>meet beautiful, sweet trans girl. >goes full bpd, gaslights me, loves me immediately

>meet beautiful, sweet trans girl
>goes full bpd, gaslights me, ‘loves me’ immediately
>have to distance myself for both our sakes
every time.

  1. 2 months ago
    luz

    You're heartless

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am not. I really care for them which is why I won’t abuse their fixation to make them stay with me. She deserves better

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        kill yourself and then die

      • 2 months ago
        Cheese-chan

        what the fuck, this shit makes no sense (fucking schizo). People don't want you if they don't like it, and there's no 'deserve' in relationship: if you want to be with the worst scum ever, that's what you deserve; if you want to be with a literal angel, that's what you deserve.

        Schizo.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're doing the right thing. They have no clue how to maintain a healthy relationship. It's not your fault and sometimes it's not entirely theirs, it's often because of childhood neglect and trauma. But feeding them or refusing to set boundaries and follow them only allows them to act worse and get away with it. It's unhealthy for everyone involved.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      kill yourself and then die

      sort yourself out, you can't behave like that in relationships

      • 2 months ago
        luz

        >you're not allowed to love your partner

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >>goes full bpd, gaslights me, ‘loves me’ immediately
          did you miss the
          >>goes full bpd, gaslights me
          part?
          it sounds like this girl was going from one extreme to the other

          • 2 months ago
            luz

            No it doesn't, it sounds like she was really excited and in love and op misinterpreted it gaslighting, hence the quotes around love. But you fucking neurotypicals always want to paint bpds as the bad guy. Fuck you. Rot in hell.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              yeah just leave us neurotypicals alone we're not good enough
              just date other people with BPD, that will show us

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              relax you're literally telling me to rot in hell even though you think i misinterpreted the op. i don't know anything about bpd but lol if you have it no wonder everybody talks shit about people who have it, you're being too extreme over what you acknowledge is a misunderstanding

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              normal people find declarations of “love” after one week to be creepy and terrifying. real love is a deep emotion which takes time and true knowledge of the other person to grow. bpd “love” and love have almost nothing in common with each other.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I don’t care if the gaslighting was actually meant as a loving or caring gesture. Being gaslit feels horrible no matter the intention.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Hi I'm a psycho BPDemon too that hates when people take everything out on us, wanna be friends with me and hate everyone else? <3
              You sound just like me forreal tho.

              • 2 months ago
                luz

                Hilarious...

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not even half way joking.
                I like the way you fling venom at a moments notice at people who cry over and blame everything on bpd. It reminds me of myself. I like you.

              • 2 months ago
                luz

                idk it just seems like ur mocking me
                i'm just too paranoid

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I swear I'm not x)
                ToxinAtomizer#6555 if you wanna talk. Totally cool if you don't!

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    good call OP, don't give in to the bpdemons

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That’s why people should date DPDs, I’m not gonna lovebomb you from the beginning but if you hook me I’ll be yours forever

    • 2 months ago
      Cheese-chan

      that's literally the same thing

      good call OP, don't give in to the bpdemons

      bpdemons are lovely, I wish I had one for myself

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >bpdemons are lovely, I wish I had one for myself
        I don't believe you but here I am.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    people with BPD should legally only be allowed to date other people with BPD, leave normal people alone

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Indeed, normal people simply can’t stand someone with bpd it’s impossible

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    how long should i love someone before i can tell them?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      idk. 6 months earliest, even that is quick i think

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thats what i thought.. i fell in love with someone a few months ago after knowing them for nearly a year and telling them now seems a bit soon. i hope i can wait a few more months i dont want to scare them off

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    imagine being upset because another human being has realistic boundaries

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Seriously it's awful. Or it's AVPD. If you guys would just chill out and be normal you could probably all land bf's and gf's easily.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why would you tell people with mental illnesses that the cure to their ailments is to just chill out? are you always this much of a scumbag or just when you're online?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fine, go to therapy and work on yourself. Develop better habits, learn to love yourself, stop looking at others as nothing but walking validation dispensers. I understand BPD causes awful emotional distress but the only person that can solve that is yourself. And i doubt you want to die alone so it might be worth trying. I care about everyone so this isn't coming from a place of contempt, I just wish people weren't so self-sabotaging.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I care about everyone so this isn't coming from a place of contempt, I just wish people weren't so self-sabotaging.
          nope, you realized you were being a dickhead and now you're excusing what is obviously you making fun of people with mental issues as "tough love" advice. stop it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            See, this is part of the problem. You can't take anything without turning it into an attempt to hurt you. Stop being such a bitch. No one is trying to make fun of you. Your incapacity to hear anything but adoration and acceptance is unhealthy.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >If you [the mentally ill] would just chill out and be normal...
              >No one is trying to make fun of you.
              maybe i was wrong you're right, sorry. i gave you too much credit and assumed you aren't retarded. "never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity" or whatever
              the thing about mental illness is that those who have it aren't cured of it just by chilling out. it actually requires a ton of work to overcome such hurdles.
              glad we got that worked out anon.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I fucking hate this shit, why can't trans girls be normal except for having the exact kinds of mental issues that I find hot while not having any inconveniences (from my POV) whatsoever?

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Because you’re dating a tranny. He has a whole bunch of problems go to therapy stop indulging his problems

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I get a bpd gf?

    • 2 months ago
      charlotte

      Meet one and they'll either latch onto you or despise you, once u get the former just give them some attn and they'll probably be obsessed.
      T. Bpd

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm very intelligent so I can immediately deduce my compatibility with someone after a few hours of speaking with them. I only enter into relationships that I believe are a sure thing after the first date. I fantasize about moving in together and spending every waking moment with each other as soon as I'm sure they're a good one.
    I never break up with them, because I never regret my choices. They break up with me, because they're wrong.

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