My gf wants to get married, but I am hesitant because of sexual compatibility reasons.

My gf wants to get married, but I am hesitant because of sexual compatibility reasons. I don't feel sexually satisfied in my relationship and there are things I really want in the bedroom that are simply off limits for her. She is a great girlfriend in every other way, but is it over? I personally do not want to spend the rest of my life sexually unsatisfied.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Kat

    That's a deal breaker my friend

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was with a girl for six years who I wasn't really attracted to. I loved her very much and thought she'd be a perfect mother to my kids, but in the end I just sabotaged it because she just didn't do it for me physically or sexually. If you go on long enough with this person you will begin to resent her because of these feelings, and it won't turn out well in the end.

      Damn, it sucks it has to be like this tbh. Honestly I dont even feel like I need anything crazy to be satisfied, but I guess this shit just happens

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Where the fuck did tbh come from

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Kill youreself newhomosexual

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Lurk more.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            why do some of you fags feel so ass devastated by reddit?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Because fuck that place and the people there. It's a tranny moderated circle jerk of the biggest losers and pussies on the planet. If you like it so much, go there and stay there.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >It's a tranny moderated circle jerk of the biggest losers and pussies on the planet.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You can't tell me I'm wrong tho.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous
      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What is it she won't do. If it's something like anal, you're a retard and she deserves way better than your stupid ass.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She wont let me cum inside her. But on top of that we dont really have sex often and she gives me half-assed bjs

          • 3 weeks ago
            Kat

            Is she on bc?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She probably wants to get married before granting you all the sex variety you want. By the way, women get hornier as they age, so I don't see a problem there.

            Go ask her what's her problem with pre-marital sex, it's weird that she wants to get married being asexual when marriage is the stage where sex is most required.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >She probably wants to get married before granting you all the sex variety you want
              I certainly hope thats the case lol

              >Go ask her what's her problem with pre-marital sex, it's weird that she wants to get married being asexual when marriage is the stage where sex is most required.
              Dude I am starting to come to conclusion that she might not understand her own feelings around sex. Which is perfectly fine of course but it leaves me in a difficult position

              Some women just have low sex drives. That's it, that's their biology, until someone comes up with a libido enhancing pill (and sells it for 10,000 a year under patent and everyone will buy it illegally from india) it can't be helped.

              Just listen to this guy [...], better to regret the bad sex than have other, worse regrets

              I mean honestly I dont even plan on having kids so taking that stuff into account isnt applicable to me. I am just afraid that being sexually unsatisfied for years is going to make me resent her. I have a high sex drive it is what it is.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you don't want kids, you're right, things change a little. Sex will be more important to you.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yea unfortunately it is kind of seeming like a bad idea. It really sucks for sure, but I guess sometimes things arent meant to work out. Fuck man I love my gf a lot I really do, but this really seems like an impasse where neither of us are at fault

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you do decide to end things, let her down easy and don’t tell her the full truth of why. It’s unnecessarily hurtful to break up with someone who’s been a good gf to you by telling them they aren’t good enough in bed for you. They’ll carry that blow to their self-confidence for years. Trust me, I dealt with this forever with an ex who carried that baggage from a previous breakup.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Well, the trauma could also inspire her to prioritize sex or at least stop enforcing strict rules about sex, making her a better lover.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                > I am starting to come to conclusion that she might not understand her own feelings around sex
                Try to investigate what her mother figure thinks about sex, maybe she's following advice. Make her feel comfortable with the topic of sex in general. I assume she's very young still, but women definitely have a much higher sex drive than males. Another thing I would recommend is introducing her to sex toys, I once unlocked one gf's sex drive like that, but she would only use it when I was around, never on her own. Don't forget the mother figure thing.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Try to investigate what her mother figure thinks about sex, maybe she's following advice
                I am sure this is actually partially where her anxiety comes from, her mom had her really young and her dad dipped

                >I assume she's very young still
                She is young, but a few years older than me. Im early 20s shes mid-20s but I am also her first sexual partner

                >Another thing I would recommend is introducing her to sex toys
                That sounds really fun Ill keep it in mind!

                If you do decide to end things, let her down easy and don’t tell her the full truth of why. It’s unnecessarily hurtful to break up with someone who’s been a good gf to you by telling them they aren’t good enough in bed for you. They’ll carry that blow to their self-confidence for years. Trust me, I dealt with this forever with an ex who carried that baggage from a previous breakup.

                Well I havent gotten all the way there yet I will try to see if we can reach a better understanding of each other. And yea I totally get what youre saying

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >her mom had her really young and her dad dipped
                yeah she might be afraid of you going away and marriage is the legal way to keep you around, may I suppose she's not secure about her career?

                >She is young, but a few years older than me. Im early 20s shes mid-20s but I am also her first sexual partner
                I had that happen to me, I was the younger partner and she was officially dating an older guy, she felt excited about the sex every day, but she always stopped suddenly feeling guilty, the marriage thing sticks out but I wouldn't discard this also being the case

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >yeah she might be afraid of you going away and marriage is the legal way to keep you around, may I suppose she's not secure about her career?
                Yea that is probably part of it. Not really, she is back at school

                >but she always stopped suddenly feeling guilty
                Hmm thats interesting, I will talk with her and see if maybe thats an issue she hasnt mentioned to me yet

                One of my long time guy friends married a girl who only does missionary, maybe 3 times a month.
                She doesn't even suck his dick. I asked why he married her if the sex is so bad and he said "she's perfect in every other way as a life partner"

                He's happy 99% and loves her a lot. They're currently trying for a baby.
                It's really up to you, can you see your life with her? can you do a shitty sexlife for the rest of your life?

                Yea I am definitely not that type of guy, I wouldnt have even made it to marriage with a girl like that. Good for him of course, but that definitely would not be a model I would emulate.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Unfortunately I think you know what you need to do in that case. It'll suck for you both but it's better than getting married to someone you will be unhappy with.

                I totally get it though, I couldn't have a relationship where there was shit sex for the rest of my life.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Absolutely anon thank you for your advice and time

                As a general rule, every problem of sexual incompatibility a couple has tends to grow larger as the relationship matures, particularly if they get married or start sharing responsibilities. So if you feel like you're not getting any sex now, brace yourself for a completely dead bedroom in a few years.

                The only thing you can do is to communicate your concerns in the most neutral, non-judgmental, pseudo-couple's therapy language possible, framing it as if you were asking her if there is something she needs you to do or know, and once that inevitably fails to bring any changes you should start triggering brief episodes of hysterical bonding where she will attempt to please you (if you don't have the conversation before she will completely misdiagnose the problem and put her effort on unrelated things) and that you can use to change the dynamic of your bedroom to something she could be more responsive to despite her admitted preferences, i.e. stop having terrible beta respectful sex with her. GOOD LUCK!!

                >every problem of sexual incompatibility a couple has tends to grow larger as the relationship matures, particularly if they get married or start sharing responsibilities. So if you feel like you're not getting any sex now, brace yourself for a completely dead bedroom in a few years.
                Didnt even think of it that way but holy shit that would be a nightmare scenario for me I couldnt handle my sex life any worse than it is now

                >The only thing you can do is to communicate your concerns in the most neutral, non-judgmental, pseudo-couple's therapy language possible
                I will do this thank you anon

                >once that inevitably fails to bring any changes you should start triggering brief episodes of hysterical bonding
                What do you mean by this?

                I assume this post is made by a pornbrained coomer who is thinking
                >My otherwise great gf won't let me fuck her face and throw up on my dick like I see in my favorite, totally normal and not extreme porn
                >I'll just never be happy unless my gf is disgusting whore

                I literally dont watch porn and its not coomer to want to have sex with my gf unless youre a Quaker. I dont even want anything crazy, I just want loving vanilla sex with my girlfriend

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Hmm thats interesting, I will talk with her and see if maybe thats an issue she hasnt mentioned to me yet
                Well, consider the fact that cum stays inside for days and she does not want to have yours inside her, maybe to hide the cheating to the "official guy", defintely worth checking out

              • 3 weeks ago
                Kat

                Hogwash

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                unprofessional

              • 3 weeks ago
                Kat

                Sorry, sir!

                *drops to give you 20*

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you don't want kids you better be damn sure she doesn't want them otherwise you need to stop wasting this poor girls limited time and leave. I have no tolerance for guys who do this. I mean seriously you're asking her to get on horrific birth control that destroys her hormones just so that you can nut in her without having babies. That is fucked up. Let her find a guy who won't make her take drugs so he can have fun and who will actually give her a family...

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You are so off-base you have to be trolling me. One, neither of us want kids and we have known that from the start. She was upfront with me about how she didnt want kids when we started dating and I told her I felt the same way. Also, I actually TOLD her she should get off BC and we will just use condoms because it gives her bad issues but she and her mom both want her on birthcontrol. So literally everything you said was wrong.

                People like you are why divorce rates skyrocket and kids grow up with single moms lmfao

                I would actually think the opposite because you know going in whether itll work out or not. Stop moralfagging on LULZ.com its retarded

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                The statistics do not lie. The people who wait for marriage are overwhelmingly happier and have more successful marriages. It's not even close.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Bro you just said right here you were butthurt cuz she wouldn't let you nut in her

                She wont let me cum inside her. But on top of that we dont really have sex often and she gives me half-assed bjs

                Now you're saying you wanna use condoms? Okay then what are you crying about?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Birth control pills often cause women to not feel like having sex. Long term consequences? I agree that a man who does not want children should not waste fertile time of a woman who wants children, and vice versa.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Why do you want no children? Maybe that is the whole problem. Nature makes people enjoy sex only to motivate them to have sex and children and stay together and fight together for a better life. Without children in your future, sex is just a waste of energy, like a video game or porn addiction. In such case, it is best that you suffer frustration with a woman who wants no children than to have great sex life with a woman who wants children. In other words, you are destined for extinction and it is best that you extinct yourself without wasting the fertile time of a woman who knows what sex is for and who is good at it. Best advice: after you have worked and paid taxes till 65 years old, kill yourself and your wife before becoming a burden on society and getting abused in nursing home operated by black felons spawned by black felons.
                Payload:
                For thousands of years, black Africans promoted slavery and cannibalism and ritual human sacrifice ( voodo, eating albinos and enemies) and infanticide and wars. When Muslims and israelites came to give blacks jobs in mines, blacks embraced islamic slavery and supported the enslavement of over 7 million whites by Muslims. israelites castrated enslaved white men at Prague and Verdun, before selling the surviving white men, and white women and children to Muslims. Whites must never forget that blacks and israelites caused massive human suffering on a global scale and slowed the white supremacists in their establishment of the modern technological world.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Lmao
              If she is not fucking you well at her prime, do you think she will at 53? Half assed BJs? Fuck man. Life is hard. No one can survive like that.
              Can’t women just accept that men clearly want this? they will never find a man who doesn’t. Trust me when I say that men have no trouble finding a girl who won’t oblige, though I’ve never had the pleasure of meeting one who enjoyed it, I suppose.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >She probably wants to get married before granting you all the sex variety you want.
              A woman typed this post. There is absolutely no way a man is stupid enough to believe something like that

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You shouldn't even be having sex before marriage imo. But I think that's a fine requirement before marriage. You're being a shithead.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Kat

        What's her issue?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Is she on bc?

          Im honestly not sure because she tells me different things. She tells me that she is so attracted to me and that she loves to have sex, but then we never have it and she tells me shes too anxious. And yea shes actually on two different birth controls.

          As a counter perspective to what’s been said, I was in the exact same position as you OP when dating my now wife. I still am somewhat wanting in our sex life, but am very happy in my marriage. The things I loved about her as a gf that made me think she had wife potential in spite of our sexual incompatibility were only amplified once she became my wife. She’s every bit the mother to our kids I hoped for and more, she’s supported me through some real tough times these last two years especially, and we’re even better friends now then when we were dating.

          Do I miss the kind of sex I had with my alcoholic BPD ex? You betcha. But this is worth the sacrifice imo. I don’t think it would have been worth the risk or time hoping to find someone that gives me all the things my wife gives me PLUS is a demon in the sack. Always a trade off in my experience.

          Hmm thanks for the perspective anon but tbh I am still pretty apprehensive

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Some women just have low sex drives. That's it, that's their biology, until someone comes up with a libido enhancing pill (and sells it for 10,000 a year under patent and everyone will buy it illegally from india) it can't be helped.

            Just listen to this guy

            As a counter perspective to what’s been said, I was in the exact same position as you OP when dating my now wife. I still am somewhat wanting in our sex life, but am very happy in my marriage. The things I loved about her as a gf that made me think she had wife potential in spite of our sexual incompatibility were only amplified once she became my wife. She’s every bit the mother to our kids I hoped for and more, she’s supported me through some real tough times these last two years especially, and we’re even better friends now then when we were dating.

            Do I miss the kind of sex I had with my alcoholic BPD ex? You betcha. But this is worth the sacrifice imo. I don’t think it would have been worth the risk or time hoping to find someone that gives me all the things my wife gives me PLUS is a demon in the sack. Always a trade off in my experience.

            , better to regret the bad sex than have other, worse regrets

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Still pretty apprehensive

            Totally reasonable. Ultimately, don’t get married unless this can become basically a non-issue for you. By the time I proposed it was obvious that I just didn’t want to live life without my wife in it, good sex or not. Don’t do it if that’s not where you’re at.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Thank you anon. Yea I definitely will not get married unless I can be 100% excited about it, if I am still unsure about something I dont think I should do it just yet

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            These fucking retards are telling you to settle and accept misery in an aspect of your life that's pretty important. Then telling you that maybe you'll get more ass after marriage, but do you really wanna live your life on that small glimmer of hope?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Assuming you live in America, the simple answer is to never get married. There is literally nothing you get out of it besides tax breaks.

            Don't get married, marriage does not fix relationship issues.

            >Im honestly not sure because she tells me different things. She tells me that she is so attracted to me and that she loves to have sex

            Listen to her actions not her words. Women will 100% say XYZ but not really mean it. She's on two different kinds of BCs and still wont let you cum inside, she isn't willing to learn sexually and you yourself that you are sexually unsatisfied. Getting married is not going to fix this. What will happen is that you will get married, she will stop having sex with you completely, you will soon start to resent her and a divorce will likely happen.

            Don't get married, marriage does not fix relationship issues.

            >She probably wants to get married before granting you all the sex variety you want
            I certainly hope thats the case lol

            >Go ask her what's her problem with pre-marital sex, it's weird that she wants to get married being asexual when marriage is the stage where sex is most required.
            Dude I am starting to come to conclusion that she might not understand her own feelings around sex. Which is perfectly fine of course but it leaves me in a difficult position

            [...]
            I mean honestly I dont even plan on having kids so taking that stuff into account isnt applicable to me. I am just afraid that being sexually unsatisfied for years is going to make me resent her. I have a high sex drive it is what it is.

            >She probably wants to get married before granting you all the sex variety you want
            >I certainly hope thats the case lol

            This will certainly not happen. Marriage is not a fix for lack of sex.

            This is why whenever I start dating a new girl I try to have sex as soon as possible. I know sex isn't EVERYTHING in a relationship but it's pretty damn important. I'd rather know if we are sexually compatible then wasting weeks or months. She obviously is no compatible and isn't willing to experiment.

            Don't get married, marriage does not fix relationship issues.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            can't believe nobody's suggested telling her to quit BC

            it fucks up women's libidos

            >suppress hormones which signal to the body the thing which is the purpose of sex
            >act surprised when signals for sex also reduce

            modern medicine is retarded

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Shut up, tripfag

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was with a girl for six years who I wasn't really attracted to. I loved her very much and thought she'd be a perfect mother to my kids, but in the end I just sabotaged it because she just didn't do it for me physically or sexually. If you go on long enough with this person you will begin to resent her because of these feelings, and it won't turn out well in the end.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As a counter perspective to what’s been said, I was in the exact same position as you OP when dating my now wife. I still am somewhat wanting in our sex life, but am very happy in my marriage. The things I loved about her as a gf that made me think she had wife potential in spite of our sexual incompatibility were only amplified once she became my wife. She’s every bit the mother to our kids I hoped for and more, she’s supported me through some real tough times these last two years especially, and we’re even better friends now then when we were dating.

    Do I miss the kind of sex I had with my alcoholic BPD ex? You betcha. But this is worth the sacrifice imo. I don’t think it would have been worth the risk or time hoping to find someone that gives me all the things my wife gives me PLUS is a demon in the sack. Always a trade off in my experience.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mmm sex sex

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    One of my long time guy friends married a girl who only does missionary, maybe 3 times a month.
    She doesn't even suck his dick. I asked why he married her if the sex is so bad and he said "she's perfect in every other way as a life partner"

    He's happy 99% and loves her a lot. They're currently trying for a baby.
    It's really up to you, can you see your life with her? can you do a shitty sexlife for the rest of your life?

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As a general rule, every problem of sexual incompatibility a couple has tends to grow larger as the relationship matures, particularly if they get married or start sharing responsibilities. So if you feel like you're not getting any sex now, brace yourself for a completely dead bedroom in a few years.

    The only thing you can do is to communicate your concerns in the most neutral, non-judgmental, pseudo-couple's therapy language possible, framing it as if you were asking her if there is something she needs you to do or know, and once that inevitably fails to bring any changes you should start triggering brief episodes of hysterical bonding where she will attempt to please you (if you don't have the conversation before she will completely misdiagnose the problem and put her effort on unrelated things) and that you can use to change the dynamic of your bedroom to something she could be more responsive to despite her admitted preferences, i.e. stop having terrible beta respectful sex with her. GOOD LUCK!!

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I assume this post is made by a pornbrained coomer who is thinking
    >My otherwise great gf won't let me fuck her face and throw up on my dick like I see in my favorite, totally normal and not extreme porn
    >I'll just never be happy unless my gf is disgusting whore

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Another important thing to consider about the relative importance of sex as you consider marrying someone is that it can be gone like that. My aunt had some medical issue where she basically couldn’t have sex when she hit her mid-40s. She was very vocal when I was getting married about how her husband never even skipped a beat in being there for her despite her apprehensions and guilt about how her condition was affecting his sex life, and that that’s what it means to be married.

    You have to understand that marriage is you agreeing to be with someone for whatever life throws at the two of you. Your wife could get in an accident and be paralyzed from the waist down. And if that happens, you want to be married to someone that you’re still happy to live out the rest of your days being with them and helping them in and out of their wheelchair; not bitching about your marriage is meaningless now because a tragedy fucked with your sex life. Could be your wife’s sex drive plummeting after having kids, or menopause, or one of you gaining weight, or just the general decline of your sex drives and the importance of sex as you age. The point is you want to be married to someone where your with them for far more than sex. Life is just a whole lot bigger than that, and the point of marriage is to have a partner for life; not the bedroom.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes thank you anon that is 1000% something I need to keep in mind too. Even beyond this sex shit I guess I really just need to understand the gravity of marriage in general. I honestly dont feel even anywhere close to mature enough.

      >My gf has never had an orgasm, and doesn't have them from penetrative sex, and we can't figure out how to get her to enjoy sex: The Post

      Get her wet and rub that clit!
      You news some successes so you can feel confident. Then she'll feel sexy and be able to relax more.

      Thanks guys but I already know how to rub and eat pussy. The problem is my gf is a bit of a hypochondriac and is scared of getting a uti or something

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Is your gf JH from /atoga/?
        Go over there and ask your stuff there, probably during more regular hours tomorrow and see how she manages to make her relationship work.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have no idea who that is lol

          You shouldn't even be having sex before marriage imo. But I think that's a fine requirement before marriage. You're being a shithead.

          Not only is this ridiculous its retarded. Who cares about that shit anymore, and if you dont have premarital sex how do you plan on knowing if youre sexually compatible?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            People like you are why divorce rates skyrocket and kids grow up with single moms lmfao

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Uti is mysterious. Been there many times. Try wiping her vagina with benzalkonium chloride wipes before intercourse. The residue may help prevent UTI.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are you posting from 1902?

      Marriage means nothing now. Its a business arrangement.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you feel that way, then marriage is 100% not for you.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Marriage can have any meaning you and your girlfriend ascribe to it. If you want to view it as a lifetime commitment between two people through thick and thin then you have that option. If you want to view it as a business transaction then you have the option to do so as well. Just make sure the other person is on the same page as well.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry bro, but I just can’t do it. I will 110% cheat on wheelchair girl. Sorry, but sex is like one of the few things I can actually enjoy in life. Beyond cruel to take that away from me. And make no mistake, the same applies in reverse and I will surely end myself if I were to lose my cock somehow.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My gf has never had an orgasm, and doesn't have them from penetrative sex, and we can't figure out how to get her to enjoy sex: The Post

    • 3 weeks ago
      Kat

      Get her wet and rub that clit!
      You news some successes so you can feel confident. Then she'll feel sexy and be able to relax more.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Kat

        Well honey you both need a therapist, not LULZ.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I refuse to believe there is a single guy out there who doesn’t eat pussy who bitches about sex. Like those guys who don’t, they know what they’re doing lol.
      OP never said she had never had an orgasm. I guess it is true that he never said she did either. Maybe I took it for granted.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Kat

    You have been given so much support and advice...im not sure what you're still on about. I consider myself very patient but even I'm over your stubborn little boy rant. Good luck with that bsc girl of yours.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    bad sign but at the same time ask yourself if you're together with your absolute perfect mate will you still wanting to be fucking her asshole when you're both 70? you need to be sexually compatible with your girl but maybe what you think are sexual requirements in this case is just your extravagance

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How hot are you? I swear to god if you are even a little overweight you have no idea how much difference it makes.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You can't do it. My parents had a loveless marriage probably because of this. Never saw them kiss ever. Stuck it out for 25 years before splitting. What a waste. It sucks but people have needs.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're not compatible. There's nothing wrong with that. It's a valid reason to want to leave.
    Don't lie to her about your reasons, but be sure to be gentle about it, because that's the kind of shit that would sting like a bitch.
    "I love you, but holy shit, you suck in bed" lol

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how come you and your gf don't want kids, OP?

    also, are you or your gf fat? that could make a difference in your love life.

    i think sex life is important, especially for a childfree couple. me and my gf don't want kids either, but we also agree to make an effort on things like sex life, travelling, social life. if we are missing out on kids we want to fully make the most of other stuff.

    Basically, get in shape, and also have a chat with her and let her know that the sex isnt fulfilling to you. If nothing changes then I would probably let her go.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    good sex is 20% of a happy marriage. bad sex is 80% of an unhappy marriage.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Married people fuck everyone except for each other, so go for it.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    unfortunately that's it. if things in bed aren't just right it will fail from what ive observed among people i know.

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're 20 years old, all you care about is cooming. In a decade or so you'll care less about it,

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sexual dissatisfaction is a big burden for men (and women) and predictably will cause you to be resentful or to cheat with more interesting women. Outside of arranged marriage, a modern woman HAS TO COMPETE for a man's affection, attention and sperm. On the other hand, there are young people saying it is becoming harder for an average white guy to find a wife before 30 years old. I suggest that you TELL HER that you are not sexually satisfied because 1,2,3 and that you are considering: Breakup, open relationship, cheating... If she is unwilling to expand her skills or availability, you know how life will be with her. It will be a traumatic even in her life either way. If you decide to breakup with her, tell her that you would consider mating her and coparenting her children with her, before or after you marry/livewith someone who makes you happy sexually. You probably should not try to live life with her if always will be unhappy and frustrated.
    Payload:

    Whites gave rights to blacks. Whites gave rights to aliens. At common law, illegal aliens had no rights at all apart from treaties with their foreign king. Migrants AAA and ritual human sacrifice ( voodo, eating albinos and enemies) and infanticide and wars. When Muslims and israelites came to give blacks jobs in mines, blacks embraced islamic slavery and supported the enslavement of over 7 million whites by Muslims. israelites castrated enslaved white men at Prague and Verdun, before selling the surviving white men, and white women and children to Muslims. Whites must never forget that blacks and israelites caused massive human suffering on a global scale and slowed the white supremacists in their establishment of the modern technological world.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >tell her that you would consider mating her and coparenting her children with her, before or after you marry/livewith someone who makes you happy sexually.
      lol yeah OP ask your gf if she'd be okay being a cuck

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