no kind of sex ever feels correct or natural for me. not receiving or giving anal or fucking a vagina.

no kind of sex ever feels correct or natural for me. not receiving or giving anal or fucking a vagina. it just feels so out of place and incorrect. i cant get into it. the only thing that seems like it would be natural and correct for me is having sex with a vagina. it has kinda ruined sex for me. im not really sure what to do. any advice?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    asexual maybe? you can't know that vaginal sex would work for you if there's no way to experience it without having to commit permanently ya know.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i dont think so. when i fantasize its the only thing that seems correct in my head. i just want a trans gf to fuck me tbh i think thats my thing

      get high, blindfold yourself and hypnotize yourself into believing your hole is a vagina ;-;

      that doesnt sound very fun and kinda sad

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        its sad but it works. it'll have to do until i get srs lol

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    get high, blindfold yourself and hypnotize yourself into believing your hole is a vagina ;-;

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    read lacan fucko

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not op but do you have a discord account..

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can be asexual and be sexually charged if you want to please your partner.

    My friend is, he and his bf are happy with each other. I'm sure they might get married soon.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Standard bottom dysphoria. Try gentle hand stuff and frotting, and whatever the thing is called where you get fucked while tucking. If it still doesn't go away after trying a couple things and waiting a while start looking into SRS options, a lot of people are happy with it but it's not for everyone even if you have dysphoria. Good luck anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      can’t it believe took someone so long to say it but yeah this is bottom dysphoria op. i was like you and am now incredibly happy post op. before that, the only way i could get off was rubbing, humping, or putting a vibe on the v, so maybe try those in the meantime?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >putting a vibe on the v
        ??

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          the little v on the underside right below the head, the most sensitive spot

          Can second vibes. Early transition I wasn't necessarily dysphoric but I was still pretty uncomfortable wrangling hog. I'm happy with it now but vibes are great because they work the same no matter what you've got. Still love em. Good tip anon

          >I was still pretty uncomfortable wrangling hog. I'm happy with it now
          first of all ew second of all can’t relate third of all go back

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No sorry I can't actually I'm too busy being a hogmaxxed tgirl who pulls mad hoes, I'm glad you know what you want though

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              lol ok tourist

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Can second vibes. Early transition I wasn't necessarily dysphoric but I was still pretty uncomfortable wrangling hog. I'm happy with it now but vibes are great because they work the same no matter what you've got. Still love em. Good tip anon

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

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    lol ok tourist

    I'm just a chaser but I can see now that it's really the srs-fags who project when they say chasers are always trying to indoctrinate out of SRS.

    That person literally didn't say anything except that they used to be uncomfortable with what was between their legs, but they're happy with it now. And your response was to reddit ad hominem, and double down on it. Classy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      they type and think like a predditor and so do you. i personally don’t know if op should get srs it’s for them to figure out i just don’t like malebrained dickgirls around this board

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i have schizoid pd and sex just doesn't feel pleasurable at all, it's like having to fuck an animal because it's so primitive. i also experience social anhedonia in general so i don't really get anything out of social relationships. my sexual gratification comes entirely from fantasies and situations i play out in my head

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m asexual

    Don’t feel comfortable topping or bottoming.

    Friend says I’m a side

    I would do things for a partner but I don’t want to penetrate or be penetrated

    Life is strange

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