My gf told me her first time was getting raped and honestly i dont know how to deal with it
Her friend at the times older boyfriend was driving them both home and dropped the friend off first
After this he raped her in the car
My gf told me her first time was getting raped and honestly i dont know how to deal with it
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None of that happened. She's just a slut, all women are.
Are you trying to say women literally never get raped?
i don't think he has ever even spoken to a woman anon.
Almost never, yeah.
Or do you really think all the young cunts who say they got raped nowadays are serious about it? They just trying to cover their whorish past, stupid.
The girls I asked to kiss before doing it are probably telling people I 'raped them in their car'
This. Seriously OP you're probably the bad person in someone's story
much fewer than those who claim to be raped are actually raped.
I bet in OP's case she had sex with the friend's bf herself because he was older and bigger and already was banging her friend who no doubt talked about how big his dick was or something since that's all what women talk about. all those things are irresistible to the average foid.
she probably just flirted with the dude after he dropped the other girl off, had sex like she wanted to, then "felt dirty" and "gross" or whatever like women do and decided that it was rape.
Yes. I don't belive a real rape has occured in the lest 600 years or so.
>my gf
Fuck off back to /b/
Most girls have been "raped". It makes them feel special and unique and its a good way to excuse the fact that they are weak and have no willpower.
Imagine if guys claimed they were mugged every time someone convinced them to hand over money or go to a party when they didn't want to. Thats basically what women do. Ultimately it was their choice but they were peer pressured into fucking a guy they didn't want to fuck so they claim it was rape rather then admit the fact that they fucked a guy because he was persistent and pressured her.
Its so much easier to just claim you were raped then to take a hard look at yourself and admit that you are weak and easily pressured into doing shit you don't want to do.
That's kind of hot OP. See if she would be open to you roleplaying as her disappointed father giving her corrective rape for the shame of her first time being with a rapist. I guarantee she will cum harder than ever before. Because secretly they all want to be shamed and fucked and called a slut by daddy.
Bonus points if you use a sponge to soak up her tears and then use those tears to lube your cock as you fuck her right in the asshole. Her tears mixing with her feces and blood from her torn anal ring. Hmmm yes yes, a very erotic imagining.
I'm in a similar situation. Shit's difficult.
I've thought about killing my girlfriends rapist before but I don't think I could get away with it and it would just do both me and her more harm than good. It's one of the most fucked feelings ever anon and I sympathise with you. It's not even something I considered before I was in the situation. What rape does to the victims loved one.
you have way too much hate in your heart man. go to therapy please
I started therapy soon after but I couldn't even get the courage to tell my therapist what happened this is the first time I've spoken to anyone about it.
I felt like this but later figured out my (now ex) gf had completely lied about it and was never raped at all.
queIIe surprise
thats fucked up man how did you get over that
Protip if she only "realized after" it was rape, it wasn't rape. neither was the sexy mysterious stranger. Seriously OP, do you think he's that fucking stupid to do something like that after dropping another girl off? He was a scumbag who slept around and she was a piece of shit who banged him. Now you're stuck, trapped, if you call her out on it she has plausible deniability. You'll be a piece of shit. Women like playing mind games, men are basically toys for them. The truth is she loved every second of his big fat cock and you're a loser who she won't tell the truth to.
It wasn't like that.
She just completely made it up to get me to act how she wanted. And near the end of our relationship all the lies she'd been telling me unraveled on themselves. I was an easy target for lies because I was inexperienced and autistic and gullible.
I don't know, I feel kind of numb from it all now. That was her decision to do to me and she has to live with it so whatever. She was also terribly verbally abusive to me and I am still recovering from that.
It was exactly like that and she was wetter with him than you could ever make her OP. I think you need to grow some balls and get some bitches on your dick
LMFAO you're gf fucked chad, and is now pretending it was rape. Now you the beta homosexual bitch is getting sloppy seconds and you want to kill the guy? You're such a pathetic piece of shit. Kill yourself or the whore slut you call a "GF"
You wouldnt actually do it though, ypu probably just feel bad that you popped a stiffy hearing how she got railed by that dude. Chances are hed overpower you and rape your shitpipe too. But maybe thats what you really wanted all along?
Obviously it was her rapists fault but if it wasn't for her best friend neither of them would have been in that situation. I fucking hate the stupidity of girls and the inability of coomers to control their desires.
>going alone with the bf
>felt like he would've raped her so she let him do what he wanted without protest or any sign she was unconsenting
>claim she was raped ~~*in his car*~~
>swallows his cum and he drops her off
>no police report, doesnt tell anyone, fucking nothing happens
women lie about getting raped all the time. she just wants u to think she isn't a whore
she would've just lied about being a virgin or downplayed her past experience. why would a girl think being raped in the past is good rizz?
because it makes men feel bad for them. women love being victims
She said she was scared of telling me because i might leave her
You have a very sad life if you truly believe all women or even most would lie about something like that
she's manipulating u really well.
It would be much safer for her to lie in another way than that
I actually did seriously consider leaving her because she told me it
so u believed she got raped and still wanted to leave her because she got raped?
I said considered
If i wanted to leave her I would have
What would she gain from lying about this? If it wasn't rape she would just lie about it being with a serious boyfriend instead and leave the car sex out
In your "arguments" women are simultaneously extremely stupid and master manipulators
Luckily for you men can be dated too but that's beside the point
>What would she gain from lying about this
Sympathy. Lack of judgement for being promiscuous. She knows how you would react so she's giving you a lie. Where was the police report? Who was the guy? Why wasn't there a rape kit? Why was it not pursued further? because it was a hookup.
>women are simultaneously extremely stupid and master manipulators
essentially. they act on instinct, what feels right to them at the time. they're both neurotic and cunning when they want to be.
>If it wasn't rape she would just lie about it being with a serious boyfriend instead and leave the car sex out
That's dumb. she wouldn't and didn't do that
>Where was the police report? Who was the guy? Why wasn't there a rape kit? Why was it not pursued further?
If any of those things were there you would just say she changed her mind after the fact and wanted it in the moment
is what it all comes down to and your inferiority complex or whatever (the dick size shit, for the record statistically my dick is very likely bigger than that guys was)
no she wouldnt. women are dumb thots. you're just saying she would do this or do that when the idea wouldnt even pop up in her head in the first place because she's a dumb bitch and you're the naive little homosexual falling for the most obvious lies. there was no changing her mind, she loved every second of it. she probably thinks about it while she's with you because you're boring and don't know how to fuck a chick. Nobody ever said it was all women or they never get raped, this one person in this instance is very easily lying and manipulating you because she knows you're a dumb bitch
There you go again with the bisexual cuck fetish shit
Do you also require bodycam footage to prove your gf didnt cheat while she was out buying groceries
Fucking SOME trust is necessary man
honestly yes. I would assume she's cheating whenever I'm not around. all women do it. I'm not bothered by it. No one has morals these days
anon she is so clearly lying to you, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to understand. you're just inexperienced and blind to women's actual nature, you're going to continue on this path for years because all women are queens and they would never do something heinous. in 10 years you'll be married to a burnout prostitute who's pretending she hasn't rode the cock carousel or you'll have an awakening and get some self respect. you can keep being in denial but women are not biblically pure angels, they lie, cheat, control, etc. you dont understand how easy it is, you can click a button, cheat, and never get caught. that's why a lot of people stay single
Im not projecting I know 50 women who cheated on their partners in my area alone, most women are like this, you dont understand how they are when they're alone and you believe the pretty done up clean version of themselves they present to the world. nobodys projecting onto you we're laughing at you for being a retard
>you can click a button, cheat, and never get caught
I could do the exact same thing
yea but u wouldnt do that beta billy. it goes against your programming. she has and enjoyed it. adding to her police reportless story of being so traumatized she couldn't date for years was a smart decision, women don't date "for years" because being single is fun, they want to explore and live it up while they're young until it's time to start settling down
there's no way for her to prove she was raped. i would never believe a woman got raped unless there is a conviction or the rapist says he raped her.
>yeah he raped me : /
>no i didnt file a police report anon
>I know you would judge me so I'm not going to respect you enough to tell you the truth in the first place and you're dumb enough to believe it, even if none of it makes any fucking sense and I haven't given you any details because there are none
She said it just hurt and she was scared of men for years and didnt date because of that
You are assuming im telling you everything and seemingly projecting the way women have treated yourself wrongly onto my situation and also assuming that i am incapable of any thought
As someone who's been falsely accused of rape and had their entire life destroyed by it, I would pay large sums of money to have you strapped to a chair in front of me.
I wouldn't hurt you, but I'd force you to watch my entire story and absolutely break you of that cuckold nonsense.
if you weren't a retard you'd know a rape kit does not actually tell whether or not you were raped, only if there was penetration. Even with a police report it's still not a 100% confirmation, but it's already better than most women. If there was no report, there is a 100% chance she is lying.
But sure, be the gullible retard and deny this, even in the off chance you are one of the lucky gullible retards who is not actually being lied to, know that most other men get shafted when they act like you and you are just one bad GF away from understanding this. Wanna know what's the best part? The women who use this sort of lie are also the BPD ones, which means if it ever happens to you, you are in for much worse.
I hope it DOES happen to him. If he wants to be Mr. White Knight Save a Hoe, he can go ahead and get fucking clapped by the very same #believeallwomen rhetoric he's regurgitating.
I mean she is rich and buys me a lot of stuff, takes me to expensive restaurants all the time and ive probably nutted in her raw about 200 times so far just this year
Im likely the most facially attractive person she has ever been with and my dick is above average
Well you can write it and i will read it
Drop her OF
I've explained it what feels like hundreds of times now, so I'll give you the short version.
I just graduated from trade school and came home. My brother was throwing me a party and invited friends. One of these friends was a girl that had been hitting on me all night. After everyone went to sleep, she snuck into my room and tried to mess around. I started to, but got a bad gut feeling and stopped, telling her I drank too much. She started calling me a homosexual, I had a broken dick, etc insulting me. I kicked her out of my room. Next morning, detectives are knocking on my door saying I raped her. I figure telling the truth is the absolute best way to resolve it, so I push for a rape kit. Rape kit comes back negative, but big fucking surprise: she actually lied to me about her age and I had just confessed everything.
Women are fucking liars and have no qualms in fucking someone up out of petty revenge. I'll tell you firdt hand that if your gf is telling you that she was raped but didn't report it, she's fucking lying to you. She hooked up with the guy and rather than own up to it, she told you a lie so you wouldn't think she was a whore. And you bought it hook, line and sinker.
You were fooling around with a girl at a party your normal fag low iq brother invited
you're mentally retarded and lack reading comprehension. Kill yourself you fucking homosexual
>and I had just confessed everything.
If my interpretation was wrong what does this mean? If you did nothing wrong and told the truth then what did you admit to
You also signed your post at the end instead of just using the name field
> If you did nothing wrong and told the truth then what did you admit to
If you aren't going to bother actually reading my post, I'm not going to bother explaining. Your gf is a lying whore and you're a gullible cuckold. Period.
it is partly his fault for inviting minors to a party with alcohol.
He didn't invite her, some other girls did and she just kind of melded into the shadows. I don't blame my brother at all for what happened.
>It would be much safer for her to lie in another way than that
That's your mind making excuses because you're avoiding a potentially traumatic truth, your brain is adept at navigating around trauma. It doesn't want to accept that it might be reality, so you start looking for reasoning it wouldn't "make sense". It doesn't have to. Women don't think things that deeply or logically, she was horny and wanted cock. If you genuinely believed she was raped and that made you want to leave then it makes you a bad person but you know deep down there's some doubt. That's your gut and it's always right. It's the same reason you were putting words in his mouth
because if he's generalizing every single women it means you don't have to confront women's actual nature, it makes you uncomfortable. It's easier to believe in a comforting lie than expose yourself to reality.
how long have you guys been together and what kinda girl is she
>You have a very sad life if you truly believe all women or even most would lie about something like that
Want to know how I know you have almost no experience with women?
no anon, that's not how women's minds work. literally every woman does this, their exes were all bad, the sex that made them look like a whore was actually rape, she is exploiting you because you're naive and she doesn't respect you because you're not a man
isn't it weird that women always say you need a good personality to get a girlfriend? they always end up dating guys that abuse them
not all women say this some women just want dick and to be left alone after. like men. the big mean bad abusive guy was more exciting than you'll ever be and it gives them an out to garner sympathy after it's over, there's nothing to lose.
he's right, women are not virtuous, you are a naive boy who doesn't understand them and will not understand them for a long time.
>not all women say this
But it's the first piece of advise nowadays that's thrown at men that express difficulty. So many variations of it too, even something like "touch grass", with the implication being that someone has poor socialising skills and hence doesn't leave his house
let me guess, he was never convicted because le heckin' rape culture enables rapists?
Did nobody consider that she could have reported it but left that information out when relaying this information to OP or that different victims have different reactions to being victimized and navigate the trauma, the situation, and their emotions differently?
well, OP tacitly agreed that she didn't file a report. Also, the
>people are complicated fallacy
is not a viable answer here, because it only means she has other issues OP should avoid her for.
How is that a fallacy anon? People aren't drones that follow one set of instructions in any given situation. Now the average rape victim might report the rape but that's just that, the average. That being the average would imply that there's other actions people take in that situation. It's not really an impossible situation. Look at Bill Cosby and how long he was getting away with rape.
you are so fucking dumb it hurts Jesus christ, you're asking to be cucked in the future.
You never explained how that's a fallacy anon. Bill Cosby was raping women for YEARS and it only came to light decades after the fact. Shit, the metoo stuff wasn't that long ago either. It's not a far fetched notion that OPs gf just didn't report it for whatever reasons she had.
Holy fuck youre gay. Literally. All those sluts went up to a motel roomwith a celebrity, they obvious thought they stood to gain from it somehow, either they wanted sex, a role or whatever. Yeah if he used chemicals thats fucked. Thats not anywhere near what we're talking about here tho.
>the metoo stuff wasn't that long ago either
metoo was concrete proof that women will claim any kind of sex to be rape if they stand to gain from it. all metoo foods willingly slept with industry people for roles and professional advancement then claimed metoo "rape" for more publicity.
>My gf told me her first time was getting raped
aka she was voluntarily fucking other people, but needs an excuse to not look like a whore to her cuckold bf, so she got raped
women dont take responsibility for anything, its never their fault. holding an L is categorically inconceivable to them
>oh O pee
>I was scared of men but you changed all of that
jk
homosexual
She is setting you up to be the next villain/narcissist/etc. if she doesn't get what she wants. Women play dangerous games, you need to take steps to protect yourself
Want my honest opinion?
Leave her. Now.
Every girl who ever whined about being "raped" to me ended up being a psychotic bitch who sluts around. They will NEVER stay with you.
The issue isn't the fact she was raped, the issue is she told you this looking for attention instead of just forgetting that it happened and being OK with having a good sexual life with you. She's not OK with that, she has to bring up some bullshit about how SHE'S not responsible for not finding you attractive. Leave this stupid bitch NOW. Mark my words in your fucking brain, dude.
>not finding you attractive.
Where did i say that lol
Also i asked about her first time that was all (we have been in a serious relationship for about a year)
I'm really talking really long-game type shit. The "MUH TRAUMA, MUH RAPE" bullshit will permeate every single thing in your sexual relationship with this girl. It happened with every single girl I've been with who had anything to say about a "muh traumatic sex experience".
The "not finding you attractive" thing is just part and parcel of dating a slut. Could be tomorrow, could be 10 years from now when you're married with kids. You'll get boring, she'll want to get that rape cock again. Simple as.
Your advice is to break up with any partner because they always break up with YOU
Hey Cucky take it ez over there that anon is dropping you some honest to goodness redpills. Manipulation is a core of most womens behavior, unless you find a trad church going girl from a good family or something. Not miss excuse slut hanging out with weed bros and qas just "one of the guys" til one of em got so stoned he figured theres free pussy at play. "Oh but i was actually that other guys gf, so he technically raped me" is complete bullshit. If it was a rape did she have two black eyes?? Did he have claw marks all over his face? Did the bf beat the fuck outta the guy? Nope. She spread them legs
You are a child. Might as well close the tab because you're not capable of taking any real advice
>boyfriend
?rape?
how does ur boyfrend rape u>???
its cap. she wants 2 see if youll cape for her and go beat the shit out of him bro
she cheated on her friend with her boyfriend
shut the fuck up homosexual she didnt report it because it didnt happen. women lie all of the time you dumb moid
Theres a lot of garbage advice in here, OP. Thats a difficult thing to answer:
>i dont know how to deal with it
Thing here is that you don't need to do anything about it. If you GF was really raped, then shes probably still struggling to get past that. Shes opened up to you, so if anything you could just be there for her. Going on about wanting to get revenge or do something about it - well thats like picking at scabs. Shit needs to heal.
If you can't handle it then you need to check out right now. Let her know its too much baggage and you ant handle it in a healthy way. It sucks, but thats a lot for any person to deal with.
>le women are pure angles who dindu nuffin xDD
fuck off Reddit
I said IF, homosexual.
>lrn2read
its entirely possible that they banged and then she regretted it and called it rape.
Not seeing the POV I put forward often enough in here though, and OP might dump an innocent girl for no good reason.
Shut your mouth boy, men are talking
Can't be a man if you never got your dick wet, incel
She says shes over it (it happened like 30 years ago, shes a lot older than me)
Thats a long ways back to be getting upset about things, anon. Should probably just drop it.
Oh yes i will just stop feeling anything about it
I knew this girl in highschool who claimed she was "raped" like 10 times. Raped to her literally just meant she was either slightly pressured into it or regretted it. She accused one guy in the school of rape and everyone took it really seriously but by senior year she had literally said that a dozen people had raped her so no one listened to her anymore.
I used to speak to this bitch and asked her what her body count was and she goes 14. Bare in mind, were both 18 at this point, and I reacted in shock then she says oh but I was ~~*raped*~~. Women lie, manipulate and cheat because they are narcissistic psychos. If its in their nature or they do it because the culture encourages them to, thats debatable, but the fact is women lie about this sort of stuff all the time to get sympathy and excuse their whoriness