Okay. Give me your opinion, anon. How can I be an attractive woman? What would a pretty girl look like to you?
I'm working on being attractive so i can have a bf someday.
Thanks.
Okay. Give me your opinion, anon. How can I be an attractive woman? What would a pretty girl look like to you?
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The same way men can be attractive: just be born that way
Also a confident attitude and some depth on your personality might help as well. Unless you're horribly deformed you should be fine
Okay first do not do drugs alcohol, nicotine, etc
Second don't do tatoos
Third don't be overweight
Third is the most important thing for femoid
I don't do anything of that.
I'm not fat but i do have a tummy.
>I'm not fat but i do have a tummy.
Yeah, so that might be a mental issue. Maybe you're young, that's fine. Yes, a tween-ager at the ripe young age of 29 is basically still in diapers and will poop themselves regularly. These are the facts of life.
Nobody can "tell you" how to be or really give you advice. You have to discover things on your own, and that takes time. Usually it takes too much time and you'll only realize after-the-fact once it's actually too late.
True Freedom is the ability to simply accept things just as they are.
Yeah I'm young. Thanks for your answer anon. Sometimes I just feel really low.
Start working on your mental issues instead and try your best to just glide through life like a well oiled phallus-shaped object gliding in an anus.
You might try not to get covered in shit, but the fact is you will. Just learn to accept it.
I mean I'll do it but do you really think guys are into a woman just for her personality?
I'm trying to be more pretty for a reason. They're really visual. At least that's what i have learn.
brads/chads who pump and dump/people who just want sex = visual is the only thing
people who want an emotional connection aka people you ignore for chad instead = knows that looks is just one part of the equation however personality in terms of knowing themselves, having things that they do that isnt just zeroed in on wasting money/time, and having beliefs = a good woman to snatch up to love and care and protect and start a family and knows that personality is added onto one's overal beauty
I don't know. Infidelity scares me and is extremely common in men. Do you really think that there is a possibility that someone decides to stay with me all his life? Or maybe I'm too fanciful? I don't have much experience.
That depends on you. You can find something like that but it requires you to have good decision making and objectivity. Put vanity aside and be patient, try to make a genuine connection.
Or go the more traditional route and get love bombed by the first guy to give you positive attention until he pumps and dumps you, then spend the next few years seeking physical validation to cover the crippling insecurity and need for approval.
>do you really think guys are into a woman just for her personality?
9/10 people are absolute garbage. Are you one or nine?
I don't get it. All of you usually talk about how you dream of pretty gf. I don't want them to love me because of my physical appearance but I'd like to be more attractive, that would help them to want to get to know me in depth, right? Like a little help.
I don't want him to love me* i'm gonna say it sorry for my bad english
>sorry for my bad english
Are you European? You should get a beret.
>I don't get it. All of you usually talk about how you dream of pretty gf.
Actually I personally dream of one day having a girlfriend who genuinely likes me and finds that spending time together with me makes her life fulfilling ... HAHAHAHAHAHA!!
That makes me laugh.
There is a threshold for looks. As long as she is above it, looks aren't very important. If she's below it, then there's nothing that can make up for it. It's not difficult to move above it though.
Even if you're obese and hideous you'd extremely easily find a bf. You're just not trying at all to get a bf, especially if you're not fat already.
I'm shy. I really want to do a first move but I'm always too afraid. I can't even talk sometimes. I feel really embarrassed. I should do it, right? I should be brave.
You don't have to make the first move. You can just use dating apps or other online avenues and guys will flock to any woman without ungodly deformities.
Do dating apps actually work? I don't want sex. I want a real and serious relationship.
>Do dating apps actually work?
Yes, of course. Tinder focuses more on sex, and a huge chunk of guys there just want sex, but plenty want to date you, not just fuck you. Try it and you'll realize I'm right.
Okay, maybe I'll give it a chance.
That sounds like a bad idea, you should marry me instead.
And another inexperienced girl ends up pumped and dumped. The cycle begins anew.
like all dating apps it's just a hookup app. it's way better to meet actual people in person
>How can I be an attractive woman? What would a pretty girl look like to you?
be thin.
that's it. that's all you (and any other girl that wants to be attractive) need to do. just control your food portions.
why are you lying? i used to get bullied all throughout school for not being attractive. a guy wont be your boyfriend just because you are thin, you have to look like you just walked a runway constantly for some reason
you are lying.
boys wanted to be your bf, you just thought they were ugly creeps and wished that Chad would be your bf
well Chad has way better options than your fat ass, so he didn't need to stoop to dating you.
I curse you foid! that may you never feel the touch of chads that you so desperately crave!
you need to stop engaging in looksism whatever that stuff is called
you asked about how to be pretty/attractive. the question is directly related to lookism.
you were even given simple and very achievable suggestions (be thin) which you just outright rejected because your bloated tummy craves sugar as much as your pussy craves chad.
im not the original p
tells the truth
the reason why you're in a mental wreck is because you're too focused on chad and decided that anyone asking you out and not achieving those standards makes you 'shy'
I'm OP. I didn't write anything about being thin. You are confusing me with someone else.
nigga nobody asked me out?? my standards were pretty low as well
>How can I be an attractive woman?
Focus on yourself and be capable of holding a conversation. Looks will find you a guy or get you laid if that's what you're about, but they won't keep one.
if you've a pussy, you're already attractive.
Just be a chadwife.
Men are often alienated by women because of their inability to remain faithful, do the polar opposite and make a difference by being loyal to someone who's actually good to you and does right by you.
Women often make the mistake of completely screwing over someone who fits the bill only to end up alone and stooping down to casual, emotionless sex with zero satisfaction out of life in general.
Just don't screw people over.
I do want a family and i'm already loyal. Maybe I'm just scared of being hurt.
>I'm just scared of being hurt.
Most of us are, especially on this site. It's not that bad as long as you don't go around hurting people to avoid getting hurt yourself.
Honestly all I want is to have a family with the love of my life, but the relationships and marriages I've known make it seem like everything is doomed to fail and that scares me a lot. I don't want to love someone enough to have a family together and still betray me... I wouldn't know how to deal with it, even though I know it's not my fault if he decides to cheat
>even though I know it's not my fault if he decides to cheat
You're culpable for your choice of partner. If you get cheated on it means you've made a bad choice.
That only make me more afraid of dating. I don't know how to trust.
Have standards and expectations and don't ignore red flags. Not knowing how to trust is a good thing, trust should be earned. Don't immediately assume you can trust someone because they make you feel special.
i prefer a certain outfit
when my ex girlfriend came to see me in that particular outfit for me, i stroked her hair and told her it was lovely
practicing a skincare routine is a very good idea and mewing. also find clothes that YOU like and not what you think other men like. men really like when a girl dresses really good and fits their personality, it's why we like goth girls. also find a hair style that suits your face shape and maybe get it dyed a cool color if it fits
>and mewing.
100% practice mewing. I knew this "girl" named "jaunie" once and "she" mewed like you wouldn't believe, oh my god did "she" mew.
Not meowing. Mewing is a jaw exercise where you keep your tongue pushed up against the roof of your mouth.
LISTEN CAREFULLY, YOU ONLY NEED TO DO 1 THING
1-TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR HEALTH
just gonna be flat out real, no bs. emulate the beauty standards relevant to your age group. it's pretty much as simple as that.
aside from that, be genuinely into someone you're attracted to or getting to know.
simple as
Okay just from the top of my head what I find attractive
>glasses
>long hair
>femine clothes so skirts, dresses, tights/stockings
>don't swear/burp/fart in excess
>physically active. Don't be out of breath walking up stairs
>not overweight
>have a job
>be sexually submissive and open minded
>don't be too clingy
>shave yourself on a regular basis
>don't play mind games with your partner
>don't throw tantrums
>be affectionate