My girlfriend is denying me sex until I go to therapy.

My girlfriend is denying me sex until I go to therapy. She says I spend too much time at work and that I don’t give her enough attention.

How do I convince her that I’m not depressed / shizo / whatever she thinks I am?
I don’t want to go to therapy, I hate talking to other people and I can’t take the tome off from work.

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >She says I spend too much time at work
    How much time do you spend at work?
    >and that I don’t give her enough attention
    Woman bullshit. Just talk to here more for a time

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >how much time do you spend at work
      the normal time I guess? I usually stay as long as needed, rarely leave without the boys

      >talk to her more
      i don’t really know what to say, i usually just ask her how her day is going

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i usually just ask her how her day is going
        Talk about how your day was and about workplace drama or something

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i can’t it’s confidential
          the VP would kill me

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            You moronic? Are you work on something that REALLY needs to be kept confidential or is your gf someone who you can not be trusted? What job do you have, CIA agent?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            no it’s mergers and acquisitions, we sign NDAs. not allowed to talk about it.
            besides she wouldn’t care, she keeps trying to gaslight me into thinking I hate this job

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            We are getting somewhere
            > mergers and acquisitions
            > I just don’t have time, office gym is more convenient
            You are probably spent like 10/11h daily in the office on a work day. You being tired is also probably the reason why you dont talks so much. Therapy is probably not the way for you, you seem stable to me. Maybe try to engage with here more on the weekend.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            i work on weekends

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >i work on weekends
            How important is your gf to you. You might be at an impas here. Depends if she could really be satisfied with someone constantly tired and if you want to here her beaching about this

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            she’s super important to me.
            i want her to be happy, that’s really all I want.
            that’s why I grind, because her job (research) doesn’t pay jackshit and cost of living in the western world is insane and I want her to have comfortable living conditions, that is barely attainable on my current compensation.

            I spend all my days off with her.
            I shower her with gifts, biz-class tickets to exotic destinations.
            All I want is her not to worry about me and let me work, I’m doing this for her.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            You are in a tough predicament man. Try figuring out how unhappy she really is about the current situation. Also get promoted and get here pregnant. GL

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I spend all my days off with her.
            >I shower her with gifts, biz-class tickets to exotic destinations.

            https://i.imgur.com/QdVQYuR.jpg

            My girlfriend is denying me sex until I go to therapy. She says I spend too much time at work and that I don’t give her enough attention.

            How do I convince her that I’m not depressed / shizo / whatever she thinks I am?
            I don’t want to go to therapy, I hate talking to other people and I can’t take the tome off from work.

            >My girlfriend is denying me sex until I go to therapy. She says I spend too much time at work and that I don’t give her enough attention.

            This woman doesn't deserve you.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >mergers and acquisitions
            On the law or fiance side of things. Got any tips how to get into that bedsides good grades and apprenticeships in summer

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            finance, i moved from Project Finance to M&A. Entered the corporate side after engineering studies. Moved to bank side after a year.
            either go this route or similar or have a really good network. Lots of people want this type of position.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >no it’s mergers and acquisitions, we sign NDAs. not allowed to talk about it.
            the absolute state of the modern corporate cuck

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i meant the work is confidential.
          workplace drama. There is none, we’re pretty busy.
          i don’t think she cares about my gym performance. Actually she’s unhappy when I mention the office gym since she wanted us to get a subscription at a commercial gym so we could go together. I just don’t have time, office gym is more convenient.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >My girlfriend is denying me sex until I go to therapy. She says I spend too much time at work and that I don’t give her enough attention.
        This is bait but I can't help it, I gotta take it

        What kind of fricking attention does she want? Does she not realize that sex IS attention? And practically guaranteed attention at that

        I swear to god if it's some goofy "but I want you to spend time with me other than sex, all you care about is sex" bullshit then this bait will make me lose my shit

        >i don’t really know what to say, i usually just ask her how her day is going
        Frick that, just frick her more. I bet I've never asked someone how their day was/is going. Ever. In my entire life lol

        We are getting somewhere
        > mergers and acquisitions
        > I just don’t have time, office gym is more convenient
        You are probably spent like 10/11h daily in the office on a work day. You being tired is also probably the reason why you dont talks so much. Therapy is probably not the way for you, you seem stable to me. Maybe try to engage with here more on the weekend.

        >You are probably spent like 10/11h daily in the office on a work day. You being tired is also probably the reason why you dont talks so much.
        Wait, people get tired that easily?

        >i work on weekends
        How important is your gf to you. You might be at an impas here. Depends if she could really be satisfied with someone constantly tired and if you want to here her beaching about this

        Are you Black folk crazy? He still has plenty of time..

        she’s super important to me.
        i want her to be happy, that’s really all I want.
        that’s why I grind, because her job (research) doesn’t pay jackshit and cost of living in the western world is insane and I want her to have comfortable living conditions, that is barely attainable on my current compensation.

        I spend all my days off with her.
        I shower her with gifts, biz-class tickets to exotic destinations.
        All I want is her not to worry about me and let me work, I’m doing this for her.

        She needs more dick, boss, pronto

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          > Wait, people get tired that easily?
          quick, tell me how old are you, knower of human stamina and working conditions
          > I bet I've never asked someone how their day was/is going
          you sound like a very unlikable person

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >quick, tell me how old are you, knower of human stamina and working conditions
            29 for 2 more weeks

            >you sound like a very unlikable person
            You think? For not saying "how was your day?" Isn't that some shit only strangers or maybe "acquaintances" say to you? I skip right over that goofy shit and go to "hey, you frick that Mexican girl you've been talking to at work yet? What the hell are you waiting for?"

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    to me, the only reason to refuse therapy would be how costful it is. honestly, you can just go, tell the doc that your gf made you go there, and go from there saying "i don't wanna talk about that" when they ask something you don't wanna talk about something. and that's it. you could even get some good advice to deal with the woman. if you can't do that, you may actually have a problem.

    if you don't have enough time to take an hour off per week to do therapy, then maybe you really are spending too much time there. how many hours are they really paying you for? you may be getting overworked

    and if the problem is that you don't have enough conversation topics to talk to her, tell her that. be upfront, say you're just boring with a boring life. if she can't have empathy for that, that's her losing a well paid chad willing to give her a good frick

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      oh no therapy is cheap that’s not the problem. I just don’t want to.
      don’t know about the hours, not US it’s EU but I’m apparently a “framework?” (don’t understand) so I can work as much OT as necessary but I don’t have set work times. I have a ton of paid leave though, like 9 weeks.

      i like her I’m just not very talkative. I like doing things with her like going on hikes, travelling to random countries, buying her cute clothes /jewelry she likes. Seeing her happy makes me happy. I don’t need anything else.

      Do you think I could just bribe the therapist?

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    here's another angle.
    she may be falling into a trap where she's bored with her life and she's expecting your relationship to bring her some excitement. or even that seeing you fade away from her life hurts her and she thinks you're gonna leave her or cheat or something.

    get some activity to do together. like board games or watching films. upgrade the sex.

    but also make sure she has hobbies and friends and things to do outside of your relationship. she needs to be alright with the fact that you like her even if you don't expect that much time with her. because it does seem like you do.

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your girlfriend is moronic, break up with her immediately or try to painstakingly make her smarter

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >using sex as a bargain chip
    It's not looking good.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she's denying you sex, she's fricking someone else. That's all there is to it. She can dress it however she wants (you have to go to therapy, etc), but she's fricking someone else and no longer wants to frick you. Show her the door.

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why is Harrison Ford slaying a gorgon?

    Therapy helps other issues, beyond depression. Schizophrenia is an issue for you psychiatrist.

    I don't know how much time you spend at work, nor do I know how much time you spend with her. Obviously, take a step back, and try to think, really think about it. Ask her about it, and report back here, so we may better dispense advice.

  8. 10 months ago
    [adult swim]

    A woman who weaponizes sex to get her man to comply is not a woman of value throw the whole chick away it’s not worth your mental health

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I can’t take the tome off from work.
    You see Anon that's where you're wrong you know? You can take time off work. That's what giving someone else your time is about. It's a mutual trust between you and your employer, you value your personal time in a manageable way that your employer can manage with as well, it's a trade off of unspoken trust and hard-work. If you work somewhere where your time isn't valued maybe you should quit.

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >sex as a weapon
    nope, just dump her now.

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