I'm 31/lawyer/top who's been dating a 21/grad student/bottom for almost a year now. He wants to move in together and I'm losing my attraction to him because he simply won't get a job. He goes to school sure, but he has insane amounts of free time and he keeps complaining that he doesn't have money. I pay for him every single time we go out and it was cute at first but now it's exhausting, especially since I'm an good looking top.
Should I dump his ass?
I mean he sure is here for your money, does he cleans or cook you food though?
If not dump him.
nigga this is the 3rd time you make this thread, if you want to dump him just fucking do it, I mean you laready said "he is hitting the wall"
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>expecting someone who's a decade younger than you to be in the same life position as you. i get not liking having a partner that doesn't work, but anon he's 21 and in school
Absolutely no expectations that he will be in the same position but he literally has a ton of free time and spends it tanning/working out. When I was his age I was working two jobs while going to school full time.
He's actually looking better these days ngl. He's cleaned up a bit.
then go date someone your own age who has the same work ethic as you. being proud of working two jobs while going to school full time is gay and sounds miserable.
>then go date someone your own age
he is a bipedo LOL
>bipedo
LOL no attraction to women at all but yes I'm attracted to young men. The younger the better.
ok so here we see a "rare" case of gaypedophilia
>but he literally has a ton of free time and spends it tanning/working out
based
>When I was his age I was working two jobs while going to school full time.
>i had no life as a young adult so that means he has to too
loser humble yourself
I still had a life I had bfs, went out, got drunk, and I had money to do it at his age.
lol i want you to dump him tbh just so he can realize how much better he can do. fuckin scrooge
Have you talked to him about this?
Yeah I have. He gets butt hurt everytime I bring it up and he keeps saying he works as a grad student (they make him TA a couple of classes but it's nothing) but it's nothing and he doesn't have any money to go out or do anythiing
Hmmmm I see I see, that sounds frustrating. I guess my best advice would be to try to frame it in a non-personal way? Like, encourage him to get a job so that he can start building financial wellbeing and getting/doing nice things for himself. Then, once he has that base level of income, you can start weaning him off your financial support.
I don't know either of you so this is just my own intuition but it might be worth a shot. And, of course, all of this is said with the presumption that you think the effort would be worth it to keep him in your life.
>31/lawyer/top who's been dating a 21/grad student/bottom
>10 years older
>youre the top
>he's literally giving up alot of his chance at young life socialization to hang out w you instead
>any income hed make at entry level would be negligible as fuck compared to your lawyer income anyways
i dont see even half a reason he should get a job lol id break up with you for even asking
>asking /tttt/ for advice on something as trivial and personal as this not once but thrice
and you call yourself a top?
take your pills already Alice you indecisive hen
>He goes to school
Leave him the fuck alone then. Christ.
If you want someone more mature date your age or if you want the QT twink you need to deal with the immaturity.
no pussy no work
applies to gays and bottoms as well