My girlfriend admitted to me that she was still fucking her fwb while we were starting to date, but before we become an official couple.
I'm deeply hurt by this. She's acting like it's not a big deal and this is perfectly normal for modern dating. What do I do? Am I right to be mad? I believe that she didn't intentionally want to hurt me, but it still really bothers me. Please post your thoughts about this.
>t. proud cuck
I'm not a cuck. As I said, I'm not happy about it
Lol yeah you are. You got cucked homosexual, doesn't matter if you're upset or not. Probably ate some other dudes cum right after they fucked lol
She already cucked you, and by staying you only further solidify your cuck status. get out
You didn't break up immediately, hence you're a cuck
You are the definition of a cuckold
Especially because you didn't instantly kick her out and cut all contact the moment she mentioned that
She doesn’t sound like your gf
Idk if you can take her seriously as a long term relationship. She sounds hot though
How does the sloppy seconds feel?
i'm in a similar boat. my boyfriend was still chatting his ex when we started seeing eachother but stopped soon after we became official.
i think it's really gross and you can do better anon. i am trying to get out of my situation as well but we live together so it's hard. don't move in together if you're not sure. it's hell.
No one cares roast. We talkin men problems here
straight? female? on LULZ?
chatting? idk, i personally dont mind people being friends with each other
if you don't say exclusive, it's not exclusive, simple as
Actually, anon, she's half right. These are the rules of modern dating. Until you have a discussion about being exclusive, both parties should still be seeing other people. Now, the part about having actual sex with another person is still up to interpretation of these modern dating rules. Generally my experience has been that this is frowned upon to say the least.
If you and her have gotten to know each other well enough to become an "official couple," she should know this is something that would have bothered by you. If she were the one, she would either have not hid this information in the first place, or not tried justifying it when you are obviously hurt by it.
I would dump her and keep looking. (You are almost definitely ignoring that advice, so enjoy being hurt some more before it comes to a head) But once you start dating again, you should be seeing multiple people at once, and so should she. I just would advise against sleeping with one girl if you are seeing a different girl that you like.
You're half right, you shouldn't be dating any woman you're not having sex with. You very well set yourself up to pay for dates while she's fucking another guy on the side repeating the very scenario you're trying to get OP to avoid. Other men aren't waiting any longer than they have to, there's no reason for you to unless you're dating exclusively upfront.
>modern dating
Dump her right now, you pathetic excuse of a man
If you have any self respect for yourself you'd leave her. But you probably won't because you're here asking this question
It is normal doesn't mean you shouldn't immediately dump her.
>It is normal doesn't mean you shouldn't immediately dump her.
Indeed, you don't want a normal relationship, you want a good one.
Fucking someone else when she knows you like her and is feeding your emotions is cheating. There's a reason why she just told it to you now, she knew you'd be sad. She's seeing how submissive you are and is testing your boundaries.
>She's acting like it's not a big deal and this is perfectly normal for modern dating.
Yeah it is. LULZ virgins will get mad over it but it's totally normal. I mean what do you expect? If people are dating around looking for a partner they're probably gonna be seeing multiple people at the same time. You think you are gonna get exclusivity from someone just because you went on a couple dates with them and you haven't talked about it? Do you just expect girls to stop seeing any other person they might be interested in because they went on a first date with you? That's not realistic.
Your stupid ass should feel dumb for not doing the same thing. It's extremely beta shit to get hurt over someone you just started dating like a few weeks ago having sex with somebody else. You should have been seeing what else was out there too instead of getting overly attached to the first girl you have any success with.
Pathetic cucked world view. Enjoy your third party cum kisses.
>I believe that she didn't intentionally want to hurt me
Nonsense, she did it to make you feel cucked.
You literally were not exclusive, you cannot cheat on someone who isn't your boyfriend. You're jealous and your feelings are hurt but you'd be a fool to walk away over this. She was honest with you and disclosed what happened when she didn't have to. I think just take time to process it, talk to her about how you feel, but realistically she did nothing wrong. In fact, her doing that might have made her realise how much she likes you as it wasn't with you.
>right after a beautiful day, full of kisses, beautiful words and romantic moments...
>she calls the bull and chokes on his cock
>"perfectly normal, incel, sometimes you'll have to be cute while she's getting cum on her face right after"
Considering they weren't even close enough to be bf/gf there wasn't going to be many sweet words, kisses or romantic moments. Its like you've never dated someone. There's a distance there.
Damn, the standards are low. If you really like someone you're not reaching for another cock. Proud cuck.
if OP felt that strongly on her why didn't he ask her to be his gf earlier? Men need to take the lead, she probably assumed he didn't like her that much and was exploring other options. It would be cucked if the woman sat waiting on this guy to see if he'd choose her.
I can't even. So you admit he was a cuck for not fucking other hoes while dating this slut.
The point we got to. Being seriously engaged in a relationship is the wrong thing to do.
>"OP is to blame for the whoring"
Has to be a joke, this has to be a women.
>exploring other options
>fwb
You're retarded and your cucked argument is falling apart
I refer to
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Perhaps reddit would take more kindly to your advice?
I meant
Imagine having a girlfriend
wonder what it feels like...
It is normal. You weren't exclusive yet.
Your standards have already been violated, you're starting on a bad foundation and will certainly never get over it (you cannot out logic damaged feelings, she would have to admit she was wrong and genuinely convince you she sees the err of her ways when she apologizes). Just end it.
It is what it is, there was no guarantees you two would get together and you are not the only dick in town. You're probably just hurt because you didn't get to fuck other girls, hopefully now you know better than to wait on sex.
You're right to be disgusted and/or upset, but in the wider context, you're getting exactly what you signed up for. Having noncommittal sex is the problem under any circumstances, but you're apparently fine with it in an fwb, not to mention expecting it while dating.