Should I just kill myself?
I am serious. What's the point existing when no one is ever going to love you or want to spend their life with you?
>What's the point existing when no one is ever going to love you or want to spend their life with you?
There's other good things in life that make it worth living: sunny beaches, kittens, chocolate
>go to beach
Any guy who can't attract a woman is just a reject and failure at life, let's be honest.
Who cares? Do you live through others experiences of yourself or do you live your own experience? Stop being such a pussy and start living life you fuckhead.
>I am serious
so are we. there's no point kys already
I thought the same thing. Then I got a GF and she pretty much destroyed me and now I wish I'd have stayed a virgin.
I also STRONGLY doubt that you're so ugly you can't get anyone. I doubt you'll post a pic (but do if you can), if not, can you describe yourself?
I don't know if looks even matter if you're less than 8/10. I think the rest of us men are just a bunch of faceless drones who can only stand out if they have BDE or money. But I have an unusual body shape, so I'm not surprised women don't want to get with me.
ull never be happy as long as you want something (whatever it is) that desperately. you can only truly have something once you can imagine your life without it.
When I was young it was easier to put it out of my mind, but with no parents and all my friends either married or dating, my loneliness hits hard.
check out this dude's discord
I don't get it, who is this?
that's not important you could use some spiritual enlightenment and buddhism is a good introduction down that path. join one of their daily meditations.
Been trying for years, I have not improved my debilitating anxiety one bit. I'm so fucking scared all the time and I can't even articulate why.
as long as you want things THAT badly, 'i either get it or i kms', of course you're anxious. you need to learn a great deal of acceptance.
srsly for starters go through the worst possible things that could happen to you and fcuking put yourself in those situations, at least in your head
I'm not OP by the way, I just realized you guys might think I was, I just didn't know why you were linking some reddit account.
Oooooh, I can think of some pretty bad shit, I'm pretty creative.
You're totally right, I know that wanting is the source of suffering but I can't seem to stop. I don't know HOW to "do" acceptance.
>wanting is the source of suffering
i don't actually believe that, that's like saying eating is the source of being fat. it's true logically, but nobody has proven that there can't be very legitimate reasons for desires and that they can't be important part of life even if without them there'd be no suffering. but op is (or was if deceased) desperate as fuck which is not just wanting things. acceptance is easiest when your life flips shit on you and forces you to go through shit you never thought you could. this always happens eventually until you learn to accept them so at worst just wait it out.
I get what you mean, I guess it's a matter of degrees. My LEVEL of wanting is off the charts and I cant figure out HOW to lower it.
so for starters you should accept your life without being loved by a woman it's a weird thing to want anyways >50% of men would accept living their life without having a succubus who loves them no problem
this doesn't mean you lie yourself "i don't need to be loved!" or ignore your true desires or shit, just acknowledge you want to be loved by a woman but don't get so desperate over it that you kill yourself if it can't happen. it's something you want but something you don't have rn, that simple. if it's something you truly want you'll eventually get it anyways, but first you need to be able to let it go.
god loves you
You're right. There is no hope for guys like me. No one will care if I die. It will be no loss to society. What was even the point of being born at all?
>What was even the point of being born at all?
so that you could suffer
Meaningless suffering has no point.
i, for one, am glad you suffered a lot. hope you keep suffering a lot more too before you inevitably end it
Damn, you must be the coolest kid at school.
See you then...
See you then...
Dude, I am 5'6", poor and balding, if I could do it, you can do it. You wanna know how to get a GF or are you dead?
what's the point of not-suffering
Nothing. There's no point to anything other than the points that you decide something has. It's pretty liberating if you look at it the right way.
op has probably killed himself but we're here listening
Op won't do fuck all
yes, that's why people kts.
The only other option would be to, somehow, make yourself more attractive. We can say firmly that this is literally impossible and has never happened, no matter how hard anyone has ever worked or how much they ever believed in themselves. Everyone who ever set out to become more attractive always ended up being exactly as attractive as they were before or worse.
there are only a few select people who major in attractiveness. develop other qualities. you can probably score a lot more in other areas.
>develop other qualities.
Ok edgelord homosexual
If its because your fat than exercise piggy. If its a face thing your outa luck. But hey hey hey if your gonna kill yourself do a flip. nobody ever does a flip
OP here. The only reason I won’t kill myself yet is because of my father/family. He's the only thing in my life that I love and is worth living for. I know if I committed suicide so would he and that's not something I want for him. Sometimes it's a quick passing though that lasts a second or two per day and sometimes it's something I ponder for a few minutes. I honestly think it'd "solve" a lot of problems but that's only because you don't have to deal with them. Being trans blows, but gotta try make something out of this life before giving up completely.
op, just for a moment consider the possibility that there's a part of you that doesn't cease existing when you die. now consider that maybe this part will continue facing the same demons until you learn how to defeat them. the thing about suicide is, IF this truly is all there is to life, at best it saves you a few decades of suffering. IF there are some fundamental laws of physics we don't quiet comprehend yet, and part of you lives beyond the end of this life, you have a chance to screw yourself over majorly and make yourself suffer, potentially through all eternity. just live your life the best way you can and don't base it all around escapism.
>> pascal’s wager
That isn't OP btw. Don't why know some homosexual would pretend to me if only to hijack my thread. Then again it's a tranny so yeah.
No, man. Don’t kill yourself over something like that. You’re probably just being hyperbolic but seriously — don’t do that.
Dating is extremely difficult. Even people who are in relationships struggle to feel happy. The grass is sort-of brown everywhere.
I can’t promise you anything about your love life. I wish I could. But I am certain you will feel better if you do what everyone recommends, namely: eating well, getting sunlight, and exercising. If you take your fitness far enough, maybe you’ll begin to look great. But forget about that part — just focus on feeling better first.
womeon are attracted to perseverence, courage, conquerors. have you done any of that
This post implies that you've talked to all woman and I find that highly unlikely.
Also, this post implies that you never even looked into why they find you unattractive. I know there is only so much you can do, but self-improvement is a thing and you can't make yourself look more attractive simply by working out more, hygienics, new clothes, etc. Women notice this stuff more than men. It's all subtle signs to them that you're a clean, component, trustable guy.
It makes no difference dude. I work out, I have nice haircuts, dress well, clean shaven, even get my freaking eyebrows tidied up. If you don't have the natural aesthetics no woman will look twice at you, and failing that you need serious charisma or socioeconomic status to grab their attention. I'm just another nobody in a crowd of nobodies destined to be a genetic deadend.
Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *
Save name for the next time I post.