>women are rediscovering the concept of basic modesty when in public
It's almost like human nature has never fundamentally changed, and we already figured all this shit out centuries ago, and a lot of the old conservative ideas that people bitch and moan about were adopted for good reason
everything goes in cycles. a woman who can handle herself and thirsty men while dressed like a whore is a bad bitch. so of course others want to emulate her, but they can't bc they aren't bad bitches who know how to confidently keep people in check, so they are now learning and being humbled.
it's because ancient humans are fucking stupid and instead of teaching their kids the actual reasons they started up making nonsense god-says explanations
"men are all horny rapemonster animals, don't show your tits unless you carry a gun" makes perfect sense, but "don't show your tits or jesus will be sad :(" is obviously retarded and nobody is gonna stick to that for long
women are basically never happy. that's the fundamental truth of humanity.
when whoredom isn't common in your society, women want to be whores, when whoredom becomes common women want to appear pure and chaste, when monogamy is the norm, women want polygamy and casual sex, when polygamy is the norm women claim to want monogamy. when societies stop women from entering public spaces due to menstruation they want to be in public spaces while on their period, when society allows them that, they want to be paid by companies and governments to stay home when they're on their period, etc.
basically women are never happy and the scapegoat for all their unhappiness is men, or "patriarchy" if you want a more serious, academic and formal veneer over the scapegoat.
being catcalled in public feels gross and when guys try and rizz me and my gf irl it's embarrassing. i will never understand androphillia and wanting random moid attention they smell like shit
being catcalled in public feels gross and when guys try and rizz me and my gf irl it's embarrassing. i will never understand androphillia and wanting random moid attention they smell like shit
not anon, but i think his point was that you're way more likely to get raped if you are wearing revealing clothes
think of it this way, if some person is carrying around a sledgehammer, and they see two people, one with a helmet and one without, who are they going to hit?
t. rape victim
it's so incredibly rare to get raped off the street that the clothes you wear can basically be ignored. it's gonna be someone you know and the clothes you're wearing aren't gonna be a deterrent. >t. rape victim
rip
Straight male attraction is cheap, cis girls get straight guys hitting on them in public from the age of 11-13 onwards. It gets tiresome after a while. Gay guys don't do this to young boys they see walking down the street. Its a choice straight men make to make girls uncomfortable
idk I'm indifferent, I don't mind it but I'm not yearning for the attention either. I dress pretty conservative mainly bc i'm cold climate and I go outside for more than time it takes to get from house to car
Disagree. I think some women might, but most girls and women.....no. Its gross and uncomfortable. No excuse to harass actual children, and you don't see gay men doing the same to boys and straight men.
I think it's less about enjoying it and more about it being a barometer for your own attractiveness. So you might dislike being harrassed but also might start to worry if nobody's noticing you or hitting on you anymore.
I think the burden of being openly sexualized from a young age is much worse than feeling "insecure about your own attractiveness". There's a reason why women are happiest after 50.
Maybe to a trans woman who transitions later in life, getting to feel attractive and not having the same baggage as being sexualized in her elementary/jr high years, MAYBE she might get something out of getting catcalled for the first year or so. But something tells me it won't last either. Straight men don't have high standards at all. They do feel entitled to women's time and bodies in a way that is not mirrored by LGBT men.
I think they're happy after 50 because they finished seeing their kids grow up and are cruising into retirement fulfilled with everything they have, not because men stopped flirting with them.
Not saying that there are no gay male predators out there. But gay men do not catcall boys the way straight men do towards girls.
I am bisexual but in highschool/early college I was very "lesbian" and took a long time to date men as well. Even now I do prefer women and part of that is the way so many straight men behave towards women and girls.
>LGBT men >gay men
don't really have interest in women
When I say "mirrored by", I mean when looking how gay men treat other men/boys. They still have a male libido but don't feel entitled to catcall or harass random men/boys in public. VS how straight men behave towards random women/girls.
>gay men do not catcall boys
yeah because they don't want to out themselves as both gay and a creep so they go for worse methods >art of that is the way so many straight men behave
yeah it's a good way for men to self select themselves out of my dating pool. not that I'm super desirable being trans but whatever. only ppl I've even considered dating have been friends already
I'm kind of similar I don't want to say anything because I don't want to be a slut but also I want them to go after me and obviously they won't if I don't show any interest at all. it's a fine line
when you approach women irl they act aloof or rude. im not a blackpiller but they are right when they say women only want chad to approach them irl . nowadays you're better off finding a girl online or through school/mutuals
it seems like a lot of girls feel like if you are to nice to random dudes. they just want to rape you and there isn't a lot you can do.
hopefully this isn't the case but it could be.
Yeah if you aren't a chad you are literally just an unattractive stranger. Why are women and girls suppose to find that flattering? Again, its not like straight male attraction is rare or valuable.
And lot of straight guys have a hard time taking "no" for an answer. Not all, not most, but enough that every woman has had at least 1 bad experience with a guy who keeps on insisting after she makes it clear she's not interested.
Yeah I agree, my point is women shouldn't expect men to approach them in real life anymore anyway. Calling men who don't approach cowards or whatever is retarded because they don't reciprocate anyway.
>they are right when they say women only want chad to approach them irl
About 80% of men in their early 40s have reproduced 1 or more times looking at the past couple of decades. Most men are "chads" (i.e. normal).
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/b.htm#numberfathers
Are you 40? I'm talking about modern dating as a Gen Zer, you saying men in their 40s had more success only validates my point.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Are you suggesting zoomer males were environmentally poisoned and won't be reproducing as they age like most everyone else did before them? Also in answer to your question I'm not 40 yet but also not far away from it.
1 week ago
Anonymous
The internet has changed everything. A woman has a million guys in her DMs on every Social Media, on Tinder, Bumble, etc competing to take her out. A lot of women are neurotic/anxious too so they find it a lot easier dealing with that and finding the best one Vs. meeting men IRL.
1 week ago
Anonymous
This is huge, and it's what has killed off the concept of "courting" and other time-expensive dating techniques.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>courting
is this the 1880s
1 week ago
Anonymous
well I'm not hopping into a man's bed on the first date no matter what the other girls are doing
I have had chad coworkers,they literally could grope female coworkers and they will laught it off as playful. Isnt just that they are chad, but also charismatic and thry normalize their behavoir "oh its typical of chad to be that playful".
being charismatic goes a long way with us women
1 week ago
Anonymous
>being borderline psychopathic and violating other peoples boundaries but manipulating the situation by pretending to laugh while you do it, goes a long way with us mentally ill retards
1 week ago
Anonymous
it's called not having autism
1 week ago
Anonymous
>well I'm not hopping into a man's bed on the first date no matter what the other girls are doing
Ur cute, I like u
They are retarded. If you aproach a women she immediatly will be defensive about, it doesnt matter how nice you are, its the sole fact that you are a testosterone machine that could kill them and because talking between strangers is so rare the only logical conclusion for a guy approaching is for a crime.
And you also have the fact that girls always wants you to see them as friends, as equals, if so why i would try to approach them? I dont approach my male coworkers. But noooo they also want to be open to the chance on being approached.
Mtf are simplers because they are honest to what they want. Meanwhile cisfoids want soo many different thinga that you end up confused.
I (girl) feel like this isn't true but also idk maybe I only see one side of it
I think it is partially true, insofar as a sexy guy is obviously more attractive than an ugly guy. Duh. And so a woman is more likely to reciprocate when a sexy guy is flirting then when an ugly guy is flirting. Duh.
This doesn't mean that women reciprocate 100% if a hot guy is flirting. And it doesn't even mean that she rejects an ugly guy 100% of the time. Esp if she is lonely or bad self-esteem. But obviously, a hot guy is MORE likely to be seen as attractive than an ugly guy.
Why this makes women bad I don't know, but take it up with incels.
>Translation: I want to attract the 10% Chad by dressing provocatively but other men I don't like also keep looking
Or she just wants to look good. Like most normal people who aren't straight guys.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>This doesn't mean that women reciprocate 100% if a hot guy is flirting. And it doesn't even mean that she rejects an ugly guy 100% of the time.
Yeah, exactly. Most of the guys getting laid and having girlfrienda aren't some mythical 10/10 "chad." They're mediocre guys who aren't afraid of getting rejected and put themselves out there until they hit it off with someone.
Most people would rank a Michelin 3-star restaurant above some middling local pizza place but at the end of the day most people are just ordering a pizza instead of pursuing fine dining, and most women are going to end up with a mediocre guy who's available and hitting on her.
I have had chad coworkers,they literally could grope female coworkers and they will laught it off as playful. Isnt just that they are chad, but also charismatic and thry normalize their behavoir "oh its typical of chad to be that playful".
1 week ago
Anonymous
lol yeah dude they're just so charismatic. they're just used to getting validation because they're attractive. men are also more reciprocal to women that are attractive. but men don't try and gaslight and make up these silly rationalizations about it. meanwhile i feel as though a lot of women are shallow but try to come up with reasons to explain it. oh, i dont date short guys because they will get insecure in public with me. thats like me saying I don't like fat girls because they can't keep up with me on the street.
1 week ago
Anonymous
women love to be in denial about how they are fine with attractive guys trying to flirt with them, but not fine with ugly guys doing the exact same thing.
even if ugly guys literally replicated the chad behavior word for word and action for action, the women would come up with a reason as to why actually this guy's a creep and is doing things wrong
1 week ago
Anonymous
Tbh men also need to stop being soo thristy, saddly it will never happen as right now you are either super thirsty to show off or become shy and never be noticed.
1 week ago
Anonymous
they tend to stop when the woman hits 30 and then she has a breakdown because nobody wants to put up with her bullshit.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Older women are the happiest and teen girls are incredibly unhappy and getting worse. Almost as if male sexual attention is worthless at best, and oppressive at worst.
1 week ago
Anonymous
You keep thinking that
1 week ago
Anonymous
>lookit this OP ED
No, maybe try actually reading books or talking to people IRL instead of trying to make meaningful conclusions about anyone from 7+ year old op eds by randoms.
Or is that asking too much?
1 week ago
Anonymous
Do mtfs follow the male or female curve?
1 week ago
Anonymous
Unsourced graph
Oh now I'm convinced.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>>read a book
1 week ago
Anonymous
(Most) older women are happy because they had a family already and are getting ready to retire.
It doesn't really have anything to do with male attention or a lack of male attention.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Women with kids are less happy ages 50+ when compared to women who never had kids (This is reversed for men--men are happier with a family but men aren't expected to make the same sacrifices as women)
Male attention sucks all the joy out of girlhood and young womanhood. You can never be yourself. Just an object that they want to objectify, belittle and control.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>Women secretly hate kids
That's actually pretty based if true.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>less happiness means you HATE kids!
Such a 2 dimensional cis male way of "thinking". You have no concept of sacrificing happiness for others out of love. Sad!
1 week ago
Anonymous
>Male attention sucks all the joy out of girlhood and young womanhood. You can never be yourself. Just an object that they want to objectify, belittle and control.
i wish girl attention was sucking the joy out of my life
stop coping
1 week ago
Anonymous
>i wish girl attention was sucking the joy out of my life
Look how you say "girl attention" and not woman attention or female attention. And certainly not "man attention".
For women and girls, the attention starts with grown men easily 3x+ her age when she is still a jr high schooler, if not an early bloomer in elementary. Before she is really sexually or romantically interested at all (if ever). Those men do not care about her, and in fact they often resent her and want to control her. It warps all her interactions with the opposite sex aka half the world, it warps her relationship with her body and her gender. Gay men do not do this to young boys the way straight men do to young girls.
Its not your coomer fantasy but I guess that is the only lens you can view the world with--coomer fantasy.
1 week ago
Anonymous
>Women secretly hate kids
That's actually pretty based if true.
>less happiness means you HATE kids!
Such a 2 dimensional cis male way of "thinking". You have no concept of sacrificing happiness for others out of love. Sad!
Looks like if you break it out by number of children the moms who had 4 kids are equal in happiness to the moms with 0 kids.
Kind of hard to draw any conclusions from that except to say having had kids or not having had them on its own doesn't account for those marginal differences in reported happiness in a consistent way.
The bigger finding is that parents prefer not housing adult children.
1 week ago
Anonymous
4 kids all of whom successfully leave the nest can bring a woman equal happiness to a woman who just opts out of the whole thing.
Point being though--the happiness of older women has nothing to do with "already had a family" and everything to do with getting to live on her own terms and in her own skin. This is something cis men take for granted.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Any young woman can butch dykemode in appearance and avoid male attention if she really wants to. No one had to wait until they're 50 for that.
Also I'd still attribute it to getting ready for retirement with her husband either way before I'd credit male attention or the disappearance of it for that. That theory honestly sounds mentally ill to me.
They are retarded. If you aproach a women she immediatly will be defensive about, it doesnt matter how nice you are, its the sole fact that you are a testosterone machine that could kill them and because talking between strangers is so rare the only logical conclusion for a guy approaching is for a crime.
And you also have the fact that girls always wants you to see them as friends, as equals, if so why i would try to approach them? I dont approach my male coworkers. But noooo they also want to be open to the chance on being approached.
Mtf are simplers because they are honest to what they want. Meanwhile cisfoids want soo many different thinga that you end up confused.
Nearly every single poster in this picture has to be AMAB. Cis women literally do not have the empathy or comprehension to talk like this. I'm a full time tranny who works in a female exclusive environment and have been around women talking uncensored my whole life and not a single one has ever had the introspection to understand why men become incels
>social isolation >untreated mental illness >social expectations that put responsibility onto men to engage with women, combined with social expectations that men leave women alone to avoid harassing them >ugliness >low self esteem >living somewhere without a lot of girls, like a small town >living somewhere with a large gender imbalance, like some big cities >not being in the top 20% of attractiveness, since women share the top 20% males together and leave the bottom 80% to LDAR
1 week ago
Anonymous
>social isolation
so go out >untreated mental illness >[not understanding] social expectations
autism >ugliness
I don't need a chad I just need a guy I can talk to >low self esteem
just talk to women and find out we'll talk back >gender imbalance >gender imbalance x2
it's like 50/50 everywhere >not being top 20%
same as ugliness
none of this is valid
1 week ago
Anonymous
>autism >none of this is valid
autism isnt valid?
kys hon
have fun sucking disgusting dicks
1 week ago
Anonymous
this isn't real autism this is "I never bothered to learn to talk to people" cope
Back then women were slaves essentially so men only had to exist and work to get a wife. Now that it isnt the case anymore it is normal that a LOT of men will fail at mating.
The male suicide right now is pure darwinism in action and its beautiful.
couldn't they just become women?
1 week ago
Anonymous
Are you a tranny or a cisfoid?
1 week ago
Anonymous
trans
Say whatever you want about that post, but it definitely pass
idk just have no patience for incel shit
1 week ago
Anonymous
>trans person has a lower bar than cisfoid
You are making the argument that trans people have more grounded expectations.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Say whatever you want about that post, but it definitely pass
Back then women were slaves essentially so men only had to exist and work to get a wife. Now that it isnt the case anymore it is normal that a LOT of men will fail at mating.
The male suicide right now is pure darwinism in action and its beautiful.
Idek I’m a manmoder/boy moder/repper/effeminate man and I don’t get incels. I literally just interact with people like a normal human being and they are always offering sex to me.
>inb4 chad genetics and super masculine appearance
Meanwhile my previous bf was straight and half of my ex gf’s were closeted lesbians.
>Nearly every single poster in this picture has to be AMAB. Cis women literally do not have the empathy or comprehension to talk like this. I'm a full time tranny who works in a female exclusive environment and have been around women talking uncensored my whole life and not a single one has ever had the introspection to understand why men become incels
99% of them are cis girls. you're just a misogynist
it is actually normal to not wear underwear in public this generation is fucked (no the men shouldn't leer but girls shouldn't wear whatever picrel is either)
i dont think im cis enough to understand dressing slutty but hating being looked at by the main people whose attention that will draw but then still dressing slutty underneith normal clothing
are cis women agp?
She's dressing like that for her bf's eyes, not for the sake of other men on the street on the way between her house and her bf's house. What's so difficult to understand?
“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur.”
>be male incel >no attention from opposite sex entire life
>transition >shit tons of attention from guys >constantly being hit on >combination of genuinely nice guys and creepy dudes trying to get nudes >either way, lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends if I wanted to
dont ever even try to convince me girls dont life life on tutorial mode when it comes to finding partners, ive experienced both. worse, ive experienced it as a tranny. so imagine how much more it is for cis girls
You don’t get it. You’ve probably always been a tranny and definitely didn’t put as much effort into male presentation or put yourself out there before.
I guarantee if you just try a little as a man you drown in attention. Just like women spend tons of effort on hair care, makeup, skincare, fashion, diet, body if you do half that and work out (a little), dress okay (clothes that fit well), and are decent in conversation you will be fine
Once estrogen takes more effect on your brain you will realize that true happiness is so much more than "lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends". The "attention" thing in particular is not a positive.
There is a reason why men status-signal to other men by showing off how much female attention they get. But women never status-signal to other women in that way. And why would they? That male "attention" is more dangerous, stifling and uncomfortable than it is flattering. Men hate the objects of their desire as much as they want them.
Any young woman can butch dykemode in appearance and avoid male attention if she really wants to. No one had to wait until they're 50 for that.
Also I'd still attribute it to getting ready for retirement with her husband either way before I'd credit male attention or the disappearance of it for that. That theory honestly sounds mentally ill to me.
Maybe you are right. But regardless, the cishet male fantasy wherein their oppressive sexual attention gives women's life meaning and women are so sad and forlorn when cishet male attention dries up is just that. A fantasy. Women grow happier in time, girls are more miserable than ever. A few ancient op eds be damned.
It is true that going butchmode as a very young woman (18-22 or so) let me escape a lot of male attention, I even got called "sir" a few times and it closest I came to going trans because it felt so good to be seen as just a human by men instead of as something they can control or project on. I identified as a lesbian though, so rejecting ALL male attention was on the table for me in a way it isn't for straight women who still trying to find whatever decent guys. Eventually though I was forced to become feminine when I entered the workforce, ie wear womens clothes, grow out hair, and put on makeup.
And now, years later, I actually enjoy being feminine too. I never hated femininity or looking cute/pretty, I hated male attention and objectification. I think the same is true for a lot of girls and women who have that "tomboy phase" (or a "theyfab" phase if we are going 2023). Women and girls want to be seen as human beings.
>Once estrogen takes more effect on your brain you will realize that true happiness is so much more than "lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends". The "attention" thing in particular is not a positive.
yeah i dont think i mentioned the topic of "true happiness" but if you want to change the topic from "accessibility of partners" to "true happiness" you can move those goalposts as far as you want, i wont engage
>Women and girls want to be seen as human beings.
<Actually getting attention from the opposite sex is worse than getting no attention at all, in fact when people express that they like me it makes me feel like I'm not even a human being
I am based conservative woman hater but really no one should have to wear anything while swimming, especially at uncrowded lakes. It makes sense for some situations and not for others. Is it logic or hate that drives your ideals?
The first one is mine but the others aren't. Looks like the third one down thought to look up the same relevant pic and didn't see I already posted it.
I think probably there are several different anons you're @ing there. For sure more than one at least.
>women are rediscovering the concept of basic modesty when in public
It's almost like human nature has never fundamentally changed, and we already figured all this shit out centuries ago, and a lot of the old conservative ideas that people bitch and moan about were adopted for good reason
everything goes in cycles. a woman who can handle herself and thirsty men while dressed like a whore is a bad bitch. so of course others want to emulate her, but they can't bc they aren't bad bitches who know how to confidently keep people in check, so they are now learning and being humbled.
it's because ancient humans are fucking stupid and instead of teaching their kids the actual reasons they started up making nonsense god-says explanations
"men are all horny rapemonster animals, don't show your tits unless you carry a gun" makes perfect sense, but "don't show your tits or jesus will be sad :(" is obviously retarded and nobody is gonna stick to that for long
women are basically never happy. that's the fundamental truth of humanity.
when whoredom isn't common in your society, women want to be whores, when whoredom becomes common women want to appear pure and chaste, when monogamy is the norm, women want polygamy and casual sex, when polygamy is the norm women claim to want monogamy. when societies stop women from entering public spaces due to menstruation they want to be in public spaces while on their period, when society allows them that, they want to be paid by companies and governments to stay home when they're on their period, etc.
basically women are never happy and the scapegoat for all their unhappiness is men, or "patriarchy" if you want a more serious, academic and formal veneer over the scapegoat.
>when whoredom isn't common in your society, women want to be whores, when whoredom becomes common women want to appear pure and chaste,
imagine the face of the person who typed this post
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sandnagger
agp
>safety layer
or as everyone else calls it, clothes
I would like to add that I hate ciswomen very much
>Just get a hijab already, fucking cissoid.
stop trying to Islamify us
>I WANT all of the guys on the street looking at me.
based
nothing turns me on more than getting stared at when i'm slutting it up outside
being catcalled in public feels gross and when guys try and rizz me and my gf irl it's embarrassing. i will never understand androphillia and wanting random moid attention they smell like shit
nothing you have ever posted has done good in the world for yourself or others
>pot calls the kettle black
kill urself btw
>they smell like shit
If you were androphilic, they'd smell like heaven
Nta but hrt mace man smell repulsive to me, where it had previously been very nice and only enhanced gorl smelle
It's very individual I guess. I went from "men smell kinda ok" to "holy shit yes give me your sweaty armpit"
women smells like dirty diapers to me. like.. that damp, pungent, baby powder smell.
>t homosexual
>all these seething incels itt
yes girls should be able to go around naked without men trying to rape them
Because not raping people is such a struggle, right? ooooh, so hard, so difficult, respecting people's bodies.
not anon, but i think his point was that you're way more likely to get raped if you are wearing revealing clothes
think of it this way, if some person is carrying around a sledgehammer, and they see two people, one with a helmet and one without, who are they going to hit?
t. rape victim
it's so incredibly rare to get raped off the street that the clothes you wear can basically be ignored. it's gonna be someone you know and the clothes you're wearing aren't gonna be a deterrent.
>t. rape victim
rip
Moids do think that
Yeah all that rape
or cat calling
or briefly turning their head in a woman's direction,
whatever women use to make themselves victims
Straight male attraction is cheap, cis girls get straight guys hitting on them in public from the age of 11-13 onwards. It gets tiresome after a while. Gay guys don't do this to young boys they see walking down the street. Its a choice straight men make to make girls uncomfortable
Women have a love-hate relationship with it.
they will attack us (trans girls) for saying it but every cis girl I've talked about it with has the same thoughts as picrel
idk I'm indifferent, I don't mind it but I'm not yearning for the attention either. I dress pretty conservative mainly bc i'm cold climate and I go outside for more than time it takes to get from house to car
Disagree. I think some women might, but most girls and women.....no. Its gross and uncomfortable. No excuse to harass actual children, and you don't see gay men doing the same to boys and straight men.
I think it's less about enjoying it and more about it being a barometer for your own attractiveness. So you might dislike being harrassed but also might start to worry if nobody's noticing you or hitting on you anymore.
I think the burden of being openly sexualized from a young age is much worse than feeling "insecure about your own attractiveness". There's a reason why women are happiest after 50.
Maybe to a trans woman who transitions later in life, getting to feel attractive and not having the same baggage as being sexualized in her elementary/jr high years, MAYBE she might get something out of getting catcalled for the first year or so. But something tells me it won't last either. Straight men don't have high standards at all. They do feel entitled to women's time and bodies in a way that is not mirrored by LGBT men.
>LGBT men
>gay men
don't really have interest in women
I think they're happy after 50 because they finished seeing their kids grow up and are cruising into retirement fulfilled with everything they have, not because men stopped flirting with them.
the girls most vocal about this kind of thing in school turned out to be lesbians
and mentioning what gay men do to boys...
Not saying that there are no gay male predators out there. But gay men do not catcall boys the way straight men do towards girls.
I am bisexual but in highschool/early college I was very "lesbian" and took a long time to date men as well. Even now I do prefer women and part of that is the way so many straight men behave towards women and girls.
When I say "mirrored by", I mean when looking how gay men treat other men/boys. They still have a male libido but don't feel entitled to catcall or harass random men/boys in public. VS how straight men behave towards random women/girls.
>gay men do not catcall boys
yeah because they don't want to out themselves as both gay and a creep so they go for worse methods
>art of that is the way so many straight men behave
yeah it's a good way for men to self select themselves out of my dating pool. not that I'm super desirable being trans but whatever. only ppl I've even considered dating have been friends already
Crystal Cafe girls were talking just the other day about guys being too timid to approach them nowadays.
I'm kind of similar I don't want to say anything because I don't want to be a slut but also I want them to go after me and obviously they won't if I don't show any interest at all. it's a fine line
I am 98636 lol
Are you a tranny who infiltrated the board or just a bisexual cis woman or something?
Tranny, everyone is a tranny there anyway
when you approach women irl they act aloof or rude. im not a blackpiller but they are right when they say women only want chad to approach them irl . nowadays you're better off finding a girl online or through school/mutuals
it seems like a lot of girls feel like if you are to nice to random dudes. they just want to rape you and there isn't a lot you can do.
hopefully this isn't the case but it could be.
Yeah if you aren't a chad you are literally just an unattractive stranger. Why are women and girls suppose to find that flattering? Again, its not like straight male attraction is rare or valuable.
And lot of straight guys have a hard time taking "no" for an answer. Not all, not most, but enough that every woman has had at least 1 bad experience with a guy who keeps on insisting after she makes it clear she's not interested.
Yeah I agree, my point is women shouldn't expect men to approach them in real life anymore anyway. Calling men who don't approach cowards or whatever is retarded because they don't reciprocate anyway.
>they are right when they say women only want chad to approach them irl
About 80% of men in their early 40s have reproduced 1 or more times looking at the past couple of decades. Most men are "chads" (i.e. normal).
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/b.htm#numberfathers
Are you 40? I'm talking about modern dating as a Gen Zer, you saying men in their 40s had more success only validates my point.
Are you suggesting zoomer males were environmentally poisoned and won't be reproducing as they age like most everyone else did before them? Also in answer to your question I'm not 40 yet but also not far away from it.
The internet has changed everything. A woman has a million guys in her DMs on every Social Media, on Tinder, Bumble, etc competing to take her out. A lot of women are neurotic/anxious too so they find it a lot easier dealing with that and finding the best one Vs. meeting men IRL.
This is huge, and it's what has killed off the concept of "courting" and other time-expensive dating techniques.
>courting
is this the 1880s
well I'm not hopping into a man's bed on the first date no matter what the other girls are doing
being charismatic goes a long way with us women
>being borderline psychopathic and violating other peoples boundaries but manipulating the situation by pretending to laugh while you do it, goes a long way with us mentally ill retards
it's called not having autism
>well I'm not hopping into a man's bed on the first date no matter what the other girls are doing
Ur cute, I like u
I (girl) feel like this isn't true but also idk maybe I only see one side of it
I think it is partially true, insofar as a sexy guy is obviously more attractive than an ugly guy. Duh. And so a woman is more likely to reciprocate when a sexy guy is flirting then when an ugly guy is flirting. Duh.
This doesn't mean that women reciprocate 100% if a hot guy is flirting. And it doesn't even mean that she rejects an ugly guy 100% of the time. Esp if she is lonely or bad self-esteem. But obviously, a hot guy is MORE likely to be seen as attractive than an ugly guy.
Why this makes women bad I don't know, but take it up with incels.
Or she just wants to look good. Like most normal people who aren't straight guys.
>This doesn't mean that women reciprocate 100% if a hot guy is flirting. And it doesn't even mean that she rejects an ugly guy 100% of the time.
Yeah, exactly. Most of the guys getting laid and having girlfrienda aren't some mythical 10/10 "chad." They're mediocre guys who aren't afraid of getting rejected and put themselves out there until they hit it off with someone.
Most people would rank a Michelin 3-star restaurant above some middling local pizza place but at the end of the day most people are just ordering a pizza instead of pursuing fine dining, and most women are going to end up with a mediocre guy who's available and hitting on her.
I have had chad coworkers,they literally could grope female coworkers and they will laught it off as playful. Isnt just that they are chad, but also charismatic and thry normalize their behavoir "oh its typical of chad to be that playful".
lol yeah dude they're just so charismatic. they're just used to getting validation because they're attractive. men are also more reciprocal to women that are attractive. but men don't try and gaslight and make up these silly rationalizations about it. meanwhile i feel as though a lot of women are shallow but try to come up with reasons to explain it. oh, i dont date short guys because they will get insecure in public with me. thats like me saying I don't like fat girls because they can't keep up with me on the street.
women love to be in denial about how they are fine with attractive guys trying to flirt with them, but not fine with ugly guys doing the exact same thing.
even if ugly guys literally replicated the chad behavior word for word and action for action, the women would come up with a reason as to why actually this guy's a creep and is doing things wrong
Tbh men also need to stop being soo thristy, saddly it will never happen as right now you are either super thirsty to show off or become shy and never be noticed.
they tend to stop when the woman hits 30 and then she has a breakdown because nobody wants to put up with her bullshit.
Older women are the happiest and teen girls are incredibly unhappy and getting worse. Almost as if male sexual attention is worthless at best, and oppressive at worst.
You keep thinking that
>lookit this OP ED
No, maybe try actually reading books or talking to people IRL instead of trying to make meaningful conclusions about anyone from 7+ year old op eds by randoms.
Or is that asking too much?
Do mtfs follow the male or female curve?
Unsourced graph
Oh now I'm convinced.
>>read a book
(Most) older women are happy because they had a family already and are getting ready to retire.
It doesn't really have anything to do with male attention or a lack of male attention.
Women with kids are less happy ages 50+ when compared to women who never had kids (This is reversed for men--men are happier with a family but men aren't expected to make the same sacrifices as women)
Male attention sucks all the joy out of girlhood and young womanhood. You can never be yourself. Just an object that they want to objectify, belittle and control.
>Women secretly hate kids
That's actually pretty based if true.
>less happiness means you HATE kids!
Such a 2 dimensional cis male way of "thinking". You have no concept of sacrificing happiness for others out of love. Sad!
>Male attention sucks all the joy out of girlhood and young womanhood. You can never be yourself. Just an object that they want to objectify, belittle and control.
i wish girl attention was sucking the joy out of my life
stop coping
>i wish girl attention was sucking the joy out of my life
Look how you say "girl attention" and not woman attention or female attention. And certainly not "man attention".
For women and girls, the attention starts with grown men easily 3x+ her age when she is still a jr high schooler, if not an early bloomer in elementary. Before she is really sexually or romantically interested at all (if ever). Those men do not care about her, and in fact they often resent her and want to control her. It warps all her interactions with the opposite sex aka half the world, it warps her relationship with her body and her gender. Gay men do not do this to young boys the way straight men do to young girls.
Its not your coomer fantasy but I guess that is the only lens you can view the world with--coomer fantasy.
Looks like if you break it out by number of children the moms who had 4 kids are equal in happiness to the moms with 0 kids.
Kind of hard to draw any conclusions from that except to say having had kids or not having had them on its own doesn't account for those marginal differences in reported happiness in a consistent way.
The bigger finding is that parents prefer not housing adult children.
4 kids all of whom successfully leave the nest can bring a woman equal happiness to a woman who just opts out of the whole thing.
Point being though--the happiness of older women has nothing to do with "already had a family" and everything to do with getting to live on her own terms and in her own skin. This is something cis men take for granted.
Any young woman can butch dykemode in appearance and avoid male attention if she really wants to. No one had to wait until they're 50 for that.
Also I'd still attribute it to getting ready for retirement with her husband either way before I'd credit male attention or the disappearance of it for that. That theory honestly sounds mentally ill to me.
They are retarded. If you aproach a women she immediatly will be defensive about, it doesnt matter how nice you are, its the sole fact that you are a testosterone machine that could kill them and because talking between strangers is so rare the only logical conclusion for a guy approaching is for a crime.
And you also have the fact that girls always wants you to see them as friends, as equals, if so why i would try to approach them? I dont approach my male coworkers. But noooo they also want to be open to the chance on being approached.
Mtf are simplers because they are honest to what they want. Meanwhile cisfoids want soo many different thinga that you end up confused.
im not a misogynist but crystal cafe fem"cels" are the dumbest fucks on this planet. imagine being this detached from reality
Nearly every single poster in this picture has to be AMAB. Cis women literally do not have the empathy or comprehension to talk like this. I'm a full time tranny who works in a female exclusive environment and have been around women talking uncensored my whole life and not a single one has ever had the introspection to understand why men become incels
wait why do men become incels? I feel like I'm supposed to know this
t. amab but a woman
>social isolation
>untreated mental illness
>social expectations that put responsibility onto men to engage with women, combined with social expectations that men leave women alone to avoid harassing them
>ugliness
>low self esteem
>living somewhere without a lot of girls, like a small town
>living somewhere with a large gender imbalance, like some big cities
>not being in the top 20% of attractiveness, since women share the top 20% males together and leave the bottom 80% to LDAR
>social isolation
so go out
>untreated mental illness
>[not understanding] social expectations
autism
>ugliness
I don't need a chad I just need a guy I can talk to
>low self esteem
just talk to women and find out we'll talk back
>gender imbalance
>gender imbalance x2
it's like 50/50 everywhere
>not being top 20%
same as ugliness
none of this is valid
>autism
>none of this is valid
autism isnt valid?
kys hon
have fun sucking disgusting dicks
this isn't real autism this is "I never bothered to learn to talk to people" cope
couldn't they just become women?
Are you a tranny or a cisfoid?
trans
idk just have no patience for incel shit
>trans person has a lower bar than cisfoid
You are making the argument that trans people have more grounded expectations.
Say whatever you want about that post, but it definitely pass
Incel trender hon spotted
Back then women were slaves essentially so men only had to exist and work to get a wife. Now that it isnt the case anymore it is normal that a LOT of men will fail at mating.
The male suicide right now is pure darwinism in action and its beautiful.
That post pass too, but as a dyke
Idek I’m a manmoder/boy moder/repper/effeminate man and I don’t get incels. I literally just interact with people like a normal human being and they are always offering sex to me.
>inb4 chad genetics and super masculine appearance
Meanwhile my previous bf was straight and half of my ex gf’s were closeted lesbians.
>Nearly every single poster in this picture has to be AMAB. Cis women literally do not have the empathy or comprehension to talk like this. I'm a full time tranny who works in a female exclusive environment and have been around women talking uncensored my whole life and not a single one has ever had the introspection to understand why men become incels
99% of them are cis girls. you're just a misogynist
do you think guys wont look at you when you're just wearing normal clothes? lol
Since when is a normal button-up shirt "a safety layer"? That's why I wear normally with jeans, because it's normal and decent clothing...
>normal button-up
>normal
you answered your own question--she but a "normal" shirt on over her more cute/revealing top to avoid harassment
it is actually normal to not wear underwear in public this generation is fucked (no the men shouldn't leer but girls shouldn't wear whatever picrel is either)
it is actually normal to not wear clothes
agree with you though
>women are realizing what modesty is again
Society really does go full circle huh
i dont think im cis enough to understand dressing slutty but hating being looked at by the main people whose attention that will draw but then still dressing slutty underneith normal clothing
are cis women agp?
She's dressing like that for her bf's eyes, not for the sake of other men on the street on the way between her house and her bf's house. What's so difficult to understand?
it looks like she's at a coffee shop in public (which ime are usually very cold and you need layers for unless you have to sit outside)
“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur.”
>Translation: I want to attract the 10% Chad by dressing provocatively but other men I don't like also keep looking
>women:
afraid to walk the streets alone
>also women:
signing petitions to let violent criminals out of jail
clown world kek
>Men
Hate Nazis
>Also men
Are nazis
Clown world kek
You are both wrong and correct
a real conundrum
I mean
Clown world Kek
>I want this thing, so everyone else should want it too
Why do so many retarded LULZ posters express this sentiment
I wear one because it either breezy or I dont wana sunburn my back and shoulders.
Dumb thread
Lol women
Woman are stupid and unclean
Based Islam scholar.
Nah I'm not but I was watching a video about Islamic law when I posted that
>be male incel
>no attention from opposite sex entire life
>transition
>shit tons of attention from guys
>constantly being hit on
>combination of genuinely nice guys and creepy dudes trying to get nudes
>either way, lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends if I wanted to
dont ever even try to convince me girls dont life life on tutorial mode when it comes to finding partners, ive experienced both. worse, ive experienced it as a tranny. so imagine how much more it is for cis girls
correct I just don't understand why the incels don't transition
not all incels are bi or gay
maybe they can learn to like men they're actually pretty based
#
You don’t get it. You’ve probably always been a tranny and definitely didn’t put as much effort into male presentation or put yourself out there before.
I guarantee if you just try a little as a man you drown in attention. Just like women spend tons of effort on hair care, makeup, skincare, fashion, diet, body if you do half that and work out (a little), dress okay (clothes that fit well), and are decent in conversation you will be fine
shut the fuck up normalhomosexual
Once estrogen takes more effect on your brain you will realize that true happiness is so much more than "lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends". The "attention" thing in particular is not a positive.
There is a reason why men status-signal to other men by showing off how much female attention they get. But women never status-signal to other women in that way. And why would they? That male "attention" is more dangerous, stifling and uncomfortable than it is flattering. Men hate the objects of their desire as much as they want them.
Maybe you are right. But regardless, the cishet male fantasy wherein their oppressive sexual attention gives women's life meaning and women are so sad and forlorn when cishet male attention dries up is just that. A fantasy. Women grow happier in time, girls are more miserable than ever. A few ancient op eds be damned.
It is true that going butchmode as a very young woman (18-22 or so) let me escape a lot of male attention, I even got called "sir" a few times and it closest I came to going trans because it felt so good to be seen as just a human by men instead of as something they can control or project on. I identified as a lesbian though, so rejecting ALL male attention was on the table for me in a way it isn't for straight women who still trying to find whatever decent guys. Eventually though I was forced to become feminine when I entered the workforce, ie wear womens clothes, grow out hair, and put on makeup.
And now, years later, I actually enjoy being feminine too. I never hated femininity or looking cute/pretty, I hated male attention and objectification. I think the same is true for a lot of girls and women who have that "tomboy phase" (or a "theyfab" phase if we are going 2023). Women and girls want to be seen as human beings.
>Once estrogen takes more effect on your brain you will realize that true happiness is so much more than "lots of attention, lots of opportunity for boyfriends". The "attention" thing in particular is not a positive.
yeah i dont think i mentioned the topic of "true happiness" but if you want to change the topic from "accessibility of partners" to "true happiness" you can move those goalposts as far as you want, i wont engage
>Women and girls want to be seen as human beings.
<Actually getting attention from the opposite sex is worse than getting no attention at all, in fact when people express that they like me it makes me feel like I'm not even a human being
you are hysterical
and girls want to be seen as human beings.
kek
She'll come groveling back when she hits 40 and the attention dries up.
>Oh I wish those creepy guys would leave me alone.
Have you considered going topless? If you are legally considered male it's legal to walk around with your tits out.
I am based conservative woman hater but really no one should have to wear anything while swimming, especially at uncrowded lakes. It makes sense for some situations and not for others. Is it logic or hate that drives your ideals?
any woman who insults lonely and depressed men deserves her suicide.
>nooooooo stop making fun of women!!!!! aaaaaaaaaaahhh!
no
The first one is mine but the others aren't. Looks like the third one down thought to look up the same relevant pic and didn't see I already posted it.
I think probably there are several different anons you're @ing there. For sure more than one at least.
>literally just reposting other peoples stuff, included a lot of articles by woman aimed at women.
YOUUUUUUUU!
>stop showing women being narcissistic hypocrites