Oldhons and elder troons of tttt, how old are you turning this year? What do you do for work? Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths? Picrel im turning 37 this year
Oldhons and elder troons of tttt, how old are you turning this year? What do you do for work?
I'm gonna be 41 this year, I'm unemployed but my bf works in tech. I've talked to a few about my experiences and feelings, but I'm not a mommy.
oh how long have you been with your bf? glad you have a good one anon!
yes way. brown girls + estrogen age well
how do you take care of yourself love?
so what have you done since then? what was causing your mental decline? 🙁
>yes way
well, guess you truly deserve to be called mommy then
>oh how long have you been with your bf?
About a year and a half now, I'll be moving in with him by the end of the year.
>so what have you done since then? what was causing your mental decline? 🙁
Lots of things. Like how the first time I was on HRT my life got fucked up by my roommate suddenly turning my apartment into a trap house, the IRS going "whoops" at my paperwork and deciding I have a bunch of debt I shouldn't, counselors being either patronizing or borderline transphobic, doctors and psychiatrists ignoring my medical history and just generally being stupid.
"Hey maybe spiro is the cause of these symptoms that are similar to low blood pressure. You know, that medicine used to treat high blood pressure?" Doc: No dumbfuck only people who went to med school know how to read.
I should be making bank since I went through the tech tranny pipeline right but instead I can't hold down a job without going insane and having hours long screaming fits. So yeah, life sucks. If I can last till ffs I'll do my best to try and hope for good things again but right now it's surgery or rope.
>im turning 37 this year
no fucking way
Makeup + softening filter
Clock that tea
i don't know dude, i used to talk to her on snap and she looked just fine in her pics without filter and everything
>how old are you turning this year?
25 next year
>What do you do for work?
i could not last 1 day as a cashier so unemployed for now. ffs later this year.
> ffs later this year.
With who btw? I'm looking through doctors and probably going to go for someone in Korea or Thailand for cost reasons. Also as an Asian tranner someone more used to my features sounds reassuring.
Mittermiller, who is trained by Keojampa. My insurance covers him, I probably won't be able to ever afford Keo since my quote will be around 70k(or more kek), and it would probably take years to save for that.
god i wish i could afford ffs 🙁
how do you make ends meet if u don't work anon? not being rude just curious
it's honestly hard to make friends as an adult i have to be somewhat assertive and approachable to make friends
aww ty anon <3
gl anon! i hope you two settle down together !
>i hope you two settle down together
So do I, he's so sweet. He just bought me a cute froggy blanket for when we cuddle on the couch.
adorable anon! bunnies are my fave I have a blanket like urs too
heh. im blushing irl uwu
I do hope things turn around for you some day darling 🙁
I like frogs, they're kinda my thing and a bit of a running gag in our social group.
absolute qt . like u i have a plush and blanket but with bunnies instead. keep being cool anon!
older girlmoder here been at it for about a decade now. yea adult friend making is hard and a mixed bag. i go for lgbt safe spaces personally. ever if you bump into me I will be happy to swap vocaroos to practice ur voice!
aww ur the sweet one boo. right back at you. all the best !
you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older. for us older girls it takes about 5 yrs to become androgynous looking enough to be able to pass as a woman with the right makeup hair and clothes. it isn't frauding to use help to polish ur assets if they are a lil lacking
don't fall for the tttt Instagram model with no makeup meme. even cis women on Instagram don't look like that lol. ur gonna make it sis chin up
>absolute qt
Thanks!
>keep being cool anon!
You to!
trans woman are totally made for FUB lust and affections. You're all beautiful, and deserve to be sweated all over, plowed, and cuddled for hours
thanks frog fren
based froggie fren
it's working!
i just literally copied and posted it's
Aqua #1339
>i just literally copied and posted it's
>Aqua #1339
I guess it wasn't meant to be 🙁
it's over
nope. And I'm going to double down on it to piss (You) off 😉
>he isn't a based trans queen living his truth daily
>he doesn't enjoy making chuds seethe and mald just by being seen
NGMI lad
>it's over
>heh. im blushing irl uwu
glad i made you a little happy then
ur an angel bb *mwah*
hmm well okay anon gl with your life wishing u all the best and sending love! <3
depends. are you into gentle femdom with rough sex mixed up with headpats and words of encouragement followed by post sex cuddles? because......
<3
>depends. are you into gentle femdom with rough sex mixed up with headpats and words of encouragement followed by post sex cuddles? because......
Yes Yes Yes!
drop that discord. bottom.
>2 ftms
im so sry bb
>drop that discord. bottom.
N-no
you drop yours
aqua #1339
you deserve only nice things anon ;D
F in the chat. ive sadly never had a pleasant experience with ftms irl
>aqua #1339
I..sent you a request
lies you coward bottom
gl sis! I hope u have a fantastic time at the new job!
holy shit you are so hot bbg wtf i feel mogged
>lies you coward bottom
I did!
>im so sry bb
eh it wasnt too bad, one was my therapist and he was very good at it
the other one kinda hates me now tho
>ur an angel bb *mwah*
i don't think i deserve such praise but thank you
Stop posting all this coomer anime shit you fucking malebrained fuck.
>aww ty anon <3
i did it a long time ago as a joke when we used to talk but didn't expect it to be so fitting honestly
>how do you make ends meet if u don't work anon? not being rude just curious
I live with my parents again. I don't think I'll make it out again with my disabilities. It's pretty miserable but sometimes life falls apart and you get sick. I had a good run
So btw, kind of curious but are we primarily older girlmoders itt, manmoders, or what?
I've given up on actively trying to make friends but joining social groups has at least kind of worked in the past. Right now I'm a mental wreck and mostly interact with people on the internet but I do wish I had people to practice my voice with.
>god i wish i could afford ffs 🙁
i can't either that's why i'm trying to get insurance to cover it. ):
>how do you take care of yourself love?
improving my social skills and hoping to get a job soon after ffs, you sound so sweet korra <3 i wish you the best <3
I turned 33 a few months ago. I used to work in tech but since I've had a massive mental decline I can no longer hold a full-time job and rely on my partner. Trying to hold out for FFS instead of roping. And no, I like caring for people but have never done so for any youngshits that actually know that I'm trans.
>how old are you turning this year?
Just turned 30.
> What do you do for work?
Was a nurse, but I burned out now and am too broken to work.
> Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
I've given some advice here and there, but never a strong mentor relationship.
God help me I'm 32 this year. I managed to score a pretty decent job at a big hospital doing insurance claims and medical records processing, so I get to mostly sit at a computer all day and make a few phone calls. It's pretty cushy but I work essentially alone for most of my time and it does start to get to me sometimes. It's winnowed my social circle a lot and I have no idea how to make friends as an adult.
I'm gonna be 43 this year. I hate myself and want to kms so much, but i can't for reasons people here could never understand. I am involved in environmental conservation in some capacity. Lol, who tf am i going to mentor. My transition has been a complete failure and I'm detransitioning in October. I'm drunk and sad and been crying this afternoon. Fml
why do u think it was a failure? when did u start and how long were u trying? u look like someone's butch lesbian aunt tbh
A failure because I'm a disgusting boomerhon freak who will never pass. 3.5y hrt currently.
boomer mogs me
Liar. Fucking liar...
>you have the brainworms. hrt takes years and years to take full effect especially if you are hondosed or started older.
Lol. I wasn't b9rn yesterday. I have a mirror. Don't bullshit me. I've been around long enough to know it's over. Not everyone makes it
flowers? is that you in manmode?
;_; yes
could you post a pic without those filters
how has your transition been a failure
I really like you and I hate to see you feel so bad
no fuckign way
>how has your transition been a failure
You can see the photo, right? Pretty obvious
she looks like a lesbian there
with makeup and long hair she is gorgeous and very feminine
Lmfao, touch grass. That's a man's face
get real not all women look like instagram influencers
average 40+ women do not look great
The average 40+ woman doesn't look like a man either
another from like ~1mo later (april, post mental hospital stay for slicing my arm open)
U pass as a female while still mogging most males (and some females) in the looks department.
We are in the midst of global warming and the last thing we need is some environment conservation officer killing themselves.
None of this is true
the brainworms have got you bad sis
Brainworms is just how hugboxers cope when people reject their lies
>I am involved in environmental conservation in some capacity. Lol, who tf am i going to mentor.
hey that's pretty cool, your transition and your hairline are fucking inspiring btw
Gross
Can I bottom for you?
m-mommy
>how old are you turning this year?
25 🙁
>What do you do for work?
play video games, am a neet 🙁
>Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
i've never met another mtf irl, and the only two ftms i know were older than me
33 here, don’t wanna dox myself but starting my dream job soon 🙂
never had a trans friend mentee or daughter irl, it’s kinda sad that no one understands me but most trans communities seem toxic anyway so i’m trying to make the best of blending in with the cissies.
i will be 37 this year too
30
swiftie no way! you look so freaking young babydoll! ur pulling my leg right? when u crossdress you legit look like a zoomer college girl <3
Im gonna be 30 this year babe
not lying
my sis did a genetic test a while ago, apparently we all have stupidly longer telomers which increases resistance to cancer and make everyone age way too slow
apparently we all look 5 years younger
I'm turning 42. I keep getting told I don't look so I'm happy with that cause I feel it. Lol.
Based fellow oldshits
i’m turning 32 this year, just hit 4 years hrt. things have been cruising for awhile honestly. i didn’t really mentor youngshits specifically but i tried to help the baby trannies along the best i could for awhile. i find myself having less and less energy for it as time goes on though
36 this year I'm glad I'm not the only old shit here
Ur in good company sister
Oh I didn't answer the other thread questions
Currently unemployed /a housewife I used to work in roading but estrogen made me weak and the atmosphere was toxic so didn't want to stay there when I left manmode
Haven't mentored anyone barely able to keep my own life together
why do you think so many of us are housewives or unemployed sis? shit is hard out there 🙁
how long on estrogen?
based fellow intersex oldhons. keep ur head up sis ur gonna make it
holy shit swiftie you look amazing babe! talk about genetically blessed I'm jelly and my zoomer gf is seething seeing ur pics
I'll check again.....
>24
>old
ok
>I'll check again.....
Maybe your tag was incorrect
turned 30 this year, I survived it by going on estrogen and I feel a little better now
I'm turning 33 this year, I work retail at an ulta, no even pretending to be a mom makes me feel some level of sadness anymore knowing that I'll never raise a family.
>life is just a cope till you rope deal isnt it
>how old are you turning this year?
24
>what do you do for work?
retraining in medicine
>are they all sociopaths?
yes.
post a nude korra. :3
i keep getting banned so here is a censored one. no bully. i think i have a smoking hot body
u are hot. can u post the uncensored one as unsee pls. ;-;
...fine here is an unsee
https://unsee
cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB
look like it was only one view
seethe, it's still on my screen and it's glorious
why are you talking about seething, that make no sense lol
mommy
can u please post one which doesn't have only one view? i didn't see it. ;-;
post unsee please
you're an annoying pickme but you're hot so I pardon you
>dat pp and booba!
you're hot!
I know a tranny granny, she looks like every other 60+ ciswoman I know.
I've always been curious if trans women just continuously age as female forever because I've literally never seen a trans women in the age of 60 at all.
maybe its just cuz majority of transgenders are zoomers and millennials and are yet to hit old age
so yes. trans women actually age better than cis women because cis women lose estrogen and age their body ~10 years per birth along with losing estrogen production as they age. Trans women keep a consistent does of estrogen our whole life so we look younger and more fem compared to cis women that age
I wish you all the best anon. it is hard to unfuck all the repression damage ;_;
Aww crykee you passoid angel. ur honestly goals mommy <3 youngshits are 25 and younger trans women rn
attempt number 2 I changed it to timer
https://unsee
cc/album#uFiDdaql3cKLgIFB
Not either of those anons but you look great. I'm pretty happy with where my body is but my face needs some touch-ups. Gonna try to stealth after that but we'll see.
looking as good as i remember from back when we used to talk
u look amazing. would date. <3
im sure you do too love! :3
Tyyy! You look so good too def mommy vibes
based keep it up anon
are u a top or a bottom?
please be a dominant power bottom please be dominant power bottom
what do u mean?
dom bottom? as in being in control while receiving? it ain't that complicated
>goals
lol you already have better skin and a better body than i do…
and im not really a passoid. i need to voice train more and ive recently decided that i wanna get ffs.
>youngshits are 25 and younger
that’s kind of the definition that was around when i was a kid but i do think there’s something to looking at key development age ranges as targets for transition bc it can help trans ppl avoid the effects of going through wrong puberty (and surgical correction costs etc down the road that result from it). not something im interested in personally intervening in but just for health care best practices etc.
>hatecrimed
lel exactly
yeh, it’s always rly sad to see 18-21 year olds act like it’s too late for them so they should repress or whatever, like they have no idea how much more damage T has waiting for them in the years to follow lol
They do just continue to age normally yes
my god. they age into becoming old british females!!!! the horror.....
>how old are you turning this year?
i'll be 27 in october. my three year anniversary on HRT is this tuesday.
>what do you do for work?
i work in translation at a large multinational but it's not going well. :/ corporate environments really aren't for me, i'm suffocating from middle management's bullshit and i want to just do what i'm good at. i'm considering retraining for a different career, it feels like the industry is dying.
>have you mentored any youngshits?
nah, i don't really hang around trans spaces much. i feel like i'm a bad role model for baby transes because of how cynical and deeply unhappy i am lol i have been happier since meeting my bf but repressing for as long as i did messed me up badly and i'm on a long road to recovery.
38 this year.
what even qualifies as youngshit these days? i was a youngshit in my time (15/16 on hrt) but that seems to be “midshit” now.
I don’t really do much irl, I do talk to a few adult trans women online who started hrt younger (as well as those who didn’t) bc I want to be helpful and at this point it is a friendship/mentor/both type of relationship with them. they’re def not sociopaths.
Turning 32 in November, I've been transing since I was 24. I'm kind of opposed to trying to mentor/mom youngshits because it can be easily misconstrued as grooming, but I try to give them advice when and where I can if they ask.
>what do you do for work?
I own a business. I'll leave it at that. No it's not sex work.
>are they all sociopaths
Not really, no. They're just as confused and scared as I was at their age, but with the luxury of the internet being full of resources and other trannies.
>misconstrued as grooming
yeah that’s also why i only talk to to trans women who are over 18 and really only those who have already started transition (not so much with undecided/repping/etc sorts).
That's more or less my niche, yeah. Thankfully there is no shortage of 18-21 year old babytrans that could use a nudge in the right direction.
>turn 30 last November
>Keep telling people I "just turned 30"
>Said same thing to someone the other day
>realized right after that I'm only 6 months from turning 31
Someone slow down the time please
Turned 38 recently. Unemployed. Yes, I have played mom to a younger transwoman.
turning 35. i work in IT for a radom software company.
i dont really know any youngshits irl but i try to chip in a bit in babytran communities and answer the standard newbie questions, try to give people clearly having a rough time someone to talk to.
you look great btw!
>oh damn girl okay werk! ig the mean and sociopathic youngshits all congregate on tttt and play up the mean girl stereotype to feel better about themselves? At least in passgen from my experience
Passgen isn't really indicative of the wider trans community. Honestly neither is tttt, despite claims that it's RAW and UNFILTERED.
>gl baby. i did stealth for a few years and it is stressful if you haven't had srs or have a clocky voice
I likely won't be getting bottom surgery any time soon, but my voice was one of the first things I worked on, before even HRT, so I'm pretty confident there. Either way, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years, so it's really not anyone's concern what I'm working with as far as my junk.
>based mommymoder. tttt youngshits are extra retarded and especially prone to falling for malicious disinfo and memes ;-;
They are, yeah. I'm tired of seeing those infographs being posted. You know the ones.
everybody in this thread is really hot i think i have brain damage
why would that give u brain damage?
i'm not into women normally, i don't wanna be agp
>q1 how old
Mid 40s crossdresser, Repper I guess?
>q2 work?
Work from home as a professional.
>q3 mentor?
Whenever I interact with this board I feel either far too old to relate, or since I never transitioned and only cross-dress my experience isn't on point. I do see crossovers between communities but /tttt/ seems pretty hostile to non-transitioning boomer repper crossdressers, so, /shrug. I mostly chime in on fashion threads and try to work through some of the crimes I see there.
you should prob start hrt if you’re a repper. you don’t have to come out or transition or anything but the hrt might help you feel a little more comfortable with your body so you don’t John, 50 (only a few years away for you tbh).
don’t take this as hostility or anything, im not judging u over it or whatever just don’t think repping is rly viable for anyone
I appreciate the response. I've had what I think is my own John, 50 moment already. Working from home during the pandemic cracked my egg? That's probably the wrong metaphor since I knew I was trans-attracted since my teen years. What did change was I came out of the closet to my family and friends as bisexual, and I'm going out in public in drag more and more. However, I'm bald, Norwood 7, and if I attempted a transition I'd have to wear wigs or caps daily, plus I don't have extreme dysphoria as some here describe.
minoxidil + finasteride + microneedling. it'll bring out decent amount of hair and not to forget HRT will give you hair too. even in this case you can also do hair transplant.
dut is better than finasteride
also someone linked the ur-chaser cat doctor's hair recipe a while back on reddit, that shit looks dope it also has a bunch of other stuff in it
true to some degree but if finasteride does the job the dut is pointless. and its harder to get dut because it can't get prescribed by a doctor since it hasn't been patented yet.
also i remember see that post before, it does sound intriguing but im unsure if its accessible that easily considering it seems to be special compound orders which might be also expensive.
>because it can't get prescribed by a doctor
that's rather odd considering I've gotten 2 separate prescriptions for it already
maybe it changed? at least i think its the case in canada.
I live in the US so that might be it. here you just download an app, answer about 5 questions about your health, upload your drivers license, and 4 days later your dut arrives in the mail
im 44 look way better than when i was in my 20s trying to pass. I just said fuck it and focused on getting fit and finding a good paying job. man moded for a few years than just started dressing in things i thought looked good on me. actually for the most part stopped using make up and wigs. don't even take hrt just finasteride and hi s.o.y. diet lots of cardio. I don't pass but fuck i get hit on all the time from guys and galls. feel pretty loved I have a boy friend and a girl friend.
> don't even take hrt
sorry about ur detrans, sad sad.
liking women isn’t agp, but honestly who even cares about agp anymore? like what you like, no one cares except insecure busybodies.
listen to
, this could help.
you’ll probably never have beautiful hair but you may get decent regrowth if ur lucky
Im in my mid 40s, I am not rich and I will never be. I'm facing the declining years of my life now and I don't want to risk alienation of my family that I will need to increasingly lean on as I get older. Its not worth exchanging that familial security to have whisper thin hair on my head and sad AA tranny titties.
yeah that’s why i said u don’t need to come out or anything. at your age the only real effects of hrt are gonna be better skin and hair, maybe mild gyno, and possibly erectile dysfunction and shrinkage (although you may be able to avoid that using t gel applied directly to the penis); im not telling you that you should socially transition, but hrt is good for trannies and reppers are trannies.
I don't think i look to bad for a old fart.
u shoulda stayed on hrt if you started in your twenties, think you’d have turned out much differently.
if you’re happy with yourself tho more power to you.
i was super fat in my 20s pretty gross but I did pass everyone thought I was a girl until I hit 30 ish than blam turbo hon. Now Pretty happy looks are not everything I just think people get to caught up on how they look instead of just having fun with who you are nothing real matters tbh.
too late to do anything about it now tho so maybe i should stop pushing the issue
thanks for posting this. i'm in my mid 20s and i've been struggling with erratic detrans thoughts because of imposter syndrome, now i see that it's absolutely essential i stay on HRT.
bruh fr
,
,
, and
on hormones vs
who stopped hormones despite (claiming to be) passing in their 20s
Don’t stop taking your hrt, girls.
yeah this was honestly a wakeup call for me to get my brainworms in check, it's made me realise that giving into imposter syndrome and feelings of inadequacy can lead you to make stupid decisions and ruin your life. i may have gone through some masculinisation before i got on HRT three years ago but at least now i know that so long as i'm consistent with my HRT i'll never masculinise again and hopefully i can grow up to be like the beautiful women in this thread if i challenge my negative thinking and look after my mental health.
Gl on your transition journey kiddo! Wishing u all the best from us old granny trans <3
thank you. 🙂 i appreciate hearing from women who've been transitioning for much longer than i have, it helps me see that it's early days for me yet and i have my whole life ahead of me really. today was a bad brainworm day but i'm lucky to have made the progress i've already made and to have a wonderful bf who wants us to grow as people together, i'm trying to believe that the future is bright.
very good girl
*head pat*
good girl.
t-thank you
yw 🙂
hi salty
have you been good tho?
you gonna stay on your hrt?
you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
also i didn’t meet my spouse or any of my current friends until i was in my late twenties.
you can still meet people (lgbt community stuff, interest groups, etc etc and then from there build out your social web), and as long as you can stay afloat you can make it to a place where you’re happy with yourself i think.
it will be okay, just keep trying your best.
i'm not really good or bad, but as long as i can keep getting hrt i'm staying on it is that good enough plz plz plz
yes, that’s good enough.
good, good girl. such a good girl.
therapy is expensive, but asking for older women
on LULZ to call me good girl is free. Thank u
ello ello
i saw korra on page 1 so came to have a look and then saw you too
nice tranma's, very comfy
pls me too
you're such a good girl anon ~
well there is also cis gays and cis lesbians that are friendly enough. you gotta be approachable and usually make the first move to kick off the convo . fortune favors the bold as it were
I live in an all-white city and I'm pretty sure everyone immediately avoids me because I'm brown
oof . ig try your hand at being passively approachable and hope a non racist LGBT person strikes up a conversation/w you. If all else fails you can talk to the bartender
aww salt qt <3
<3
we should chat more honestly it's always nice talking with you
do not do this to me, do not exploit this weakness i have
i think it depends a bit on genes too? i started my transition in my 30's as well, i just kind of never aged all that much.
that being said starting earlier is always better, my body is shit now, i should have started in my 20's.
celi your so pretty
Bumping for an important life lesson.
Turning 26 soon, I don't really interact with people much and I'm ugly idk what a young trans person would want with me
Like what would I do? Most trans people have nothing in common
30
House keeper
I try to help any other troons I can but honestly I never add anyone from this site anymore after a few bad experiences
I'm gonna get 48 yo 🙁
Have disability for mental issues...
Tried to provide some form of support sometimes but it's hard for a total failure
37. started at 22. the only "mentoring" i ever do is to dissuade people from going down this ridiculous and narcisisstic path. i do and say everything i can to discredit the lgbt movement as a whole and transgenderism in particular. not a day goes by i wish i never got a sex change and wish for my real life back.
you seem like a real piece of shit
what happened in your thirties?
there’s a chance it was just your voice. i found that it started mattering more with age.
you seem like a stupid groomer dragging everyone into your depravity
pure projection. i seriously doubt you’re even trans.
“groomer” doesn’t mean anything anymore thanks to freaks like you. literally any interaction a tranny has with someone under 30 now qualifies as grooming to you people even if the tranny is the younger of the two having the interaction.
if you’re so miserable maybe you should worry about changing your own life and less about others.
i see the delusion of your "gender" bleeds into truth of reality as a whole since you can ignore a thread full of people discussing how they "mom" and "mentor" people younger than them in to this ridiculous lifestyle. i am no different than anyone here except that i dont sugarcoat things. i am an irrevocably sterilized, castrated male with stunted growth. nothing more and i would not recommend.
i want to be groomed by an older woman tbh
I have all ways had a fem voice. Started going bald and working a labor intensive job eating and drinking a lot to cope. Funny thing its how I met my girl friend she is a lesbian and thought for the first few months we started dating I was a pooner. Its funny I don't really find women attractive but shes pretty butch where it counts. I only ever dated guys be for her.
>transitioned at 26
>turning 31
>never had a job
>I've personally guided a lot of young trannies, but don't these days.
Some of them are fairly nice, lots of them are just like woman, and well all the good and bad that comes with that.
Soon to turn 30. Many times, I tried to help people. But they wouldn’t get stronger or get better. So They constantly demanded my attention, crying.
I’ve learned to look after myself. Who knows if they committed suicide because I left them.
I don't know you but I'd seen your posts in the past and just want to say that you seem really nice and caring and I'm glad that you make efforts to take care of yourself. Helping others can be fulfilling but it's also exhausting.
you cant be expected to do everyones emotional processing for them but it doesnt feel good to have to step back 🙁
aww ty! im leaning into it :3
ummm
well, you look like repfuel.
based. keep repping king. just doing my part to service the community with my overflowing honfidence.
that level of sexual narcissism in an adult of your age is ridiculous. but i suppose, unavoidable when one chooses to follow a life of fetishistic pleasure.
Im turning 38 this year, I work in clinical admin my photo is HAHAHAHA IM NOT SHARING MY FACE.
I transitioned in my early 20s which makes me an oldshit now but was considered radically, dangerously young back then. A lifetime of being a millennial lesbian troon has left me with severe attachment issues after a bunch of failed relationships and crazy flatmates so I live alone.
I do my best to be kind to youngshits but I dont "mentor" them because A) they be crazy, we all were back then and B) hanging out with someone in the midst of gender dysphoria is kinda triggering and I find spending time with them is when I start thinking about FFS or something stupid.
I'm ftm repper turning 33 years old, have been using LULZ since 2006. I'm a wagecuck working as sterile processing technician at a hospital and have 0 friends. Never been in a relationship or had sex. My job takes most of my time and energy but when I'm not at work I go to the gym, play visual novels or just nap.
What country anon?
Estonia
Do you want a friend?
I'm on your timezone
>how old are you turning this year?
31
>What do you do for work?
Software development for the government
>Have you ever mentored/momed any youngshits or are they all sociopaths?
One but she went her own way, can't blame her, I too would go insane if I were forced to live in Br*tain.
Here’s a pick with all the bill shit on
sorry about the size had to pull it from my phone
get different frames, those look like oldman frames
yea ive had a hard time finding glasses i like these suck but all i can afford at the moment.
Look specifically in the women's section, also thick acetate frames look more girly. You might look good in cat's eye frames.
thanks i will. I found some acetate frames i like but got to wait till next eye exam
>thread full of some of the comfiest trips
blessed
im really really worried about the incoming recession. im in my late 20s and next year will be a horrible time to graduate college and try to enter the job market. all my hard work and all of those sacrifices will have been for nothing.
late 20s is also just too late to make friends anymore.
it's a bit easier in LGBT bars/clubs especially with other trans people and lesbians
I don't get along with other trans people at all
>you can make things work even during a recession. i graduated into the great recession and wound up working food service with a quantitative degree lol
if this happens i will just kill myself. i live in a basement with 7 roommates i am not graduating just to continue this shit
meant to reply to
as well. the brainfog is real today
>don’t get along with other trans people
then ur gonna have to rely on the interests thing, or go on dates using apps, or idk.
i used to have a similar attitude abt trans people bc of things that happened to me, but it’s important to know other trans ppl i think.
there are trans ppl you could probably get along with, just have to figure out where the like-minded ones are.
>kms
nah you don’t have to do that, it’s normal for there to be a period of time after graduation where you’re still looking for work especially in a recession, but it’s much more likely than not that you’ll find something sooner or later.
>then ur gonna have to rely on the interests thing, or go on dates using apps, or idk.
i already have a partner im comfortable with and dating apps are absolute cancer. never again.
funny story, i actually swiped left on my current partner on a dating app because her profile was so fucking cringe and shallow. then by some strange twist of fate i ran into here here, we met up as friends, and we've been together for years. if that's not proof dating apps are a scam idk what is.
>there are trans ppl you could probably get along with
no. trans women are way too hypersexual. almost every single one I've met has tried to to fuck me and is obsessed with these vile hentai e-boi anime personas. i don't want to be around them anymore. even my gf has tones of that behavior but at least she's a nice reasonable person that will respect my boundaries. i just really can't deal with hypersexual behavior towards me it makes me immensely uncomfortable
>nah you don’t have to do that, it’s normal for there to be a period of time after graduation where you’re still looking for work especially in a recession
i know but my living situation is really really bad and seriously has been getting to me. i don't know how much more of this i can take. im finding little reason to live if i can't even find a way to afford our own place
(i appreciate the responses even if I know im just complaining)
meh maybe drugs will help
it’s ok to complain, being a tranny is hard & u deserve an outlet yeh
>way too hypersexual
i…honestly don’t have an argument against that, although i think part of that is a babytrans thing (and part of it may be prog usage lol).
>e-boi
ew tho. def not a universal truth.
>boundaries
always extremely important with any type of relationship.
>dating apps are scams
i actually met one of my best friends on okcupid, platonically.
i met my wife at a dinner party though, lol.
>meeting people
beyond that, it’s hard to say. ive made friends out of ppl who have approached me in cafes while i was working on stuff, platonic and otherwise. I think anywhere is an opportunity to make friends if you’re open to it. I don’t know how young people meet each other nowadays though.
>ive made friends out of ppl who have approached me in cafes while i was working on stuff
lol doesnt happen if you're not white
then be the approacher idk. i was always the aproachee not the approacher but only maybe half the friends i made that way where white.
i'm 29 and have just been manmoding on hrt since october 2021, life sucks and my friends are basically alienated from me, i don't have a real job and i'm too afraid to tell anyone irl what i am, especially with the political climate rn
🙁
Turning 40 this year. Too scared to take the plunge with HRT. I have already lost the hair on my temples... and I assume there is no getting it back. Things seem hopeless. But I'm not sure how to deal with this crippling dysphoria any longer.
theres not a really a difference between a 40 year old man and 40 year old woman. if you think hrt would have positive mental effects for you then just do it ig
31, coming up on 9 years hrt soon, kinda crazy to think about. gained a bunch of weight over covid and been losing it recently, at first i hated myself because of it but now i think it might have been a good thing, maybe fat redistribution isn't a meme
nothing is worth being fat
it isn't a meme, fat in feminine places (from HRT over multiple years) makes you look feminine
I've been on for 5 years, I have similar body, slightly chubby, but it's all in the good places now, not some ugly belly fat
I think it's only a meme because people unironically think a woman should weight up to 50 kgs
yeh, i mean when i gained weight a lot of it went to the good areas, my biggest worry with losing weight was that i'd lose it from those areas too, but most of my weight loss has come from my upper body/stomach it seems (boobs excluded). i still have some stomach fat to lose but that should only take another couple of months at the rate i'm going