My husband found my Tinder profile and wants a divorce. What do I do?

My husband found my Tinder profile and wants a divorce. What do I do?

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Step 1. Stop writing transparent larps

    There are no further steps.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Disagreed: Write more larps. We have too many quality threads about real problems here. We need more wojacks and how about some wwyd? How about a good ol' celeb thread. We need more low quality spam.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How did he find your tinder profile?

    Does he have one of his own?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not married but say I am on my Tinder profile and I get more interest than when I listed single.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      preselection

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Honor his wishes and do better next time

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Recognize your errors and let him divorce. Don't take anything else from his life.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have sex with his dad

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    please do not post pictures of my oshi on this board, thank you for your understanding

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      OP here, that is a picture of me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No.

        [...]

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Deserved.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Divorce before he want to do something MUCH worse.
    If I were married and that happened to me, I am not sure if I could restrain myself from acting on my homicidal urge.
    This is only because it is incredibly difficult to find a trustworthy female these days, and marriage comes with a significant risk to men.
    This means trusting a female requires me to acknowledge and accept the risk, and this isn't something to be taken lightly.
    I don't know why so many females these days consider all men who trust them to be stupid and gullible and easily manipulated.
    Some men may be stupid to trust others without thinking, and for better or worse, they must learn by consequences.
    But most men are well aware of the risks they accept to trust a woman to marry, and if a woman were to use that as an opportunity to cheat them, they ought to know that there will be some men who will find that to be so insulting that they will resort to lethal force to make things right.
    Let's be serious here, the risk of total ruin from divorce is probably as high as the risk of total ruin for getting caught for murder.
    If they are going to get their lives ruined beyond recovery, I'm sure some of them will want to take measures to feel some level of satisfaction.
    To all the females: no woman who got killed by their husbands ever thought they will get killed for pissing off their husbands.
    They were just reckless enough to keep fucking with a fissile material already close to critical mass.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Getting cheated on doesn't make you a victim. You lack the self-reflection and insight to realize that you're a selfish, self-pitying asshole. Marriage is a malignant institution to validate the narcissistic entitlement to another person's sexuality so adultery is a more sincere expression of love and compassion than marriage and getting angry about it makes you evil.

      I don't have any sympathy for you because you're a putrid person and you speak from the depths of a rotten heart.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Getting cheated on doesn't make you a victim. You lack the self-reflection and insight to realize that you're a selfish, self-pitying asshole. Marriage is a malignant institution to validate the narcissistic entitlement to another person's sexuality so adultery is a more sincere expression of love and compassion than marriage and getting angry about it makes you evil.
        >I don't have any sympathy for you because you're a putrid person and you speak from the depths of a rotten heart.
        kek, nice larp

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I am well aware that I am a selfish, self-pitying asshole, and I am totally at peace with that.
        I don't have a problem with you making that accusation, but I am far more self-critical than anyone else.
        In all fairness, I have no choice to be this way in a world that manipulates people into thinking that opening themselves up to be exploited by others is virtuous.
        If I am not going to be compassionate towards myself, then who's going to be?
        Why should I uphold someone else's value when no one is willing to even understand that I have my own set of values which are important to me?
        I try to minimize the harm to myself in my pursuit of my values, and I try to seek common ground with others by trying to understand others way of thinking.
        I have made plenty of sacrifice for a cause which I see the value in, and I do it for my own reason. I don't claim moral superiority others, because I really don't give a fuck.
        My moral values are for me to follow, and if you got a problem with that, then come and kill me.
        Just remember that I wouldn't have any sympathy for you, because to me you're a putrid person and you speak from he depths of a rotten heart.
        I have no problem taking a life of those who try to force a belief that being selfless is the ultimate virtue while seeking to exploit me for everything I got like I am goddamn livestock.
        I don't mind sharing my value as a person for something that may need, in exchange for your value as a person for something that I might need.
        However, if I am going to be selfless, it will be on my terms, for something that is important to me according to my values, you GOT THAT?
        If you have a problem with the way I live, then you'll have to wager your life to try to kill me.
        If you don't have the balls to do that, then just shut the FUCK UP, because I really don't give a fuck about how morally superior you believe you are.
        Your moral values are for you to follow, and not just lie about following just to appear virtuous.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >if I am going to be selfless, it will be on *my* terms, for something that is important to *me* according to *my* values, you GOT THAT?

          Well, no, you can't be selfless on the condition that at it's at your convenience. You're just proving that you're incapable of understanding love and you're unworthy of it. So the anguish you get from being cheated on is your karmic punishment for your selfishness.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hahahah okay, why don't you be selfless to let me kill you?
            It'd bring a feeling of happiness and love.
            Why can't you be compassionate towards my wishes?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lol, don't take my words out of context just because you can't find any reasonable grounds to refute it.
            Either way, what makes you think that I am even interested in love as you define it?
            I only wrote this

            Divorce before he want to do something MUCH worse.
            If I were married and that happened to me, I am not sure if I could restrain myself from acting on my homicidal urge.
            This is only because it is incredibly difficult to find a trustworthy female these days, and marriage comes with a significant risk to men.
            This means trusting a female requires me to acknowledge and accept the risk, and this isn't something to be taken lightly.
            I don't know why so many females these days consider all men who trust them to be stupid and gullible and easily manipulated.
            Some men may be stupid to trust others without thinking, and for better or worse, they must learn by consequences.
            But most men are well aware of the risks they accept to trust a woman to marry, and if a woman were to use that as an opportunity to cheat them, they ought to know that there will be some men who will find that to be so insulting that they will resort to lethal force to make things right.
            Let's be serious here, the risk of total ruin from divorce is probably as high as the risk of total ruin for getting caught for murder.
            If they are going to get their lives ruined beyond recovery, I'm sure some of them will want to take measures to feel some level of satisfaction.
            To all the females: no woman who got killed by their husbands ever thought they will get killed for pissing off their husbands.
            They were just reckless enough to keep fucking with a fissile material already close to critical mass.

            to break the delusion that almost all women have these days that they can get away with breaking a man's trust with total impunity.
            There are other men with similar traits, and values and if you fuck around on a wrong man, it might just cost your life.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I did take your words in context. You're under the delusion that you can ever have some special entitlement to another person's love and sexuality and getting cheated on means that you're being victimized. Everything you said was retarded and not worth taking seriously.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Getting cheated on doesn't make you a victim
        Okay, what about being cheated on a contract for banking/investment? on an informed consent agreement for an operation?
        These are all relationships based on trust on an agreement to seek some level of mutual interest.
        If you think concepts like trust, agreement, mutual interest, or fiduciary duty don't matter, it is most likely because you are seeking to exploit the other party for your own interest.
        And you call me a selfish, self-pitying asshole?
        At least I can honestly admit that I am, but you are selfish AND dishonest.
        You are not in the position to speak with an implied sense of moral superiority.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If your trust is based on a selfish expectation of sexual exclusivity then it is no better than a slave contract and doesn't deserve to be honored.

          Hahahah okay, why don't you be selfless to let me kill you?
          It'd bring a feeling of happiness and love.
          Why can't you be compassionate towards my wishes?

          It would be selfless to to let someone, like a deranged psychopath, to kill you if it meant that it would allow somebody else to escape from him. But to let someone kill you to soothe their feelings after they've been cheated on is encouraging them to wallow in their self-pity and that would weaken their character. So it wouldn't be compassionate to let a person kill you for that reason.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lol hahahahahaha okay, okay
            Alright, then be sexually inclusive and let me rape you with a knife.
            That is how normally show sincere expression of love and compassion.
            You're right I'm not entitled to another person's sexuality, so I don't want to receive any sexual service.
            I think you're definitely entitled, because you are a compassionate person, and in recognition of your love and compassion, I want to show my unique and sincere expression of love.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              And you slavers wonder to yourselves "how could she do that me?" Your post just answered your own question.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I thought school started…

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    lol. lmao

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous
  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If this isn't a larp or bait, kill yourself OP

  12. 3 weeks ago
    [adult swim]

    Get divorced and join the circus you clown Play stupid games win stupid prizes

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Let him kick you in the crotch until he’s done with his revenge

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My husband found my Tinder profile and wants a divorce. What do I do?
    You are going to put your big girl panties and assume the consequences of your actions. Whore.

    Women are the naggers of the world.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lol, everyone in this thread that says that this is reason enough for divorce is underage. What the husband should do is tey to understand where this need is coming from and go from there and try to fill that need if reasonable.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A husband doesn't need to understand if the wife doesn't understand from the husband's position.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hahahaha if i had a dollar where my wife did shit and she did not think about what it would do, i would be a millionaire.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Most likely a larp but perhaps you shouldn't go behind your husband's back and cheat on him? Let me guess, this is his fault. He drove you to create a Tinder! He spends too much time at work and he isn't there to spark the tingles in you! What an evil, terrible man.

    If you didn't want sexual exclusivity you should have brought that up at the beginning of the relationship. Maybe you could have found someone that was into that lifestyle. But no, you have to secretly harbor feelings towards getting fucked by other men and spring it on him after years of commitment. But you didn't even do that. He had to find out. You don't have the balls to admit it. I hope he leaves you and finds someone better.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, it is his fault, actually. I brought up the lack of sex we having multiple times and he didn't care. He committed the first infidelity by withholding the love that he promised me which is represented as the reason for marriage in the first place.

      Get divorced and join the circus you clown Play stupid games win stupid prizes

      9 times out of 10: the person getting cheated on was being a bigger cunt than they cared to admit and you're def not an exception to that rule.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Okay, so get divorced already, obviously neither of you wants to be in this marriage. What a pointless thread, regardless of whether it's a larp or not.

      • 3 weeks ago
        [adult swim]

        Keep coping you chink

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bait

    Also take half his stuff

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't hurt him anymore.

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fuck someone else

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP you fucking slut you don't deserve him you should be ashamed of doing this to your husband you little bitch. He should poison you or stab you till you die because of blood loss then he should burn your body in the furnace so that no on catch your illness you slut go kill yourself before he gets hurt more

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Mister KK
  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Digits and OP is attention whore and die shortly afterwards

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