My girlfriend wants to move out because her lease is up in a month but I don't want to because she just had to pay the fuck ton of money in bills...

My girlfriend wants to move out because her lease is up in a month but I don't want to because she just had to pay the fuck ton of money in bills and is basically recovering from being broke. Neither of us have a lot of savings. I proposed us moving in my parents basement for a year and she said she'd rather die. I'm like what the fuck it's not even permanent I just would really rather have money saved than us being assed out. What the fuck. I think this makes sense and is do-able for a temporary situation. Am I being an asshole or something? Keep in mind we'd have basically everything in the basement and wouldn't even need to interact with my parents except to do laundry which could be scheduled.(it's basically a studio apartment sized with a shower, oven, sink etc.)

  1. 6 days ago
    Anonymous

    get educated or get a real job, how the fuck can you be too fucking poor to date someone and live together on two incomes.
    are you a nagger?

    • 6 days ago
      Anonymous

      I've been paying college out of pocket since fall last year. This year I broke down and took out a loan so I'll be good until I graduate but I still need to save not everyone is a fucking israelite like you homosexual. we need to work

      • 6 days ago
        Anonymous

        I do work, almost 25$ an hour.
        despite paying 450$ to rent a less than 200 sq ft room from my mother, I've managed to save up over 100k over the course of about 4 years. I also have no intention of dating a woman until I own a house.
        what you suggested is completely logical and fine, but culturally it's not acceptable, so woman brain can't handle it.
        just like it's unnaceptable for a virgin man to be living with his old as fuck mother. so I don't even bother wasting my time chasing women who I know will insist I move out from my mother's place, despite not offering to make up the difference in how much I'm saving on rent by doing so.

        • 6 days ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know if it's woman brain thing but I definitely feel like she could be more understanding as to how much money would could save, and as I stated before. It's temporary but whatever. You do your thing I guess. Maybe someone else will come in with a few more perspectives.

          • 6 days ago
            Anonymous

            my concept of what a relationship is more cold and calculating than what most people's would probably be.
            This has to do with what I experienced through growing up as an adolescent. Peaceful childhood, parents argued and got worse though puberty, horrible divorce in middle school.
            Was told by my mother that she "fell out of love" with my father, and regretted marrying him. yet she claimed to not regret having me and my sister.
            As a result I don't view any relationship built purely on the concept of "love" as something inherently sustainable. And I'd wager that the lack of the transactional element in such societal engagements is one of the greatest drivers towards rising divorce rates.
            (lack of men being able to provide, as a product of women working and sometimes making more.)
            For my father what ended up killing my mother's love for him was the 2008 global recession.
            Something completely out of his control that ended up killing their 14 year old marriage.

            • 6 days ago
              Anonymous

              The saddest part about this is that the gradual decline in their relationship is completely documented on home VHS tape.
              So this idea of love lasting forever, being beyond the scope of the realities of living in a society where money is needed to sustain a certain quality of life.
              Women want that certain level, and ultimately not being able to provide that can lead to some kind of evolutionary programmed chemical change in the brain that causes them to cut losses and move on after a certain point.
              The reality was that my father's best wasn't good enough from a financial point. and it overrode any romantic possibilities, and caused the marriage to completely collapse.

            • 6 days ago
              Anonymous

              The saddest part about this is that the gradual decline in their relationship is completely documented on home VHS tape.
              So this idea of love lasting forever, being beyond the scope of the realities of living in a society where money is needed to sustain a certain quality of life.
              Women want that certain level, and ultimately not being able to provide that can lead to some kind of evolutionary programmed chemical change in the brain that causes them to cut losses and move on after a certain point.
              The reality was that my father's best wasn't good enough from a financial point. and it overrode any romantic possibilities, and caused the marriage to completely collapse.

              Bro I'm going to be real with you, I'm sorry this happened but I do not care. I just want to know if I'm being unreasonable and if there's a way to save my relationship.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                >>
                I already told you to stop being poor, this will obviously solve your problem.
                >mad about reading my posts
                Don't care, I didn't force you to read them.
                >waaah help my relationship
                For my dad, being a financial drag was hopeless, and I see no reason you're any different, after-all you're just dating, you don't even have kids with her.
                so why should she lower her quality of life to be with you?

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                You're not giving advice.
                You're projecting your shit attitude, your daddy issues and your schizo blog posting on to me when /LULZ/ exists you fucking homosexual. I already told you I've been paying for college. You've been sitting on your ass doing a job and racking up money because you dont want to deal with women. Ok. Typical virgin cope. Fuck off you schizo. Jesus christ lmao

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                What's the point in getting hostile?
                >sitting on your ass doing a job
                oxymoron coming from someone going broke over a college degree.
                my advice is you get a woman who loves you for you no matter how poor you are, because evidently your GF doesn't.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not hostile. I just don't understand why you're still in my thread.
                Anonymously bragging about how much money you make and telling someone already working their ass off to not be poor is typical israelite shit. Frankly, it doesn't matter if you're making $25 or $30. You're fucked up enough to start bitching about your dad leaving and your mom coping with that loss to a stranger and then getting mad when I tell you to go blog somewhere else.
                I might be poor but I'm working to be something better than I am. You are pathetic and sad. Kill yourself and get out of here.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well what the fuck did you expect you stupid homosexual? this isn't an expert advice site tailored to your specific reality. what should I fucking go out and live your exact life before giving advice on the site? dumb fuck.
                kill yourself.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                You should at least have had a similar enough life experience to even have input in the first place. That's the whole point of giving advice. You've either experienced a situation similar or know someone who has enough for you to comment.
                You:
                >Are apparently well-off making $25 you just choose to stay with your parents for reasons unspecified
                >Refuse to date for reasons but judging from your responses in this thread you'd never be able to talk your way into pussy no matter how rich you were
                >Probably don't have much life experience outside of work.
                So tell me again what the fuck you're doing here? You're not even qualified enough to give non-expert advice. This isn't your blog. fuck off.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                was I off-topic? no.
                you just don't like what I have to say on the matter.
                this whole "you're blogging projecting" line is getting tired.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                No you homosexual YOU WERE off topic because no one gives a fuck about what your philosphy on relationships are. YOU'VE NEVER HAD ONE. You watched your parents who never loved each other drift apart and now you think you're an expert. You aren't a sex god because you watch porn. You're just scared of being abandoned and hurt like your father hurt your mom and hurt you. I don't know why you've decided to lash out and take your pent up aggression out on me but I don't care.
                >this whole "you're blogging projecting" line is getting tired.
                Then why don't you have your dad tuck you in and read you a lullaby? I wouldn't have to say it if you'd fuck off.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                lmao you got absolutely broken by like 10 LULZ posts, this is just your complete projection post masterpiece,
                completely unintelligible.
                calm the fuck down kid.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                Dude. Are you kidding me?

                my concept of what a relationship is more cold and calculating than what most people's would probably be.
                This has to do with what I experienced through growing up as an adolescent. Peaceful childhood, parents argued and got worse though puberty, horrible divorce in middle school.
                Was told by my mother that she "fell out of love" with my father, and regretted marrying him. yet she claimed to not regret having me and my sister.
                As a result I don't view any relationship built purely on the concept of "love" as something inherently sustainable. And I'd wager that the lack of the transactional element in such societal engagements is one of the greatest drivers towards rising divorce rates.
                (lack of men being able to provide, as a product of women working and sometimes making more.)
                For my father what ended up killing my mother's love for him was the 2008 global recession.
                Something completely out of his control that ended up killing their 14 year old marriage.

                The saddest part about this is that the gradual decline in their relationship is completely documented on home VHS tape.
                So this idea of love lasting forever, being beyond the scope of the realities of living in a society where money is needed to sustain a certain quality of life.
                Women want that certain level, and ultimately not being able to provide that can lead to some kind of evolutionary programmed chemical change in the brain that causes them to cut losses and move on after a certain point.
                The reality was that my father's best wasn't good enough from a financial point. and it overrode any romantic possibilities, and caused the marriage to completely collapse.

                I do work, almost 25$ an hour.
                despite paying 450$ to rent a less than 200 sq ft room from my mother, I've managed to save up over 100k over the course of about 4 years. I also have no intention of dating a woman until I own a house.
                what you suggested is completely logical and fine, but culturally it's not acceptable, so woman brain can't handle it.
                just like it's unnaceptable for a virgin man to be living with his old as fuck mother. so I don't even bother wasting my time chasing women who I know will insist I move out from my mother's place, despite not offering to make up the difference in how much I'm saving on rent by doing so.

                You come into a thread asking a relatively simple question to incel post about women, your family life and how much money you make. This shit isn't normal. We're already far past my issues. Would you like to write some more? Is your mom hot? Maybe I can live with you guys.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                is the transactional aspects of modern relationships really lost on you? no wonder you're getting so fucking confused on why your GF doesn't want to live with her BF's mammy.
                poor you, life's so unfair!

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                pathetic is not being able to afford to date someone.
                Not that it's something to hold against you, but the fact that you couldn't plan for it to the extent that a lack of finances caused your relationship enough strain to the point of asking for help anonymously on the internet.
                The lack of awareness, and you tell me to KYS? lol

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                I mean you're intentionally missing the point where I've been paying for college. I guess I could also throw in paying for rent under my parents too so I don't freeload but I guess we've already established you're here to flex your wealth anonymously even though it really isn't working. I pity you more than myself if we're being real. My situation sucks but I'll survive, you need a fucking therapist and a gun.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                I never said you're a freeloader. why do you have such a fucking victim complex?
                25$ an hour is peanuts where I live, fucking peanuts.
                nobody is flexing anything

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                What else do you mean to imply by consistently calling someone already working their ass off poor? Are you on the spectrum or something?

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                your OP post? are you a real person or just trolling at this point...

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                meant to say "it's implied in your OP post" kek

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                You know what, after re-reading this thread I've come to realize that you were absolutely correct in assuming that my reason for not dating because of my own housing situation was cope.
                I don't have any intention of dating no matter how much money I eventually posses.
                much like your girlfriend has no intention of playing house with your mother because you're too poor to afford a place on your own.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                She doesn't have to and it's her choice as much as it sucks, I'm willing to accept she doesn't want to deal with that. At the end of the day, I have a decent friend group, I'm bettering myself and I have a family who loves me and didn't abandon me or project their personal issues on to me as a child which would've made me a sad sack of shit like you are.

              • 6 days ago
                Anonymous

                nobody projected personal issues onto me as a child, it was something I simply was able to observe from having experienced the situation personally.
                I'm not some loathsome person either, I have friends who care about me, and a great relationship with my sister and mother.
                you keep projecting this idea of me being some broken loser stereotype that you're trying to avoid, and it's getting annoying.

  2. 6 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'll check this thread in the morning if anyone else wants to chime in. I don't know what this guys issue is lmao.

    • 6 days ago
      Anonymous

      you're too confrontational with people who's advice you're supposed to be ignoring.
      there'd be no point in replying "I don't care" to a post right? anything more is retarded.

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