ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Previously on /ATOGA/ -

  1. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    First for qt, Eli and all his bitches.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Third for foxford momma, dinosaurs and all her plants

  2. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is anyone else in a situtationship or were in one previously?

    Me and a girl were getting along really well and then we got fucking stuck in limbo. We hadn't mutually and fully established we liked each other before it was too late. We still talk, I'm just trying to wean myself off of her.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Have you considered just asking her out and seeing if once you get rejected it feels easier since you at least have closure? It worked for me.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Have you considered just asking her out and seeing if once you get rejected it feels easier since you at least have closure? It worked for me.

        She's currently going out with someone. We started speaking after some stupid period of not talking.

        Man fuck I'm still in love with her and she's so uncommunicative. I wish I could just have her as a normal friend for now and wean myself off her.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          You could explain to her you like her and just stop talking to her for the time being.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >You could explain to her you like her and just stop talking to her for the time being.

            Idk if she's been waiting on me this whole time to make a move or something, we keep flirting but my attempts to get us to hang out have failed. She's going with another boy as of current and I'm not sure if she's content on coming back to me right now if ever. She's kept me around for a long time - I wish she would explain why my attempts to make things more serious failed earlier in the year.

            Anyway, I've tried to stop speaking to her twice and it didn't work. Just going to take it very very carefully.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I'm in a sort of similar thing right now. I believe the vagueness is enough to count as a "no".
              Someone who likes you and isn't insecure would not make things vague. Either she doens't like you that much or is insecure, you don't want either of those qualities in a partner

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm such an idiot. Because of how vague she was at the start I didn't pursue her enough the second time around.

                They're going out together but she still flirted with me. Should I accept this as a fun FWB or take her out on dates and win her back?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                there's no winning back, you get with someone when both of you are FUCK YES down for it. Then you spend some more time together, honeymoon phase wears of and you decide whether their flaws are acceptable to you and either stay together or break up. She clearly isn't that much into you, or is undecided or whathever else. Nothing good for sure

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >you get with someone when both of you are FUCK YES down for it.

                We were approaching this stage - then at a party together some girl got drunk and pulled me over for a kiss. So our chances to be together were ruined, I don't think she ever forgave me, my attempts at saving a proper relationship failed.

                I would so love to reverse time and punch the kisser in the jaw and save what I had with my best friend. I'm sooooo dumb.

  3. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    this thread sucks but i keep coming back

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think it sucks (hit or miss more like), but I agree the addiction isn't necessarily the best if it's not a good use of time for you. Why don't we both try take a hiatus/move on? I challenge you who can go the longest without posting

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        how will we keep track of who caves and comes back first?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          the other anons'll have to (unless you post on the DL...)

          State gender
          What are your opinions on sex scenes in media? Are they necessary?

          M, usually they're meh and feel like they're shoehorned in tbh

          i give up
          i don't think i'll ever be able to talk to women or get a gf
          is chemical castration worth it?

          >i don't think i'll ever be able to talk to women or get a gf
          why?
          >is chemical castration worth it?
          no, how will you fap to anime girls?

          >girl initiates with me
          >even if I don't speak for awhile she will try to get my attention
          >we talk a little more and she sends me sexy pictures for some random reason
          >goes all out
          >shows me almost everything
          >established a relationship with her
          >she opens up a lot about herself
          >but started being less talkative lately and can take an hour to respond
          Does she just need some space or something? Maybe she burned herself out and needs alone time... Or is she just losing interest already?

          >can take an hour to respond
          isn't that normal?
          maybe she's more introverted and needs some space, yeah

          [deleted post]

          M here but looking good no homo

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >isn't that normal?
            I guess so... I was just spoiled by how attentive she was at first, I guess. It used to be almost immediately.
            >maybe she's more introverted and needs some space, yeah
            Probably, it makes sense.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >was just spoiled by how attentive she was at first, I guess. It used to be almost immediately.
              well that's sweet, but people have limited energy lol, it's normal to mellow out after the initial excitement wave, and have to attend to the whole "real life" thing

              >why?
              the usual reasons plus old, it's way too late for me and i dont think i can ever be the kind of person women view as anything but "nice company"
              >no, how will you fap to anime girls?
              jacking off makes me feel more sad than happy at this point. like "i'm still doing this shit?"

              >the usual reasons
              such as...?
              >plus old, it's way too late for me
              how? middle age fags still find new wives and I doubt you're that old
              >makes me feel more sad than happy
              well, that's more a matter of perspective. nothing wrong with jacking it to 2D art

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >such as...?
                shyness, no idea how to flirt with women, only good thing going for me in looks is height and it's not that impressive either, virgin, dislike of social situations, etc.
                >how? middle age fags still find new wives and I doubt you're that old
                i'm pretty sure most of those guys aren't starting from zero at their ages
                >well, that's more a matter of perspective. nothing wrong with jacking it to 2D art
                yeah which is why i did it for a long time but it doesn't really do anything for me now. less fun, more a chore with a shitty feeling at the end

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >shyness, no idea how to flirt with women
                tons of people struggle with this, ik it sounds like a platitude but it really is possible to practice, brute force through some of the shyness and get the hang of bantering a bit more in social situations, some girls really don't mind the awkwardness so much. I made strides myself I didn't think I could. doesn't sound like you have any other big problems besides shyness/insecurity, ygmi

                Why are guys like this jfc dress better you look awful

                buy anon some clothes

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >why?
            the usual reasons plus old, it's way too late for me and i dont think i can ever be the kind of person women view as anything but "nice company"
            >no, how will you fap to anime girls?
            jacking off makes me feel more sad than happy at this point. like "i'm still doing this shit?"

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          NTA, but I made you this. Post this when you lose, I'll keep track.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            thank you anon, I'll start the challenge as soon as

            I don't think it sucks (hit or miss more like), but I agree the addiction isn't necessarily the best if it's not a good use of time for you. Why don't we both try take a hiatus/move on? I challenge you who can go the longest without posting

            does

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Into the OC folder it goes

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I've made a lot of shitty OC back in my day, anon. Pic rel is still the best OC ever made ITT.

              absolutely brutal
              [...]
              this is beautiful lol <3 noted
              [...]
              >I'll start the challenge as soon as anon does
              it's on buddy, you ready? 3... 2... 1... get a life!

              thank you anon, I'll start the challenge as soon as [...] does

              Goodbye frens, I'll see you soon.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >the best OC ever made ITT
                Wrong. This is.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Awww, JH posting the things her gf makes for her <3 cute.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Don't insult frozenanon by saying that. She's too good for me.
                Also it is platonic OC.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                You shouldn't put yourself down either, you know she dislikes that

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm amazing, I'm not putting myself down. She's just on a whole other level beyond that.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                she seems like a one-note cat lady who's weirdly wrinkly to me, but okay

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Now you're just being rude. And I didn't see any wrinkles.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Apologize. We all have wrinkles even if that was the case.

                girls, if you know that people get taken more seriously the more masculine they present and act, why do you keep acting girly? you know that people wont respect you right?

                That's why I grew up being violent and swearing so much, it made people listen.

                Girls, thoughts on waking a bf/husband up with a blowjob? Assume you have consent I guess

                With consent, sounds hot and fun.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >the girls here all post perfect-looking toonmes! those shallow whores!
                >also I'll hound them for weeks if I deem their pic less than perfect

  4. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Does anyone else here also find that they are fapping to progressively more degenerate porn or fantasies? Where does it end?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It's a symptom of over indulging on porn.
      It only ends when you slow the fuck down with porn.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      That’s what happens when you watch porn dummy
      It’s supposed to degenerate you

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not porn, but since I found a girl into sick shit I'm exploring new worlds of fap previously untapped for erotic potential. Where do I even find barbed chain? Can't find a farm store that sells it by the foot/yard.

  5. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    State gender
    What are your opinions on sex scenes in media? Are they necessary?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Way too much of them

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Terribly awkward and they almost never portray anything that couldn't be shown through the classic kissing on bed -> camera moves to light -> defocus -> fade to black.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It depends. If it adds to the story, yes. Otherwise it's hornyshit and an excuse for the director/writer to see the lead actress naked

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        They never add to the story

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      Boring at best

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Shit, literally only there for women who like it for some reason

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M. Unnecessary, they annoy me. It's just useless filler.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Only make sense if they're needed for the plot
      If a character is raped a sex scene makes sense

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      They make me really uncomfortable
      90% of sex scenes are unnecessary but almost every movie has one!
      I feel like I can’t watch anything around anyone because it feels awkward and embarrassing to me. The only thing you can watch without guaranteed sex scenes is family/kid movies in which I loathe.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Only if the guy and the girl are at least 9/10s and it makes sense in the genre and plot of the movie.
      (e.g. that one scene in Gone Girl)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I feel like sex scenes are cheap way to keep viewer's attention. If movie has long or more than 1 sex scene then you know scenario sucks.
      Compare movies with sex scenes to movies with none. You'll find more good movies without sex scenes that with.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I NEED A WEAPON

  6. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    You literally look like Chad you’re attention seeking

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Im pretty much a incel

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Go outside.
        When the other incels are telling you to stop being an incel and that you're fine, then you know you have a problem.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Go outside
          and do exactly what? I don't have friends

  7. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    i give up
    i don't think i'll ever be able to talk to women or get a gf
    is chemical castration worth it?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, and stop sabotaging yourself.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >no
        why not? side effects?
        > and stop sabotaging yourself.
        it's already over mate

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      nah, just enjoy your libido and fap before you get old and it fades

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >chemical castration
      If it has no impact on your testosterone and makes you stop thinking about sex. Then yes, it's worth it. Would castrate myself asap if that's the case.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      What an obscene exaggeration.
      Even without libido you'll lament the lack of companionship, which is really the core issue, so why cripple yourself?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        To be fair at least then you could supplement the companionship with guy friends instead of worrying about women because your penis tells you to

  8. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >girl initiates with me
    >even if I don't speak for awhile she will try to get my attention
    >we talk a little more and she sends me sexy pictures for some random reason
    >goes all out
    >shows me almost everything
    >established a relationship with her
    >she opens up a lot about herself
    >but started being less talkative lately and can take an hour to respond
    Does she just need some space or something? Maybe she burned herself out and needs alone time... Or is she just losing interest already?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      How long ago did this all begin?

  9. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    Maybe. Not really a huge fan of the symmetrical face, makes people less unique. All within reason of course

  10. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    Sure, looks cute.

    Does anyone else here also find that they are fapping to progressively more degenerate porn or fantasies? Where does it end?

    Agree with this anon:

    It's a symptom of over indulging on porn.
    It only ends when you slow the fuck down with porn.

    Stop watching porn, or limit it.

  11. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    what to do if your friends girlfriend told you she likes you in the past, and now wants to hang out with you.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      "Only if [friend] comes, I don't feel comfortable just the two of us"

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Give her the dick she craves that your friend obviously isn't giving her, but keep it on the down-low so that he doesn't find out. Make the sneaking-around part of the foreplay. Have her wear something of his, like a hoodie, whist she blows you, and take it off her when you fuck her, symbolically taking her away from him. Finger her while she tells him on the phone that she'll be late tonight because she's got to study/hang out with friends.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      wouldn't cuck my buddy like that, I'd hang out with her with him/in a group setting tho

      what do men feel about marie kondo? do men ever clean/declutter their living space and possessions? do men think they don't need to and it's fine to retain every single thing that ever comes into their hand until they live in a domestic junkyard?

      yeah now and again I just go on a cleaning spree and get rid of all the shit I don't need
      my head is already a cluttered mess, I may as well keep my external environment orderly at least

      Do men ever have trouble fitting into their jeans, or is that just a woman thing?

      sometimes, if they're old/really skinny jeans...

      I want a bf but guys seem only interested in having sex without commitment, is this normal? Or is it because I'm too ugly/boring/not worthwhile?

      think a lot of people encounter this, with a lot of people just wanting casual sex, just be patient and don't put out for a fuckboy

      Guys do you really want to have sex with pretty much every girl (apart from the really ugly or fat ones)?

      no, actually I'm kind of picky and wouldn't want to just hook up with someone I didn't feel a connection with. I've had really hot girls want to casually hookup over the years but I never felt the impetus

  12. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >try to talk to a girl
    >she responds and starts talking to me
    >I vomit all over my shirt and walk away as fast as possible
    It's over

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      not sure if bait but I have a similar condition
      >cant maintain eye contact
      >get anxiety about my eye contact
      >anxiety causes eyes to tear up
      >tearing up makes my eye contact even worse
      its unironically over, not only do women think im a pussy but i also look like a crybaby

  13. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    what do men feel about marie kondo? do men ever clean/declutter their living space and possessions? do men think they don't need to and it's fine to retain every single thing that ever comes into their hand until they live in a domestic junkyard?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I've never heard of that person in my life

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I had hoarder parents so my place is obsessively clean. I can count the number of visible objects in my bedroom on one hand.
      I’m not too familiar with Marie Kondo’s method, but anything that gets people to declutter is positive in my book.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Statistically speaking women are both worse hoarders and have more cluttered living spaces

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I've was a hiking neet for 5 years so no woman's room can make me feel disgust or shock. There was a point where I had black trash bags of garbage touching the ceiling...

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No idea who that is. I'm a former packrat. I prefer clear spaces but I backslide every few weeks. It's a struggle.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        you'd probably benefit from a google search then

        In my experience, women are more likely to come in average levels of clean and messy.
        Men are more likely to be the either "I have a mattress on the floor and a cup" or hoarder tiers of messy.

        i think men are more slovenly. like, they'll keep worn out, dirty, junky old possessions until you physically wrest it out of their hands and throw it away. if men are not hoarders it's only because they never buy stuff to begin with, not because they clean anything or sort their possessions out.

        do men do spring cleaning or downsizing or anything like that? iv'e never met one who does but maybe all the men i know are just slobs.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >do men do spring cleaning or downsizing or anything like that? iv'e never met one who does but maybe all the men i know are just slobs.
          My boyfriend does because I cried one time and told him his house is so disorganized it makes me uncomfortable. We do it together since then.
          The powers of autism.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >do men do spring cleaning or downsizing or anything like that? iv'e never met one who does but maybe all the men i know are just slobs.
          My boyfriend does. He's usually the one to initiate chore days or closet clean outs.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >i think men are more slovenly. like, they'll keep worn out, dirty, junky old possessions until you physically wrest it out of their hands and throw it away.
          men appreciate dependability and reliability in the things they own.
          we're not like women who toss a perfectly good pair of shoes because she noticed them in a picture she took last spring and uggggggh i'll die if people notice me wearing them again

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Dude, half of my bf's and dad's clothes had holes in them.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              they had soul, you mean
              besides weren't women the ones buying pre-ripped jeans

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >they had soul,
                No, I mean they had socks with holes. I literally bought my bf 14 pairs of socks and 14 pairs of boxers for masochist, and spent an afternoon hemming pants and mending shirts. Had to force him to buy himself a new pair of autism shoes because his had a hole in them.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            nice strawman you illiterate retard. i said "worn out, junky, dirty, broken" things

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >i think men are more slovenly. like, they'll keep worn out, dirty, junky old possessions until you physically wrest it out of their hands and throw it away. if men are not hoarders it's only because they never buy stuff to begin with, not because they clean anything or sort their possessions out.
          It's only a small hole, those jeans are still the most comfortable I own.
          Same for the shirt, it's my favorite so I wear it a lot so it gets worn out.
          And don't fucking touch my boots, they're the perfect shoes and I will wear them when I'm 90 and in hospice.
          Yes, I did mention a hole popped up right under my toe, but that's not an excuse to throw them out, I'll just buy new soles and throw them in there, that should keep them going for a few more months.

          But seriously, I think most guys care about comfort and reliability than appearance so a shirt with a small hole that already cemented itself as "a good shirt' 3 years ago is staying in circulation until it's nothing but a bunch of threads.
          Also buying cloths is a terrible hassle for most men so we avoid it as much as possible.
          I wonder if it's just a Pavlovian reaction to being dragged by our mothers to buy cloths when we were little kids and it swung between being mind-numbingly boring to embarrassing.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Why are guys like this jfc dress better you look awful

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Hey, that's just when I'm dressed casually without plans, when I have plans I dress nice!
              Granted, my "nice" cloths are just the newest ones in my closet, but still.
              It's either a fresh shirt or wearing something buttoned up which feels a bit much for anything less than someone's wedding.
              WHICH JUST SO HAPPENS TO BE A GOOD SEGUE TO MY QUESTION.

              gender
              How do you dress for a date? how would you like your date to dress?
              Assuming it's a date in a setting that is mostly sitting but isn't outrageously fancy, like a restaurant coffee or a bar.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                F
                >How do you dress for a date? how would you like your date to dress?
                Honestly I just try to wear things I feel comfortable in. My favourite pair of jeans, my favourite sweater, a cute pair of boots or sneakers. I've also rocked the "14 year old at church" outfit a lot. A flowy dress, tights, sneakers and a jacket.

                I like when my boyfriend wears chinos and shirts, especially if he wears colorful stuff. I think he looks really adorable in that.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >mostly sitting but isn't outrageously fancy, like a restaurant coffee or a bar
                That calls for "nice shirt with tasteful amount of cleavage"

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                how much cleavage is a tasteful amount? anyone can answer

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                0%

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                It should be low enough that I can see your boobies start curving away from each other at the bottom

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Enough to insert a credit card.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                F. I like when my bf wears a patterned button up shirt. He generally has plaids, stripes, checks, and a couple of weird patterns for fun. He wears jeans and slacks. He has in blue denim, dark wash denim, black denim, grey denim, tan slacks, tan corduroys, grey slacks, black slacks. When we're just at home I like it when he wears his tight black t-shirts and either his boxer briefs or joggers.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              this. wearing clothes with holes in them is just trashy. either fix it or buy another of the same from the same company if you like it that much
              men really dont know how to take care of themselves. it makes me feel like my bf is just a toddler i have to take care of

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      In my experience, women are more likely to come in average levels of clean and messy.
      Men are more likely to be the either "I have a mattress on the floor and a cup" or hoarder tiers of messy.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        In my experience all women college age and younger have eyeliner and makeup stains allover the bathroom and piles of dirty clothes strewn in the bedroom, dirty dishes piling the sink.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          The women I lived with were pretty clean to be honest, my roommate called me messy because I left my water bottle on the table.
          Men are pretty much the same as you described in terms of dirt. My ex roommate would shave his balls on the bathroom mat.

  14. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    Doesn’t seem too bad. I might tease you for being unable to stop winking at me, though.

  15. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Do men ever have trouble fitting into their jeans, or is that just a woman thing?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yes it's called getting fat

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Just a fat woman thing
      My waist size is 27 inches

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      its a disgusting slob thing
      put down the fork

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have, but only after I gained literally 70 pounds when I was depressed

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yes I've tried jeans that somehow didn't fit and this was when I was skinny. I guess my general
      penis area is too long despite me having a short penis.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Men's jeans are baggier so they can gain/lose a bit more without noticing it. When you've got a pair of skinny jeans you have a smaller range you can fluctuate in.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have skinny jeans and my calves are very tight down there.

  16. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I want a bf but guys seem only interested in having sex without commitment, is this normal? Or is it because I'm too ugly/boring/not worthwhile?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      probably because you're a tranny and therefore are unable to start a family

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I am not transgender, am afab

        >I want a bf but guys seem only interested in having sex without commitment, is this normal?
        men are only adapting to the environment
        most women only want sex without commitment, so men only want sex without commitment because pursuing relationships is pointless

        there are still men who want relationships though.

        Huh really? I thought most women want commitment?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Huh really? I thought most women want commitment?
          not anymore lol
          much like with "women want sweet romantic sex while men just want to reenact porn", that's a lie that's been debunked. women love fucking around, probably more than men because it's so easy for them to

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >I thought most women want commitment?
          They want tempora commitment. A "relationship " they can dispose of like a condom after 3 to 6monthsand feel like they're not aslut because they're not having casual sex.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I want tempura commitment. We eat tempura every week, no exceptions.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Be my tempura bf please

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Sorry I'm a girl so best I can do is be your tempura bff. I'll meet you at the ramen house 4pm Friday.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            They want a relationship with a Chad only, but can't get him to commit.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It’s a common mindset for men, but I wouldn’t say it’s the majority. The woman can fight against this by presenting herself as a full person that offers more than just sex.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >I want a bf but guys seem only interested in having sex without commitment, is this normal?
      men are only adapting to the environment
      most women only want sex without commitment, so men only want sex without commitment because pursuing relationships is pointless

      there are still men who want relationships though.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >too ugly
      It’s not this one. If you were ugly, you wouldn’t get the guys who only want sex either. So you can be confident in your looks, at least.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        It could be, ugly girls and fat girls still get used for sex.
        >t. have used both

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      sell me your worn socks, i will use them to make a deep analysis into your character and determine the answer

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Guys and girls aren't all that different in that regard.
      Just like girls, the only guy that will show you he's the committed, loving kind is someone that wants you to know that, whereas guys who want to fuck and only fuck will shoot their shots in all directions hoping to catch someone.
      So it FEELS like man-sluts are much more common than honest, committed guys but that's only the sluts (of either gender) are far less shy about broadcasting it in all opportunities.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      either because guys that you want only see you as meat or because guys that want you are too boring/ugly or a trait you don't like

  17. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    What do people mean when they say "go outside"?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not just literally walk out the door, but meet new people, try new things, etc.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      They mean hang out with your friends.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don't have

        Not just literally walk out the door, but meet new people, try new things, etc.

        Break the cycle of ignorance, have an experience outside your obviously narrow lifestyle. Be social

        how?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous
          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Been thinking lately that its really over, thanks for confirming

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              You're welcome.
              If it makes you feel better, it's over for 90% of men too. Even some Chads have started dating ugly girls and fat girls.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >it's over for 90% of men too
                false, pretty much every normie has a gf or had one

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not these days lol

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Break the cycle of ignorance, have an experience outside your obviously narrow lifestyle. Be social

  18. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, do you like blowjobs?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      They're fun. I like getting my bf off, it makes me feel good to be in control of his pleasure.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yup, I do a lot. I like the start and the finish, and while the middle is a bit boring, it never lasts long.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        so its preferable to be up and done as fast as possible?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I mean, it depends. I’m just an anxious person so if I’m alone with my thoughts and a dick in my mouth, I start worrying I’m not doing well. If he gave more feedback it would be nice. It’s something that varies between couples. I know a girl who likes just sucking her bf off while he totally ignores her and watches a 30-minute tv program.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >I know a girl who likes just sucking her bf off while he totally ignores her and watches a 30-minute tv program.
            h-hot

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >it never lasts long.
        humblebrag moment

  19. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I have never been asked out by a girl since middle school, and get 0 matches on dating apps.

    Does this makes me an incel?

    Am I that ugly?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You look gay, fix that

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Not an argument, gay men are surrounded by women and female friends all the time

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Okay now I can see your face better
          You look like a serial killer

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >You look like a serial killer
            Ha, if that was true women would actually like me. Since I see drug-dealers and low-life thugs with girlfriends all the time

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I hope you're not flipping off the camera in your tinder bio

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Go to /soc/ homosexual
          Jfc this thread is getting flooded with retards

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      you don't seem ugly but I feel like you're physically the type of guy to attract either goth girls or anime/kpop fans whether they're fat or not (probably with daddy issues also) If you're not into these girls then I guess you should get a better haircut (shorter hair + shade) and maybe good facial hair

  20. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    There is a girl know from high school and we've met up a few times
    Last time we briefly cuddled for a short time and we text quite regularly
    Idk if I should have the "what are we?" talk because I fear that might scare her
    And the other side I think I'd like to have sex with her (although I wouldn't mind if she rejected, she is pretty chill)

  21. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Guys do you really want to have sex with pretty much every girl (apart from the really ugly or fat ones)?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I mean, it would be nice. And maybe not sex specifically, but I frequently think “damn, I want to kiss her” or “I want to hold her waist” or “HOLY FUCK THOSE TITS” depending on what jumps out to me.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Depending on the guy, but I'll risk it and say "no".
      For me it's one thing to be attracted to someone, that is, to have someone's sexual traits arouse a physiological response from me, and it's another thing entirely to actually want to go out of my way to start something with a girl.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No I mostly just vaguely want to feel her up but that’s it

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No. But I'm severely mentally ill.
      I can't can't shake someone's hand unless I've known them for a couple weeks.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Isn't it a cool benefit of this covid bullshit that we have the perfect excuse to avoid physical contact?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I think it's less "want to have sex with" and more "most girls are more than capable of turning a guy on"

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm on nofap and I eat less currently
      I was commuting by train and Ive stared at every female ass there was

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Guy here. I would never have sex with a girl

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I filter every woman I see into would bang/might bang/won’t bang within seconds of seeing them. That’s not to say it’s a permanent category, since more exposure to them has a big influence on their placement. Just because they’re in “would bang” doesn’t mean I will do everything I can to fuck them, but recognize their attractiveness

  22. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Damn it, are some of us just not meant to have a lover/girlfriend?
    I’m

    [deleted post]

    ,

    [deleted post]

    and

    [deleted post]

    I seriously want to give up on dating and trying to get a girlfriend,
    The problem is I know giving up and avoiding women won’t get rid of my struggle.

  23. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it weird to ask a girl why she is in love with you? And like what made her interested in you in the first place?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It's a bit of an insecure question.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yes but it can easily sound like just fishing for compliments

  24. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I've been so busy for the last while, the last time I spoke to this girl was a month ago and it was to explain why I was busy. She told me she was "busy" too but idk if she was just being nice.

    Is it ever a good idea to just ask a girl out after a period of not speaking?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, just go for it m8

      Yay we can get matching tempura keychains those are so nice.

      I want to eat it

      anyone else spend weeks/months/years simping for a girl in an online game only to find out they're a guy? does this make me gay or is it his fault?

      think that's your fault buddy

      F
      They make me really uncomfortable
      90% of sex scenes are unnecessary but almost every movie has one!
      I feel like I can’t watch anything around anyone because it feels awkward and embarrassing to me. The only thing you can watch without guaranteed sex scenes is family/kid movies in which I loathe.

      >when you're watching a movie with your mom and the sex scene comes on

      Lowkey im the only one with problems ITT

      what are your problems?
      idk some of us are pretty fucked in the head

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >"It's been ages like, but did you at all still want to do anything? It's been a hectic past year".

        Is this a cool text to throw to a girl I've not seen since late Feb.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        My bf’s mom once put on Oruchubon Ebichu for us all to watch together and I was the most mortified I’ve ever been. It’s not actual human sex scene but it was probably the same feeling.

  25. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Yay we can get matching tempura keychains those are so nice.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Do people actually have cutesy keychains like this?

      Either gender, do you have anything other than keys?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don't have one, but I've always fantasized about getting matching keychains with an SO or best friend or something. One day..

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        F, I just have a keychain that I got from preordering from Gamestop one time.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I have some cutesy keychains and stuff, also got one of my waifu

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        M
        I had an 8-ball keychain for a while but it feel off.
        Saved my ass once too because one time I dropped my keys right in the opening in the entrance to the elevator and the only thing just big enough not to fall through the gap was that 8-ball.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I looked up tempura plush toys and found this friend. I've seen it before in sumikko gurashi stuff but I had no idea it was a shrimp tempura tail! Apparently its name is Ebifurai No Shippo and it's the leftover bit of tail after someone ate the curvy part of the shrimp.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Wtf I love you now. The bow is so cute, I will die for this.

  26. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    anyone else spend weeks/months/years simping for a girl in an online game only to find out they're a guy? does this make me gay or is it his fault?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No. It’s your fault, you should assume everyone online is male until conclusively proven otherwise.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        so i guess there are no girls in this thread then?

        I've never sipped for anyone. Unless you count bullying as a form of simping lol
        Yes you are gay

        bullying a girl or getting bullied by a girl? one is kind of simping

        It doesn't make you gay but it is kind of sad.
        Basically you see what looks to be a girl who might share your interests and maybe personality (since she's playing the same vidya games as you) and then you build up a persona for her in your mind.
        It's a symptom of being romantically and socially inexperienced.

        damn bro you really had to expose me like that in front of the whole thread

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >bullying a girl or getting bullied by a girl?
          I've never been bullied by anyone, I'm just not prone to bullying it does nothing to me.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >damn bro you really had to expose me like that in front of the whole thread
          You're in good company, I've been there before.
          I mean, I was a lot younger, but still.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I've never sipped for anyone. Unless you count bullying as a form of simping lol
      Yes you are gay

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It doesn't make you gay but it is kind of sad.
      Basically you see what looks to be a girl who might share your interests and maybe personality (since she's playing the same vidya games as you) and then you build up a persona for her in your mind.
      It's a symptom of being romantically and socially inexperienced.

  27. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Lowkey im the only one with problems ITT

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I highkey want all zoomers dead

  28. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Ugh. I am already feeling so clingy. It's only been a couple hours since she checked in on me, and already I want to hit her up and ask what she is doing.

    Girls, when does attentiveness and interest turn into clingyness and obsession?jwts4

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Girls, when does attentiveness and interest turn into clingyness and obsession?
      When you go unmatched and annoy me.

  29. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    women what color is your dildo?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don't have one, I have a boyfriend for that.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        what color is his dick then?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        what color is your boyfriend's dildo then?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have at least one of every color.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Lavender, pink, and pearlescent white.

  30. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women

    How would you react if I pulled up to our date in this beast?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Respect

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        thank you

        >evangelion but worse
        cringe

        ok fine what if it was an anime that you did like?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >ok fine what if it was an anime that you did like?
          this would be nice

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >evangelion but worse
      cringe

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >that wrap
      >that car
      this has poverty written all over it

  31. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Can't sleep so just popped in to remind the thread that I hate women and they have consistently been the main source of my misery since early childhood and the only decent woman ever to exist was my mother

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >the only decent woman ever to exist was my mother
      No, she's bad too. She brought you into this world, which directly led to us having to read your shitty posts.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        absolutely brutal

        NTA, but I made you this. Post this when you lose, I'll keep track.

        this is beautiful lol <3 noted

        thank you anon, I'll start the challenge as soon as [...] does

        >I'll start the challenge as soon as anon does
        it's on buddy, you ready? 3... 2... 1... get a life!

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >le anti-natalism feel sorry for self homosexualry
        Nihilistic "men" are women in spirit, die since you hate life so much. If you had it as bad as you pretend, you would have no fear of death left, you dishonest garden gnome.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I was just saying you suck, anon.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Go leave

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          holy based

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >the only decent woman ever to exist was my mother
      Consider yourself lucky, anon.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I did past tense up until she died for no good reason.
        Should have been one of my evil bitch sisters instead.

  32. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls do you find the Scandinavian accent attractive or unattractive?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I like it. It's charming exotic to my burger ears, but still understandable.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Post example.

      how much cleavage is a tasteful amount? anyone can answer

      None.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah. Even if it was not there looks are generally great so it would not matter to me

  33. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    What was the last thing you masturbated to?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Lewds my bf and I took together a couple years ago.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nothing in particular. My own reflection technically, I guess.

        real narcissism hours

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I have a full wall mirror in my room, I can't help but end up looking at myself.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            And who put the mirror there?

            Am I narcissistic for masturbating to my boyfriend now?

            I understood that you were in the pic too. Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.
              Not really anon? Maybe for you, but I've never heard of this from people who weren't pathologically low confidence. Like, the "can't look at myself in the mirror" kind.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >pathologically low confidence.
                How fix?
                Everybody seems to have fixed it by accident. How the fuck do you fix it!?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                They got bf/gf and realized they aren't as sad as they thought they were

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Somebody else demonstrated they had value
                Yeah, I figured that was the only way.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                And another confirmation [...]
                Figures.

                Yup
                You can only fix it when someone else sees value in you
                So for loser virgin men it's over

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I wish that this wasn't true though.
                If I take shrooms or something, will it like, reset my brain or something to where I don't know I'm a loser?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Exercise and a very kind bf is what worked for me to be honest.

                I'm just saying that "I can't help but look in a mirror that I placed for the specific purpose of getting off to myself" is a lame excuse.
                Which angles don't you like?

                [...]
                Huh, I guess none of my friends have confidence then.

                I wouldn't be surprised, but if you think about how many people take nudes or film themselves having sex, or fuck in front of mirrors, it's really not a rarity to be turned on by seeing yourself in a sexual context. I'd say it's rarer to be turned off by seeing yourself in a sexual context.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.
              this is wrong

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Seeing as most people are objectively unattractive (At least physically) I doubt that.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Most people think they are attractive now, I get that impression. They just pretend they feel ugly when asked

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Am I narcissistic for masturbating to my boyfriend now?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Nothing in particular. My own reflection technically, I guess.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      https://www.giantessworld.net/viewstory.php?sid=9425

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Breasts, butt, entrapment, and some handplay.
        Not sure if based

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Adria Rae cheating on her boyfriend with her roommate

  34. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Right /atoga/, I need you for a quick sanity check.
    Girls who fetishize helping men "discover" their "true sexual identity" are a thing, right?
    Like it's always a very particular type of girl who's super neurotic with a thin coating of trying to present herself as helpful and peppy and thinks she's having an intellectual conversation while being obscenely superficial.
    I seem to attract this type of girl like a moths to a flame but it's so specific I don't know if I'm just crazy.

    Like this one girl who was blatantly trying to get me to do something with her, I wasn't attracted to her at all (both in terms of personality and appearance) but we worked together so I humored her.
    >Hanging around me while I'm doing something
    >Tries bringing up a sex related topic, I don't remember the exact details but it was obviously in a testing-the-water sort of way
    >I'm visibly uncomfortable and don't engage her
    Not just because I think talking about sex in a public setting like teenagers is awkward, but because it's uncomfortable to talk about it with people who are barely acquaintances to me.
    >"Are you gay?"
    >ISeeWhereThisIsGoing.jpg
    >"..no, why?"
    >"Because you're always all like "eww sex with girls""
    >"I just don't like talking about it, I think it's awkward"
    >"OMG ARE YOU ACE?"
    And she had fucking stars in her eyes, like she found her calling in life.
    >"what"
    >"Asexual!"
    >"No, I'm straight, I just think talking about these stuff is juvenile and uncomfortable"
    >"You might be Asexual"
    >"I'm not"
    And she brought up the possibility of me being Asexual like, 3 times after that.
    And she wasn't the only one, she's just the most annoying experience I had.
    I had to muster all my strength to not blow up in her face and say "I'M NOT GAY OR ASEXUAL JUST BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO FUCK YOU"
    I'M NOT GAY OR ASEXUAL OR WHATEVER THE FUCK JUST BECAUSE I DON'T FUCK ANY GIRL THAT PRESENTS HERSELF TO ME LIKE SOME KIND OF BABOON
    FUCK
    THANK YOU FOR READING MY BLOG, YOU CAN'T UNSUBSCRIBE.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      A lot of girls believe that men are desperate for sex so they can take it personally when he isn't interested in her. So if you're straight and rejecting her, then she must be hideous. But if you're gay or asexual, that means it's not her fault, AND if she "converts you" then that means that she must just be THAT ATTRACTIVE that it supersedes your sexuality.
      Basically she's drowning in her own ego.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'd be willing to play into a conversion fantasy, if she converted me from "ace" to "good boy."

  35. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    women if there was a small, skinny guy who was relentlessly eye-raping you on the train would you confront him? or would it not bother you?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      What’s the point of confronting them? That seems like his fantasy

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I meant tell him to stop/fuck off

        Define "relentlessly eye-raping".

        an uninterrupted gaze in the direction of your chest/behind

        No. If I'm very uncomfortable I'd move.

        what if he kept staring after you moved

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >an uninterrupted gaze in the direction of your chest/behind
          As long as he was being even remotely subtle about it, I'd just ignore him.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Define "relentlessly eye-raping".

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Rough enough that you'd need eye drops for a while but not so rough you'd need to buy a permanent eye-patch.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          That's actually the direction I thought about first. Is that bad?

          And who put the mirror there?

          [...]
          I understood that you were in the pic too. Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.

          >And who put the mirror there?
          Me, duh.
          >Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.
          I only get turned off by myself at certain angles.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I'm just saying that "I can't help but look in a mirror that I placed for the specific purpose of getting off to myself" is a lame excuse.
            Which angles don't you like?

            >Seeing yourself naked is a turnoff for normal people.
            Not really anon? Maybe for you, but I've never heard of this from people who weren't pathologically low confidence. Like, the "can't look at myself in the mirror" kind.

            Huh, I guess none of my friends have confidence then.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I put it there to check myself out before I go out, it wasn't sexually motivated.
              >Which angles don't you like?
              I hate seeing myself on all fours, obvs. Very unflattering. Also I avoid mastubating while sitting off the side of my bed because then I can see everything.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                What toys even work on all fours? Clearly I'm not experienced enough to understand the logistics of this

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I meant in general, and especially during sex. But to answer your question, any dildo with a suction cup base can be wall-mounted and used while on all fours. Attaching those to a floor is way more convenient and usable, though.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                huh, I wouldn't be comfortable having sex in a room with a big mirror as a man. would you judge him if he wanted to throw a sheet over it or turn it around?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                It's attached to the wall as panes. No covering it up or taking it down. I don't mind fucking in another room, though.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >she doesn't stare into herself, trying to see the secrets of the universe inside

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm an expert of my bits. I spent my entire youth figuring them out very thoroughly. I don't need to do that anymore.

                Damn, what kind of discount Disney princess are you?
                >Be a handsome prince of a magical kingdom
                >Riding on my horse away from the castle because my father wants me to marry all these very attractive women which I don't want
                >I want to share my life, wealth and power with my true love
                >spot a girl near the lake
                >breathtaking beauty, is she a princess?
                >Oh man I hope she's got a curse I can lift with a kiss
                >we talk for hours
                >Hold hands as music builds up in the background
                >she start singing
                >All of a sudden a wave of translucent plankton looking things emerge from the water
                >begin climbing up on both of us
                >"JESUS CHRIST STOP SINGING AND GET THESE SEA MONKEY LOOKING FUCKERS OFF ME"
                >She says "Actually they're water fleas uwu" as they start crawling up my nostrils
                >"w-why are you doing this"
                >she gets real close and whispers "I'm helping them make babies"
                >she kisses me
                >as our lips make contact I can feel a swarm of the things reverse-vomit their way down my throat
                >mfw

                I saved TWO from a colony crash and they've managed to repopulate their beaker. It's amazing.
                ALSO, they actually only want to eat bacteria, so they'd be doing the prince a favor until they got to the latter half of his alimentary canal and ruined the flora there. I would pay any price to see that animated in Disney's style, though.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >water fleas survive disaster and fall in love
                Sounds more like a Pixar movie tbqh

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I was really moved. I'm so pathetically baby-crazed that seeing little baby Daphnia magna thriving because of me makes me genuinely happy.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Satisfy those mommy instincts at any cost, I guess

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                No. I should bury them deep down for my own sanity.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >baby-crazed
                Hot

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Why though?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Even the most anti-natalistic person has a drive to reproduce

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                How am I anti-natalistic?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                No I was saying that even people who don't want babies still have the urge to breed
                That innate desire to fuck and reproduce is hot to see in women because i have the same urge to reproduce

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No. If I'm very uncomfortable I'd move.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Give him a death glare and turn my body, or try to move behind someone else.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I meant tell him to stop/fuck off
      [...]
      an uninterrupted gaze in the direction of your chest/behind
      [...]
      what if he kept staring after you moved

      It would bother me but telling him to stop would just escalate the situation. He's not going to actually stop.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        How can you be so sure? Male or female, it's intimidating to be confronted by someone larger than you. Plus the embarrassment of being creep-shamed in a confined, public setting.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >it's intimidating to be confronted by someone larger than you
          It's unlikely that he's smaller than me. Maybe the same size at most. I also don't understand this whole male thing of "if I can take him in a fight then I'm willing to get aggressive". I don't WANT to get into a fight. I don't even want him to yell at me! A man of the same size as me is still likely stronger than me, and he's going to view me as lesser anyway for being a woman. I've met some crazed people on public transport and the streets, I don't want to risk them going nuts. Nuts people don't give a fuck if they're in a public setting. Haven't you seen videos of people getting into fights on the bus or train?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            So you'd just let some manlet creepo undress you with his eyes because he MIGHT not passively stop immediately after being told? Men are able to perform risk assessment as well and often don't want to get hurt over a disagreement. Do women have no sense of justice?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I prioritize safety over justice.

  36. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I love myself when I can't get past the dissonance between being ashamed of myself/life and thus embarrassed to share it with anyone, but I personally still enjoy it so. So for an easy LULZ example, I like anime, I'm not a crazy weeb or anything, but I do watch it sometimes. Or building models. But while I enjoy it, I would be be too ashamed/embarrassed to tell anybody that.

    It's like everything I like, I think is fucking retarded but I like it anyway, thus I'm objectively a fucking retard in my own view of things.

    Should I just give up and try and become a normie, and learn about sports, and pretend like I don't think crypto is a pyramid scheme and talk about day trading to fit in with the rest of the guys around me? Or am I supposed to eventually be comfortable with my retarded social outcast shit?

  37. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >all these diamond chains, this bitch thought I had my shirt off (pluto)
    What does this mean? It makes no sense.

  38. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls. What have you done today that made you feel cute?
    Anything counts because you're cute by default.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I sang to my water fleas at work to give them a romantic atmosphere to make babies in.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Damn, what kind of discount Disney princess are you?
        >Be a handsome prince of a magical kingdom
        >Riding on my horse away from the castle because my father wants me to marry all these very attractive women which I don't want
        >I want to share my life, wealth and power with my true love
        >spot a girl near the lake
        >breathtaking beauty, is she a princess?
        >Oh man I hope she's got a curse I can lift with a kiss
        >we talk for hours
        >Hold hands as music builds up in the background
        >she start singing
        >All of a sudden a wave of translucent plankton looking things emerge from the water
        >begin climbing up on both of us
        >"JESUS CHRIST STOP SINGING AND GET THESE SEA MONKEY LOOKING FUCKERS OFF ME"
        >She says "Actually they're water fleas uwu" as they start crawling up my nostrils
        >"w-why are you doing this"
        >she gets real close and whispers "I'm helping them make babies"
        >she kisses me
        >as our lips make contact I can feel a swarm of the things reverse-vomit their way down my throat
        >mfw

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      ANON I DIDN'T REPLY TO YOUR POST TODAY!! I'm sorry.
      I made dinner for my grandma who told me I'm an amazing cook and any man would be lucky to marry me.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        That's okay!
        Good job. cooking for grandparents is based and family-pilled.
        Also cute fox.

        Sorry, but I feel sexy today, not cute.

        That's okay! They aren't mutually exclusive, but they are both good anyway.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry, but I feel sexy today, not cute.

  39. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    If you send a girl a dick pic but she don't send anything back but is still talking to you, its basically over right? Otherwise she would be sexually interested in you.

  40. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it possible that my ex spent 6 years with me without ever loving me at all? Cause that's what it felt like.

  41. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >compliment girl on her appearance in her snapchat story
    >she replies with "ew"
    is it over? at least she didnt delete me so thats a start, right?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Was your "compliment" telling her how much you want to drink her sweat?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        nta but do girls actually want to hear that because if so thats a game changer

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          yea girls love to hear that shit

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      What did you say exactly?

  42. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    girls, if you know that people get taken more seriously the more masculine they present and act, why do you keep acting girly? you know that people wont respect you right?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Because it makes me feel happy and comfortable. I try to find a good balance between more masculine and feminine qualities depending on the environment I'm in and the person I'm interacting with. I act more feminine with my boyfriend and less with a patient.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        why do girly girls often give masculine girls a hard time? don't know if you can answer to this but I've noticed that femme girls are some of the biggest gender police

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          They know that men prize tomboys above all else.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          It's pretty common for people to want others to behave according to their personal tastes and police their behaviour. Personally I grew up very tomboy-ish and none of the women in my life ever made me feel bad about it. The only person who commented negatively about it was my grandmother on my mom's side.
          Beside that, maybe the girls who were dating my male friends, but I don't think it was gender policing kek

          I feel like if a girl is aggressive enough, the guy is the one who gets fucked. Just struck me as odd phrasing

          I use the phrases pretty interchangeably, don't really care much.

  43. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, thoughts on waking a bf/husband up with a blowjob? Assume you have consent I guess

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I do sometimes, but he needs to pee first thing in the morning and doesn't enjoy it as much. He prefers peeing, washing up and then coming back to fuck.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        sounds like an old man

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          All women here are 40+

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I'm barely 30+.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Tbh, any woman over 18 is old to me.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Fuck you.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                You wish, hag

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I bet you're not even that young.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                you should give up on him and look for someone who actually appreciates your age, hag-chan

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I hate you all.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                What eighteen year old is going to be any good at training a man in obedience?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                According to a femanon from a few threads ago, girls begin maturing years before boys do so a female 18 year old would be qualified to teach a male 21-22 year old

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          He's 32, he's pretty old. He still fucks me a couple times a day and looks better than pretty much any guy I've ever met so I can't complain.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >looks better than pretty much any guy I've ever met so I can't complain.
            I bet you live in a shithole where everyone dresses like an autist

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              No, quite the opposite if anything. People are pretty slim, everyone dresses well. I'm usually one of the worst dressed at home and one of the best dressed everywhere else I go.
              He's got a handsome face, full head of hair, right amount of muscle, great frame with naturally wide shoulders, 6'3".

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >He still fucks me a couple times a day
            Is that how you think of it? You're the one getting fucked?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I guess? He puts his dick in me, sounds like he's the one fucking me.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I feel like if a girl is aggressive enough, the guy is the one who gets fucked. Just struck me as odd phrasing

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Oh that's another good point. My bf has a hard time cumming when he has to pee.

        sounds like an old man

        Doesn't everyone need to pee once they wake up? You might not be hydrated enough, anon.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'd be too scared of him getting confused during waking up and thrashing around. We start morning sex slow with gentle groping first. I generally don't initiate it though since he has such a hard time sleeping that he needs every minute he can get. I don't like to wake him up if I don't have to.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Seems like he'd be asleep for half the ride, so it's kind of a waste

  44. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Going to the gym later today. I've seen this cute girl giving me looks the past couple of days. What should I say and how should I approach her without it seeming creepy?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      "Why do you keep looking at me please stop"

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Wave and say good afternoon

        > you're doing that exercise wrong. let me show you the optimal way to do that.

        serious responses only

        i wouldn't even ask if she didn't seem like she was interested in talking to me as well. she smiled at me the other day and we spoke briefly yesterday.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I'm being serious when I recommend saying good afternoon. You didn't mention that you spoke already, that's a super important detail

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Should I just approach her or what

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              How did your previous conversation go? What did you talk about? Who initiated?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                She told me iwas a creepy disgusting perv and threatened to call security.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                That's just flirting
                Slap her ass when you say good afternoon

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Wave and say good afternoon

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      > you're doing that exercise wrong. let me show you the optimal way to do that.

  45. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone else taking Zoloft?

    [deleted post]

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I did when I was 10, hated it, stopped

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Jfc who prescribed ssris to ten year olds?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Typical american doctors.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Doctor Schlomo Goldberg
          Start them on zoloft and Adderall at age 6

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          My dad had a dark sense of humor and I really looked up to him so I would re-tell other kids jokes he would say, next thing I know I was meeting with school psychologists and was referred to a psychiatrist

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I am, seems to be working for me.

  46. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    To women
    How alpha was I in this moment?

    >babysitting a 3 year old boy for money
    >I put on Pinocchio to distract him for a while
    >he goes to the kitchen
    >he screams in excitement and runs to the living room
    >grabs my hand, drags me into the kitchen
    >there's a cricket there
    >"Look, look! It's Jimney Cwicket!"
    >I walk over to the cricket and deliberately step on it
    >boy cries hysterically for the next 40 minutes until he finally gets drowsy and falls asleep

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      This happened to me in elementary school. Some kids and I found a bumblebee that couldn't fly so we called over a recess teacher to help. She looked at the bee and wordlessly stomped it. We all screamed.

  47. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    If women don't want me to stare at them they shouldn't go outside. I have every legal right to stare at you .

  48. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    women, did you know that in order to be as attractive to women as a guy with a sixpack, a guy without a sixpack needs to earn on average 266 thousand dollars per year more than the sixpack guy?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      How would I know something you just pulled out of your ass?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I made it up, yes. But to deny it's true is delusional.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I guess everyone but you is delusional. That's weird.

  49. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'm dating a very religious and she seems very shy around men in general.

    Is it cringe/a turn off for her to do the whole consent thing for innocent touches and whatnot while on dates with her? Such as, 'Is it ok if I hold your hand while we walk back?' 'Is it ok if I put my arm wound you?' Stuff like that. I don't want to make her uncomfortable by surprising her

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It seems very sweet and considerate.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Just do it.

      If she complains, stop doing it.

      If she likes it, keep doing it.

      Some women dont speak up if they dont like something so you have to read their body language. If she looks uncomfortable just stop.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw religioncel

  50. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >Too autistic for normies
    >Too normie for autists
    Anyone else experience this hell?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, I'm just dating a massive autist and look good next to him.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Saved your frog.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        wtf I hate blonde girls now

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          All girls love Apu anyway.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Except for JH. Because Apu pics has white, anime or asian girls in them. She's clearly jealous.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              [deleted post]

              Fuck your frogs. I hate them because his face is so stompable.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No such thing as too normie for autists, unless you mean that you don't like autists. In which case you're being too picky apparently.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm too normal for normies and too autistic for autists

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      lol yeah that sounds like me

  51. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    rate my app idea

    its called simper
    like tinder but for simps and simpettes, you swipe and match with people based on income, there will be a premium membership that lets you specify the desired type of simp and income level that shows up for you.
    what do you guys think?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like the sugar baby sites already out there

  52. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >Can't ask my friends or family what's wrong with me because it's too pathetic and needy
    >Even if I did, they'd just say 'nothing' and that I need to put myself out there more
    I just need somebody who knows me to tell me what the damned problem is.

  53. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How can I tell if this girl wants to ghost me or was showing interest? If I suggest it would be nice to meet up, shouldn't she reply "yeah lets do xyz" or something?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, you have to do everything because that's what women are taught to expect.
      Better decide on a date idea soon or she'll ghost you.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Better decide on a date idea soon or she'll ghost you.

        We last spoke a month ago lmao. I'm willing to just drop it but is there ever a worth in trying again? We've not actually seen each other in months

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Nah you've gotta say it like "I'm gonna do xyz this weekend. Want to join me?"

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I played around and twice indirectly invited her out.

        Does inviting her to a party count? I said she should come but she didn't seem keen. I wish I had the chance to do a coffee date type thing.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Better decide on a date idea soon or she'll ghost you.

      We last spoke a month ago lmao. I'm willing to just drop it but is there ever a worth in trying again? We've not actually seen each other in months

      I think there's something worth in trying again. If you try again, there's a percent chance that nothing will happen, and a percent chance that something will happen. If you don't try, your chance is 0%
      I do find it a little weird that you didn't follow up with a date idea when she didn't give you one. Did she say anything when you said it'd be nice to meet up, or did she ghost you after that question? If she's real autistic, she might not have understood the subtext of, "I'm asking you to suggest plans." She might have thought it was a broader, maybe even rhetorical question. Like "It'd be nice to eventually meet up. We should talk about it more later." instead of "I'd be nice to meet up soon"

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        This is a girl who kissed me at a party at college. I didn't contact her until weeks later because I had a family emergency to take care of.

        I got talking to her, but maybe after a month our conversation faded out. In the time we didn't speak her birthday also came and passed.

        I sent her a text to try and continue talking, she ghosted it, and then I sent her the "hey im sorry I was busy, u wanna meet up"? She replied to say she was "also busy" and I said again about wanting to meet up but she then says "don't worry i was busy too!!"

        I left it at that because it seemed like she was just being nice. And in the past she didn't seem to suggest herself about doing stuff together when I indirectly said about seeing each other if that makes sense.

        Anyway I should probably shoot my shot but at the same time will I lose self respect and look like an idiot? lmao

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Oh this is a much different situation. Did the conversation go anywhere at all or did she just respond that she was busy and the conversation ended? You did miss out on asking if she had an idea of when she won't be busy. Usually I recommend ending these things on, "I'm generally available [in the evening, etc] on [these days of the week] so if you end up getting some time in your schedule, let me know!" and then leave the ball in her court indefinitely.
          At the end of the day, if she keeps saying "I'm busy" she's either blowing you off or she has such a packed schedule that she'd have no time for you as a girlfriend anyway.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Did the conversation go anywhere at all or did she just respond that she was busy and the conversation ended?

            Last message was a "I was [busy] to dw!!!!". No response to wanting to meet up.

            I don't know. She barely uses her social media, replying to a message like minutes later. I should've left it more in her court but surely she would've made a move herself? I said twice it'd be nice to meet up, surely a "yeah it'd be fun" would be something.

            As you can tell I'm bitter I couldn't make moves with her sooner lol, ah well.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              It does sound like she's dodging but you also gave her an out of plausible deniability without giving her a specific request. Now she can always say that she was confused and didn't understand what you meant. You were indirect and expected something you didn't explicitly ask for, so now you're in the position you're in where you are unsure where she stands.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I totally get you. There's a chance we could meet up on a night out again as we're within the same social circle. We'll see.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm wishing you the best!

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Okay wait lmao, after a month of the not speaking phase should I send her a text? I can totally drop it if it's too late but what do u think from what I said?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think you should, yeah

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >didn't contact her for a month
                >conversation faded out after a month
                >i missed her birthday

                >we haven't since spoken in a month

                I met her in Feb - I sound like a massive insecure wreck but with allll that in mind should I still shoot the shot? lmfao

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Again, your options are:
                >you try and something happens or nothing happens
                or
                >you don't try and nothing happens
                If you had some compatibility in person, it's possible that it just fizzles over text. If you post a screenshot of your convo we might be able to tell more clearly if you got rejected

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >If you post a screenshot of your convo we might be able to tell more clearly if you got rejected

                It was through snap, it looked like this:

                *after she left me on read*
                >Did just want to say these have been a hectic past few months. It would be nice to meet up if you were ever up for it".

                >"(smile emoji) Hey I wasn't ignoring you! I was busy myself" (or something like that)

                >"It's all good I was the one who was super busy, but again it would be sweet to meet up though".

                >"I was too dw!!!!"

                I've accidentally let 4 weeks now slip by since then. She lives on the other side of my city so I guess I'm bored of text and the distance. She previously left me on delivered and then left on read for over a week. So I didn't want to look like a total idiot, I was again hoping maybe she'd express interest but this just looks like she's being nice.

                Overthinking the fuck outta this but iunno, what do you think?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                How the heck are you this dense? She doesn't want to meet up and is being polite.

  54. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    do irl love potions exist? if not then whats the closest thing

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Vodka

  55. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I know I'm not hideous, but am I too gay and retarded looking? egirls constantly reject me, I've had 2 matches on tinder, and was rated 2.5/10 on photofeeler. starting to think I have the opposite of body dysphoria and that I'm an actual, literal subhuman.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Don't worry anon, I thought I was average too and then a lot of people called me ugly, like I mean people on the street when out of their way to call me ugly, even Catholics in a church called me ugly and laughed at me and my ugliness.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        you serious? you think i'm ugly? fair do's, but man it hurts.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          No, in the pic you posted you look attractive, though idk how much is thanks to the toon filter. But my point was that you may think you look okay but everything is warped.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You look fine to me

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        thanks. i assume you're a feller though.

        I don't think you're ugly, I think your face proportions look a little off.
        Can you grow a beard? Maybe get a less fluffy haircut?
        Also stop taking selfies from this angle, makes the lower half of your face look wider.

        >Can you grow a beard? Maybe get a less fluffy haircut?
        i feel clean-shaven and that haircut are the best combo for my horse face, but i guess i could give it a go. that being said, i doubt there's any point

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >i assume you're a feller though
          You assume wrong, learn to take a compliment haha

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            No, in the pic you posted you look attractive, though idk how much is thanks to the toon filter. But my point was that you may think you look okay but everything is warped.

            You're not ugly anon, I just think you have to refine yourself a little. I feel like a stubble would help with giving more definition to the lower part of your face, and shorter hair with a side part maybe could help.

            thanks a lot, but do you reckon i could get a 3/10 gf if i keep trying? photofeeler giving me a 2.5/10 has broken me

            [...]
            [...]
            Hah, I'm this anon, I actually just realized you look almost identical to a guy I went to school with.
            Can confirm you'll look 10x better with a different haircut and a beard. Also glasses if you need them, but I'm very partial because guys with glasses are CUTE.

            >I actually just realized you look almost identical to a guy I went to school with.
            I hope that i'm not him...

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I got a rating of 9.3/10 on photofeeler and I've never ever
              Bring good looking doesn't help, don't worry

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          You're not ugly anon, I just think you have to refine yourself a little. I feel like a stubble would help with giving more definition to the lower part of your face, and shorter hair with a side part maybe could help.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think you're ugly, I think your face proportions look a little off.
      Can you grow a beard? Maybe get a less fluffy haircut?
      Also stop taking selfies from this angle, makes the lower half of your face look wider.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think you're ugly, I think your face proportions look a little off.
      Can you grow a beard? Maybe get a less fluffy haircut?
      Also stop taking selfies from this angle, makes the lower half of your face look wider.

      You're not ugly anon, I just think you have to refine yourself a little. I feel like a stubble would help with giving more definition to the lower part of your face, and shorter hair with a side part maybe could help.

      Hah, I'm this anon, I actually just realized you look almost identical to a guy I went to school with.
      Can confirm you'll look 10x better with a different haircut and a beard. Also glasses if you need them, but I'm very partial because guys with glasses are CUTE.

  56. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I love ketamine
    I love ketamine
    I love ketamine
    It fucks me up so bad!

  57. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    femanons who currently have boyfriends:

    why do you frequent this thread?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I like giving advice.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        thats very wholesome, but dont you feel like your advice falls on deaf ears/gets drowned out by the incel rage?

        To ask and answer questions, it’s a great way to kill time

        cant you just ask your bf these questions tho?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I could ask him, but since the goal is to understand him better, it makes more sense to ask others. Like trying to decide what would be a good birthday present for someone, and asking all his friends.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      To ask and answer questions, it’s a great way to kill time

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not a foid but the actual answer is because women are sadistic in nature and enjoy abusing those who can't retaliate.

  58. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >work christmas party
    >venue with cheap drinks so we're all sat around a load of tables
    >newish starter who I introduced myself to on her interview day is there too
    >we go around saying our ages or something like that
    >she freaks at the fact I'm 24 half drunk saying there's no way I'm 24 etc
    >she's 18 herself at the time
    >remember on a shift we had she came in to replace me as I was finished, asked if I was in the next day (nope), and she playfully made a sad face or whatever
    was she just being a loud drunk or was she maybe into me and thinking I was a little closer to her age? we got on a fair bit when she was there working, the funny thing is I had my eyes on someone else at the time so it left me wondering

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Hard to say without knowing what kind of drunk she is

  59. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    both genders, how long do you knew your current bf/gf before you started dating. Im trying to decide how long should I see people as a possible romantic interest.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      12 years, he was a childhood friend so I don’t think my case is helpful lol

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >current
      Why must you mock me?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Would former have been any better?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          No because my list is 0

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      A couple months. We lived far apart and talked online so I also feel like we're a horrible example.

      thats very wholesome, but dont you feel like your advice falls on deaf ears/gets drowned out by the incel rage?
      [...]
      cant you just ask your bf these questions tho?

      >dont you feel like your advice falls on deaf ears/gets drowned out by the incel rage?
      Absolutely, but I still believe it's okay if I manage to help some people. I do think I helped some people here and it makes me always very happy.

      [...]
      [...]
      thanks a lot, but do you reckon i could get a 3/10 gf if i keep trying? photofeeler giving me a 2.5/10 has broken me
      [...]
      >I actually just realized you look almost identical to a guy I went to school with.
      I hope that i'm not him...

      >I hope that i'm not him...
      Nah, I just checked his IG and he has a shorter haircut and a beard!

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I asked her out on a date 2 days after we met.

  60. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >9 months before I graduate and can get a real job
    >about 9 months before I physically peak at the gym
    >just want to wait until then to get a gf
    >still really want a gf
    Anyone else in this situation?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Just get a gf homosexual, what are you waiting for?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        nta but I'm in a similar boat.
        I just feel like I should be a better person before I start pursuing a partner.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >I just feel like I should be a better person before I start pursuing a partner.
          That's retarded. Become a better person while also looking for a partner. Stop putting it off, you're wasting precious fucking time.

          Unless you're a complete utter mess, you should start looking.

          I live with my parents and am working too hard in school to have time for much else. I also got fat after years of this and want to finish losing it all.

          Start at least socializing.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I’m pretty good at socializing. I seriously just have to wait and it sucks.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I live with my parents and am working too hard in school to have time for much else. I also got fat after years of this and want to finish losing it all.

  61. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I never even had a chance to get a gf since I dropped out of school at age 12 and spent 10 years without leaving my room even once.

  62. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Ever been caught fapping?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, my brother caught me (M)

    • 7 days ago
      Exhibanon

      Nope. I'm the least caught exhibitionist, nobody has seen me naked or doing anything inappropriate in person as an adult.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Not in the act but parents found my browser history a couple times when I was pretty young and didn't know better.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  63. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Do guys get off to female pleasure more than girls get off to male pleasure?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Unsure, I am not a tranny. I would assume women get more pleasure due to the fact that they can come often and get a feeling of being used by a man. While the man does not have this feeling.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Probably. Men are more visual.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      how many times have you heard women brag about how hard they made a guy cum?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Definitely. Male pleasure is just a thing that happens wherever I go. It’s nothing special.

  64. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    will a potential date lose respect for me for putting on sunscreen before we go out? (im a male)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'd love a man forever if I didn't have to sneak on him like a skincare ninja to stop him from getting sunburnt. Please wear your sunscreen.

      Saved your frog.

      I have 300 more, bitch.

      captcha: TTARD

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        thank you for the serious reply, I like the smell of sunscreen anyway so the only way I'd stop wearing it is if it was a major ladyboner killer

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Good. Keep it up. I'll think of you tomorrow when I put my sunscreen on anon!

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'll save them all.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I dare you.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Anon stop being jealous, we love you too.

            Saved and saved!

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I dare you.

          get a room

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Anon stop being jealous, we love you too.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              you could never love me even if you think you do

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        LULZ please identify this car model for me

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          1975 Dodge Dart

  65. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Will a potential date lose respect for me for putting sunscreen and foundation before going out? I'm a pretty boy.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      As a man I would say so if you overdo it. I would recommend not doing it, unless you are a homosexual

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don't care what men think. I'm so straight that men are filtered from my consciousness.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          based prettyboys rise up. truly it is the solution to the tranny/femboy menace

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          You remind me of the people in this video:

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      fuck you, i dont care about the pain of sunburns i just think it looks dumb to have sunburn lines

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I respect the sunscreen especially if you'll be cute and help me put on my sunscreen. I'm not a fan of foundation since it smears everywhere and makes cuddling a pain. I don't wear foundation myself.

  66. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    how can women have sex with men without putting a blindfold on / vomiting? srsly I would be disgusted at the thought of doing anything like that to another man. I get ur a girl so like you're "supposed to like men", but I just do not see the appeal. ew ew gross gross gross. you have AWFUL taste.

  67. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >get her interest but never escalate
    any odds of regaining interest down the line or is it just a coinflip?

  68. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it okay to call a girl 300 times in 40 minutes if she doesn't respond to my text?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Of course
      That shows her you care
      Don't forget to show up at her house and scream at the door until she opens it or calls the cops

  69. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    fake, apu and ashbie are still at first base

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Anon you're so naive.

  70. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    >can I marry the AI?
    I'm sorry QT, but your princess is in another castle.

  71. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I trick myself into thinking I'm worth dating?

  72. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    I know.

    fake news!

    Anon that's just what happens when two people are in love with each other.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Anon that's just what happens when two people are in love with each other.
      Yes but they're not there yet, get your mind out of the gutter, coomer-kun

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        How could Ashbie resist this?!

  73. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    >jealousy
    >of any concerning that dumb thing
    You're crazy.

    Rude!

    Fuck. Frogs.

  74. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women
    Would you date someone who has not gotten any (you) in a few days ?

  75. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    remind me why i post here again

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You want to get a sick Apu collection.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You are a social outcast and mentally disassocitated from group mentality, or you like to think so at least.

  76. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women would it be a red flag if you entered a guy's apartment and every inch of the walls and ceilings was covered with lain posters

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I would immediately drop to my knees and suck his dick and not stop until he died of dehydration.

  77. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    That could be anything.

  78. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Do girls cheat more than guys now?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Is this question a joke?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        No?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. It's not in women's best interests to be loyal in a relationship.
          Like

          100% yes
          I really don't think women take relationships seriously anymore

          says. Eventually you don't value things you can take for granted, it's inevitable.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Definitely among those under 40
      Feels like most young male cheating takes place in relationships that the guy thinks are more casual than how the girl percieves it whereas the girl will just cheat regardless of how seriously he or she takes it

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      100% yes
      I really don't think women take relationships seriously anymore

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nobody would take a relationship with you seriously.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >easier to cheat
      >less stigma for women who cheat
      >women are more obsessed with sex than ever
      probably yeah

  79. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it a red flag if your gf finds out you stalked her for 3 months before you started dating?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Define "stalked".
      If you were trying to meet up with her at work "accidentally" in the hopes you could think of something to say it could be endearing. (which wouldn't be so endearing if she found you unattractive but she's your gf so she does)
      Same for keeping track of her social media.
      Generally unless you were doing something particularly retarded she'd perceive it positively, because everyone would be happy to discover their SO was admiring them from afar before they got together.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Sitting outside her house in a rented car for as much as 72 hours at a time with binoculars. Keeping track of her daily schedule. Hacking into her electronics.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          The only reason she might not break up with you is if she's retarded, afraid you're going to murder-rape her one day (not necessarily in that order) or both.
          What the fuck's your damage?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I needed to make sure she wasn't lying to me about anything.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              So you staked out her house like you were planning to smear "I LOVE YOU" on her mirror with your own shit and kill her cat?
              You do realize you're a potentially dangerous retard, right?
              And by "potentially" I mean you're potentially dangerous, you are a one-hundred percent certified retarded homosexual.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Mean

  80. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    21 M. I tried talking to women online since I didn't really have the occasion to train myself and I feel like they're all autistic, is it only women on exchange apps or women are like men? Anyone feel the same?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      theyre extremely autistic, try using bumble and you'll see what i mean, they only know how to start a convo with "hey :)"

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I use bottled, you can put a message that'll go to some girl in a random country, so I ask questions but they either accept my bottle without talking or they totally ignore the message. Is it because the women are 18 to 22? Does it get better with time?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          it 100% gets better with time but you sound like a zoomer so i wouldnt recommend waiting unless you want to be single for 5+ years

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >you sound like a zoomer
            I said earlier I was 21

  81. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, what's a hobby I can take up that will help give women the idea that I'm not a total loser?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Watching anime
      The ladies love it

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Apu collecting.

      I'm going to say rock climbing and wood working/DIY stuff.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nobody cares about woodworking, and it's a pathetic "I swear, I do manly stuff" cry for help unless you're actively a carpenter or tradesperson by profession.
        All it results in is people asking you for help and to borrow tools, which is never replayed in any way.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          typed by soft, unskilled male hands

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            My hands are soft and pale, made for fucking girls.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I do woodworking, which is how I know.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I think it's a really neat hobby and the ability to build custom things for your home is amazing.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            You say that, but then the expense sets in, and you start to hate any explanation of why something being better than a torsion-box from ikea is a good idea.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Don't mind the expense, know many people who do woodworking as a hobby (grandpa, uncle, cousin and her bf, bff's boyfriend) and it's a skill I really appreciate in a man. I made (with the help of my uncle) some furniture for my bedroom and it was really neat.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          My bf’s woodworking skills are one of the sexiest things about him and he does it just for fun mainly

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I assure you that if your bf was ugly you would a) not be dating him, and b) be disgusted by his waste of time and money doing stupid woodworking bullshit for fun.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              If I wasn’t attracted to my boyfriend no I wouldn’t be dating him. That applies to anyone in any relationship. This is not a gotcha
              Also it’s not a waste of time if you genuinely enjoy what you’re doing

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >I think hobbies are attractive when I already think the person doing them is attractive
                Do I have that right?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                It’s the passion behind the hobby that’s attractive, and the dedication to building a talent for it
                But think what you want idc lol

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                If passion for shit was the attractive part then there would be zero issue with all the socially retarded nerds who make up the majority of incels who pour themselves into computers, or warhammer, or dnd, etc.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                It’s not the ONLY factor. They’re still socially retarded.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Goalpost shifting. The fact is that you have no idea and are just coming up with reasons you think sound like the right answers.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      tell them your hobby is collecting (you)s from femanons on /adv/, it will evoke their natural competitive instinct

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Anything productive.

      [deleted post]

      I should get myself banned to save me from the frogs.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Apu posting >>> hornyposting

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          thats not apu you retarded foid, kys

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Hornyposting is the singular greatest gift the internet has to offer. You fucking take that back.

  82. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    I have seen so many I could probs will one into existence if I tried hard enough.

    No I was saying that even people who don't want babies still have the urge to breed
    That innate desire to fuck and reproduce is hot to see in women because i have the same urge to reproduce

    I want babies, though? I'm only pissed off by my baby-craze because it's not being appeased.

  83. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    To women

    In June 2020, my dad was diagnosed with extremely severe aortic stenosis resulting from a rare birth defect. He had open heart surgery performed three weeks later in July, which was a success and now he's as healthy as ever (he's a dairy farmer Gigachad). But I sobbed like a baby several times during the three weeks between diagnosis and surgery. The night before the surgery, I cried a lot after coming home because I thought that might have been the last time I'd ever speak to my dad.

    Is that okay? Are males allowed to cry under those circumstances or should I have been more stoic? I rarely ever cry.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Also aortic stenosis is a condition that, once symptoms develop, has a high chance of death within six months unless surgery's performed (which cures the condition)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry that your family had to go through this, it must have been really scary. I'm glad he's okay now!
      It's absolutely okay to cry, I'd never hold crying against a man in general but crying when a loved one is sick is absolutely understandable.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Women say they will
      Do not believe them
      I've seen this shit with my own eyes
      My sister broke up with her bf shortly after his mom died
      I had a cousin who was dumped after wanting some space to mourn after our grandmother died

      Do not believe them. They'll say that men should open but they don't think it applies to the men in their lives

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >They'll say that men should open
        What? No, they want a man who lies about everything. The more you lie the more people love you.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          This is true in my experience as well.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        this
        literally never ever listen to a single thing women say they want in men
        they don't know what they want (or they know but don't want to admit it because it's not "feminist")
        it's not a meme it's the truth

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          man thats depressing

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            women are depressing
            the worst part is their behavior is condoned

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >screencap tweets from some retarded slut behaving like a retarded slut
          >Uh, this is what literally all women are like
          >If you contradict me you're a roastie
          >TALK to a woman? Why would I need to confirm this with one of the holes when all my internet bro retards agree with me?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >talk to women in real life
            >they say the same shit they do online
            i talked to a girl who said that t was a point of pride for a woman to make it though life without ever getting "unlucky enough" to have sex with a virgin
            she wasn't even a stacy

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >What do you mean "sample size of one"?
              >nooo all my other internet buddies agree with me!
              >If it's wrong than how come no one in my echo chamber disagrees?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                i was only giving an example
                it's far from the only woman i've heard with this sentiment

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >i talked to a girl
              Oh, well, in THAT case, all women are whatever you say they are. Case closed. You can stop posting now.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No anon, unlike the bitter retards would like to believe, NO ONE is going to give you shit for crying over you losing your father.
      >BUT CHECK OUT THIS TWITTER SCREENCAP!
      I do not give a rat's ass what retards on Twitter are posting
      >BUT IT'S A WOMAN SO ALL WOMEN THINK LIKE THAT

      Do not let LULZ trick you into thinking it's a faithful representation of an average human.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        this
        literally never ever listen to a single thing women say they want in men
        they don't know what they want (or they know but don't want to admit it because it's not "feminist")
        it's not a meme it's the truth

        lol

        Just want to confirm that my boyfriend cried several times since we got together, for serious things and less serious ones. I love him very much and he still gets his dick sucked.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah but you also cuck him

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Only a few times a week

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            No. Never have, never will. Never even wanted to, other men don't even turn me on.

            [...]
            but you gotta admit you'd at least see him as *slightly* less manly after seeing him cry right?

            No, why would I? Having feelings doesn't make you less of a man.

            I don't know what people like you get out of larping that they're a girl who isn't awful.

            yeah and LULZ girls also claim they don't hate short guys, virgins, or shy boys even though we know all women outside of here do
            either the ones here are unicorns or they're lying

            That's a sad cope, I hope you find love.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >That's a sad cope, I hope you find love.
              There's nothing to find in the first place.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          yeah and LULZ girls also claim they don't hate short guys, virgins, or shy boys even though we know all women outside of here do
          either the ones here are unicorns or they're lying

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >EVERYTHING THAT GOES AGAINST MY COPE IS A LIE
            these mental gymnastics to prove it's totally half of the human population's fault and not yours are getting sad

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >dude i know that virtually everything outside this thread confirms your suspicious about how women think
              >but trust me the girls who post here about how they like all the things other girls openly hate are totally representative of real women and not aberrations

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >i cherry pick posts on social media of vocal minorities being mean and that means i'm right!
                whatever you need to sit on your ass and cry rather than making any sort of effort, my man

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                it says a lot that none of the people insisting women aren't awful can "cherrypick" examples of women talking about how much they love short men/virgins/shy guys/emotional guys then

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                because you'd just cry about how they don't count, like you have for the girls here

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                tbh i'm short and I never see short men with women
                t. european

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                What effort am I supposed to make exactly that will make women accept that men have emotions?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            It's worth remembering that any woman posting here is a landwhale that nobody could love. So on the off chance they are actually telling the truth about having a bf it's because they're incredibly desperate and they don't have, or at least don't feel like they have the option to leave no matter how unattractive they see their bf as.
            Much like how every guy here is a pathetic incel loser who should kill himself and unrepresentative of the greater male population, the femanons are also not representative of most women.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I have a BMI of 21. I'm not unattractive just because you don't have a girlfriend who loves you in the way I love my boyfriend.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                You're obese
                I have a bmi of 17

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                NTA but women typically have higher BMI than men you retard. Yours is high for a man but hers is not high for a woman.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                All women should be on anavar

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                And all men should be on estrogen!

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yes
                We must accept the future is androgynous and free of children.
                Live in the pod, LIVE IN THE POD.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                That's unhealthy, you should eat better and exercise more.

                >No, why would I? Having feelings doesn't make you less of a man.
                Okay, I believe you. It just seems weird to me that a woman would greatly reward someone who exhibits behavior that goes against what they're naturally attracted to. But I understand it's not always that black and white.

                People having feelings is just human. I don't expect my boyfriend to not be a human being just because he's my partner.
                He's always there for me when I need him, and I'm happy to be there for him in times of need. And if sometimes he's sad it's okay for him to cry, I cry too.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know what people like you get out of larping that they're a girl who isn't awful.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          What do female creatures get out of blatantly lying to men? Why do you want to sabotage the men on here on purpose?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            As much as I like to say "believe women actions not what they say on the internet" there are still women that at least on this side aren't total whores

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        How am I supposed to believe you when I've seen this shit with my own eyes?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        lol

        Just want to confirm that my boyfriend cried several times since we got together, for serious things and less serious ones. I love him very much and he still gets his dick sucked.

        but you gotta admit you'd at least see him as *slightly* less manly after seeing him cry right?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          That's like a guy suddenly seeing his gf as "slightly less feminine" after going into the bathroom after her and it smelling.
          People who are not autistic, brain-dead retards are capable of understanding their partner is a human person and have something called "empathy".

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I guess I was kinda caught up in this autistic mentality of making a perfect first impression and keeping it up, glad I was wrong

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Alright let's put it like this.
              Girls don't like guys who are cry babies.
              That is, if you get into an argument and you get frustrated to the point of tears, that IS generally unattractive because that's something girls do, and even then only the particularly weak willed ones.
              Girls rely on guys for stability and reliability, so seeing a guy lose his shit disproportionately is alarming.
              But a guy losing his composure when it's legit will not make anyone but the most retarded slut think less of you.
              And before a retard comes in with one of the same 3 screencaps of a slut professing to being a slut comes up, yes, some women are retarded sluts, but just like guys girls are very different and some of them are not braindead retards.
              No girl worth a single attosecond of your time will think less of you for crying over the very real possibility of losing a loved one.
              You are a human being and so is the girl that's worth your time, she understands.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think I get it, compulsively/habitual crying is seen as feminine, but crying during genuinely sad/vulnerable moments is just normal. Is that what I should take from this?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >but you gotta admit
          No, why or how would she give away a secret of the female lizard brain when she doesn't even understand her lizard brain?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Anon, I saw my bf cry for the first time in the summer of 2018. I'm still with him, I'm still happy, I still respect him, we still have sex all the time, I still look up to him. Nothing changed.

            What do female creatures get out of blatantly lying to men? Why do you want to sabotage the men on here on purpose?

            I'm not lying.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >we still have sex all the time
              how often? if youve been in a relationship that long. i just got a bf so idk what to expect if we last that many years

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Once a day is the bare minimum (before bed, so he can sleep well), but almost always more. 2 times a day when he works, 3-4 when he doesn't.

                Women would you get bored of it if your bf hugged you every time you came home or he came home?

                I'd get mad if he didn't.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                i hope my bf still desires me that much after many years! ty for the response

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >implying it's not women who get bored first

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              You're saying that females absolutely love it when men cry when that's not true.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not. I'm barely saying it doesn't change my opinion of him if he cries sometimes.

                i hope my bf still desires me that much after many years! ty for the response

                Good luck. If I can give you one piece of advice, give each other feedback and learn together how to please one another.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                You did, you literally said that females get wet when men cry. Why do you lie?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Show me where I said it.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Not going to spoonfeed you. Just have a nice day if you're that stupid.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Kek, you're a lying homosexual. Keep seething.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                You were the one who started seething when anons started calling you out on your lies.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >this All-Or-Nothing thinking.
                Fucking broken people here, ffs

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I could understand crying if he passed away, but why were you crying before the surgery?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        NTA, but because you're worried you're going to lose your dad. I cried a thousand times when my dad had cancer.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I didn't mean it literally. I was asking more along the lines of why that fear evokes tears.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Oh... um... am I supposed to explain why thinking that your father might cry evokes tears?

            I'm sorry that your family had to go through this, it must have been really scary. I'm glad he's okay now!
            It's absolutely okay to cry, I'd never hold crying against a man in general but crying when a loved one is sick is absolutely understandable.

            Thank you kind anonette

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              *might die
              god dammit

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Yes. My perspective is that it's not inevitable, so there is no reason to cry.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I see. Well, that's logical.

  84. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    What's the biggest argument/fight you've had with your partner? Did your relationship survive?

  85. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    It was a great day today Atoga. I had a 10 minute conversation and a short walk with a QT coworker. Was not awkward at all. Also got some information about that cute girl that I asked out which had a boyfriend. I think im gonig to make it!

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      *looks around for the bro who axed*

  86. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, what would you do if you found out your boyfriend jerks off to gay porn?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Whatever, as long as he's aroused by me when we have sex, idc.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        That's surprising. Is there any porn that would bother you?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Anything real that exploits anyone who is either not consenting or unable to consent. Also bukkake porn.

  87. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    this entire thread is a psyop and if you havent figured that out yet there's no hope for you

  88. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    women would you shave your boyfriend's ass?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I guess so.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Sure, if he asks me.

  89. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    When I was 15 I got a 14yo gf and she broke up with me when she found out I was a virgin. She had a bodycount of 36.
    If you're a virgin male past middle school it's over.

  90. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >No, why would I? Having feelings doesn't make you less of a man.
    Okay, I believe you. It just seems weird to me that a woman would greatly reward someone who exhibits behavior that goes against what they're naturally attracted to. But I understand it's not always that black and white.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      meant for

      No. Never have, never will. Never even wanted to, other men don't even turn me on.

      [...]
      No, why would I? Having feelings doesn't make you less of a man.

      [...]
      [...]
      That's a sad cope, I hope you find love.

  91. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Should I date a girl who is they/them and just placate her by using her pronouns but just think of her as my gf?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      this is funny and bizarre imagine this situation 8 years ago. unthinkable!

  92. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    As a male virgin you will never be desirable to any woman.
    The modern woman loses her virginity at age 10, if you haven't had sex as a man by age 12 it's over

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >12
      Fucking pathetic.
      If you can't get one of the nurses to suck you off before your umbilical cord is out you're NGMI.
      I came (PhilKenSebben.gif) out of my mother's womb upside down and I got sucked off before I had my first hit of oxygen.
      Now my dick and my IQ have one thing in common, double digits baby.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think Rabbis count.

  93. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a neet volcel, when a girl says her kink is DDLG, what does she want from sex? Like what does that even entail?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You're supposed to reenact the times she was raped by daddy as a child

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t think I can do that bro
        As far as I know she’s never had a dad

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Well whatever old dude raped her when she was a kid, her step dad or her mothers bf or whatever

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you ask?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Like I get it’s daddy/daughter shit but what actually happens? What do they want you to do?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Why do you ask?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Because she’s coming over to my place tomorrow night ostensibly to watch a movie but I’m hoping we’ll bang but I want to be prepared for whatever weird shit she wants me to do

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >Dropping the vol
              Well every dynamic is unique and she's probably not going to go too deep on the first play session. So there won't be outfits or props skewed to her preferred level of ageplay. She'll probably just go as far as some light roleplay, call you daddy, like to be called a good/naughty girl depending on her behavior.

              Your role is one of a nurturing, wise, and protective authority treating her as a vulnerable and innocent girl you're guiding. This would be one of those "fake it till you make it" scenarios.

              It's worth reading up on this elsewhere but don't assume that what others like to do is what she wants to do. Everyone's kink is different.

  94. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    how horny can i expect a 24 year old guy to be? how often will he want to have sex?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Every day, multiple times a day.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Past 25 I started to feel things taper off. Not old-man mode but really need a push. I imagine if you're DTF it'll be like he's 18 still unless he's pornbrained or something

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Libido doesnt decrease until your 30's. I would jack of all day in my teens as well as my 20's. A few years doesn't matter.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      The average would be very and often. Following that would be a lot and regularly.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I’m 20 and I’m horny every day

  95. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    When should you, as someone looking to date, lower your standards?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Never. You'll just be disappointed. You need to improve yourself to make your standards more reasonable or bust.

  96. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I have never encountered a female creature. Is this really what they look like?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yep, before they put on the makeup.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Calling them women would be an insult to men because that would imply that they're humans. They still haven't grown out of the stone age mindset. They haven't even learned how to get rid of their periods after thousands of years, that's how pathetic and stupid female creatures are.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Vill you become ze woman zen?

  97. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Hey friends 🙂
    I've never had a gf for a number of reasons, and one of those reasons is that I'm not sure how to be intimate at all.
    How do I do this?
    How do I know when its ok to touch a girl in an intimate way?

    I'm really fucked here guys, so please be detailed in your answers.
    Thanks

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      touch her hands on a date like ask to see her nailpolish or compare palm lines or something and then read how she responds. if she likes it/wants more physical affection she wont pull away right away she’ll let you tough them for a while

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        This is very clever
        Do you have any other cheat codes like this? Or advice in general?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You're not going to like this answer, but it's really just "you just know", once you do it once you'll think
      >ohhhhh, alright, I get it.
      From experience when you like a girl, you think she likes you back and you're in an intimate situation you can try slowly getting closer to her.
      "Adjust your seat" to be closer to her, move in a little closer to hear something she said and then linger, stuff like that.
      If she's cool with you being in her comfort zone she'll let you stay and the conversation will keep going as normal, if not she'll move thinking you're out of room.
      If it works, you try moving a bit closer again later.
      At some point, assuming you both want it, you'll be so close to each other you'll be whispering to each other centimeters away from one another's face, a pause in the conversation happens, you look into each other's eyes, Id takes over and you kiss.
      >How do I kiss?
      You don't need to know anything, it's just brushing lips against lips, maybe involving the tongue.
      When in doubt, just do what she's doing, 3 seconds after you start it's going to click.

      Flirting is basically inviting a more sexually tense situation in a way that is plausibly deniable.
      A risque joke opens the door to talking more candidly about risky topics, unless they're not up for it and then you just made a joke.
      Casually touching the shoulder or forearm might be exciting because skin-on-skin, or it's just a regular social behavior.
      A hug that lasts a bit longer than usual might suggest that you two would like to stay in contact for longer, or it was just a hug, nothing out of the ordinary here.

      You just inch towards a more sexually charged situation and see if the other person is comfortable to play along.
      Each step should be small, there should be plenty of space between these steps to give the other person a chance to change their mind and each step should lead in the direction of "we've gotten so close there's nothing to plausibly deny, take out your dick my dude"

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        There’s good kissing and shitty kissing, don’t be misleading

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Definitely, BUT kissing is subjective.
          Bad kissing is MISMATCHED kissing.
          So if she's trying for something soft and I'm trying to take bites out of her like she's an apple, that's bad kissing.
          Or If she's shoving her tongue so far down my throat she's hitting my uvula like it's a punching bag, that's shitty kissing.
          That's why I'm saying to do what she's doing, because you're unlikely to go wrong by doing what she's doing.

          I think I get it, compulsively/habitual crying is seen as feminine, but crying during genuinely sad/vulnerable moments is just normal. Is that what I should take from this?

          Exactly.
          Use the "social environment" test.
          If you crying for that reason would generate awkwardness rather than sympathy in a friend group, it would come off poorly.
          If you crying for that reason would generate sympathy in a friend group, it's appropriate.
          Even then women are as varied as men, some tolerate more and some tolerate less (or a lot less, like with the sluts the retards love posting as proof women are a borg collective).
          And EVEN IF you cry when it's not completely socially acceptable, we are all flawed and a woman that loves you can handle your flaws.
          Don't use her as an emotional tampon and dump all your emotional baggage on her 24/7 and you venting to her would be very welcome, it's a form of intimacy that's very difficult to achieve outside of a relationship.

          And when in doubt, Just be yourself™, your girlfriend loves you for who you are, there's no point in pretending you're someone you're not.

          Your dad sounds like a champ and I hope he'll achieve lichdom like Elizabeth II.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >You're not going to like this answer
        I love your answer, thank you for being so broad and detailed. It all seems kind of simple, I just didn't know how to go about any of it, but you've cleared a lot of it up.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      bumping to see more answers since i'm like you

  98. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women would you get bored of it if your bf hugged you every time you came home or he came home?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No anon sir

  99. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Is it possible to accidentally end up in a situationship even though both sides want a clear relationship of some kind? I feel that this girl likes to keep things vague between us for whathever reason. Which is kind of weird because I'm pretty sure she told her mother about me. Personally when I only kind of fool around with someone, not doing anything serious I don't tell anyone about this person because they are not important to me.

    And in general:

    How do I know it's me not them (or reverse?). Just in general, friends, family, dates etc. Sometimes I was sure someone was an asshole and refused to talk to me but after some time I noticed that I was actually the one who was the distant asshole first.

  100. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Genuine question for the men here: If you think only the top 20% of men get women, why do you choose to just complain about this instead of trying to become the top 20%?
    You could get fit, take care of your skin and hair, make yourself more interesting, improve your confidence, work on being a more kind person, learn about women’s interests, etc. So why don’t you?
    I used to be overweight, wear thick black eyeliner smeared all around my eyes, had mousy, greasy brown hair, dressed slouchy, and my only hobby was reading. No surprise that men weren’t interested in me. So I fixed all that, worked on making myself more appealing in terms of my appearance and personality, and of course things changed for me. You have to put effort into yourself if you expect to see results

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Who says im not?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        So what do you think the problem is?

        See [...]
        You still can't change your face and height though. You female creatures live in a coddled reality and it's hilarious how you all think that the men who are struggling are some fat NEETs.

        Oh I know exactly what your problem is, you’re excluded from the conversation because everyone here can see why women don’t like you

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          see

          But im already hansom? Im just fat and need to build more muscle. Not that tall though, only 5'8 but thats tall enough to date short girls.

          Whos problem? I already know my weaknesses and are learn to improve them.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Kek, I've had females before, doesn't mean the dating world is sunshine and rainbows. Anything else to project that I can defute, dumb cunt?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      See

      Who says im not?

      You still can't change your face and height though. You female creatures live in a coddled reality and it's hilarious how you all think that the men who are struggling are some fat NEETs.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        But im already hansom? Im just fat and need to build more muscle. Not that tall though, only 5'8 but thats tall enough to date short girls.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >If you think only the top 20% of men get women, why do you choose to just complain about this instead of trying to become the top 20%?
      Because becoming "top 20% of men" isn't as easy as putting on makeup and eating a salad every once in awhile like it is for women? Because women conveniently forget the things they like most in men physically are almost all genetic and cannot be fixed unlike women who can get fake tits and asses if they weren't blessed with them? Because high status jobs don't grow on trees especially when women are demanding more of them while simultaneously complaining there aren't enough men with them?

      Female privilege is being able to act like it's simple to become the kind of men they want to fuck because it's so fucking easy for them.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        So what’s your problem anon? Just your face? You think that’s really it?
        What are your hobbies? What do you bring to a relationship, what can you offer a woman she can’t get herself? Are you fit? Do you live an active lifestyle? Are you funny?

        >instead of trying to become the top 20%?
        Because you can't improve your face...

        Plenty of women who aren’t male models in the face have girlfriends. Your face alone isn’t the problem, no matter how bad you think it is

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >What are your hobbies? What do you bring to a relationship, what can you offer a woman she can’t get herself? Are you fit? Do you live an active lifestyle? Are you funny?
          Let me ask you this; do women ever have to ask themselves a single one of these questions to get into a relationship? No? Is it a question Chad has to ask? No, because he was lucky enough to be born with the extroverted personality women want. So why are you pretending "dude just upend your entire personality to please women lol" is some magical solution every incel has been missing all this time and not a fucking ridiculous ask from a gender who're free to have whatever defects they want and still get fucked regularly?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Watch how this stupid bitch will now completely ignore you, kek.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Your face alone isn’t the problem, no matter how bad you think it is
          Sure. But thats what makes a man top 20%. Even if i work out and get buff, my face will never be "Chad"

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >What do you bring to a relationship, what can you offer a woman she can’t get herself?
          Serious question (I don't hate women or anything), What does anybody bring to a relationship? I've always had to get everything myself, the only thing a woman can bring is simply herself. What is a woman expecting me to bring other than that? Is it money? Help getting stuff off of high shelves? I do tons of stuff to help people so it's definitely not just generally being reliable and convenient.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >instead of trying to become the top 20%?
      Because you can't improve your face...

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm in the top 3% of men
      I've never met a girl who seems worth the trouble

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I do try, but I viscerally hate lifting. For whatever reason it just activates my stress receptors. Oh and food is one of the few things that comforts me in this world, and I've tried all kinds of drugs, so I basically have to give up one of the few things that reduces me stress to get women. Plus I'm an idiot that is willing to believe people who say there are women that like fat guys.

      Doing that including other stuff is ultimately a lot of work and there's no guarantee of success for a man. For a woman you just need to be above average for a guy you guy try really hard, and I can see how for some guys if they spent years at the gym and all they can pull is a 4 then the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      because it's already over for me, I'm a manlet

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      For women it's easy to think
      >I'll just lose weight, and learn to do makeup. Getting in the top 20% is easy!
      Because it's true, that's all there is to it.
      For men, you need to get fit, which is significantly more difficult than just being a healthy weight, you need to be top tier and preferably nationally competitive at any of your hobbies, you can't just do them for fun. You have to be charismatic enough to control the whole room your in and know you deserve it, and you need to be making at least 170k per year.
      You can maybe skimp on any 1 of those things and scrape by, but only just.

      But then you get women being like
      >Lol, I just lost weight, I don't get what's so hard!

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        What fucking universe do you live in? Do you ever go outside in any suburban area and see the literal millions of men with wives who make like 40-50k a year? Stop being a retarded incel.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Looks-wise I'm probably way higher than just 20%. Even primary school most of the girls were talking to me and ignoring allmost all other guys and it still is like that in uni. It just shows how women really only care about the top 20% and look if they can score with that. But I guess they don't like my personality though since I am shy and I never make a move. So I am still a virgin

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No I know I'm alone mostly because of my personality
      My sister has a bf who looks like me a lot; I think face wise I have more potential. The difference is he's kind and outgoing who talks to people and genuinely enjoys talking to people whereas I'm this selfish introverted autistic asshole who even at his best is unpleasant to be around.
      I don't even really know if I want a gf; I've never really enjoyed the company of others. I just don't want to get to 50 alone and regret it. I know a couple in my family who are like that and they regret it immensely. But then I also don't want to be like my mom who is mainly married for similar reasons and is in a hellish marriage with my dad; mostly for reasons she's created for herself
      So I'm stuck here in this hellish limbo not sure what the fuck to do

  101. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >get comfortable enough to ask her out
    >do this a few times even
    >but don't conciously escalate
    my fuck-up aside, is it normal for girls to basically just make themselves available via going out with you someplace and leave the rest to you?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >is it normal for girls to basically just make themselves available via going out with you someplace and leave the rest to you?
      yes
      women expect men do to all the work because they're lazy bitches who fear putting themselves out there

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        yeah feels that way at times. this one went as far as wrapping her arm around mine when I drunkenly turned the wrong way for a second while we were out with workmates
        aside from that I guess she was just waiting for me to jump the gun. I think we got to know each other 'too' well if that makes sense, I should've just said something instead of trying to escalate physically as if she was someone I'd only known for a couple weeks off of an app or something.

  102. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, what do you like about your bf?
    I've been asked this about gfs before, and generally can't come up with anything other than 'they exist and mean I'm not single right now' and then I usually break up with them.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Girls, what do you like about your bf?
      I never have a good time spending time with anyone really, but it felt so easy spending time with him. He's so witty, funny, smart and interesting. I never had enough of him, we can talk about anything. He makes me feel at complete ease being myself, and he is unapologetic about the person he is even when it comes with a price. He's the one person I can see myself doing anything with, and the one person who makes me feel like I could do anything.
      He has good morals and chooses what's right even when it's hard. He has a very kind heart even if he wishes he didn't sometimes. I really like how passionate he is about his interests and his job, and how well read he is. I also really love the way he writes, and the sweet love letters he writes for me.
      I love that he's a risk taker, and I love how hard he tries for me. I really like his goofiness and how clumsy he is, his boomer rock playlists. I love his voice, and the way he breathes when he falls asleep.
      I really love his thoughtfulness, his relationships with his family. I love his introversion and his autistic obsessions over obscure shit. I love how much he craves physical affection and will pull me close to him all the time to have me hug him. I love the silly dances he does when he grills, and how big he smiles when he talks on the phone with his mom. I really love when he starts dancing with me in the kitchen or in the living room while I'm trying to convince him to do chores. I love the way he smiles when he sees me in the morning, and the fact that I've never once felt lonely when he was around.

      TL;DR - I really respect him as a person, he's a really good friend and he makes my heart full.

  103. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Men do you like LULZ women?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I like a variety of body types and fit is one of them.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Fit is fine, women need not be body builders or powerlifters.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but if I can see her abs she's using too many steroids

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Depends.
      Most in-shape female bodies don't inspire much in me one way or the other with the exception of girls who have the body type of a dancer or a ballerina, where she's slim but "tight", for lack of a less dirty sounding word.
      I want a ballerina girlfriend to lift in the air, hug while spinning, nagging me to go see a ballet with her and for me to discover I really like it.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >the body type of a dancer or a ballerina, where she's slim but "tight"
        a man of culture

  104. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    My gf and I broke up a few weeks back. Been hard but it wasn't a good relationship, and she's now acting weird and avoidant even though she said she wanted to be friends.

    Anyway, I know it means nothing now, but should I assume she cheated on me?

    >goes to a convention with all her male friends
    >barely speaks to me for months up to this point
    >I know several guys at this hotel who she's praising and shit
    >one day wakes up to talk about "cucking" out of nowhere with me

    IDK I might be paranoid but it struck me as a potential psycho moment

  105. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I get over her? We still see each other in public, I absolutely love her. But she's being mature and keeping distance between us.

    How do I forget about her? I know if I spoke to other girls it would be easier, but I was absolutely in love with her. I wish I could stuff her back into the box and remain friends purely platonically.

  106. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    woops that was the nsfw one lmao

  107. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    im glad i decided to check this thread today, got some good advice

  108. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I was 300lbs and now I'm 210ish. What sucks is I have a big belly/40 inch waste with a lot of saggy skin. Is that a huge turnoff? I also have a shit hairline and I'm on finastride.

  109. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    your gender
    your thoughts on plastic lawn flamingos

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Icky

  110. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How can we ever compete with vibrators bros?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      The same way women can't compete with male masturbation toys.
      NO ONE will EVER know how to manipulate your genitals like you do.
      We "compete" by first accepting that the game is different.
      A vibrator can't foreplay, can't involve emotions, can't kiss the neck, whisper sweet nothings and cuddle while stewing in your mutual juices.
      GOOD sex is so much more than putting p◯n◯s in vag◯◯◯ and j-j-jamming it in.

  111. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Does this exist irl?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      after reading the thread I would say probably yes

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous
  112. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, how do other women around you think of abortion (is it promoted or is it demoted?). And how do you look yourself at abortions, should your boyfriend have a say in it for example?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone I know is pro abortion. Personally I will never get an abortion because it’s wrong to me. Killing your unborn child just seems like hatred towards life and it’s purpose. I don’t care if others do it because if they do they probably wouldn’t have been a great parent to begin with. I think the opinion of the dad matters but at the end of the day no one should force you to abort.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        You should care. Freedom is great, but right wing libertarianism does not account for the stupid. They are harmful.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Babys are like property so killing them is fine. When your grandfather used to kill his sheep to feed your family you didn't complain

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I meant killing them by the owner. If someone else kills them then it's damage of property

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Babys are like property so killing them is fine.
            A moving cell on Mars is life, buy a baby on earth is property. You must be kidding me.

            >When your grandfather used to kill his sheep to feed your family you didn't complain
            I do care about animals being killed. Besides I could make the argument that killing from your own species is different than killing another form of species, because there is a social hierachy and that is how nature works.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yes it’s really disgusting but we’re already pst the point of no return. It’s isolationist time everyone’s gotta fend for themselves. I fend for my own and let the others destroy themselves. I’m so tired of society.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            You live in a society
            Death is the only escape

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            We live in a moralless society, because the people who promised to bring it to us did not. We never learn from history.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              It’s hard to feel positive tbh. I really want children but I almost feel like it would be better to spare them the anguish.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Confirms my bias.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Most people I know are pro-choice, I'm personally fairly pro life. I don't think men should have a say in their partner's abortion, and I also don't think they should be able to opt out of child support.
      If you don't want a child with someone, you shouldn't have sex with them.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        How pro-choice are the people you mention? Do they think banning abortion with exception of health issues and rape is ridicilous or understandable? I am shocked by you saying that the partner should have no say, I thought most people agreed they should have some say but I here a lot of people around me mentioning it as well.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >How pro-choice are the people you mention?
          For any reason in the first trimester.

          >Do they think banning abortion with exception of health issues and rape is ridicilous or understandable?
          They'd be against it.

          The partner shouldn't have any say. I don't want to kill my child because some dude skipped 5th grade biology and doesn't understand how babies are born and had sex with me without understanding the consequences.
          From a pro-choice standpoint, abortion has to be about the right of the mother to not go through the pregnancy. The father cannot have any say because it's about the woman's body and not the fetus.
          Neither the pro-life or the pro-choice prospective can really welcome the father having a veto on the pregnancy, once you come in me your faith is in my hands.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            I understand where you are coming from, but do you not think discussing it and talking through it with your partner is beneficial and fair to both of you?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I'm talking from a legal standpoint here. Men shouldn't have any say legally on the manner.

              We can have a chat about it, but ultimately it's my decision and mine alone. I've always been very clear about where I stand on the issue with any prospective partner, there's not much to talk through if I'm pregnant.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Okay, I understand your point of view now.

  113. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I love all of you

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      First Hitler, then Trump and now you. Despicable.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      y-you too bro

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I love most of you

      [...]
      >No, they don’t. That’s literally half their problem. See how these guys couldn’t even answer my very simple question of “what are you doing to work on yourself?”
      Apparently lol. I spend all my time living with my parents but even I know it's bullshit that all men with women have 170k jobs and are the best at their job in the world, get a fucking grip jesus christ.

      The only possible explanation I have is the “crab in a bucket” thing people talk about here
      >I’m miserable and alone so I’m going to spread my blackpill bullshit so everyone else is too
      It’s sad

      [...]
      I hope your future daughter (if you're not too old to have children already) gets groomed by one of the anons here, kek.

      I’m 24 but nice try hurting my feelings anon. Sorry I hurt your feelings so bad talking about self improvement, I see it’s a sore subject for you

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >God I hate blackpilled people. they're so pathetic and sad.
        Try being one. On the plus side for you I guess, I can tell you we hate ourselves more than you could possibly ever hate us.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          You can keep it to yourself and work on it rather than trying to drag other men down with you
          So many of the men here have real potential to be happy and they deserve that, but the constant stream of blackpill lies hurts their chances at that. Which I’m sure you already know

          [deleted post]

          Oh gosh this post just really got to me, I’m really just shaking imagining my unborn daughter talking to older men years and years from now when she’s even old enough to have unrestricted access to the internet
          What ever will I doooo I’m so triggered now ahhhh

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Most, if not all blackpilled incel types are too broken to ever be able to actually figure out how to be happy.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Nobody is happy 24/7. That would be insanity.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                What is with incels and absolutism

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                What is with deez right and left nutz on your chin?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I certainly didn't say anything about being happy 24/7. Some probably are happy sometimes about little things. Let's say they'd rank their general satisfaction with their life very very low.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I don't know, "happy" is such a meme word at this point. Am I happy every day? No. Am I a gangsta every day? Yes.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well being a gangsta every day sounds pretty satisfying.

  114. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    >No, they don’t. That’s literally half their problem. See how these guys couldn’t even answer my very simple question of “what are you doing to work on yourself?”
    Apparently lol. I spend all my time living with my parents but even I know it's bullshit that all men with women have 170k jobs and are the best at their job in the world, get a fucking grip jesus christ.

  115. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    I hope your future daughter (if you're not too old to have children already) gets groomed by one of the anons here, kek.

  116. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls, what would you do if you found out your boyfriend wished he was an anime girl?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      If you ever got a girlfriend, you would have stopped wanting to be an anime girl first.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Cute.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Doesn't everyone?

  117. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    I don't know why you think that just because you disagree with the answer that I didn't answer your question. I answered your question and explained why your experience of getting into the top 20% of girls is invalid to guys trying to get into the top 20% of men.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      That top 20% only exists on the internet. Go out in to the world, stop using apps.

  118. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    Okay well that sounds exhausting to me tbh but yeah I don't really need to have a job or whatever I just need to be more attractive and flirt with women more and have better "game". I mean I do have a job but I find no fulfillment in it.

    Anyways I am actually working on this stuff. It's just not enjoyable. Part of what I don't like about the demand for it is that I have to find it enjoyable. At least with you we agree that it's hard and not easy.

  119. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Both genders, is having a shared Spotify playlist with your partner something you like?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, we've had one since before we started dating. Super useful for car rides.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I would like that very much.

        Same anon here, I liked it too. It is one of the only things I miss from my relationship with my toxic girlfriend. I found it cute that she imitated me. Man life sucks sometimes.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I would like that very much.

  120. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    >It’s not only the very peak of men who get into relationships.
    It's only them who routinely and easily get them without having to go on month or years-long dry spells. It's only them who have it as easy as women do while every other man has to suffer the hell that is modern dating.
    >I offer my boyfriend plenty,
    You offer him an attractive pussy and reliable sex. That's already 70% of the reason most men bother with women, the last 30% about your "personality" or "hobbies" is just icing on the cake. Most men can't get away with just offering women sex like that which is why they have to offer them money, excitement, stability, entertainment, a car, their own place, blah blah blah while women provide almost none of that and don't expect to HAVE to provide any of that because they know their pussy is the ticket. Hence you don't understand why just get those things lol" isn't easy.
    >if I didn’t then he wouldn’t be with me because why would he put effort into someone
    Because unlike women most men can't monkeybranch and reliably hope from relationship to relationship, which is why men value monogamy and sticking it out over women who are flaky as shit now since they know there's 50 other guys who can blow their back out if their current bf can't.

  121. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls what would you think if your bf wanted to be an anime villain?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      He’s low functioning autistic

  122. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Im a boring guy who likes to read and work. How do I win a girl who likes rockbands?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Listen to rockbands while you go to work, read a book about rockbands.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Modern rock sucks though. Theres a reason the only rock you hear people listing to in public is from the 80s and 90s.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Theres a reason the only rock you hear people listing to in public is from the 80s and 90s.
          Yeah, that reason is that you hang out with old people.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      You can't. You have to be either in a rockband, or rich. Enjoy your receptionist who watches real housewives and complains that you aren't providing a life for her like their husbands are for them.

  123. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    I fucked up with my HS sweetheart. Wrote her a long ass love letter like a bitch a year after breaking up instead of just texting and asking what she was up to. I still love her, but I just want to chill, catch up, and see where things go.

  124. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    If I could JUST get one of these fucking women to actually go on a date I’d have it in the fucking bag but they just keep ghosting. I’m so much more charming in person than I am over a fucking screen

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Then leave the house and talk to women face to face pussy

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Bad mentality. You need to go on ~100 dates to find a girl who will actually continue to be your girlfriend so you're setting yourself up for failure and disappointment.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >You need to go on ~100 dates to find a girl who will actually continue to be your girlfriend
        only 99 more dates to go haha....
        im dying ALONE

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >You need to go on ~100 dates to find a girl who will actually continue to be your girlfriend
        I'm happily married and unless you count going over to my first girlfriend's place to watch DVDs, I've been on five dates in my life and none of them led to long-term relationships.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Then why are you using a screen? Being social is a big part of getting close to someone

  125. 7 days ago
    crowd favorite

    is fasting just being hangry on purpose
    or are you like "no dude i can't be hangry i'm fasting"
    or is being hangry enlightenment

  126. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    >Your gender
    >On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you?
    (With life in general, not just this moment)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      0
      I hate everything about myself, and all of the things I do. But I don't hate those things, I only hate them because I do them. Other people doing them is cool.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M 6/10. I was happier before my mania now im in a better mood but less happy with my life.

    • 7 days ago
      crowd favorite

      like a 2
      and that's a good thing
      anything but momentary, transient happiness is for people who have landed on their station

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      5

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F
      9
      Super happy, will get to 10 when I’m married and got kids

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Male
      I hover around the 7-8 range and occasionally drop down to a 2.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Male
      7
      I have no gf and a khv at 24 almost 25 which is depressing but my family, social life, hobbies, and academic life (1st year PhD student loving it) is all going well. I want a gf but I think Ive missed too many life stages to make it easy and will come of like a distant cunt. And I got sick of trying online dating 3 years ago as it was just shit. I dont really want my life to stay this way but the effort would be emotionally exhausting to deal with dating bullshit (plus meeting women in the first place) and Id rather the time be better spent on stuff I enjoy or on my work as Ill just come off as cringe.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      Losing weight is hard to stay motivated when you're far down the hole and have to wait years to get to the actual goal you want.
      Fuck I just need a gf thats so insecure that she's a 7 that thinks she's a 4.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        If you don't mind me asking, how bad is it and how many calories are you eating daily?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Dont try to lose weight, start lifting. Your motivation should be getting women and feeling good about yourself.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M
      3/10
      What's holding me is that I'm a NEET so I can cope by playing video games and talking with people on the internet. Also make everyone I know laugh is what makes me still alive

  127. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women
    Would you be down for a free-use thing with your partner if clear boundaries were set, like only in private and an agreed upon safe word?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      What is a free-use?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Like, sex at any time (with agreed upon boundaries)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Women would have to exist first for this question to make sense.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe for 1 day once in a while, but not on a daily basis. I have shit to do.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I had this in theory with my ex, but in practice it wasn't a good idea.
      If you're already having lots of sex, what's the point?

  128. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How many of you will ever be able to afford a home? Do you think the answer contributes to your overall satisfaction with life?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I could buy a home right now but Im inheriting one so ill just save my money to put my kids through collage, if I ever get a GF first.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        How much?
        Also you didn't answer the second part of the question.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Hmm. How much would owning a home contribute? Thats hard. I lived in a apartment and it was not bad but it was significantly worse than living in your own home. Lots of bugs, always worried someone will break in to your apartment. Living in a small town in a actual house is pretty compfy. Would burn it down to have a wife though.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >How many of you will ever be able to afford a home?
      In the Netherlands not many, because we have a housing crisis and the migrants get houses before the Dutch. In other countries the issue seems way less worse so I guess you will be able to afford a home.

      >Do you think the answer contributes to your overall satisfaction with life?
      Yes, because often starting a family is bundeld with owning a house. If not at least you have a form of security which makes you less stresses, since you don't have to worry about paying rent.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >since you don't have to worry about paying rent.
        There would be other bills still. 50 Cent's former mansion cost 70k a month to just keep the grass nice.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I know but it is definitely something that could be benificial to not have to pay on your stress factor.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            True. I've lived in 2 houses and would love to live in one instead of an apartment like now. No babies crying, no children screaming outside, no neighbours fighting, no fucking drilling early etc.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Wow, what a fucking landlord take. Ignore that buying a house locks you into rent-control for the decades long duration of your mortgage.
          >Oh, no, you don't understand, there's lawn care, and the roof might need replacing once a decade. This billionaire's giant estate costs 70k/month just to cut the grass, you couldn't afford that, could you?
          while you jack up rent 50% every year while providing ZERO value.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            imagine thinking you are entitled to live in someone else's house lmao

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Imagine trying to convince somebody that caring for a lawn is more expensive than renting.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                yea idk about that argument, im not the original person you responded to.
                but you are retarded if you think that a landlord shouldn't have total control over their own property

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I don't know where you got the idea that I said a landlord shouldn't have control over their property (though I think they should be starved of renters, but whatever).
                The argument is just the same as obese people saying BMI is dumb because The Rock has a high BMI. Like, imagine a weekend fisherman buying a small 3k boat to plop into the river on weekends instead of renting one, and then be like
                >y'know, I don't think that's a good idea. I saw a super-yacht the other day that cost 5 million dollars a year to maintain

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                When people complain about landlords they typically are retarded poor people who feel entitled to the landlords unit and only paying what they want. So I generalized you.
                OOPS
                as for the other argument i agree with you

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I own two, one amidst a beautiful forest.

    • 7 days ago
      crowd favorite

      i think it would be okay to move to new mexico or arizona but texas is just so good

      idk the housing market might crash or something? or maybe i'll buy an RV?
      it's a goal of mine but i don't know if i should jump in right now or if i should wait out the market a bit? the game is kind of rigged and difficult for me to predict

      overall i have more immediate preoccupations than home ownership

  129. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    For both genders: what are common red flags that a potential partner has and green flags that the person lacks

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      If she exists that's a red flag that I should probably get checked into a mental institution.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >red flags
      Dismissive of differences in perspective

      >Lacking green flags
      Lacking self-sufficiency, composure in emotional situations

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Dismissive of differences in perspective
        I had issues with this, but I have made a lot of progress on accepting differences in perspective I mostly have issue with being open to religion because it is too insane to me.

        >Lacking self-sufficiency
        I have this, but I am working on this.

        >composure in emotional situations
        I don't think I am bad, but I am not ideal with this either. I am quite apathic due to digital media stimulation.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >green flags
      She is attractive and gives good blowjobs
      >red flags
      She currently has feelings for me

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      x (non-binary woman)

      >For both genders
      there are not two genders its a spectrum...

      >what are common red flags that a potential partner has
      - being uncomfortable and/or awkward in social situations
      - not being engaged with conversations (does not matter with who)
      - has dark humor and is overly sarcastic and ironic

      >green flags that the person lacks
      - accepting everyone how they are
      - not making jokes at the expense of others
      - not being sex driven in relationships

      this are a few examples, I would not mind giving more...

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >being uncomfortable and/or awkward in social situations
        As expected. it's over. I don't understand why society hates men who aren't charismamaxxed so fucking much.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          It does suck anon. Does anyone here have advice for me and

          yea idk about that argument, im not the original person you responded to.
          but you are retarded if you think that a landlord shouldn't have total control over their own property

          on how to charismamaxx?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            see

            >Does anyone here have advice for me and >26746819 on how to charismamaxx?

            why did you include me in this?

  130. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women,

    Have you ever been to a vagina steaming party where women gather around in a spa and let a stream of hot steam hit their exposed vaginas?

    • 7 days ago
      crowd favorite

      imagine the smell

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      My bestie and I used to purposefully go to opposite sides of a public pool near where she lived and use the jets to get off then laugh about it later.

  131. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    how come women are so confident that they understand 100% of male psychology but then insist that men understand absolutely nothing about female psychology? where do they develop such inflated egos?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      They are right thought? Woman make no sense.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        stop enabling!

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I have to wonder this as well. Any time a guy asks advice online the thread is brigaded by women jumping to conclusions about his thought process and intentions.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      women fell for the meme that they can understand people's thoughts and feelings better than men can
      of course they can't even understand their own, so...

  132. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    To women
    How do I break up with my girlfriend without hurting her?
    We've been together two and a half years. She's an extremely depressed, negative, pessimistic person. At first she put on a cheerful and normal facade, but as she grew more comfortable with me she gradually put less and less effort into being outwardly nice. For the past year she's been so negative and toxic that I rarely feel loved anymore, and honestly I don't really like her much. She's a gloomy asshole pretty much 100 percent of the time. I've told her countless times across the past year that I can get antidepressants for her, but she says she wants to get better "using her own strength." Which is fair, but she's not trying very hard even in that route because she hasn't changed at all.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Act as unattractive as possible, she will lose feelings for you and then break up with you, and feel good about herself after. I have done this more than once it really works

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Have you talked to her about why shes depressed and gloomy? Have you tried to introduce her to your Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        She had a bad and abusive childhood. Which... I mean... I get it. I do. But this is so tiresome. The other day I asked her "Do you even still love me?" and she replied lazily and sarcastically with "Yeah sure." I said "You don't sound so sure," and she snapped at me "Shut the fuck up! God damn, you're annoying! Go the fuck away!" Looking back, I do feel annoying and needy by saying that, but she's so cold and surly. She wants me to be around her all the time and gets furious if I don't hang out with her every day, but whenever we do hang out together she acts like she doesn't want me there.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I mean, having been on the other side of this kind of conversation,
          it is really tiresome when you constantly get asked leading questions about your relationship, it absolutely makes things feel strained and awkward, like a chore, sort of.
          Maybe try and go about getting the same results but in a different, less accusatory way?

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            What way would you recommend?
            I don't do it constantly. I very rarely express my feelings on this. The strain is just getting to me after a year of this.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Idk. I'm not basing it off of a lot here, and I don't know the specifics. I'm just saying maybe she feels like you're putting her under a lot of pressure and it's making it hard for her to be comfortable and relaxed around you. You'd have to figure out how to make her comfortable about it again, it'd be specific to you guys. I can tell you it's definitely not some grand gesture where you're expecting her to announce her undying love for you at the end.
              But I could also just be entirely wrong, just throwing out the possibility.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I think I might try anti-anxiety medication to get my own nerves under control. The past year getting any kind of affection from her has been like getting blood from a stone, yet she tells me she'll kill herself if I ever leave her. I try not to bother her because I know that will put pressure on her, as you say, but I need reassurance and I need some love in this so-called relationship. I think that in order to keep things from imploding I'll need to get my own stress levels under control somehow. Two people that are both miserable and on the verge of collapse can't help each other.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Fuck no
          Tell her the EXACT reason why you’re breaking up with her. Have a plan to separate from her without struggle and then dip immediately after breaking up with her. She will either change this behavior of freak tf out on you hence quietly move as soon as possible. Also always record if you feel it’s about to be a messy breakup.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Why do you sound so urgent/like this might be an emergency situation?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              I had a friend who had a gf like this and when he tried to leave she jumped in front of his car and then waited for him to get out and check on her and tried to kill him. Then she called the cops on him nonstop and he went to prison multiple times based on lies just so he wouldn’t leave her.
              >he didn’t touch her once was just trying to leave her
              I get scared about situations like this so maybe I’m just a bit paranoid

  133. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    southerner bros....is it over?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, just don't do disgusting drugs

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        its literally just tobacco though

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah. Which is disgusting

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like a homosexual

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              You really don't understand why people dislike when you spit black tar everywhere?

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Idk I just smoke
                Dip isn’t that bad though you’re just a pussy

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                At least smoking looks classy. Tobacco really is for rednecks and white trash. I'm with the girl who sounds like a bitch.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            your gf didnt seem to think so, yank

            you mean....the coolguy with the cowboy hat at the gas station lied to me...?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >yank
              Obsessed and incorrect.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                y-yuropoor...?

                >you mean....the coolguy with the cowboy hat at the gas station lied to me...?
                Did you pack a horser?

                yki pardner

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >yki pardner
                Are you speaking n-word?

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              >you mean....the coolguy with the cowboy hat at the gas station lied to me...?
              Did you pack a horser?

  134. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    only counting my cash and investments, I have 50k saved up. I'm 24.
    I know the average american has a negative net worth, so I'm already significantly above average, but how do I actually stack up against average 24 year olds in the middle class?
    I'm very insecure about my finances

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      >Does anyone here have advice for me and >26746819 on how to charismamaxx?

      why did you include me in this?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Because I don't want to embarass myself if you are going to use the advice as well.

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          I'm so confused

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            Same, I have psychologial issues. Sorry not sorry.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Well when you find the words to clarify the situation clearly and concisely, I'll be waiting here

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Don't. I feel bad now. I did not have a good reason to @ you. I thought it was a funny to do a little bit of trolling.
                >Related:

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Well it was not funny but from this failure you have become smarter.
                Congratulations

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                >Well it was not funny
                Funny is subjective though so I don't care what you think as an individual.

                >but from this failure you have become smarter. Congratulations
                I have always been stupid and I still am.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It's never going to be enough. Figure out how not to feel insecure, not just a number where you'll be happy with it.
      Also the negative net worth thing is a cope, anybody who's gonna make it is worth hundreds of thousands by the time they're 35

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >It's never going to be enough. Figure out how not to feel insecure
        yea youre right. Not sure how to figure this out tho.
        >anybody who's gonna make it is worth hundreds of thousands by the time they're 35
        So I just have to own a house by 35 and I'm gonna make it?
        this is gonna be a piece of cake

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          >So I just have to own a house by 35 and I'm gonna make it?
          In much of the western countries, then yes. In US, not necessarily. Housing is still cheap there.
          It's more of a minimum bar though, not a guarantee. There's just no point in comparing yourself to a person who lives in a ghetto and has 7 maxed out credit cards they thought were free money and don't even know are supposed to pay back.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >In US, not necessarily. Housing is still cheap there.
            you said several hundred thousand net worth. If I own a 500k house, how is that cheap
            >There's just no point in comparing yourself to a person who lives in a ghetto
            I agree, thats why in my question I asked how I compare to people in the middle class.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              500k house is fine. Housing is just a lot cheaper than that in a lot of places in the states. It's not like Canada where 500k isn't even above barrier to entry, so it doesn't necessarily imply making it when 'house' could mean 150k like many places in the states.

              The second part was just about comparing yourself to 'most people have negative net worth ', not the middle class which I agree is what people should be doing.

  135. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    how do i cope with being a complete failure in every aspect of my life at the age of 30 and seeing no real reason to continue on living?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Killing yourself or working on yourself. Mediocrity is undersirable.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Well the former is a more surefire solution so I guess I'll just do that

  136. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Will American or Western European women be impressed if I become a quasi-agent of the Bulgarian government who works to secure US investment, particularly in nuclear energy?

  137. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    [deleted post]

    >So all short guys just die alone? That’s legit your reason? Lol
    No, and it's not even the best reason I have, I'm just in a mental prison and I don't even know if I'll be able to get out to start being a better man tbqhwy

  138. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    What are relationship goals for you? Whatever gender.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Touching her hand

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Don't even know where to start with this. I've never even had a gf

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I want someone to essentially be swingers with

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Move out from my parents house so I actually have a chance when dating

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F. To get a boyfriend, since I think I’m tired of women for now.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        rip lesbo-san
        you will be missed

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Were you a lesbian or…?

          I'll pop your boyfriend cherry (and you can pop mine)

          Bisexual. I’ve been with both, but I haven’t had a boyfriend for a few years so I want to get one for old time’s sake. This nice part about liking men and women is that you can just switch when you’re tired of one.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Bisexual
            cant wait for us to have threesomes

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            i prefer pretending youre gay, lesbo-san sounds better than bi-san

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Were you a lesbian or…?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'll pop your boyfriend cherry (and you can pop mine)

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      M.

      >Proudly holding hands in public while discovering a place it's culture.
      >Nurturing her with basically everything when she is sick and taking a day off from work to be together and get cozy
      >Her falling asleep with her head on my chest and one of her hands stretched towards me while watching a movie.
      >Going camping exclusively together
      >Sleeping on our own boat exclusively together
      >Having a road trip exclusively together
      >Sharing pictures of each other sleeping on social media poking fun
      >Immitating each other
      Thinks like that I guess 🙂

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        F.

        Where can I apply? (I am immitating you rn)

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >romantic guy
        I kneel...
        I'm handsome charismatic and everything else, but I am not romantic at all. I'm gonna have trouble with keeping a gf

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Hi! Same anon here, and I think charisma and romance go hand in hand. I don't have the greatest charisma, but due to being relatively well at romance (not my words, but that of my previous girlfriend and het best friend) I improved charisma wise. I am relatively awkward compared to others around me, but it can improve. Don't get into the negative thoughts anon, it only amplifies how bad you really are at romance and makes it way worse than it really is. We are our own worst critic 🙂

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            THANK YOU FOR THE KIND WORDS FRIEND
            FUCK I LOVE BEING POSTIVE 🙂

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I want a gf who I believe loves me, which is impossible, so Oh well I guess.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Try men to expand your dating pool. If that is not enough become pansexual.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Him kissing me on my cheecks and forehead when I am mad

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      F. Thanks to these threads, I’m kind of interested in how I’d do dating a footfag.

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Because you want foot attention, or because you think it would be awful?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          Would you like the feeling of a man admiring your feet or would you be weirded out if you had to guess?

          I think I’d like it. It seems like a nice and easy fetish I could satisfy, and I have low self-esteem so I don’t think vanilla sex alone would make a guy like me. So it’s fulfilling for both of us.

          • 7 days ago
            Anonymous

            As a man it feels hard to imagine licking such a thing. I already dislike oral since it feels so self-centered. Do women also have such insecurities such as with sex centered around your boobs or vagina? I don't mean to come of to strong and I could understand if you find this a weird question.

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              *liking not licking :]

            • 7 days ago
              Anonymous

              Well, like any fetish, either you like it or you don’t. Yes, we have those insecurities. Breast size is a big source of anxiety and many women are uncomfortable letting men near their vaginas. I just think foot stuff would be a big benefit to me, because it’s a simple way to please a man if my body isn’t enough.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I feel you, also feet can be made more beautiful and maintained naturally. Since I assume the pressure of plastic surgery and such must also cause anxiety amongst certain women.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Yup, I’ve taken good care of them, so I don’t think it’s too crazy to prefer a guy who appreciates my best asset 🙂

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I have a foot fetish, but I am quitting watching porn because I believe it to be caused by it. Because I watched porn I got into weirder and weirder fetishes. Hopefully I can heal my mind someday.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                I’m not sure it can ever be healed, but at least you won’t be making it worse. Good luck.

              • 7 days ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks. Best of luck to you and your feet!

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Would you like the feeling of a man admiring your feet or would you be weirded out if you had to guess?

  139. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Women, why are you only interested in guys who have some (often hairbrained) plan to become rich in the future? Just a regular job with a decent income is never enough anymore. Unless they might be able to put you in a big lakefront property one day it's just not worth it?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Men, why are you only able to ask stupid questions?

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        Women, why do you respond to obvious bait posts?

        • 7 days ago
          Anonymous

          It’s a dead thread and I felt like it.
          I think it’s fair to respond “men dumb” to “women dumb?”

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        nta but how is it stupid

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I just figured it made sense, what with women only being able to give stupid answers.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      I’m definitely not into that
      Most men seem to be going this path for some reason

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Most men seem to be going this path for some reason
        because women want """"""ambition""""""" even if it will never go anywhere because it lets them pretend their dude will totally be a millionaire by 28 and able to give them the good life
        every stupid thing men do is entirely because women want it

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        It's probably a combination of:
        >it just being more normalized and expected of men
        >Many women seem taken in by it, so it's appealing to get women
        >Economically there is no more spectrum between rich and poverty. You've made it or you haven't, and 99% of regular jobs, even high paying ones are in the haven't group

  140. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Been talking to this girl for about two weeks now. She is extremely sexy, like way out of my league. She is very sexual with me, which I have loved. The thing is she is a bit more closed off and less talkative if it's not about sex. I have learned that we share ideals and we both want to have a family, and grew up in Christian enviorments thus have very similar values... But she is rather shy about herself and her life. Is this normal? For a relationship to have a LOT of sex talk like this but to be slower on the personal stuff?

  141. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls what do you mean when you say that a guy looks friendly/nice?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      It means she doesn't want to argue, and wants them to leave her alone.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      A really sweet and genuine smile. Proper, dorky, sweet.

  142. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Gonna take a shit and a shower. All my boxers are dirty, so I'll have to wear panties again.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      great, now im horny again

      • 7 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'm a man.

  143. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Make a new thread already

  144. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why is it so common for people to attempt to murder you if you break up with them? I'm a lesbian who's been in two LTRs, and both my girlfriends attempted murdering me after I left them. Is it really that big of a deal? Just get a new girlfriend, jeez. I didn't report them to the cops because I knew they were just upset and not reporting the murder attempt was also my apology for leaving them, but I told them I would call the cops if they tried killing me a second time (they heeded the warning).

  145. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    Girls why do you like older guys?

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Usually more mature, put together, and not wishy washy.

  146. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    i dont want to make a new thread i got such good advice here

  147. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    How do I cope knowing women will ALWAYS prefer a black man? I don't even stand a chance.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Die and reincarnate as a black man.

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Its just you that would prefer a black man.

  148. 7 days ago
    Anonymous

    NEW THREAD

    [deleted post]

    [deleted post]

    [deleted post]

    [deleted post]

    [deleted post]

    [deleted post]

    • 7 days ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus anon you scared me

Your email address will not be published.