issue

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          thanks for posting this. i'm in my mid 20s and i've been struggling with erratic detrans thoughts because of imposter syndrome, now i see that it's absolutely essential i stay on HRT.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            bruh fr

            turning 35. i work in IT for a radom software company.

            i dont really know any youngshits irl but i try to chip in a bit in babytran communities and answer the standard newbie questions, try to give people clearly having a rough time someone to talk to.

            you look great btw!

            ,

            38 this year.
            what even qualifies as youngshit these days? i was a youngshit in my time (15/16 on hrt) but that seems to be “midshit” now.
            I don’t really do much irl, I do talk to a few adult trans women online who started hrt younger (as well as those who didn’t) bc I want to be helpful and at this point it is a friendship/mentor/both type of relationship with them. they’re def not sociopaths.

            ,

            i keep getting banned so here is a censored one. no bully. i think i have a smoking hot body

            , and

            i will be 37 this year too

            on hormones vs

            I don't think i look to bad for a old fart.

            who stopped hormones despite (claiming to be) passing in their 20s
            Don’t stop taking your hrt, girls.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            yeah this was honestly a wakeup call for me to get my brainworms in check, it's made me realise that giving into imposter syndrome and feelings of inadequacy can lead you to make stupid decisions and ruin your life. i may have gone through some masculinisation before i got on HRT three years ago but at least now i know that so long as i'm consistent with my HRT i'll never masculinise again and hopefully i can grow up to be like the beautiful women in this thread if i challenge my negative thinking and look after my mental health.

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            Gl on your transition journey kiddo! Wishing u all the best from us old granny trans <3

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            thank you. 🙂 i appreciate hearing from women who've been transitioning for much longer than i have, it helps me see that it's early days for me yet and i have my whole life ahead of me really. today was a bad brainworm day but i'm lucky to have made the progress i've already made and to have a wonderful bf who wants us to grow as people together, i'm trying to believe that the future is bright.

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            very good girl
            *head pat*

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            good girl.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            very good girl
            *head pat*

            t-thank you

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            yw 🙂

            >thread full of some of the comfiest trips
            blessed

            hi salty

            [...]
            pls me too

            have you been good tho?
            you gonna stay on your hrt?

            im really really worried about the incoming recession. im in my late 20s and next year will be a horrible time to graduate college and try to enter the job market. all my hard work and all of those sacrifices will have been for nothing.

            late 20s is also just too late to make friends anymore.

            you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
            also i didn’t meet my spouse or any of my current friends until i was in my late twenties.
            you can still meet people (lgbt community stuff, interest groups, etc etc and then from there build out your social web), and as long as you can stay afloat you can make it to a place where you’re happy with yourself i think.
            it will be okay, just keep trying your best.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            i'm not really good or bad, but as long as i can keep getting hrt i'm staying on it is that good enough plz plz plz

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            yes, that’s good enough.
            good, good girl. such a good girl.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            therapy is expensive, but asking for older women
            on NSFFW to call me good girl is free. Thank u

          • 10 months ago
            Salt

            ello ello
            i saw korra on page 1 so came to have a look and then saw you too
            nice tranma's, very comfy

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            very good girl
            *head pat*

            pls me too

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            you're such a good girl anon ~

            I don't get along with other trans people at all

            >you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
            if this happens i will just kill myself. i live in a basement with 7 roommates i am not graduating just to continue this shit

            well there is also cis gays and cis lesbians that are friendly enough. you gotta be approachable and usually make the first move to kick off the convo . fortune favors the bold as it were

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I live in an all-white city and I'm pretty sure everyone immediately avoids me because I'm brown

          • 10 months ago
            Korra

            oof . ig try your hand at being passively approachable and hope a non racist LGBT person strikes up a conversation/w you. If all else fails you can talk to the bartender

            ello ello
            i saw korra on page 1 so came to have a look and then saw you too
            nice tranma's, very comfy

            aww salt qt <3

          • 10 months ago
            Salt

            <3
            we should chat more honestly it's always nice talking with you

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            do not do this to me, do not exploit this weakness i have

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            bruh fr
            [...], [...], [...], and [...] on hormones vs [...] who stopped hormones despite (claiming to be) passing in their 20s
            Don’t stop taking your hrt, girls.

            [...]
            [...]
            [...]
            Bumping for an important life lesson.

            i think it depends a bit on genes too? i started my transition in my 30's as well, i just kind of never aged all that much.

            that being said starting earlier is always better, my body is shit now, i should have started in my 20's.

          • 10 months ago
            )*Kassandra of Ellaphae|PSO2

            celi your so pretty

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          thanks for posting this. i'm in my mid 20s and i've been struggling with erratic detrans thoughts because of imposter syndrome, now i see that it's absolutely essential i stay on HRT.

          bruh fr
          [...], [...], [...], and [...] on hormones vs [...] who stopped hormones despite (claiming to be) passing in their 20s
          Don’t stop taking your hrt, girls.

          yeah this was honestly a wakeup call for me to get my brainworms in check, it's made me realise that giving into imposter syndrome and feelings of inadequacy can lead you to make stupid decisions and ruin your life. i may have gone through some masculinisation before i got on HRT three years ago but at least now i know that so long as i'm consistent with my HRT i'll never masculinise again and hopefully i can grow up to be like the beautiful women in this thread if i challenge my negative thinking and look after my mental health.

          Bumping for an important life lesson.

  32. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Turning 26 soon, I don't really interact with people much and I'm ugly idk what a young trans person would want with me

    Like what would I do? Most trans people have nothing in common

  33. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    30
    House keeper
    I try to help any other troons I can but honestly I never add anyone from this site anymore after a few bad experiences

  34. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm gonna get 48 yo 🙁
    Have disability for mental issues...
    Tried to provide some form of support sometimes but it's hard for a total failure

  35. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    37. started at 22. the only "mentoring" i ever do is to dissuade people from going down this ridiculous and narcisisstic path. i do and say everything i can to discredit the lgbt movement as a whole and transgenderism in particular. not a day goes by i wish i never got a sex change and wish for my real life back.

    • 10 months ago
      crykee

      you seem like a real piece of shit

      i was super fat in my 20s pretty gross but I did pass everyone thought I was a girl until I hit 30 ish than blam turbo hon. Now Pretty happy looks are not everything I just think people get to caught up on how they look instead of just having fun with who you are nothing real matters tbh.

      what happened in your thirties?
      there’s a chance it was just your voice. i found that it started mattering more with age.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        you seem like a stupid groomer dragging everyone into your depravity

        • 10 months ago
          crykee

          pure projection. i seriously doubt you’re even trans.
          “groomer” doesn’t mean anything anymore thanks to freaks like you. literally any interaction a troony has with someone under 30 now qualifies as grooming to you people even if the troony is the younger of the two having the interaction.
          if you’re so miserable maybe you should worry about changing your own life and less about others.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            i see the delusion of your "gender" bleeds into truth of reality as a whole since you can ignore a thread full of people discussing how they "mom" and "mentor" people younger than them in to this ridiculous lifestyle. i am no different than anyone here except that i dont sugarcoat things. i am an irrevocably sterilized, castrated male with stunted growth. nothing more and i would not recommend.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          pure projection. i seriously doubt you’re even trans.
          “groomer” doesn’t mean anything anymore thanks to freaks like you. literally any interaction a troony has with someone under 30 now qualifies as grooming to you people even if the troony is the younger of the two having the interaction.
          if you’re so miserable maybe you should worry about changing your own life and less about others.

          i see the delusion of your "gender" bleeds into truth of reality as a whole since you can ignore a thread full of people discussing how they "mom" and "mentor" people younger than them in to this ridiculous lifestyle. i am no different than anyone here except that i dont sugarcoat things. i am an irrevocably sterilized, castrated male with stunted growth. nothing more and i would not recommend.

          i want to be groomed by an older woman tbh

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I have all ways had a fem voice. Started going bald and working a labor intensive job eating and drinking a lot to cope. Funny thing its how I met my girl friend she is a lesbian and thought for the first few months we started dating I was a pooner. Its funny I don't really find women attractive but shes pretty butch where it counts. I only ever dated guys be for her.

  36. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >transitioned at 26
    >turning 31
    >never had a job
    >I've personally guided a lot of young trannies, but don't these days.
    Some of them are fairly nice, lots of them are just like woman, and well all the good and bad that comes with that.

  37. 10 months ago
    Mother Bat

    Soon to turn 30. Many times, I tried to help people. But they wouldn’t get stronger or get better. So They constantly demanded my attention, crying.

    I’ve learned to look after myself. Who knows if they committed suicide because I left them.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know you but I'd seen your posts in the past and just want to say that you seem really nice and caring and I'm glad that you make efforts to take care of yourself. Helping others can be fulfilling but it's also exhausting.

    • 10 months ago
      MisandristMommy

      you cant be expected to do everyones emotional processing for them but it doesnt feel good to have to step back 🙁

      im sure you do too love! :3

      [...]
      Tyyy! You look so good too def mommy vibes

      [...]
      based keep it up anon

      aww ty! im leaning into it :3

      [...]
      [...]
      [...]
      [...]
      [...]
      trans woman are totally made for FUB lust and affections. You're all beautiful, and deserve to be sweated all over, plowed, and cuddled for hours

      ummm

  38. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    well, you look like repfuel.

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      based. keep repping king. just doing my part to service the community with my overflowing honfidence.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        that level of sexual narcissism in an adult of your age is ridiculous. but i suppose, unavoidable when one chooses to follow a life of fetishistic pleasure.

  39. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im turning 38 this year, I work in clinical admin my photo is HAHAHAHA IM NOT SHARING MY FACE.

    I transitioned in my early 20s which makes me an oldshit now but was considered radically, dangerously young back then. A lifetime of being a millennial lesbian troon has left me with severe attachment issues after a bunch of failed relationships and crazy flatmates so I live alone.

    I do my best to be kind to youngshits but I dont "mentor" them because A) they be crazy, we all were back then and B) hanging out with someone in the midst of gender dysphoria is kinda triggering and I find spending time with them is when I start thinking about FFS or something stupid.

  40. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm ftm repper turning 33 years old, have been using NSFFW since 2006. I'm a wagecuck working as sterile processing technician at a hospital and have 0 friends. Never been in a relationship or had sex. My job takes most of my time and energy but when I'm not at work I go to the gym, play visual novels or just nap.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      What country anon?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Estonia

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Do you want a friend?
          I'm on your timezone

  41. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how old are you turning this year?
    31
    >What do you do for work?
    Software development for the government
    >Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
    One but she went her own way, can't blame her, I too would go insane if I were forced to live in Br*tain.

  42. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Here’s a pick with all the bill shit on

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      sorry about the size had to pull it from my phone

    • 10 months ago
      Just a girl who likes frogs

      get different frames, those look like oldman frames

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        yea ive had a hard time finding glasses i like these suck but all i can afford at the moment.

        • 10 months ago
          Just a girl who likes frogs

          Look specifically in the women's section, also thick acetate frames look more girly. You might look good in cat's eye frames.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks i will. I found some acetate frames i like but got to wait till next eye exam

  43. 10 months ago
    Salt

    >thread full of some of the comfiest trips
    blessed

  44. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    im really really worried about the incoming recession. im in my late 20s and next year will be a horrible time to graduate college and try to enter the job market. all my hard work and all of those sacrifices will have been for nothing.

    late 20s is also just too late to make friends anymore.

    • 10 months ago
      Korra

      it's a bit easier in LGBT bars/clubs especially with other trans people and lesbians

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't get along with other trans people at all

        >you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
        if this happens i will just kill myself. i live in a basement with 7 roommates i am not graduating just to continue this shit

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          meant to reply to

          yw 🙂
          [...]
          hi salty
          [...]
          have you been good tho?
          you gonna stay on your hrt?
          [...]
          you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
          also i didn’t meet my spouse or any of my current friends until i was in my late twenties.
          you can still meet people (lgbt community stuff, interest groups, etc etc and then from there build out your social web), and as long as you can stay afloat you can make it to a place where you’re happy with yourself i think.
          it will be okay, just keep trying your best.

          as well. the brainfog is real today

        • 10 months ago
          crykee

          meant to reply to [...] as well. the brainfog is real today

          >don’t get along with other trans people
          then ur gonna have to rely on the interests thing, or go on dates using apps, or idk.
          i used to have a similar attitude abt trans people bc of things that happened to me, but it’s important to know other trans ppl i think.
          there are trans ppl you could probably get along with, just have to figure out where the like-minded ones are.
          >kms
          nah you don’t have to do that, it’s normal for there to be a period of time after graduation where you’re still looking for work especially in a recession, but it’s much more likely than not that you’ll find something sooner or later.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >then ur gonna have to rely on the interests thing, or go on dates using apps, or idk.
            i already have a partner im comfortable with and dating apps are absolute cancer. never again.

            funny story, i actually swiped left on my current partner on a dating app because her profile was so fricking cringe and shallow. then by some strange twist of fate i ran into here here, we met up as friends, and we've been together for years. if that's not proof dating apps are a scam idk what is.

            >there are trans ppl you could probably get along with
            no. trans women are way too hypersexual. almost every single one I've met has tried to to frick me and is obsessed with these vile hentai e-girl anime personas. i don't want to be around them anymore. even my gf has tones of that behavior but at least she's a nice reasonable person that will respect my boundaries. i just really can't deal with hypersexual behavior towards me it makes me immensely uncomfortable

            >nah you don’t have to do that, it’s normal for there to be a period of time after graduation where you’re still looking for work especially in a recession
            i know but my living situation is really really bad and seriously has been getting to me. i don't know how much more of this i can take. im finding little reason to live if i can't even find a way to afford our own place

            (i appreciate the responses even if I know im just complaining)

            oof . ig try your hand at being passively approachable and hope a non racist LGBT person strikes up a conversation/w you. If all else fails you can talk to the bartender

            [...]
            aww salt qt <3

            meh maybe drugs will help

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            it’s ok to complain, being a troony is hard & u deserve an outlet yeh
            >way too hypersexual
            i…honestly don’t have an argument against that, although i think part of that is a babytrans thing (and part of it may be prog usage lol).
            >e-girl
            ew tho. def not a universal truth.
            >boundaries
            always extremely important with any type of relationship.
            >dating apps are scams
            i actually met one of my best friends on okcupid, platonically.
            i met my wife at a dinner party though, lol.
            >meeting people
            beyond that, it’s hard to say. ive made friends out of ppl who have approached me in cafes while i was working on stuff, platonic and otherwise. I think anywhere is an opportunity to make friends if you’re open to it. I don’t know how young people meet each other nowadays though.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >ive made friends out of ppl who have approached me in cafes while i was working on stuff
            lol doesnt happen if you're not white

          • 10 months ago
            crykee

            then be the approacher idk. i was always the aproachee not the approacher but only maybe half the friends i made that way where white.

  45. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i'm 29 and have just been manmoding on hrt since october 2021, life sucks and my friends are basically alienated from me, i don't have a real job and i'm too afraid to tell anyone irl what i am, especially with the political climate rn

    🙁

  46. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Turning 40 this year. Too scared to take the plunge with HRT. I have already lost the hair on my temples... and I assume there is no getting it back. Things seem hopeless. But I'm not sure how to deal with this crippling dysphoria any longer.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      theres not a really a difference between a 40 year old man and 40 year old woman. if you think hrt would have positive mental effects for you then just do it ig

  47. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    31, coming up on 9 years hrt soon, kinda crazy to think about. gained a bunch of weight over covid and been losing it recently, at first i hated myself because of it but now i think it might have been a good thing, maybe fat redistribution isn't a meme

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      nothing is worth being fat

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      it isn't a meme, fat in feminine places (from HRT over multiple years) makes you look feminine
      I've been on for 5 years, I have similar body, slightly chubby, but it's all in the good places now, not some ugly belly fat
      I think it's only a meme because people unironically think a woman should weight up to 50 kgs

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeh, i mean when i gained weight a lot of it went to the good areas, my biggest worry with losing weight was that i'd lose it from those areas too, but most of my weight loss has come from my upper body/stomach it seems (boobs excluded). i still have some stomach fat to lose but that should only take another couple of months at the rate i'm going

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