I learned a lot about women in the past year
Im not going to post what I learned because I'll just make it harder for myself if the competition catches up
I'll just say this: >women are bad communicators and what they say and what they want are two entirely different things, which is difficult to understand for the male brain
Thats also true but women are really bad communicators
Ill give on example. A girl was following me to the bus after a date and then at the last moment she says "is this the bus to my house?" so I just said "no your is over there"
and then she apparently wanted me to lie to her so she could go to my place and wouldnt have time to take the bus back to her place forcing her to spend the night with me
she wanted me to LIE. not to invite her over, but to play along like I was luring her or something
however she didnt bail on me for that one "mishap"
Real talk. I was talking to a girl at a concert and she kept staring deep into my eyes and showed me a tattoo on her back and said that not many people get to see it. I didn't realise she was flirting with me until she started grinding against me and grabbed my throat to kiss me
woman moment. if this guy told you: >"give me your number so i can tear that ass up tonight"
tell me the truth, you would be so excited to chow down on his cockmeat, predator or not
One was too much of a manwhore for my taste. Went out with him on a date, since it went really well I asked about him to mutual friends and they told me he had slept with a couple girls they knew. When I talked to him about him he told me he was having casual sex right before we met, and, while he seemed to like me very much and be serious about me, it's just not something I'm happy about and comfy with.
The other was just kind of rude to someone else who was there with us when he introduced himself.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
very based, i hate when people are rude to others for no reason, big red flag
What causes pre-ejaculation and how can I prevent something like this from happening to me in the future? I don't wanna disappoint my future gf(s) and/or wife
F. With my fiance. We met online 6 years ago, we started dating 5 and a half years ago. I did enjoy the date, we went to the movies and grabbed pizza after. He drove his truck to a nice viewpoint and we ate while watching the stars.
M. last date was like five years ago. met her at a hospital. i went on we went out to eat and walk around the city, I had incredible anxiety and she ghosted me after. I didn't enjoy it due to the anxiety
M, last date I went on was last year summer, girl I knew from high school asked me out for drinks. I didn't really enjoy it tbh, she was very hot but we didn't have much in common, and she started talking about her past hookups etc. and it was just a turn-off. I was relieved to go home at the end of the night and didn't respond to her texts for weeks oops
Is it possible to be in a low level of psychosis. I'm 21f and I feel like I am becoming less and less coherent, I haven't felt real or connected to myself for years. I get extremely paranoid at night that there are monsters watching me. I am extremely tired lately and isolate myself. I am often very dull when speaking to others and can't emote properly. Will this get worse?
Sounds like severe depression but reach out to someone if you're struggling
I hate this fucking place
I hate all of you
You're all disingenuous
Why u here then
who is the most annoying poster you recognize in thse threads?
It's 7"-7.5". It's a pretty decent size dick but I can't even take it all comfortably, so it's mostly the way he fucks me.
Men why you always judging women that sleep around a lot? I can have sex with as many guys as I want and you can’t do shit about it
Not even a guy, but it's reasonable for people to want a partner who feels the same about you about sex and relationships. Someone who highly values intimacy, commitment, and sees sex as a loving act will be turned off.
You can do it, but it will obviously turn some people off. Same way I turn guys off by telling them I won't fuck them until I love them.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
damn wtf, i feel like his porn star top 5%er penis probably has something to do with it too.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
My ex also had a pretty decent sized dick and he never made me come, so no it's mostly the way he fucks me and the way we feel about each other lol
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
oh good to hear honestly cause my dick is not close to that size
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
As I said I can't even take it all so I'm sure it's not that big of an issue lol
Is it possible to be in a low level of psychosis. I'm 21f and I feel like I am becoming less and less coherent, I haven't felt real or connected to myself for years. I get extremely paranoid at night that there are monsters watching me. I am extremely tired lately and isolate myself. I am often very dull when speaking to others and can't emote properly. Will this get worse?
No I've been ignoring him since he threatened to kill me and my family
yeah it'll get worse if you're a schizophrenic, talk to a doctor and get a diagnosis from a professional, not some guy on LULZ. warning: anti psychotic meds make you fat. so try not to make it worse, dont smoke pot, get enough sleep, try to ground your thoughts in reality.
I really don't want to be schizophrenic
sounds like depression.
[...]
you sound like a cuck.
Maybe depression... I've been thinking maybe it's my environment. I don't want to be a neet again. But I have no desire to live as a normal person.
I really don't want to develop it but
The paranoia at night can get so bad. Reading conspiracies makes it worse but it's the only thing that interests me lately
you might want to see a therapist, talk therapy can help with paranoia. i would recommend doing everything in your power to try to maintain a healthy mind because going on anti psychotics is really shit compared to being med-free. exercise, hanging out with your friends or family, going outside for walks, keeping a good routine and hygiene. if you feel really off and affected by it you should see a doctor and get professional help
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I see a therapist for other reasons already
I try to maintain routine but I feel this crushing tiredness and pointlessness lately and I can't focus on anything and my mind is scrambled
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
that sucks anon :/. could be depression too but im not a doctor. if it gets worse and you feel its interfering with your daily life, definitely talk to a professional.
>But I have no desire to live as a normal person.
Unless you have a job already, look for a non-stressful (or as non-stressful as possible) part-time job then, even if it's just like 10 hours a week.
yeah it'll get worse if you're a schizophrenic, talk to a doctor and get a diagnosis from a professional, not some guy on LULZ. warning: anti psychotic meds make you fat. so try not to make it worse, dont smoke pot, get enough sleep, try to ground your thoughts in reality.
the chad thing is so cuckish actually, incels love to make up some sex god figure that is always stealing their girlfriend in their fantasies in their heads
Again just reality
Look, I know I'll never be the the object of any girl's desires. No girl is ever gonna want me sexually. I'm not even good enough to be good enough. I'm no one. Just a waste of space. So there's no reason to try.
At least I'm not one of the incels who think that they're owed sex.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
You being ugly is not the reason you're a cuck, it's being obsessed with le chad and how much he has sex lmao
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Okay? Why do you feel the need to keep replying?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>the cuck is still complaining
Kek
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
If I am a cuck, why do you care? My impact in this world is minimal at best? Are you trying to mock me so you can squeeze every last bit of enjoyment out of me?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Just saying that you're a cuck, nothing wrong with it since it's true. Why are you complaining again?
open your note app and note the time and place and decide that it was a business related meeting
jot down a quick memo about how today could somehow be construed with in-line with your keikaku (translator's note: keikaku means "plan")
minimum case:
open your notes app and write the time and place where you had literally nothing going on and you had to invent a thing to do to not look awkward
then note the data collection time as "recreational traffic research" -- credit yourself for a full day here of course
once you have a cluster of those you can find out a pattern that you have and make a critical life change
Are some people just never meant to look cool? This girl I'm talking told me that I'm pretty good looking but she can just never see me as cool if it wasn't for my tatts
>Tfw gymcrush from my previous gym has accepted ig follow request >expected ton of "fitchick girl showing off booty" >She has none of that >Just some travel pics, very little closeups of her cute face or some pics from barbecues with family etc
I am so upset about myself that i didnt make a move on her when she was single goddamnit
Shes so perfect
The easiest way is through school, college, work. Literally comes with built in group.
Otherwise, pick up hobbies. Honestly once you get one or two it's easier to build up on it, starting is the hardest part.
Good luck.
Women: if a man approaches you for a picture, asking for your help since he wants to have some good photos, how would you react? Im thinking if you're not interested you could just be polite take the picture and say goodbye, and obviously if you're into him it would be a good conversation topic.
What do you think of this, could this work? Im 29 and running out of options to meet girls. I dont want to be creepy or pushy so be honest
See I would get way too into getting the right angles and getting some good photos of him lolz! I wouldn’t be thinking about whether I was interested in him at all but I’m a little retarded so 😛
a random guy asked me to take his picture at the gym once, i did take it and was polite, but i would've preferred that he just asked another guy instead of me.
I honestly would probably help, I always offer to take photos for people if I'm anywhere scenic and I notice them taking selfies. I wouldn't be interested in giving him directions on how to pose or having a chat tho.
Can someone be attractive enough for you to ignore their red flags?
Yes
How do I get my new male SO to quit smoking?
I tolerate it, but I would much appreciate it if he didnt do it at all.
Yes I have asked him to quit, and he says that at this point of his life, its a time race to see if he gets lung cancer or if his heart condition kills him first.
Smoker here, I stopped when I dated girls who didn't like it. If he's not willing to stop for you he's a motherfucker
Nah, you'll likely develop some disease like Alzheimer's or something else and die before reaching old age due to loneliness.
https://fortune.com/well/2023/06/15/loneliness-comparable-to-smoking-up-to-15-cigarettes-a-day/
The path of the average male on /atoga/ >be sad that no woman wants to be your mommy and change your diapers >become obsessed with LULZ >turn into a tranny >rope
Why? I'd I die it would probably benefit society. Why aren't we encouraging male suicide? Society doesn't need an even split. We used to just be cannon fodder in war.
Can someone have enough green flags for you to ignore how unattractive they are?
I'm not going to have a sexual relationship with someone I find repulsive, but I'm definitely flexible on the way a guy looks if I like them as a person.
Why do women take fucking FOREVER to respond?
Like, she'll text me. I'll send a reply within a few minutes, then she disappears for like an entire day or 2, and then she finally returns with a reply. Cycle repeats.
Why do women take fucking FOREVER to respond?
Like, she'll text me. I'll send a reply within a few minutes, then she disappears for like an entire day or 2, and then she finally returns with a reply. Cycle repeats.
How do I get my new male SO to quit smoking?
I tolerate it, but I would much appreciate it if he didnt do it at all.
Yes I have asked him to quit, and he says that at this point of his life, its a time race to see if he gets lung cancer or if his heart condition kills him first.
you sound autistic. every powerlifter gym is a male-only gym basically. the only issue is that some men pretend to want to workout with only men, but secretly they enjoy going to normal gyms just to ogle women lmao.
I'm so confused. This girls dating profile seems to indicate she just wants a fling.
But we started talking, got her Snap, and we've been talking every day a lot too. Random stuff. She would send me pics of her meals she cooked, pics of her being silly with her girl friends, talking about pets. Like I thought it was just an attention thing, but I swear this is like relationship texting. Like she wants to share the aspects of her life with me.
I'm so confused. We haven't even hooked up yet. There just seems to be strong texting chemistry. But I thought she just wanted a fling based off her profile. Idk if she's falling, but I feel a bit attached already. I'm staying cautious but still.
Forgive me if I’m mistaken I’ve never even seen a penis in real life lolz but doesn’t it just mean like until he can’t cum anymore? Not that his privates are literally dry
Women
What goes through your mind when a guy tells you that they've been really depressed and felt worthless and in a bad mood lately?
Does it give the ick?
Again, depends on the context. Are we close? I wouldn't open up about stuff like that with a person I don't consider a close friend, family member or a partner.
If it's a guy who I don't consider close who opens up to me, I'd label him as a little needy and maybe not very stable.
Women? What's the protocol then? Do I wait for you to say something?
We can just exist without talking to one another, it's no big deal.
no it doesn't, but it makes me feel nervous since i'm really bad at comforting people. yeah I know women are supposed to be good at this, but I never know what to say in these kinds of situations
My bf is always in a bad mood. has a condition that will eventually kill him when it reaches his heart. He told me about it, sounds like he will die in pain and this is something that has a 50% chance of being inherited.
He doesnt want bio kids because he wants the pain to end with him.
From his request we agreed that we are not too serious with eachother, and that I can leave whenever I wish.
I dont think you can get more depressed than that. But here I am, with him. Listening to one of the largest men I have ever known is creaking on his joints and grunting from pain from ordinary movements like sitting down or breathing. I have seen him become angrier and angrier over the years, but it has never been directed at me.
Ehlers Danlos Syndrome is his primary disease.
His body no longer heals properly from everyday wear and tear. Everything for him, like walking and breathing has become a painful experience. His heart has started to wear out now, the flaps that keep your blood flowing into the wrong direction when you heart beats have started to become faulty.
I wasnt there, but I read the medical report, if it was up to his doctor, as he cannot have transplants, he recommended that he never excert himself again, and spend the remaining life in a wheelchair.
He refused, said he wants to die with his boots on.
He still can run short distances and is as strong as any avarage guy
>one of the largest men I have ever known
You thought you were whitepilling when you were actually blackpilling.
Muscle atrophy must be a bitch to have on top of EDS. My bf says if he wasnt fit enough, his condition would be even more miserable
You have my sympathy anon. I hope you have someone too
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Luckily the best thing I can do for both is stay as fit as possible, we’ll see how I’m doing in a few decades! I appreciate it <3 good luck to you and yours as well
Totally depends. If this is someone I am close to, it might bring me down a bit as I would be concerned, but I would overall be glad they told me and did not keep it bottled up. I am used to people struggling with bouts of depression and it would not put me off in any way.
But if you are talking about e.g. an acquaintance suddenly springing it on me, then my feelings would very much depend on whether I feellike they are sincerely sharing and having a vulnerable moment, or that they are saying it to get a certain reaction out of me or read my reaction. I've had situations where someone makes you feel like whether or not they go on a week long bender will depend on what you say next, and that is definitely very uncomfortable.
Do you feel like you've "settled" for your current man? Do you feel like you missed out by basically "selling your shares" too soon, and could have gotten a celebrity or banker or something if you just had waited a little longer?
there is a certain desirability event horizon that once you cross it makes it impossible not to have a certain contempt for women as a group and making mental exceptions for a few you like/love. I'm not even that successful and I've hit it, I can only imagine how much more extreme the feeling is with men who are rich or famous.
yeah the best option is a guy with a normal or slightly successful life, but both losers and rich/famous men should be avoided since they seem to hate women more.
No, I'm pretty sure he settled for me if anything. He's far out of my league physically, from a better socio-cultural background, and by far the best guy I've ever met yet alone dated.
No. "Settling" for me would be settling for someone I have a lesser connection with, feel less strong emotion for. That is not something that is rooted in stuff like looks, success or fame. Those things could be a bonus, but on their own they are not inherently appealing.
I've used this metaphor before, but for me the best way to put it is like asking someone "you have a cake that you know tastes unbelievable amazing, but it looks pretty mediocre from the outside - how do you feel knowing there are amazing looking cakes out there?"
Yes, if an amazing tasting cake also looks amazing, that makes it all the more grand. But it's a cake, the whole point is to eat it and that it tastes good. The opposite, one that looks amazing and tastes like shit, is not a thing and never will be a thing. So just knowing there are good looking ones is not in any way tempting when you have no idea what they would be like, really.
My bf might not sound like a catch on paper, but he is my best friend, he makes everything better, even in the most boring situation or strained moment he will sometimes, by surprise, find a way to make me crack up and enjoy being alive. A relationship cannot thrive on that alone, especially not long term. But without that, why even bother? If I get to spend my life with one person, I want to love their company.
that webm is the instructor purposely showing what not to do. it is commonly shown out of context by people that dont know anything about the pua community but try to paint it in a bad light anyways. just thought i'd let you know.
his name is RSD todd, he uses that video as an example of what not to do in seminars. hilariously it was cut out of context and went viral just as is. moist critical did a video on how cringe it was years ago, without knowing the context, and thats how i found out about it
>pic rel
i don't actually really mind it. but i'm euro and i think that maybe men are more polite here, in my experience the guy was always very nice and polite so it's not like i felt threatened or offended.
I don't care about being approached by strange men, as long as they are legitimately open to being blown off, aka seeing to look if I want to flirt or get to know someone new (maybe romantically), rather than trying to convince me into staying around for as long as they can.
Sure maybe if you were just having a bad moment, it can be annoying even being approached in itself. But stuff you don't love just happens sometimes when you go outside, that's part of the deal.
>met qt girl on student nation pubcrawl >we talk and she seems to be fliritng with me or at the very least is friendly >exchange instagrams >ask if we can meet at a cafe >she says she can only do it for a little bit as shes meeting a friend later >i have to cancel before retard me forgot i had class >ask her out to drink or a cafe meet the next week >tells me her schedule is very busy this week and if theres any student nation events on to tell her so she can join
Would I be wrong in thinking that she is blowing me off or should i ask her out again next week or if possible invite her to an event?
Asking for a referral (assuming your therapist was not entirely incompetent, and even if they were, there will probably still be other people working at their work place that can offer a referral based on your file) usually gets you better results than seeking out a therapist "in the wild".
If you have no other choice but to cold approach, pick one that has a background/explanatory text on their site that resonates with you and just feels right on a gut level. Make sure to pick someone who understands you will want to have an appointment or two before committing to more structural therapy from them specifically. You want someone who also cares about establishing mutual trust and a basic enough connection to offer a place to share.
Imo a sign of a good therapist is when there is some basic respect/good vibes, but you tend to leave an appointment feeling puzzled or sad, rather than satisfied and relieved. Especially if you have deeper issues, the latter can just mean that you found someone who will offer support and encouragement, rather than being able to challenge you into obtaining a new perspective on yourself.
I can't get a referral. This one won't even take my calls. I'm sick. It was hard to find anyone who didn't flat out say they didn't take male clients and out of those who do who weren't wacko.
Then you have no choice but to google around and follow the second part of the post basically. Google based on your area, specific descriptions of your issues, maybe check if there are therapists that specialize in treating men. It is surprising to me that you heard several times that they don't take male clients, because men are in general overrepresented in many many issues (autism, most addictions, psychosis/schizophrenia...). This is well-known for everyone working in the field. I can see maybe certain therapists, especially if they work alone/from home, not liking to be alone with unstable men on a daily basis. But it's not like it is generally an exception or even noteworthy for men to receive therapeutic/psychiatric treatment and you should absolutely be able to find someone who will happily take male clients. I don't know what it's like in your area, but if it's anything like there, you will have a much bigger issue with general availability and ability to take on any new patients. Just keep asking every single therapist who replies, even if they shoot you down, for a referral. It also helps to ask for it straight away ("if you are not currently seeing new clients, may I ask you if you know of any suitable therapists that do, given that it has been hard to find someone" or whatever) so they can answer everything in a single email, that'll further increase your odds of getting replies you can work with.
I don't live in a heavily populated area. About 90% of the listed therapists do just child or family counseling, marriage counseling, pre-marriage counseling, or just women counseling. Then they have to take my insurance. I can't afford to pay $150 to talk to talk to a therapist once.
Idk I just feel like giving up. Life is already unbearable enough. This was just a hail Mary. I honestly don't want to be fixed I just want to die.
I agree with the other poster that I think the urge to reach out and touch your partner, especially their face which is the most personal and expressive part of the body, is very natural. It is still a very good thing though, because it means she has (at least some) good/healthy instincts and is not too shy to act on them.
Congrats on getting laid and definitely relish the afterglow, it's one of the best parts imo, as good or better than anticipation.
I am underweight, need to gain like 10lbs of muscle! And I’ll be thin but healthy and fit so that’s the goal :3
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
hopefully the weight all goes to your ass cheeks
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
oh it’s you! yes you are underweight actually. like 105 lbs right? and I don’t remember your height
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I fluctuate between 105-110 I’m 5’6
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
thank you hungry skellington
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Yeah make sure to get to a healthy bf% that might be low enough that you’re going to develop serious problems
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I’m working on it! I’m not anorexic or anything, I’ve always been skinny and struggled gaining weight. Need look into getting some kind of mass gainer or somethin 😛
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
i’m considering making an impregnation joke and… nope, deciding against it
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
LOL
I’m not going to get impregnated any time soon
black slightly oversized long-sleeve shirt and black plaid skirt. i should give up with the all-black approach though because i feel like it doesn't suit me. it makes some girls look cool but i just look frumpy.
granny undies, a loose pair of shorts and a very loose t-shirt because I feel like having nothing touch my skin, but still be somewhat presentable if I see someone in the common area
>go to asia >young women wear these oversized T shirts to mimic that "wearing boyfriends shirt" look >its just barely long enough to hide their panties
I had to control my rape urges severely that month
I went to Hawaii a few years ago and the amount of pantyshots I experienced from all of the Japanese tourists firsthand made me realize that anime wasn't an exaggeration. There was even one that was a full frontal, skirt knocked up and I could see all the way up to her navel, like the one in the opening scene of Bakemonogatari. God bless the windy days in Hawaii.
You have no other choice. You just have to know what you're buying. Still sad there is no PayPal buyers protection in Western society. At least the Arabs get to chuck stones at whores.
What are you going to do? Get your n-slur boyfriend to beat me up, whore? I can feel the sense of panic and fear running through your body, for you and your kind have been exposed
I just watched game of thrones where littlefinger told sansa the story of how the hound was burned by his brother and got his face scars. if sansa ever shared this story and the hound heard news of it, he would be furious and probably fly into a rage and kill her. that struck me as such a cool detail, a story that could get you killed if you ever told it
It's okay, you can accept the fact that females post on LULZ and that you're sharing this thread with them. They're only females, nothing to be afraid!
Women have terrifying powers of mental manipulation. All women have to do is treat me like I'm worthless and then, presto changeo, I now perceive myself as worthless.
Fortunately it's not that bad for me, I'm not worthless in general, merely just completely unsuitable for romance.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Anon, random women don't care about you enough to "manipulate" you. Sounds like you have a serious victim complex.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I'm not victimized, women don't do this to me consciously. I'm just another statistical data point in this sad state of society.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
everyone is out to get me because i’m subhuman
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Nobody is out to "get" you, schizo.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
everybody says that to be nice/polite but deep down they all hate me. i judge random people all the time, why wouldn’t everyone else do that?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Nobody says that to be polite to anyone, what the fuck are you even blabbering about. Truly a schizo poster.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
i do. i constantly think of mean judgey things about random people. yesterday i saw a woman walking ahead of her boyfriend and my brain starrted screaming "BETA KEK BETA KEK BETA KEK"
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Most mentally healthy LULZ user
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
yeah its pretty terrible, i wish i didnt think this way
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>i saw a woman walking ahead of her boyfriend and my brain starrted screaming "BETA KEK BETA KEK BETA KEK"
yeah you have social media brain rot, kek
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
society requires people to wear a mask of kindness but in reality everyone is an asshole, me included
Any avarage guy can ktfo any avarage woman.
Our trick is to get the biggest man available to return that violence to any who threaten it to us.
like biology 101, anon
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
yeah but im too retarded to realize the future implications of knocking you out, therefore your tricks dont work on me! :^)
You need advice to maintain a relationship, not just to obtain one. Maybe you struggle to obtain a relationship because you think it's a finish line and you can stop working once you've crossed it.
Force of habit, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, I've been posting here for fifteen. I don't often post outside of ATOGA, I also feel too far removed from the average poster's age to really relate to or care about a lot of topics coming up. But I like specifically bringing a female perspective in a thread where people go when looking for one. This site is so negative and male dominated I feel that people seeking out to hear from the other side should be welcomed and talked to.
LULZ, I started out on /b/. I do not recall /adv/ ever not being there, though, and it was def here since 1-2 years in at least, I think honestly since 2008 at least. But it was super slow. It was the kind of thread you had to leave open for the day because you'd get very serious questions (most of the time) and 2-3 responses with hours between them.
Also to be fair, it would sometimes happen that two posters started a discussion about something that went on for like five posts with around ten minutes between them. But it was very common to just get a few replies and then for the thread to die.
i have no friends besides him, i don't want to annoy him with my thoughts all the time and be too dependent lol. so i just pretend that LULZ is enough for social interaction outside of relationship.
I don't have a favourite, it depends on the mood. I like variety and I won't name them because I don't want their content to be harder to find. But I'll say that none of them are on that Pornhub top 100 list.
I think if we had more fem*le cops in court, police etc crime rates would drop for men
just is based on my personal experience about getting away with things when women are the authority but not with men
however, Id have to look for statistics on this and places were women have increasingly become part of the authorities
I think its a good thing because punishments can be overly harsh
I don't get the appeal of being a porn fan. All your doing is watching two animals fuck, does it matter? It's not like it requires actual acting skills or there's any technique to it. Even if I hate tennis, I know there's probably and an art and a style to it that fans are connoisseurs for and I can respect that. But porn is just people fucking, shitty camera work, no real direction, no story. What's the actual appeal beyond using it to jerk off?
Philosophy, art history, religion, spirituality, [redacted] theory, literature, psychology, and generally anything nonfiction related to the art of living or being a human
It's not critical theory, it's something else that I don't want to share here. I'm currently reading something more technical although it's theory-based, I'm about 75% done with a book called Knowing God which is really good and Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck is next on my list. After that I want to finally read Aurelius's Meditations. Hard to give you a recommendation if idk what you're into tho. What book did you just finish?
Marcuse's One Dimensional Man and the Catholic Catechism
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
You'd probably like uncle Ted's book if you haven't read it yet (I haven't but it seems like it's in the general vein of this). Read Knowing God by J.I. Packer
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Thanks anon I'll check it out.
to each their own, I do genuinely think she's a great actress (but maybe biased cause she's hot)
[...] >cuddle buddy
cut that shit out if you start dating tbqh it's degenerate imo. reminds me of the days when I'd cuddle/sleep over with random girls in my apartment complex when I was drunk. pretty pathetic tbh. just get a teddy bear or some shit
[...] >given a shitty script and a director who doesn't give a fuck there isn't much you can do
that, and she was inexperienced and is also incredibly shy IRL. but she really came into her own later on imo and has done some great performances
I'll check out her films. Let's hope she doesn't end up like Hayden Christensen.
Question for femanons, do women actually find Robert Pattinson attractive?
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He used to be
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How many girls were genuinely into twilight back in the day?
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I was into it in high school
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Why? I never got the appeal. Is it a girl thing? I gave a copy of Twilight to my mom as a prank. Next morning I found it in the trash can.
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Yea I'm pretty sure it's a girl thing. It's a romantic YA series and most men have no interest in romance.
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I'm a guy and 90% of what I read is romance. I like classical Arabic, Persian and Chinese lit which is 90% romance.
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You are a very rare exception. Any recommendations?
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Gulistan of Sadi, Ihara Saikaku's works, the love poems of Hafiz and the Tale of the Bamboo Cutter is a must read.
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I loooooved twilight
It was one of my favorite book series, I would save up my money and go to this book store by the mall hoping they still had the newest copy in stock for what I could afford to pay for it
I’d save up all my old books I had been reading in between the new releases and trade them in for store credit to help cover the cost
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What was so good about it? Have you re-read it since?
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>I'll check out her films. Let's hope she doesn't end up like Hayden Christensen.
She won't, she found her niche in indie films and is doing the projects she finds interesting and appealing. She "made it", so to speak, since she obviously escaped the trappings of a big system and being typecast.
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Hi Kristen
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I'm a 24 white guy blasting extreme metal in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you.
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I'm a 24 white guy blasting black people in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you
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I'm a 25 white guy blasting acid techno in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you.
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>acid techno
Link?
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just messing in the studio bruv https://voca.ro/1gyAoKLNlUUP
What I mean is, two sexy people fucking isn't something that requires a lot of skill or artistry. You can objectively say that Anthony Hopkins is a better actor the Kristen Stewart and admire his acting skill or watch Kstew because hers is so bad its good. You can admire the skill in a good guitar solo. Pornstars just have to look good and have sex. So what makes cute girl A a better pornstar than cute girl B? There's nothing to be a fan of, no skill or talent to admire.
>nta but Kstew is unironically a great actress imo
Great? Nah, but an alright one with a serviceable script? Sure. She, much like Pattinson, has done a lot of work in indie films and that's great for her. Twilight was for the money, and both of them got a lot of dough for doing them.
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to each their own, I do genuinely think she's a great actress (but maybe biased cause she's hot)
Femanons would you date someone who has had a cuddle buddy of the other sex?
>cuddle buddy
cut that shit out if you start dating tbqh it's degenerate imo. reminds me of the days when I'd cuddle/sleep over with random girls in my apartment complex when I was drunk. pretty pathetic tbh. just get a teddy bear or some shit
Really? I haven't seen her anywhere else. I guess if your given a shitty script and a director who doesn't give a fuck there isn't much you can do.
>given a shitty script and a director who doesn't give a fuck there isn't much you can do
that, and she was inexperienced and is also incredibly shy IRL. but she really came into her own later on imo and has done some great performances
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>cut that shit out if you start dating tbqh it's degenerate imo
Yeah there would be no need to have a cuddle buddy if I had a gf.
Question for women, do you think or recognise anything about young men these days complaining about western, specifically white women? about their general attitudes towards men?
do you think something is wrong and there is some truth to it or is it all just useless rage.
You could blame incels but just from talking to guys regularly I can tell a lot of men think this way, and theyre not all basement dwelling incels
Not really. Honestly I lived a pretty sheltered life, half of my friends have been with the same guy since middle school/high school, most of my male friends are married or have a long term girlfriend.
I feel like a lot of guys get their understanding of women from dating apps and social media instead of fostering relationships with women IRL, especially after high school.
>I feel like a lot of guys get their understanding of women from dating apps and social media instead of fostering relationships with women IRL, especially after high school.
goddamn, thanks for sharing your view but thats just so wrong
working with women makes it even more obvious than social media
I think there is truth to the notion that it is harder for men to find a woman for romantic partnership these days, but its not some secretive conspiracy, it's just one of many symptoms of our increasingly fractured society. Before the Internet, communities were local people who were mostly on the same page about values and motives. Now, you can find your hyper-specific niche group online and everyone local seems boring and NPC by comparison
you too thanks for sharing but again if you think its just because of the internet you'd be severely wrong
just at my last side job: >lots of female staff (I'll focus on the bad, keep in mind there were 5 or so normal decent girls) >one is a slut whose dating another coworker and she brags about how she lies to him to go out partying >other one is a manager and hires her boyfriend, constantly berates and bitches at the guy for minor fuckups or just to stir shit (not the typical beta type, its a buff but friendly dumb tool type) >another talks about the guys shes dating with disdain >all of them occasionally have bd moods that they take out on everyone around them and they expect everyone to accept that behavior because thats just a bad mood instead of learning to control themselves
why do women like /adv/ so much? i dont see this many females on any other board ive been to
I think it was /y/ or whatever that has the highest concentration of wom*n
anyway theres like 5 boards with a lot of women, theres /soc/, /adv/, /y/ and one or two other porn/anime boards
>working with women makes it even more obvious than social media
Really? Not my experience, but as I said I live in a pretty small community. The guys I've met who had healthy relationships with women into adulthood (mixed friend groups, good relationships with female siblings, good relationships with female coworkers, etc) all had girlfriends and such, and in general were better socially adjusted.
The guys I've met who have the most vitriolic hatred for women just never had any women in their life.
Bullshit.
High school is where they see the females lusting after a few Chads and plenty of you females do it openly in public too if a Chad walks by. You're such a stupid cunt for trying to psyop.
Why are you this mad by some women finding some men attractive? Men find women attractive too and lust after them all the time.
Men find more than 50% of females attractive, but you females only find the top 10% of men attractive then you complain about those men not being loyal to you, kek. You dumb cunts are just morons and shouldn't have equal rights, you're the reason why the world is so shit right now.
>you females only find the top 10% of men attractive
Close to 80% of men are sexually active.
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these usually seem to be based on age (like ages 18-30), but women date older and that's the issue with these graphs.
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>le older men maymay
Explain why older men are also more single than older women
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they aren't
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Yes they are, only demographic with less single men than women is 65+ you dumbass
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nta but yeah you can see the young male loneliness epidemic in a nutshell right there. The number of women willing to date us is way way lower than the number of men we’re competing with
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well men can only blame themselves. who could guess that literally every man aged 18-50 going for early 20's women could cause some issues with dating demographics.
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nta but bro you just said women date older men
You're a demoralization shill, possibly a bot.
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stop aging so badly then
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nta but bro you just said women date older men
You're a demoralization shill, possibly a bot.
>men cause other men problems >wah wah womyns fault!
Tranny moment
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>getting upset over a joke whilst denying the reality about dating
roastie who never had her prime moment
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I'm sure it's womens' fault that you're a tranny lol
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oh yeah, there is definitely a middle age and elderly female loneliness epidemic. but they have become complacent with it and cope with pets, plus they usually have really low sex drives anyway
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Single and sexually active is not the same. Over 80% of men 35 and under had sex in 2021.
Bullshit.
High school is where they see the females lusting after a few Chads and plenty of you females do it openly in public too if a Chad walks by. You're such a stupid cunt for trying to psyop.
I think there is truth to the notion that it is harder for men to find a woman for romantic partnership these days, but its not some secretive conspiracy, it's just one of many symptoms of our increasingly fractured society. Before the Internet, communities were local people who were mostly on the same page about values and motives. Now, you can find your hyper-specific niche group online and everyone local seems boring and NPC by comparison
I've had a weird friendship with an autist girl for the past few months. I gave her a birthday gift, now she's giving me one. I've gotten mixed signals all over the place so I'm just gonna be direct and ask about our relationship. I think it's for the best since I'm also an autist who overthinks everything and I'd like to figure out exactly what the fuck it is we have between us. I can't tell if I should just treat her as a friend or if there's something deeper developing here. I'm 30, she's 25 and I know her from church/uni. If she says yes I'm gonna invite her to go to the fair.
You open your mouth, gently touch and brush your tongues together, and go back and forth between you pushing into their mouth and them pushing into your mouth.
>start out with closed-mouth kisses, either start right away with soft, relaxed, loose lips, or work your way up from more dry kisses to letting go >when going in for the kiss, tilt your head a little (most people tilt to the right, I think) to avoid noses bumping >after what feels like the right amount of time (can be ten seconds or half a minute, probably something like that), you open your mouths by opening yours while applying light pressure on their lips - don't open wide, go about half as far as you can go >lick their lower lip and/or flick the tip of your tongue across theirs (don't reach far into their mouth if you don't already touch it when going in a bit) >once you touched tongues, depending on the mood you either leisurely get used to it and build up the pace for touching, or you frantically start making out >the "make out motion" itself can vary, some people only really like to twirl tongues, others include stuff like stucking on the other's tongue, slow or fast strokes, plunging their tongue in (I don't recommend trying that on a first occasion)... if you want to be safe, try waiting long enoug between moves to take their cue for how fast/intense to go, e.g. you can spend a long time just twirling the tip parts of your tongues before the kiss deepens
When in real doubt, withdraw, give her a compliment about how she looks or tastes or smells, and ask her to show you how she likes it best.
If your question is >I like this, is that a bad thing?
then the answer is no, you just like what you like. However if you enjoy being objectified, that will attract (which you also want!) people that like objectifying others, and assholes (M/F) are pretty overrepresented there, so be mindful of who you trust enough to do this with.
If your question is >if I like it, what's women's issue with it?
then the answer is that as a man, especially if you are straight (or appear to be straight to others), being objectified is an experience you can seek out (or maybe even want to seek out and cannot). For women, it is an experience we at times cannot escape, coupled with a very real threat of force or violence that we are not physically up to compete with. That is different, even when the objectification going on itself might be similar or even the same, the context and lived experience it happens in differs.
I've been wondering. I come from a family of tall people. My bf also comes from such family. I became 2+ inches taller than my mother, but I matured and grew before I was 18. He became 3inches taller than his father and he said he grew until he was 21 years old boys in his family mature late or something. He has a younger brother who grew 2+ inches taller than
their father. My two sisters are also exactly as tall as I am.
I am 6'1 and he is 6'3 at the very least. if we had kids, would we have 6'3+ girls and 6'5/6'6+ boys? The genetics are there I think. I love the idea of it at least.
Is there a more accurate way to predict this?
Doctors usually do (mother height in cm + father height in cm + 13 cm)/2 for boys, and (mother height in cm + father height in cm - 13 cm)/2 for girls.
So in your case it'd be 194 cm boy, and 181 for a girl. Obviously it's not precise.
>wanting tall daughters
you know that the equivalent of being a manlet is being tall as a woman right?
ofc its not as bad as being a man, but they suffer more than other women.
personally I also think the female body loses parts of its beauty at certain length proportions
I am 6'1, I think I am very tall when it comes to women.
I maybe came out wrong, but I dont particularly want tall daughters, but I wondered how the math works in biology. >worst part are guys who want to call me mommy in bed, ew.
Doctors usually do (mother height in cm + father height in cm + 13 cm)/2 for boys, and (mother height in cm + father height in cm - 13 cm)/2 for girls.
So in your case it'd be 194 cm boy, and 181 for a girl. Obviously it's not precise.
tyvm, seems like heightwise we're likely getting mirror copies then
You're supposed to practice eugenics in secret, not say the quiet part out loud.
lol. Its not like that at all, I didnt order growth hormones from wish for this at all
Should women be randomly split into large groups and each group be given a quota of short men (under 5'9) they need to date per six months and if they fail to meet the quota, the entire group be punished with increased taxes for example?
Adding more because I have great posts and men would be happier if I was the universal leader:
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/29354090/#29354352
It's pretty clear that 30% of the male population just needs to be quelled
Or, you can check my solutions without killing anyone. And good luck coming after sexually frustrated men, kek, it worked out so well in the past, right?
The fact that twice as many women as men have reproduced
The fact that society was built on men dying as cannon fodder to rid society of the weak
The fact that most population booms came from women trying to tie down a man due to a lack of available husbands
We're just navigating society as if for most of human history a quarter of the male population had been shed
Incels are clearly dead weight
>The fact that society was built on men dying as cannon fodder to rid society of the weak
And also women getting raped/enslaved when a city was conquered. What then lol?
I know how to fix the incel problem
every year in every country about 0.00001% of the populations women between the ages 14-25 are selected to become temple whores for a year
they must work in a local temple where they cant refuse sexual intercourse with a man, but they are offered abortions for free and healthcare+all men are checked for STD's beforehand
after that year they get some money, a mental health counselor and a T shirt commemorating their service
We can exist with less men. You guys used to die in wars a lot, we survived just fine.
Hi, I am 22 and I still can't fuck. But I like it when women are berating and even abusive towards me. Do you think it could work out between us? (You could keep me a virgin if you want)
Hi, I am 22 and I still can't fuck. But I like it when women are berating and even abusive towards me. Do you think it could work out between us? (You could keep me a virgin if you want)
If everyone's over 6ft, females would just raise their standards to being over 7ft. Do you fail to realize that females are the problem and them having too many rights?
You raise a good point when identifying that standards will always go up, but you err when seeking a solution that uses force, coercion or even violence.
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It wouldn't be violence if governments just turned it into a new law. Females have never gone against what the government tells them to do, they would just obey the new powers like good little slaves, as they've proven to do so biologically for thousands of years.
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>Females have never gone against what the government tells them to do, they would just obey the new powers like good little slaves, as they've proven to do so biologically for thousands of years.
Right, feminists don't exist.
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Men allowed them to have power and men can disallow that as quickly too, as you saw with Roe vs Wade where females seethed that they can't murder babies anymore.
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with 4mm trimmer. I am quite much never hair free, but I keep it down so it isnt everywhere.
I usually ask bf's to do the same, because I dont want to blow someone whos pubic hair goes up my nose.
I already have really fine body hair, it hurt the first couple times but it doesn’t anymore! You have to adjust the angles and I have a precision head for the delicate areas but so long as your are stretching the skin properly and being efficient it works the best out of anything I’ve tried!
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i’ve literally never done it once in my entire life, and i’m a hairy dude
am i supposed to?
and funnily enough, i find pubic hair on women pretty repulsive. if i were to discover that an 8-10 had armpit hair and a bush, i would be at least significantly less attracted to her, if not turned off completely
How do I tell my fiance that I want her to act like I'm raping her sometimes when we have sex? She is always really into it, which I don't mind but I want to act like I'm forcing her sometimes too. It's really weird because I have no problem telling her about many of my other sexual fantasies and she has done everything I've asked her to do: public, anal, cosplay, etc. but I just feel really weird asking her to do rapeplay with me. Should I just fully send it and tell her what I want like I've done with all the other fantasies I have or should I approach this a bit differently? And for the record, she has never been raped so it's not like I'd be digging up old memories.
>Just rape her for real. Half measures are for pussies.
She never says no tho... Even when I can tell she's not into it she just lays there and let's me get off at most if she's not in the mood.
How do I tell my fiance that I want her to act like I'm raping her sometimes when we have sex? She is always really into it, which I don't mind but I want to act like I'm forcing her sometimes too. It's really weird because I have no problem telling her about many of my other sexual fantasies and she has done everything I've asked her to do: public, anal, cosplay, etc. but I just feel really weird asking her to do rapeplay with me. Should I just fully send it and tell her what I want like I've done with all the other fantasies I have or should I approach this a bit differently? And for the record, she has never been raped so it's not like I'd be digging up old memories.
Sounds like she's mega submissive and wouldn't mind if you tell her about your fetish.
Women are scientifically proven to be less good at critical thinking and rational thinking than men
however ideally you'd also limit dumb people in general from voting.
even more ideally, you'd get rid of (sham) democracy entirely and replace it with a technocracy, but we all know that would just fall to corruption also
i should probably give up trying to make online friends. i have no friends irl either but i thought that maybe this would be easier. >always get too excited and start infodumping and typing too much >then feel like the other person finds me annoying >even if we share 1 interest, after an hour of talking the chat seems to get very boring, maybe my fault >end up ghosting and hoping that next time i'll feel some kind of connection and the chat won't feel so forced
Online friends are like online LDRs, not worth it. It's always better to get face to face feedback, online people are too fickle and always operate on some level of dishonesty, so just make an effort to make friends IRL by integrating yourself into social gatherings that are happening, some hobby groups featuring plenty of new people to meet and hang out with, etc.
yeah that seems like the best answer here. idk what's wrong with me really. I actually went to this one club at university at some point, but even there it started to feel like the others were forming a clique and I was kinda just existing there and didn't even want to talk to them anymore. haven't gone there for almost 5 months now.
>but even there it started to feel like the others were forming a clique and I was kinda just existing there and didn't even want to talk to them anymore. haven't gone there for almost 5 months now.
Sometimes it do be like that, anon. But you gotta keep trying, you'll come into your own with time and meet people that you'll click with.
yeah, it's just that i'm not very social and have specialized interests, so something like finding a hobby group i'm genuinely interested in is not that common. this one felt like i could've found a social group there, but maybe i'm just too negative and shy. i felt annoyed when i saw others there doing this fake nice shit. when i try to pretend to be overly excited like that around strangers, it just feels weird. and when people do it to me, it just feels like they're portraying to others around us like "look at me guys, i'm nice to this loner so i'm a good person".
I'm in the similar boat, I have lovely friends, but still lack people who I can talk at liberty about my interests, my passion for art, etc. My friends are great for filling that human void, but I am still to stumble on someone who is into the same stuff I am with such fervor and passion. Thought I found that in my ex, but nah, and that's the worst, when you get disappointed because you put expectations into it. Reading essays and watching YT vids is nice and all, but I miss that human dimension in it all, those face to face talks that I never quite was able to have with anyone other than my professor and an ex crush I frequently msged with.
Is it over if you're a butterface? Like to the point where when you smile people get away from you as fast as possible because your face looks smooshed in and deformed.
Yeah I'm female. I don't want to go the plastic surgery route but im worried about how bad my smile makes my whole face look. Idk how to make a good impression in my future career when I look like a caricature of an ugly witch when I smile.
I don't think it will harm your professional life too much, you will just be treated like a man (which can actually be good for a career woman). Dress professional
I know how you feel. When I was a teenager I got dental problems because my jaw couldnt accomodate all the teeth I had, and they started to get mushed together. It caused me headaches so my canine teeth got surgically removed and I had to have braces. my open mouth smile looks weird imo because I lack teeth, even if there arent gaps.
My SO literally has a huge jaw, and room for teeth on top of his wisdom teeth. Genetics are weird
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It's not the teeth that are the problem, it's my whole facial structure. I have a big droopy nose.
I don't think it will harm your professional life too much, you will just be treated like a man (which can actually be good for a career woman). Dress professional
I feel like there's a golden range for that. Once you start to look actually unpleasant it's more of a detriment than a benefit.
>tfw extremely dominant sexually and into rape play and domination
will this be a problem?
I saw a statistic that only 93% of women are into dominant men in bed
A question to both genders.
If you feel like playing a character in a game of the opposite sex, do you try to make them as "conventionally pretty/handsome" as possible, or just try to recreate your SO?
I just started playing Bannerlord, and I try to customize my character as my SO as often as possible
> just try to recreate your SO?
pretty much never, but that sounds cute. i only ever really play as male in military games since it feels more realistic. usually there is no customization though.
I play bannerlord with a character I customized to be as close as possible to my BF. I know women can lead armies too, but I like the realism of it. >I also cringe a bit at the female "warcries" and commands for a reason I dont entirely understand
I think if we had more fem*le cops in court, police etc crime rates would drop for men
just is based on my personal experience about getting away with things when women are the authority but not with men
however, Id have to look for statistics on this and places were women have increasingly become part of the authorities
I think its a good thing because punishments can be overly harsh
Granted I'm F but men are already allowed to go shirtless, why should it not be okay for your shirt to be wet (braless or not) on top of not being allowed to go shirtless? Why is it our problem when men get excited?
Obviously pick your time and place. If you go to a park at night, you 100% want to bring stuff you can use to cover up and not feel exposed going home or even just lounging around. Just a hoodie and maybe even sweats if you were wearing a short skirt out earlier, also depending on how safe your area is generally.
I mean I can't help but stare if your nipples are showing through your shirt, especially when it's wet and I can see the color and areola and not just the outline.
What’s something that I could do to scrape up some cash?
I can’t hold down a job due to personal stuff I’d rather not go into. I don’t want a ton of cash, just some sort of way to earn money.
My brother buys and sells stuff.
Do you guys have any ideas? Like something I could craft and sell on marketplace for a profit?
I was actually going to recommend this.
Here where I live, people post odd jobs like that on the local weekly newspaper too. like
"I have this huge thing I cant move with my car, willing to pay a person with a truck."
That sort of stuff seems to always be available, but I live in the countryside. I dont know how it is for city people
Seeking some advice started seeing a girl 2 days ago and haven't broken the touch barrier. How do I salvage this relationship? How do I escalate things to make it clear I want a relationship?
I was walking uphill in a city on sidewalk. A girl on a bike rode past me. Since it was uphill, she was not sitting down properly, but stood up to use her bodyweight more to pedal probably. She had a short dress. I could see her panties as she was riding uphill.
This made me realize how much I want a gf. She would wear dresses and I could just flip it up anytime when we are alone to have a good look at her beautiful butt.
If they mean literally-literally, they mean a sarcastic woman who drowns out her existential dread through lots of sex with different men.
But a lot of women just really identify to her, I think, because she is a good portrayal of a very much flawed but also charming and talented woman and she uses irony and her own imagination to feel in control of situations... which I feel is something a lot of especially younger people relate to.
She meant literally literally and it's my ex we're talking about. You're right about the existential dread angle, as well the character capturing the nihilistic 21st century female in a way similar to that of Brenda Chenowith in Six Feet Under. She said it was her favorite show.
Women, is it more arousing when your bf makes bigger cooms or smaller cooms? I'm trying to make the bigger cooms because I like the concept, but I wonder if to women it's just "great, more to clean up" or if it's hot to them too.
I'm asking this as stupidly as possible so nobody hornyposts.
Bigger loads are definitely hotter, but like you said they can kinda suck to clean up/swallow, and usually my partner cumming signifies the end of sex anyways.
I get how they'd suck to clean up, but how do they suck to swallow? (Kek)
as long as he cooms.
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is right tho.
One of the best things about current relationship is that we are very open what we want in bed, and I managed to be the first girl according to him to get him to coom during cowgirl position.
I dont mind he has had girlfriends before, but sure felt good I was the first to get that out of him, literally and figuratively, even if it isnt exactly true
>I managed to be the first girl according to him to get him to coom during cowgirl position
It's possible, I've had 3 gfs and none have actually ridden me to an orgasm IIRC.
Bigger loads are definitely hotter, but like you said they can kinda suck to clean up/swallow, and usually my partner cumming signifies the end of sex anyways.
Bigger cooms are always better and more gratifying to the ego.
is right tho.
One of the best things about current relationship is that we are very open what we want in bed, and I managed to be the first girl according to him to get him to coom during cowgirl position.
I dont mind he has had girlfriends before, but sure felt good I was the first to get that out of him, literally and figuratively, even if it isnt exactly true
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My bf might have an illegitimate daughter from a one night stand in Norway.
One when he was at work, I tried to shut his tablet so it would stop giving off extra light, I saw a picture sent by a woman with about a 10 year old girl, and she has his eyes and nose.
The e-mail was open already, didnt snoop.
I have no context, but I know that this woman and him are not related. This "daughter" is from a time when him and I didnt date, and figured he will tell me in due time if its his or whatever the context is.
I know I could have at that point read all of that e-mail exhange, but it felt like its not right to snoop into someones private business. I saw the pic and the message below it, and I think I saw enough
Damn...
How long have you known? Do you plan on asking him about it, years from now? Or perhaps before you are going to get married or something like that
Its been about a month now.
I dont have anything planned. I dont know how to bring this up.
"So I touched your tablet, saw another woman posing with a kid that has your eyes and got really insecure"
The picture title was "Little <SO's name>"
Those eyes are quite distinct too. I'd ask my friends/sisters, but I am afraid of ruining his reputation if I asked them for advice.
M, my parents were in very serious financial danger during the 2008 housing crisis, like close to losing our house and declaring bankruptcy. I was pretty young still, 10 or 11, so I didn't notice anything amiss. They never mentioned anything about it and they're evasive about money in general so I don't want to ask I only found out about it when I overheard them reminiscing about it.
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nothing because i’ve had a cushy, boring life and am also a boring person. in terms of stuff that Isn’t To Be Talked About With Others, though, when my parents took me out to dinner on my 19th birthday they told me that i was nearly aborted because my mom didn’t have enough fluid in her womb and there was a large risk of me being retarded or having some other kind of defect. i did turn out pretty fuckin stupid tho so they probably should have gone through with it
Does that include fake compliments?
I was "told" women tend to do that a lot, too.
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Anonymous
Fake compliments would apply to the instant death criteria. The criteria would be the woman receiving the compliment, not the speech or the intention to compliment. So texting a girl that's she's pretty to manipulate her would kill you instantly under this scenario.
not well.
appearance wise I might legit like what someone else wears and ask where she got it from to get it for myself.
Might die for a t-shirt. feels bad
>go back to school so I'm in my 30s >go to study session with a few girls >They rib me playfully about the subject material
I forgot what being around girls in the early twenties was like. It's kind of nice.
Oh this reminds me. When I was at some work sponsored education thingy for three months. There was only one guy, at his early 30s, the rest of us were mostly girls in our early 20s.
We immediately started to call ourselves a flock of hens and that he is our cock. Good times. I'm glad he was in on it.
none of us afaik.
He was married, we had a small party for our "graduation" and invited his wife too. I think she got enough of it to satisfy the rest of us too. lol.
Legit a good guy. he has a "superpower", he can open a champagne bottle without the cork making a sound
This post just gave me a blackpilling realization about men. Even the most normie tier men never seem to talk about sex slavery, or sexual violence. I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
I knew that already retard. Men who think like this are a lost cause. But I’m talking about otherwise normal men still feeling neutral about it at best.
>I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
That's not true, though. And it isn't fair to say it's neutral for all men, that mostly applies to those living in first world countries.
That isn't accurate, I think about it a lot, how many women are being abused and are in sex slavery, how they're being trafficked out of the countries they live through Balkan counties like Albania to Israel and other middle eastern countries where they're forced to work as prostitutes, how there are children that are taken and abused and the amount of child prostitution goes up dramatically in a city if there is a superbowl game there.
I think about it a ton, idk what to do about it, I've never engaged in it or even been to a stripper.
you’re right. i’d never admit this irl unless it was with another guy that i was sure was also based, but talk about sex slavery, violence, and just women’s issues in general bores me for the most part, unless it’s some truly heinous shit like the torture and murder of junko furuta. that being said if something were to happen to my mother or sister i would be furious
>Even the most normie tier men never seem to talk about sex slavery, or sexual violence. I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
Women don't think about bad thinks happening to men at all so it evens out
i've come to the realization that if i was a soldier and my unit was committing atrocities, at best i would be idly standing by as my comrades go gamer mode
M
It should start at a 1-2 and then go up to whatever, just start slow and gentle most of the time (being pounced on and then forcibly made out with is nice too, but not everything is a race)
Using "porn rough" as an upper limit means nothing
women will never know the feeling of being close enough with your bros that you all say nagger, homosexual, etc freely. when the slurs start coming out that’s when you know shit is ride-or-die
They have their own locker room talks, too, and can be nasty. Guys are no exception in that regard and that dude's solipsism is very naive in that regard.
in a sense that I am washing dishes and he comes from behind me, pulls my pants down and just has his way with either of my holes. Hot af.
The idea that I am just there, not prepared and he finds me hot enough to go for that is a turn on.
I know that this doesnt come with terms and services agreement with all girls, but damn, love the idea
Men should be free use and women should be in complete control.
Absolute white pills
Do parents praise sons for things daughters do all the time?
in a sense that I am washing dishes and he comes from behind me, pulls my pants down and just has his way with either of my holes. Hot af.
The idea that I am just there, not prepared and he finds me hot enough to go for that is a turn on.
I know that this doesnt come with terms and services agreement with all girls, but damn, love the idea
The only things I've ever been praised for are learning another language and I think I got an awkward "thanks" at most for supporting my parents through homelessness twice (while in college)
So if they do, I did not receive this praise
My SO said that the closest thing he has ever gotten to praise from his parents was that he defended another kid from a bully and got in trouble for fighting.
his father said
"You did the right thing, but I really cant have you punching other kids"
And then he was expelled from boxing club that his father ran, and was grounded for a really long time.
He still doesnt know if his father was proud of him or disappointed in him.
So is it universally considered annoying/creepy for girls when a guy to comes up to talk to you in public? Like say on campus, in the library, or on the subway or whatever? I'm generally just an outgoing person to everyone around me and when something catches my eye I feel like asking people about it. Hell, got a gf once that way. Most strangers I talk to -guys and girls- seem to enjoy talking to me but I always have that concern that I'm off-putting or come across as some desperate weirdo by being extroverted like that. If it at all changes the calculus (memes I see seem to say so) I'm in shape, well dressed and groomed, have been told I'm actually kinda handsome, and usually pretty good with words. Assuming all that is true, am I overthinking it?
it's literally not even attractive from an aesthetic perspective, i'd rather rail my girl in one of her sundresses if we're going just on that
but it's a symbol of her trying to be sexy and bring something new to the bedroom. as a symbol, it's amazing for that, and that symbol is sexy in and of itself
Undressing her in her regular casual clothes is way sexier than some disgusting wired underwear that makes her look like she's cosplaying as Leia from the third star wars movie
lingerie is just capitalism selling women something they thinks makes them look sexy but is actually cheap polyester trash made of recycled parachute cord
men
all else being equal, which of the following do you think would make the best partner?
(please choose one, no pussy "i wouldn't be fine with any of them" cop-out answer) >girl with 20 previous sexual partners who never had a boyfriend >girl who had 4 previous boyfriends, but never had any other sexual partners >girl who had 1 ex-husband (divorce, not death) but who never had any boyfriend nor sex besides him
2, 3, 1
I'll admit, the lack of sexual experience on 3 is nice, but the total lack of any relationship experience outside of her former husband is concerning unless she somehow found a great guy who ended up losing his mind or something
For M
How do you feel about this womans body? Is it bad? Would you date a woman with this body? This is from a tik tok and my body looks like hers before her glow up 😐
easy 1
despite what LULZ says about sex making it difficult for girls to pair-bond, actually, you know, pair-bonding is probably much worse
plus you can be her first for a lot of cute romantic couple things. in the other choices, you aren't her first anything
to me at least the one with 4 is probably the best. We all get it wrong a few times but at least it wasn't entirely meaningless random sex. The one divorce is a second place. The 20 a distant last.
I'll be fair as far as the other 2 go.
20 makes me suspect that sex and relationships mean little to you or that you have no impulse control or sense of propriety. But maybe that's not always true. I definitely had one or two meaningless hookups when I was a teen and everyone my age measured worth as a guy by getting laid. But it's hard to shake that initial gut feeling though.
The divorce implies a willingness to do something extreme like marriage without fully thinking it through first. Again caveat here of a guy who falls off after marriage and becomes say a violent drunk or whatever.
>girl who had 1 ex-husband (divorce, not death) but who never had any boyfriend nor sex besides him
This, depends on the reason of the divorce, else >girl who had 4 previous boyfriends, but never had any other sexual partners
For M
How do you feel about this womans body? Is it bad? Would you date a woman with this body? This is from a tik tok and my body looks like hers before her glow up 😐
yeah, hot
i'm not fussed about body tbh I'd date an obese girl with a cute face
How do you feel about this womans body? Is it bad? Would you date a woman with this body? This is from a tik tok and my body looks like hers before her glow up 😐
She'd be cute if I could see her face! Anyway, there's no way you can just make your ass bigger and nothing else. Spot training is just lies.
Girls just don't get it anyway. Any girl can be cute or cool, but it's how you dress and present yourself not your physique that matters! Unless your Holocaust survivor grade of skinny or something.
There is no known exercise thats gonna make your ass bigger simple. If you want that you have to put on pounds but the fat builds all over your body and then all of a sudden girl wants to loose weight again. You can inject your ass with synthol like a brazillian oil builder and die of a tumor down the line if that's your thing.
Romanian deadlifts
Hip thrust
Back extensions
Bulgarian split squats
Leg abduction machine
Deadlifts of any kind
Squatting
Caloric surplus and some protein
ANY hip extension movement
Just stop fucking discussing shit
Exercise scientists and strength and conditioning coaches have figured this shit out years ago
But pencil neck anon on LULZ will STILL spit his retardation here.
Im sorry your genetics made it impossible to gain muscle
Its mediocre
She needs on bulking diet and work her ass off
Luckily her base seems nice, just needs more meat on bones
Also would like to see if her hips are wide
Unironically seen worse, she has a lot of potential (which shebprobably realized)
Why are men so retarded? Why don't they pick up on literally anything? Like you have to speak as if you're communicating with a toddler for them to understand anything. Can't rely on just tone or subtleties or nonverbal communication. Are their brains different or something? I just don't understand how we could've evolved to be so different like they're another species.
If I misread a cue, I've burned a bridge socially and may have put myself at risk in terms of employment and legally
I'm not going to just mess around with half-cues, be a little overt
I think they get it.
But
Depending on the age of the guy.
The younger they are, the more readily they jump on ques.
But the older they get they become careful, one mistake and they are afraid of being labeled "sex offender" and ruining the rest of their lives, and would quite much hear "Fuck me already" than "oh you have a handsome smile *winkyface*"
This is why therapy or some kind of communication class needs to be compulsory for all men. Please just learn what a hint is for the love of God.
society has drilled it into me that women do not want men coming on to them. not being seen as a creep is the number 1 priority. "she's not interested in you, she's just being nice" is something i've heard and read more times than i can count. you women made your bed with #metoo, now lie in it
This
Just look at any thread when someone asks where he can approach girls
>not at grocery store, they are in hurry bro >Not at her work, dont shit where you eat or "shes smiling because shes getting paid to do so bro" >not at school, shes just trying to educate herself bro >Not in a park, thats serial killer vibes >not in a bar, shes just there hanging out with the girls bro >Not online, thats groomer behaviour >Not on tinder, thats Reserved for top 1% chad >Absolutely not at gym, that's sexual harassment
At this point i dont even look at women, apparently im a sex offender by just being in their proximity
I didn't respond because that's not what I'm even talking about but you dumb moids immediately think about sex first thing. Can't even have a conversation with any of you here either, you're all retarded. That other X chromosome must hold all the social skills you lot are lacking.
you're in a recurring thread where 75% of the conversation is about sex and dating, and you're a woman complaining about how men need to "learn what a hint is for the love of God." any human being with half a brain cell would think you're talking about a romantic hint
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
You do know that there are relationships after the initial approaching stage right? Men are retarded and can't take hints throughout the entire relationship life cycle, not just its initiation. Romantic relationships, friendships, all of it. Never met a man who wasn't socially retarded.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>approaching stage >relationship life cycle
goddamn why do you women put so much thought into this shit? isn't it tiring?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
stage
life cycle
These sound like simple concepts about relationships to me, ooga buuga anon.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
why do relationships have to have "concepts" just talk to people and see where it goes lmao
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Do you know what the word "relationship concept" means, it's simple. It's a concept about relationships that someone has. Everyone has these, even you.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
i don't think about relationships of any kind except in the context of me getting laid. that shit's boring
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>Inability to handle even the simplest of abstract concepts
I can't, I just simply cannot today
I agree it's absurd that as society becomes increasing atomized and individualistic, as well as this being the first time in history that men and women spend so much time together side-by-side as equals, that men are also increasingly being told they can't romantically approach women in any of those settings. I almost wonder if it's the company that owns all the dating apps that's partially behind it.
>ugh i rotated my head 12.5 degrees to the right and my tone of voice was 1.3 Hz higher than normal, how could he have missed that?
this is how you sound
idk I can't help it anon, I try my best but I'm a bit slow... >tone or subtleties or nonverbal communication
yeah I don't understand any of this lol, use words please
I can't accept this as an excuse anymore because then literally all men must be autistic
I've never met a non-autistic man. Even my male family members are retarded. I wish you all had to take a "how to communicate with women" class in like middle school. It would've saved us so much trouble.
Or maybe women could learn to be direct instead of passive-aggressive because they're so utterly terrified of being assertive for once in their life
And like the other anon said, if women are so upset at men not reading hints then maybe they shouldn't have made the social penalty for misreading them so high
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Instead of demanding that half the population be more robotic how about you just learn to be more human?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
There's nothing robotic about clearly expressing yourself instead of relying on obfuscations because you're too cowardly to actually take a firm stance on something and potentially get humiliated. Women don't do this shit because it's some evolved form of communication, they do it because they're afraid of social ostracism and acting like this gives them plausible deniability ("oh no I didn't REALLY mean, that you just misunderstood me!").
The funny thing is when men DO act like this (see: men interested in a woman thinking if they befriend her she'll pick up on his intent and understand what he really wants) women complain about how unmanly it is and say that men should just be direct about what they want.
When I was 18 and a girl kept saying she was busy I just assumed it was true and would ask her if she was free the following week. This went on unnecessarily for months because I had no prior experience asking out girls and didn't know a girl won't directly say "I'm not interested in you" which would've saved us both a headache. But I guess because I'm a tall black male and she was a small asian girl she didn't know I was someone who only understands people who don't beat around the bush.
I might put on an attractive outfit after I wake up to just feel pretty and look good in the mirror while staying at home, but then switch to something less attention-grabbing if I'm going outside later in order to grab less attention when around strangers. It's complicated lol.
I'm a guy and I do this, but not attractive outfits I just rehearse cool outfits I'm too scared to wear outside (i love insurgentwave/terrorwave style).
ah I get that since in most areas it's probably not an ""acceptable"" style to wear, still looks cool though. for me it's usually closer to something like initially putting on a coordinated outfit with a nice skirt, but then switching to just jeans and a shirt because I don't want to look like I'm putting in effort to look "sexy" while going to my local grocery store lol.
the idea of strategically wearing shit based on how you want to feel and how much attention you want from others is utterly alien to me. i just put on comfy clothes that i like and fuckin go. these threads have been eye opening for me. i really need to touch grass and feel the touch of a woman
nah I think your approach is better and probably healthier. I think I was like that when I was in my teens, but at some point I just started caring more about clothes and fashion.
M here but was easy as usual thanks, just had fun all day
Also I'm going to a work party tomoz at a nearby pub as someone's last shift is tomoz. I only work til lunch, the party's around 7pm. Any general tips on prep and what to do there?
I went running today and saw a skinny tanned brunette with fake eyelashes in grey shorts that showed her ass cheeks. I slowed down so I could watch her ass. Her age may have been in the early 20s but the tan made her look like she was in her 30s and she had wrinkles on her forehead.
No, I find the whole cuddle buddy/cuddle party thing to be really gross and creepy. I can't wrap my head around how people can divorce it from romantic or familial love.
It's like suddenly breathing air after realizing you've been suffocating for your whole life.
It's nice and I miss it.
As a woman that spent a great deal of my previous relationship in a long distance relationship due to covid, I didn’t realize how much I missed physical contact until I had it again
Like while I didn’t have it I got used to it and missed it a little, but it was only because I had forgotten how comforting it was to have it
thanks for letting me live vicariously through you guys. it's the closest i'll ever get to that experience
A girl crashed into me like a truck this year, totally unexpectedly. We broke up, but it still happened, so that means there's more hope for you too, anon. Don't despair, just do the things you ought to be doing and life will present such opportunities in due time.
>just do the things you ought to be doing
that's the thing, i don't (aside from the bare minimum). i have 0 drive and ambition. i am a slave to instant gratification
Change that, otherwise no girl will take to you and find you appealing and alluring. Also do them because you owe it to yourself, first and foremost. Why should you spend your time wallowing in self-pity and feeling pathetic when there's so much to see, to do, to experience and to get to know in life?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
because it's easier and it's really all i know
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
It's time to stop and to get to know more of what life is offering you.
I dont ever talk about this here because I will just get called ugly or a liar. But I am a moderately attractive woman who was a virgin until I was 25 because I didnt ever feel comfortable being physically intimate with a man. I had a few boyfriends here and there but they were mostly online relationships so I didnt have to worry about the physical stuff. I only lost my virginity when I actually fell in love with a guy I met on LULZ and he pushed me into meeting him despite how terrified I was.
Im not the typical femcel stereotype, Im mostly normie passing. I have a normal job, I went to college, no one ever would have guessed I was just edating and a virgin. So my point is dont assume that youre some rarity and it will never happen for you. Your situation is probably way more common than you would ever realize. People just usually keep this stuff to themselves.
>don't worry, >yes, I am an attractive women and the only reason I was a virgin was purely mental, but trust me it's the exact same for a guy who can't get girls to give him a chance
I'm not the original anon btw but it's just not the same. If a guy thinks he'll die alone he probably will, no girl is going to do all the work for him like a guy did for you
As a woman that spent a great deal of my previous relationship in a long distance relationship due to covid, I didn’t realize how much I missed physical contact until I had it again
Like while I didn’t have it I got used to it and missed it a little, but it was only because I had forgotten how comforting it was to have it
I'm 27 and never had sex or kissed. the only time I went to a prostitute I simply froze and gave up on the act due to extreme anxiety. After some age your illness cannot be fixed
>Briefs are for old men
I get this too, my friend's dad used to wear them and they'd be hang drying everywhere, it's what I associate them with, and also wearing them until I was like 7.
I like to wear boxer briefs.
I'm feeling wistful and loving.
I ran into a local friend at Starbucks just a few moments ago. I'm dressed like shit, she was dressed nice for her other job. She still greeted, approached me and gave me a hug. We chatted for a bit and she left "see you around" she says
The girl at the Gelato shop was nice too, for a zoomer
I still smell like the first girl. It's the little things that color your world, for a day.
Femanons would you ever agree to a date with a guy who has a hairy back and neck?
Like if it isn't shaved you can see it wearing a t shirt or dress shirt, anything really.
I would not stop liking a guy for this reason, and if we dated I would probably ask if he is open to me waxing or shaving the back of his neck, I thought that was part of a hair cut for men anyway
Whatever. I'm gonna make Philly cheesestreaks tonight. Gonna get some thinky sliced steak, red bell pepper, white onion, some white mushrooms, gotta refill my black pepper grinder, a French roll (sorry Italians) and idk.. I guess some Provolone cheese. I used havarti the first time and I thought it was perfect but my friend from Philly rolled her eyes at me for that. Whatever
If my ex didn't freak at all the satanic bands, vinyls and merch I had around my place, doubt yours will at a schlocky band like CC. Women generally don't care about those things if they don't listen to metal, it's whatever to them.
I love the album art and collect it. I even have the album art of that one gay who actually killed himself with a shotgun and his bandmates used the crime scene photo on the cover, even though their music is pretty shit.
Anons what do you do if you don't like yourself? I really hate myself and I feel like it's justified as to why I feel the way I do towards myself. I feel like an utter loser.
How do I improve myself into a person that people actually like?
At what date is it kinda safe to assume talking about exclusivity and start dating? 2 or 3?
As in, if I go on oje date, we vibe well, is it wrong to sleep around in between?
I learned a lot about women in the past year
Im not going to post what I learned because I'll just make it harder for myself if the competition catches up
I'll just say this:
>women are bad communicators and what they say and what they want are two entirely different things, which is difficult to understand for the male brain
No, men here are just kind of socially retarded.
No, I'm just retarded
Thats also true but women are really bad communicators
Ill give on example. A girl was following me to the bus after a date and then at the last moment she says "is this the bus to my house?" so I just said "no your is over there"
and then she apparently wanted me to lie to her so she could go to my place and wouldnt have time to take the bus back to her place forcing her to spend the night with me
she wanted me to LIE. not to invite her over, but to play along like I was luring her or something
however she didnt bail on me for that one "mishap"
Did she tell you that? Or maybe she just wanted to be invited over and was flirting? lol
Maybe she just got on the wrong bus?
Real talk. I was talking to a girl at a concert and she kept staring deep into my eyes and showed me a tattoo on her back and said that not many people get to see it. I didn't realise she was flirting with me until she started grinding against me and grabbed my throat to kiss me
would you rather date a handsome sex offender or an ugly nice guy
Neither, but ugly nice guy seems like a better dating prospect.
How could you trust a sex offender as a partner?
woman moment. if this guy told you:
>"give me your number so i can tear that ass up tonight"
tell me the truth, you would be so excited to chow down on his cockmeat, predator or not
No. I've rejected pretty hot guys because I didn't like them as people.
What didn't you like about them?
One was too much of a manwhore for my taste. Went out with him on a date, since it went really well I asked about him to mutual friends and they told me he had slept with a couple girls they knew. When I talked to him about him he told me he was having casual sex right before we met, and, while he seemed to like me very much and be serious about me, it's just not something I'm happy about and comfy with.
The other was just kind of rude to someone else who was there with us when he introduced himself.
very based, i hate when people are rude to others for no reason, big red flag
are hate crimes a red flag? how about murder?
fair enough. i guess there are some non-shallow women out there
I want the ugly nice guy.
I'll take a 3 please. My vagina can still be attracted to some guys if they're skinny.
What causes pre-ejaculation and how can I prevent something like this from happening to me in the future? I don't wanna disappoint my future gf(s) and/or wife
would you rather go on a date with two wolves stacked on top of each other in a coat pretending to be a human or a poly couple who pretends to be dogs
gender/sex of your preference on all of the participants i guess
what are some good tricks?
how do i make a house
state gender
what was the last date you went on and how did you meet them? did you enjoy it?
F. With my fiance. We met online 6 years ago, we started dating 5 and a half years ago. I did enjoy the date, we went to the movies and grabbed pizza after. He drove his truck to a nice viewpoint and we ate while watching the stars.
You don't do date nights with him anymore?
Huh? Yeah, we've been on many dates over the last 5 years, that's just the last one.
what the fuck? You described the first one not the last one.
Were you invited to either? lmao
That's the last date we've been on. The first one was lunch at a pub, walk at a park and then to a museum.
M. last date was like five years ago. met her at a hospital. i went on we went out to eat and walk around the city, I had incredible anxiety and she ghosted me after. I didn't enjoy it due to the anxiety
F
Went on a “date” when I was 6 years old and sat at a table right next to our parents :3 it was very sweet and that was the last date I went on lolz
i have a toddler so i don't really do dates anymore but we give him to my mom on sundays and go to hot yoga together
met her in shcool
yes
guys who post like
have toddlers? there’s hope for me
>captcha:D8DDY
M. ice skating 7 years ago, she was a classmate that was leaving state for college. i hated it because i'm a moron.
M, last date I went on was last year summer, girl I knew from high school asked me out for drinks. I didn't really enjoy it tbh, she was very hot but we didn't have much in common, and she started talking about her past hookups etc. and it was just a turn-off. I was relieved to go home at the end of the night and didn't respond to her texts for weeks oops
Sounds like severe depression but reach out to someone if you're struggling
Why u here then
Moi
u r cool
Why is it so hard to leave someone you know isn't good for you?
Trauma bond cycle
How can she be in a relationship for a year with me, not be in love and yet doesn't want to break up with me?
love is a business arrangement sometimes
What's that supposed to mean?
like there are positive externalities in a relationship outside of love
Need femanon gf.
Need a femanon VIRGIN gf who's not fat.
to women
how could your boyfriends dick game be better?
It couldn't, he already ruined masturbation forever for me. Stupid dick.
can a dick be that much better than masturbation? I thought that most women orgasmed from clitoral stimulation mainly
Yes. It's not even comparable, 10x as pleasurable to come while being dicked.
how big is his penis then? just curious as to if its his size or his technique that does it for y ou
It's 7"-7.5". It's a pretty decent size dick but I can't even take it all comfortably, so it's mostly the way he fucks me.
Not even a guy, but it's reasonable for people to want a partner who feels the same about you about sex and relationships. Someone who highly values intimacy, commitment, and sees sex as a loving act will be turned off.
You can do it, but it will obviously turn some people off. Same way I turn guys off by telling them I won't fuck them until I love them.
damn wtf, i feel like his porn star top 5%er penis probably has something to do with it too.
My ex also had a pretty decent sized dick and he never made me come, so no it's mostly the way he fucks me and the way we feel about each other lol
oh good to hear honestly cause my dick is not close to that size
As I said I can't even take it all so I'm sure it's not that big of an issue lol
Decent size is 6 inches. That’s a big dick.
What about 3.8 inches?
Micro
I love your white penis.
Dude they are lying... and even if they actually are a woman...
Have you ever heard a woman tell the truth?
>how can real pussy be that much better than a toy
And you are talking to a woman, who are all about "Muh emotions" and sheeit
>want to play it takes two
>no girlfriend
>no friend
Men why you always judging women that sleep around a lot? I can have sex with as many guys as I want and you can’t do shit about it
Okay?
I literally don't care what you do.
Men aren't bothered as long as you know you are a whore and not marriage material
Duh
i am learning how to teleport
literally just exercise 6 days a week and talk to female
you are delaying the messiah
I almost started crying when I saw that there was no new atoga thread up for a few minutes.
pussy
21
hut
Sorry babe, I was taking a shit 🙁
Women, do you actually have sexual desires?
Yes, of course.
Is it possible to be in a low level of psychosis. I'm 21f and I feel like I am becoming less and less coherent, I haven't felt real or connected to myself for years. I get extremely paranoid at night that there are monsters watching me. I am extremely tired lately and isolate myself. I am often very dull when speaking to others and can't emote properly. Will this get worse?
Chad didn't respond?
No I've been ignoring him since he threatened to kill me and my family
I really don't want to be schizophrenic
Maybe depression... I've been thinking maybe it's my environment. I don't want to be a neet again. But I have no desire to live as a normal person.
>I really don't want to be schizophrenic
yeah it really is a serious illness and i hate it at times.
I really don't want to develop it but
The paranoia at night can get so bad. Reading conspiracies makes it worse but it's the only thing that interests me lately
you might want to see a therapist, talk therapy can help with paranoia. i would recommend doing everything in your power to try to maintain a healthy mind because going on anti psychotics is really shit compared to being med-free. exercise, hanging out with your friends or family, going outside for walks, keeping a good routine and hygiene. if you feel really off and affected by it you should see a doctor and get professional help
I see a therapist for other reasons already
I try to maintain routine but I feel this crushing tiredness and pointlessness lately and I can't focus on anything and my mind is scrambled
that sucks anon :/. could be depression too but im not a doctor. if it gets worse and you feel its interfering with your daily life, definitely talk to a professional.
>But I have no desire to live as a normal person.
Unless you have a job already, look for a non-stressful (or as non-stressful as possible) part-time job then, even if it's just like 10 hours a week.
I have a part time job
Sometimes I get this feeling Chad is an alien
No you just need dick correction
yeah it'll get worse if you're a schizophrenic, talk to a doctor and get a diagnosis from a professional, not some guy on LULZ. warning: anti psychotic meds make you fat. so try not to make it worse, dont smoke pot, get enough sleep, try to ground your thoughts in reality.
sounds like depression.
you sound like a cuck.
Big dick mentioned in /atoga/
Single /atoga/ is the best
non-single women are all evil
the chad thing is so cuckish actually, incels love to make up some sex god figure that is always stealing their girlfriend in their fantasies in their heads
It's not a fantasy it's reality
And it's not a cuck thing if she was never yours to begin with
its not reality, its your cuck fantasy that you got from porn and LULZ. most people have relationships without being "chad"
Compared to me most men are Chad
Spoken like a true cuck
Again just reality
Look, I know I'll never be the the object of any girl's desires. No girl is ever gonna want me sexually. I'm not even good enough to be good enough. I'm no one. Just a waste of space. So there's no reason to try.
At least I'm not one of the incels who think that they're owed sex.
You being ugly is not the reason you're a cuck, it's being obsessed with le chad and how much he has sex lmao
Okay? Why do you feel the need to keep replying?
>the cuck is still complaining
Kek
If I am a cuck, why do you care? My impact in this world is minimal at best? Are you trying to mock me so you can squeeze every last bit of enjoyment out of me?
Just saying that you're a cuck, nothing wrong with it since it's true. Why are you complaining again?
Kill yourself
Sure, trannoid
What can I browse on my phone in public or around acquaintances/friends without anyone thinking I'm a freak?
>having friends and acquaintances
you already are a freak.
I know. I need to hide it now!
open your note app and note the time and place and decide that it was a business related meeting
jot down a quick memo about how today could somehow be construed with in-line with your keikaku (translator's note: keikaku means "plan")
minimum case:
open your notes app and write the time and place where you had literally nothing going on and you had to invent a thing to do to not look awkward
then note the data collection time as "recreational traffic research" -- credit yourself for a full day here of course
once you have a cluster of those you can find out a pattern that you have and make a critical life change
this is business
read the news
Who is the best/most neutral
reuters is pretty good
fuck neutrality. i mainly read my political party's newspaper, and sometimes the news published by the government as well.
is Switch boy x Switch girl the ultimate power couple?
No. Two switch girls is, from my experience.
Are some people just never meant to look cool? This girl I'm talking told me that I'm pretty good looking but she can just never see me as cool if it wasn't for my tatts
Yea. Luckily I'm a really cool dude and people always say it. If I'm being honest, it's the only thing I really value abojt myself
i think being considered cool is harder if you have any sort of baby face, or a high voice.
I don't think it's particularly important how "cool" you look, especially as an adult.
My boyfriend is not a cool guy but it was never something I cared for or wanted.
>inb4 someone projects their cuck fantasies on me
I don't cheat on him, I'm not settling after riding the cock carousel.
>Tfw gymcrush from my previous gym has accepted ig follow request
>expected ton of "fitchick girl showing off booty"
>She has none of that
>Just some travel pics, very little closeups of her cute face or some pics from barbecues with family etc
I am so upset about myself that i didnt make a move on her when she was single goddamnit
Shes so perfect
So uh… how do I make friends?
Do i just ask? Do any femanons want to be my friend?
Im awkward And socially stunted
are you female? i just don't think men can be friends with women.
I’m a dude sadly, nothing I can do about it
The easiest way is through school, college, work. Literally comes with built in group.
Otherwise, pick up hobbies. Honestly once you get one or two it's easier to build up on it, starting is the hardest part.
Good luck.
>females only fuck 10% of men and over 60% of men are single while only 30% of females are
>CHAD ISN'T REAL, IT'S ONLY IN YOUR HEAD!!
Kek.
Theres no chad
Theres on visible men and invisible men
No its not 50/50
I hate this fucking place
I hate all of you
You're all disingenuous
I'm not, I'm a pretty genuine virgin boi.
Men, tell me something nice
I like ponytails and girls who wear summer dresses
You females only learned to read in the 19th century thanks to men. Say thank you.
You gonna suck this cock good
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Getting money and spoiling a girl with it is fun and feels nice
who is the most annoying poster you recognize in thse threads?
Me
The "are you trolling" anon
I honestly feel like dying whenever I see that
why? he's easy to ignore
>he
She is a non-single girl
Reminds me how you all actually feel about losers like me
nah you're alright mate.. you're alright...
Don't say that
None of you really do
I'm just a loser behind a computer screen
If I died tomorrow you wouldn't feel anything
You wouldn't even know
Mr. Girl Piloting a Boy Body
Women: if a man approaches you for a picture, asking for your help since he wants to have some good photos, how would you react? Im thinking if you're not interested you could just be polite take the picture and say goodbye, and obviously if you're into him it would be a good conversation topic.
What do you think of this, could this work? Im 29 and running out of options to meet girls. I dont want to be creepy or pushy so be honest
See I would get way too into getting the right angles and getting some good photos of him lolz! I wouldn’t be thinking about whether I was interested in him at all but I’m a little retarded so 😛
a random guy asked me to take his picture at the gym once, i did take it and was polite, but i would've preferred that he just asked another guy instead of me.
I honestly would probably help, I always offer to take photos for people if I'm anywhere scenic and I notice them taking selfies. I wouldn't be interested in giving him directions on how to pose or having a chat tho.
It’s because we usually know how to take better photos
The therapist still hasn't called back
Should I just give up and kill myself?
Reach out to others
Get a cat
Yes
Smoker here, I stopped when I dated girls who didn't like it. If he's not willing to stop for you he's a motherfucker
I will 100% die alone.
So will I.
brothers in death.
something women will never know or experience.
Proof that men aren't capable of being independent, can't without killing themselves when they can't get a mommy to take care of them
bro, what
think before postan mang.
Gl with becoming a tranny and roping in 5 years, that's the average western man in 2023 lmao.
you aight?
you straight up speaking nonsense
>the tranny is still complaining
Sad.
stop playing, dude, be real
Are you insecure about being a tranny?
Anon, you straight up be talking to your demons through me right now, wack
You sound like one of those incelss who will rope eventually, gl with that.
keep going anon, fight your demons
And you're being gleeful about my impeding suicide?
I'm going to die alone, but it's going to be a death of old age in 40-70 years. You are mindbroken.
Nah, you'll likely develop some disease like Alzheimer's or something else and die before reaching old age due to loneliness.
https://fortune.com/well/2023/06/15/loneliness-comparable-to-smoking-up-to-15-cigarettes-a-day/
Even my mom wouldnt care you dumb bitch
The path of the average male on /atoga/
>be sad that no woman wants to be your mommy and change your diapers
>become obsessed with LULZ
>turn into a tranny
>rope
Seek therapy, guys
Why? I'd I die it would probably benefit society. Why aren't we encouraging male suicide? Society doesn't need an even split. We used to just be cannon fodder in war.
Males are the ones encouraging male suicide since men hate other men the most lol.
Can someone be attractive enough for you to ignore their red flags?
being attractive is a red flag for me.
My exes
No
Yes
No.
I'm not going to have a sexual relationship with someone I find repulsive, but I'm definitely flexible on the way a guy looks if I like them as a person.
She doesn't like you.
>She doesn't like you.
If she didn't like me she wouldn't be texting me. If she didn't like me she wouldn't agree to hang out
>Texting
Lol mate
She is barely giving you replies
Cut your losses and keep what self respect you have
Any girls who had interest in me gave me replies within 2 hours max
>If she didn't like me she wouldn't be texting me.
Doesn't seem like she is. She replies when she's bored.
>If she didn't like me she wouldn't agree to hang out
She would, if she's bored enough.
Can someone have enough green flags for you to ignore how unattractive they are?
There needs to be a happy medium between mutual attraction and high value characteristics
Why do women take fucking FOREVER to respond?
Like, she'll text me. I'll send a reply within a few minutes, then she disappears for like an entire day or 2, and then she finally returns with a reply. Cycle repeats.
Wtf is her problem?
You are like 10th on her list buddy
How do I get my new male SO to quit smoking?
I tolerate it, but I would much appreciate it if he didnt do it at all.
Yes I have asked him to quit, and he says that at this point of his life, its a time race to see if he gets lung cancer or if his heart condition kills him first.
There's really not much you can do if he doesn't want to quit.
Why don't you marry him and get that life insurance check?
Im at gym doing pullups
Theres this qt girl closeby also doing pullups and it just feels bad because she would never be attracted to me
Men only gym when
you sound autistic. every powerlifter gym is a male-only gym basically. the only issue is that some men pretend to want to workout with only men, but secretly they enjoy going to normal gyms just to ogle women lmao.
Im 31 yo kissless virgin and girls look at me with disgust ehat do you think
Theres no powerlifter gyms nearby
blame yourself then
Women, do you like pickles? This is not a sex joke or phallic reference, I mean pickled cucumbers. I love those lil things.
Nothing wrong with them. I dont particularly go out of my way to get them, but I do the opposite either. If the food has pickles in it, its ok
ILOVEPICKLESSSS
I love pickles so much :D!
Kosher dill?
Lolz I don’t keep kosher but I do love kosher dills
I think American pickles are great but european ones are disgusting.
I don't know why that's the case, but it is.
Sugar has rotted your senses.
I'm from Europe, literally grow most of what I eat in my garden and farm lol
I like them but I have to watch my acidity or I'll get heart burn.
I'm so confused. This girls dating profile seems to indicate she just wants a fling.
But we started talking, got her Snap, and we've been talking every day a lot too. Random stuff. She would send me pics of her meals she cooked, pics of her being silly with her girl friends, talking about pets. Like I thought it was just an attention thing, but I swear this is like relationship texting. Like she wants to share the aspects of her life with me.
I'm so confused. We haven't even hooked up yet. There just seems to be strong texting chemistry. But I thought she just wanted a fling based off her profile. Idk if she's falling, but I feel a bit attached already. I'm staying cautious but still.
Femanons?
Women, how do you manage to sexually desire your bf when he's just a guy?
He's a hot as fuck guy who treats me like I'm a pretty princess, you'd want to suck his dick dry too.
Is he just a guy though?
For some people, I'm sure. For me, the love of my life.
>suck his dick dry
This phrasing has always bothered me. If the dick is dry when you're done, you have failed at bj.
Forgive me if I’m mistaken I’ve never even seen a penis in real life lolz but doesn’t it just mean like until he can’t cum anymore? Not that his privates are literally dry
when you nutt but she still suckin
what?
I dont get it. He is just a guy, ok, its a guy I goddamn chose.
Its not like anime/dc/marvel characters are real
He has a cute face, more interesting hobbies/interests than 100% of normie men, and he's good at sex
>more interesting hobbies/interests than 100% of normie men,
Oh no, a weeaboo power couple.
trust me he's not a weeb lol. but I used to be one.
Women cannot ever feel lonely.
How does one combat disgust when you look in a mirror?
Just pretend nobody cares?
If I look at myself long enough I go back around and start finding myself pleasant to look at again, even if I feel ugly that day
LOL same!!
I’ll just stare at myself for long enough and start to look really pretty and then go about my day 😛
do u think grills will think my awkward, mechanical autism body movement is kawaii or cringe
As a rule of thumb, if a girl does it its a cute quirk, if a man does it its over
its over
Has a woman ever asked to meet and offered to pay for you? What would your reaction be? Also would you ever do this as a woman?
It means she sees as a (little) brother
It's over for you
Women
What goes through your mind when a guy tells you that they've been really depressed and felt worthless and in a bad mood lately?
Does it give the ick?
Depends on who the guy is and the context, obviously, but mostly what I can do to help.
I mean a guy you know irl. Maybe a potential partner
Again, depends on the context. Are we close? I wouldn't open up about stuff like that with a person I don't consider a close friend, family member or a partner.
If it's a guy who I don't consider close who opens up to me, I'd label him as a little needy and maybe not very stable.
We can just exist without talking to one another, it's no big deal.
>We can just exist without talking to one another, it's no big deal.
Modern woman moment.
You talk with everyone you meet? Get outta here, you extroverted normie social butterfly.
it kinda happens a lot that guys i don’t know well will trauma dump on me, specially online. I don’t know why it’s never fun
no it doesn't, but it makes me feel nervous since i'm really bad at comforting people. yeah I know women are supposed to be good at this, but I never know what to say in these kinds of situations
wonder why he tells me this, I don’t know him
My bf is always in a bad mood. has a condition that will eventually kill him when it reaches his heart. He told me about it, sounds like he will die in pain and this is something that has a 50% chance of being inherited.
He doesnt want bio kids because he wants the pain to end with him.
From his request we agreed that we are not too serious with eachother, and that I can leave whenever I wish.
I dont think you can get more depressed than that. But here I am, with him. Listening to one of the largest men I have ever known is creaking on his joints and grunting from pain from ordinary movements like sitting down or breathing. I have seen him become angrier and angrier over the years, but it has never been directed at me.
I want to see him off.
>one of the largest men I have ever known
You thought you were whitepilling when you were actually blackpilling.
What disease is this?
I fucking hate when people make posts mentioning a vague disease but never what it's called. I want to learn more!!!!
Ehlers Danlos Syndrome is his primary disease.
His body no longer heals properly from everyday wear and tear. Everything for him, like walking and breathing has become a painful experience. His heart has started to wear out now, the flaps that keep your blood flowing into the wrong direction when you heart beats have started to become faulty.
I wasnt there, but I read the medical report, if it was up to his doctor, as he cannot have transplants, he recommended that he never excert himself again, and spend the remaining life in a wheelchair.
He refused, said he wants to die with his boots on.
He still can run short distances and is as strong as any avarage guy
I have no idea what this means
Hey! I have Ehlers danlos syndrome + POTS and chronic muscle atrophy, it’s a real hard disease. I’m glad he has you to be there with him
Muscle atrophy must be a bitch to have on top of EDS. My bf says if he wasnt fit enough, his condition would be even more miserable
You have my sympathy anon. I hope you have someone too
Luckily the best thing I can do for both is stay as fit as possible, we’ll see how I’m doing in a few decades! I appreciate it <3 good luck to you and yours as well
>I have no idea what this means
You showed us a woman's infinite capacity for love, care and affection... for large men.
Totally depends. If this is someone I am close to, it might bring me down a bit as I would be concerned, but I would overall be glad they told me and did not keep it bottled up. I am used to people struggling with bouts of depression and it would not put me off in any way.
But if you are talking about e.g. an acquaintance suddenly springing it on me, then my feelings would very much depend on whether I feellike they are sincerely sharing and having a vulnerable moment, or that they are saying it to get a certain reaction out of me or read my reaction. I've had situations where someone makes you feel like whether or not they go on a week long bender will depend on what you say next, and that is definitely very uncomfortable.
Women:
Do you feel like you've "settled" for your current man? Do you feel like you missed out by basically "selling your shares" too soon, and could have gotten a celebrity or banker or something if you just had waited a little longer?
not really. most men genuinely hate women, even celebrities and bankers.
there is a certain desirability event horizon that once you cross it makes it impossible not to have a certain contempt for women as a group and making mental exceptions for a few you like/love. I'm not even that successful and I've hit it, I can only imagine how much more extreme the feeling is with men who are rich or famous.
yeah the best option is a guy with a normal or slightly successful life, but both losers and rich/famous men should be avoided since they seem to hate women more.
No, I'm pretty sure he settled for me if anything. He's far out of my league physically, from a better socio-cultural background, and by far the best guy I've ever met yet alone dated.
No. "Settling" for me would be settling for someone I have a lesser connection with, feel less strong emotion for. That is not something that is rooted in stuff like looks, success or fame. Those things could be a bonus, but on their own they are not inherently appealing.
I've used this metaphor before, but for me the best way to put it is like asking someone "you have a cake that you know tastes unbelievable amazing, but it looks pretty mediocre from the outside - how do you feel knowing there are amazing looking cakes out there?"
Yes, if an amazing tasting cake also looks amazing, that makes it all the more grand. But it's a cake, the whole point is to eat it and that it tastes good. The opposite, one that looks amazing and tastes like shit, is not a thing and never will be a thing. So just knowing there are good looking ones is not in any way tempting when you have no idea what they would be like, really.
My bf might not sound like a catch on paper, but he is my best friend, he makes everything better, even in the most boring situation or strained moment he will sometimes, by surprise, find a way to make me crack up and enjoy being alive. A relationship cannot thrive on that alone, especially not long term. But without that, why even bother? If I get to spend my life with one person, I want to love their company.
Gf said the thought of me fucking other girls kind of turns her on. What the fuck??
Its a shit test
If she brings up threesome prepare for inevitable breakup
Nice larp incel, try harder next time.
I'm not kidding. But she is one fucked up chick
Women? What's the protocol then? Do I wait for you to say something?
Stop listening to PUA grifters.
You meet women through common interests or friend groups, NOT RANDOMLY IN PUBLIC!!!!
Unless you want this to happen
I would need a friend group or have share an interest with women
Then we stay alone fren.
that webm is the instructor purposely showing what not to do. it is commonly shown out of context by people that dont know anything about the pua community but try to paint it in a bad light anyways. just thought i'd let you know.
Where did you get this info?
Who is this guy?
his name is RSD todd, he uses that video as an example of what not to do in seminars. hilariously it was cut out of context and went viral just as is. moist critical did a video on how cringe it was years ago, without knowing the context, and thats how i found out about it
Remember the rules for talking to women
If you don't follow them don't bother
>pic rel
i don't actually really mind it. but i'm euro and i think that maybe men are more polite here, in my experience the guy was always very nice and polite so it's not like i felt threatened or offended.
I don't care about being approached by strange men, as long as they are legitimately open to being blown off, aka seeing to look if I want to flirt or get to know someone new (maybe romantically), rather than trying to convince me into staying around for as long as they can.
Sure maybe if you were just having a bad moment, it can be annoying even being approached in itself. But stuff you don't love just happens sometimes when you go outside, that's part of the deal.
>But stuff you don't love just happens sometimes when you go outside
this is why i don’t go outside (i’m a man)
>met qt girl on student nation pubcrawl
>we talk and she seems to be fliritng with me or at the very least is friendly
>exchange instagrams
>ask if we can meet at a cafe
>she says she can only do it for a little bit as shes meeting a friend later
>i have to cancel before retard me forgot i had class
>ask her out to drink or a cafe meet the next week
>tells me her schedule is very busy this week and if theres any student nation events on to tell her so she can join
Would I be wrong in thinking that she is blowing me off or should i ask her out again next week or if possible invite her to an event?
How do I even find another therapist? Took me a month to track this one down
Asking for a referral (assuming your therapist was not entirely incompetent, and even if they were, there will probably still be other people working at their work place that can offer a referral based on your file) usually gets you better results than seeking out a therapist "in the wild".
If you have no other choice but to cold approach, pick one that has a background/explanatory text on their site that resonates with you and just feels right on a gut level. Make sure to pick someone who understands you will want to have an appointment or two before committing to more structural therapy from them specifically. You want someone who also cares about establishing mutual trust and a basic enough connection to offer a place to share.
Imo a sign of a good therapist is when there is some basic respect/good vibes, but you tend to leave an appointment feeling puzzled or sad, rather than satisfied and relieved. Especially if you have deeper issues, the latter can just mean that you found someone who will offer support and encouragement, rather than being able to challenge you into obtaining a new perspective on yourself.
I can't get a referral. This one won't even take my calls. I'm sick. It was hard to find anyone who didn't flat out say they didn't take male clients and out of those who do who weren't wacko.
Then you have no choice but to google around and follow the second part of the post basically. Google based on your area, specific descriptions of your issues, maybe check if there are therapists that specialize in treating men. It is surprising to me that you heard several times that they don't take male clients, because men are in general overrepresented in many many issues (autism, most addictions, psychosis/schizophrenia...). This is well-known for everyone working in the field. I can see maybe certain therapists, especially if they work alone/from home, not liking to be alone with unstable men on a daily basis. But it's not like it is generally an exception or even noteworthy for men to receive therapeutic/psychiatric treatment and you should absolutely be able to find someone who will happily take male clients. I don't know what it's like in your area, but if it's anything like there, you will have a much bigger issue with general availability and ability to take on any new patients. Just keep asking every single therapist who replies, even if they shoot you down, for a referral. It also helps to ask for it straight away ("if you are not currently seeing new clients, may I ask you if you know of any suitable therapists that do, given that it has been hard to find someone" or whatever) so they can answer everything in a single email, that'll further increase your odds of getting replies you can work with.
I don't live in a heavily populated area. About 90% of the listed therapists do just child or family counseling, marriage counseling, pre-marriage counseling, or just women counseling. Then they have to take my insurance. I can't afford to pay $150 to talk to talk to a therapist once.
Idk I just feel like giving up. Life is already unbearable enough. This was just a hail Mary. I honestly don't want to be fixed I just want to die.
Femanons, can you crack an egg between your butt cheeks?
Moids
Can you stop asking stupid filler questions like this?
Would you rather have the incel questions instead?
I could crush a watermellon with my theighs.
Can I be your watermelon?
Maybe
Don't worry, I'll supply the tarp and bodybag myself.
Ok, deal.
Thank you, my angel, I look forward to being released from my mortal coil and departing the material plane
my girlfriend did this thing during sex where she was rubbing my face with her hand all over and it was very sexy
is this a thing you girls do? where did she learn this?
>where did she learn this?
I don't think "touching your partner" really needs to be taught to you
kek. stfu!
it was the first time we had sex
she also licked my penis and it was very exciting.
sorry, first time i had sex in 20 years i am excited
I agree with the other poster that I think the urge to reach out and touch your partner, especially their face which is the most personal and expressive part of the body, is very natural. It is still a very good thing though, because it means she has (at least some) good/healthy instincts and is not too shy to act on them.
Congrats on getting laid and definitely relish the afterglow, it's one of the best parts imo, as good or better than anticipation.
thank you anon <3
the best part is we love each other and waited a long time for this and so it was very satisfying
>wah wah i'm too feminine for modern women
Nice post, tranny
learn to read homosexual
>tranny is still complaining
Girls please stop distracting me. I need to study for my exam
Study hard!!! Good luck 😀
Okay fine, I guess I can find a small proportion of time to spend with you. But I need to get back to studying so don't let this take too long
What’s the exam for? 🙂
A uni course. Computer architecture in particular
women, what are you wearing?
Skinny jeans + tshirt lolz
Not exciting
mmm girl legs in tight jeans
My legs are too skinny, don’t like em 😛 gotta gain a little mass
unless you are actually underweight make sure you’re building muscle & staying at a healthy bf%!
I am underweight, need to gain like 10lbs of muscle! And I’ll be thin but healthy and fit so that’s the goal :3
hopefully the weight all goes to your ass cheeks
oh it’s you! yes you are underweight actually. like 105 lbs right? and I don’t remember your height
I fluctuate between 105-110 I’m 5’6
thank you hungry skellington
Yeah make sure to get to a healthy bf% that might be low enough that you’re going to develop serious problems
I’m working on it! I’m not anorexic or anything, I’ve always been skinny and struggled gaining weight. Need look into getting some kind of mass gainer or somethin 😛
i’m considering making an impregnation joke and… nope, deciding against it
LOL
I’m not going to get impregnated any time soon
black slightly oversized long-sleeve shirt and black plaid skirt. i should give up with the all-black approach though because i feel like it doesn't suit me. it makes some girls look cool but i just look frumpy.
granny undies, a loose pair of shorts and a very loose t-shirt because I feel like having nothing touch my skin, but still be somewhat presentable if I see someone in the common area
One of my bf's t-shirts and his boxers. I miss him.
Don't worry, I can keep you company while he is away
Nah, thanks.
Listen baby, you deserve someone better
hey, i saw you talking to my gf, back the hell off??? she doesnt want you dude, respect her choice, disrespecting women aint cool man
They don't make guys better than him, he's top of the line.
Well this is depressing
When a girl wears her boyfriends clothes its cute but when a guy wears his girlfriends clothes, oh god the depravity!
this but unironically
NPC comment
good goy
Shut the fuck up /misc/tard not even gonna argue with your room temperature IQ ass
>go to asia
>young women wear these oversized T shirts to mimic that "wearing boyfriends shirt" look
>its just barely long enough to hide their panties
I had to control my rape urges severely that month
I went to Hawaii a few years ago and the amount of pantyshots I experienced from all of the Japanese tourists firsthand made me realize that anime wasn't an exaggeration. There was even one that was a full frontal, skirt knocked up and I could see all the way up to her navel, like the one in the opening scene of Bakemonogatari. God bless the windy days in Hawaii.
even if this is true, i don't want to be alone, so whatever i guess
You have no other choice. You just have to know what you're buying. Still sad there is no PayPal buyers protection in Western society. At least the Arabs get to chuck stones at whores.
Hasta luego, mujeres.
Puta di madre, cavron!
I think I'm just going to have to kill myself
I have no other options
Stop trying to make fetch happen, OP.
Can we just FUCK? you know without all that blah blah my feelings blah blah I like walks on the beach blah blah...
wrong thread incel
What are you going to do? Get your n-slur boyfriend to beat me up, whore? I can feel the sense of panic and fear running through your body, for you and your kind have been exposed
I just watched game of thrones where littlefinger told sansa the story of how the hound was burned by his brother and got his face scars. if sansa ever shared this story and the hound heard news of it, he would be furious and probably fly into a rage and kill her. that struck me as such a cool detail, a story that could get you killed if you ever told it
why do you come here when you have boyfriends? just to tantalize us with your feminine presence?
anon there are no girls here, you’re talking with males pretending to be girls
It's okay, you can accept the fact that females post on LULZ and that you're sharing this thread with them. They're only females, nothing to be afraid!
>They're only females, nothing to be afraid!
bullshit. women are terrifying
not really, i could ktfo any woman in this thread easily despite never training boxing in my life.
Women have terrifying powers of mental manipulation. All women have to do is treat me like I'm worthless and then, presto changeo, I now perceive myself as worthless.
Fortunately it's not that bad for me, I'm not worthless in general, merely just completely unsuitable for romance.
Anon, random women don't care about you enough to "manipulate" you. Sounds like you have a serious victim complex.
I'm not victimized, women don't do this to me consciously. I'm just another statistical data point in this sad state of society.
everyone is out to get me because i’m subhuman
Nobody is out to "get" you, schizo.
everybody says that to be nice/polite but deep down they all hate me. i judge random people all the time, why wouldn’t everyone else do that?
Nobody says that to be polite to anyone, what the fuck are you even blabbering about. Truly a schizo poster.
i do. i constantly think of mean judgey things about random people. yesterday i saw a woman walking ahead of her boyfriend and my brain starrted screaming "BETA KEK BETA KEK BETA KEK"
Most mentally healthy LULZ user
yeah its pretty terrible, i wish i didnt think this way
>i saw a woman walking ahead of her boyfriend and my brain starrted screaming "BETA KEK BETA KEK BETA KEK"
yeah you have social media brain rot, kek
society requires people to wear a mask of kindness but in reality everyone is an asshole, me included
Any avarage guy can ktfo any avarage woman.
Our trick is to get the biggest man available to return that violence to any who threaten it to us.
like biology 101, anon
yeah but im too retarded to realize the future implications of knocking you out, therefore your tricks dont work on me! :^)
Now apply that fear and magnify it tenfold, that's how women feel about men.
that’s cap. i’ve only asked out a girl once in my whole life because of my fear. if women are so much more afraid of men then why do whores exist
>if women are so much more afraid of men then why do whores exist
You're asking the wrong question, anon.
you really think someone would do that? just go on the internet and tell lies?
Maybe 70% are (less depending on how many posters there actually are) but remember that time when we heard the vocas of like 6 femanons?
You need advice to maintain a relationship, not just to obtain one. Maybe you struggle to obtain a relationship because you think it's a finish line and you can stop working once you've crossed it.
Force of habit, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, I've been posting here for fifteen. I don't often post outside of ATOGA, I also feel too far removed from the average poster's age to really relate to or care about a lot of topics coming up. But I like specifically bringing a female perspective in a thread where people go when looking for one. This site is so negative and male dominated I feel that people seeking out to hear from the other side should be welcomed and talked to.
"here" as in 4chins or /adv/? Didnt know it's been around that long (the board, not LULZ)
LULZ, I started out on /b/. I do not recall /adv/ ever not being there, though, and it was def here since 1-2 years in at least, I think honestly since 2008 at least. But it was super slow. It was the kind of thread you had to leave open for the day because you'd get very serious questions (most of the time) and 2-3 responses with hours between them.
>kind of thread
*kind of board, obviously
Also to be fair, it would sometimes happen that two posters started a discussion about something that went on for like five posts with around ten minutes between them. But it was very common to just get a few replies and then for the thread to die.
i have no friends besides him, i don't want to annoy him with my thoughts all the time and be too dependent lol. so i just pretend that LULZ is enough for social interaction outside of relationship.
yeah.. wouldnt want to annoy him by expressing your thoughts and feelings
I guess I'm a bit childish in the sense that I'm afraid that if I talk to him literally 24/7, he'd think of me as clingy. so I like to avoid that.
To give advice and feedback to people. I've been coming to these threads for 8 years or so and asked questions maybe 2 times.
Black atoga
men, who are your favorite pornstars?
feel like making myself miserable with insecurity today
Honestly none of them. Most are too bimboy for me anyways.
I don't have a favourite, it depends on the mood. I like variety and I won't name them because I don't want their content to be harder to find. But I'll say that none of them are on that Pornhub top 100 list.
I unironically care more about the "story" than the girl
Because they're all the same
Ah big boobs. Haven't seen that a thousand times before.
>feel like making myself miserable with insecurity
In that case, Lucy Wilde.
butterface af
She has a face!?
i always watch amateur but annika albrite is alright
I don't watch 3D porn
M, scissors
>tfw my mom is a cop and I have a criminal record
I don't get the appeal of being a porn fan. All your doing is watching two animals fuck, does it matter? It's not like it requires actual acting skills or there's any technique to it. Even if I hate tennis, I know there's probably and an art and a style to it that fans are connoisseurs for and I can respect that. But porn is just people fucking, shitty camera work, no real direction, no story. What's the actual appeal beyond using it to jerk off?
Name em.
Philosophy, art history, religion, spirituality, [redacted] theory, literature, psychology, and generally anything nonfiction related to the art of living or being a human
Dunno how I feel about critical theory but that list is pretty good anon. What have you been reading lately? I just finished a book and need a recc
It's not critical theory, it's something else that I don't want to share here. I'm currently reading something more technical although it's theory-based, I'm about 75% done with a book called Knowing God which is really good and Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck is next on my list. After that I want to finally read Aurelius's Meditations. Hard to give you a recommendation if idk what you're into tho. What book did you just finish?
Marcuse's One Dimensional Man and the Catholic Catechism
You'd probably like uncle Ted's book if you haven't read it yet (I haven't but it seems like it's in the general vein of this). Read Knowing God by J.I. Packer
Thanks anon I'll check it out.
I'll check out her films. Let's hope she doesn't end up like Hayden Christensen.
Question for femanons, do women actually find Robert Pattinson attractive?
He used to be
How many girls were genuinely into twilight back in the day?
I was into it in high school
Why? I never got the appeal. Is it a girl thing? I gave a copy of Twilight to my mom as a prank. Next morning I found it in the trash can.
Yea I'm pretty sure it's a girl thing. It's a romantic YA series and most men have no interest in romance.
I'm a guy and 90% of what I read is romance. I like classical Arabic, Persian and Chinese lit which is 90% romance.
You are a very rare exception. Any recommendations?
Gulistan of Sadi, Ihara Saikaku's works, the love poems of Hafiz and the Tale of the Bamboo Cutter is a must read.
I loooooved twilight
It was one of my favorite book series, I would save up my money and go to this book store by the mall hoping they still had the newest copy in stock for what I could afford to pay for it
I’d save up all my old books I had been reading in between the new releases and trade them in for store credit to help cover the cost
What was so good about it? Have you re-read it since?
>I'll check out her films. Let's hope she doesn't end up like Hayden Christensen.
She won't, she found her niche in indie films and is doing the projects she finds interesting and appealing. She "made it", so to speak, since she obviously escaped the trappings of a big system and being typecast.
Hi Kristen
I'm a 24 white guy blasting extreme metal in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you.
I'm a 24 white guy blasting black people in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you
I'm a 25 white guy blasting acid techno in the evening hours, sorry. No Kristen to fag around here for you.
>acid techno
Link?
just messing in the studio bruv https://voca.ro/1gyAoKLNlUUP
Watching sports without playing them is equally as pointless as watching porn without having sex.
What I mean is, two sexy people fucking isn't something that requires a lot of skill or artistry. You can objectively say that Anthony Hopkins is a better actor the Kristen Stewart and admire his acting skill or watch Kstew because hers is so bad its good. You can admire the skill in a good guitar solo. Pornstars just have to look good and have sex. So what makes cute girl A a better pornstar than cute girl B? There's nothing to be a fan of, no skill or talent to admire.
It's not about talent or artistry, it's about turning off your rational brain and letting your animal brain do the pleasure work for you.
>watch Kstew because hers is so bad its good
nta but Kstew is unironically a great actress imo, she just had shit direction in Twilight
>nta but Kstew is unironically a great actress imo
Great? Nah, but an alright one with a serviceable script? Sure. She, much like Pattinson, has done a lot of work in indie films and that's great for her. Twilight was for the money, and both of them got a lot of dough for doing them.
to each their own, I do genuinely think she's a great actress (but maybe biased cause she's hot)
>cuddle buddy
cut that shit out if you start dating tbqh it's degenerate imo. reminds me of the days when I'd cuddle/sleep over with random girls in my apartment complex when I was drunk. pretty pathetic tbh. just get a teddy bear or some shit
>given a shitty script and a director who doesn't give a fuck there isn't much you can do
that, and she was inexperienced and is also incredibly shy IRL. but she really came into her own later on imo and has done some great performances
>cut that shit out if you start dating tbqh it's degenerate imo
Yeah there would be no need to have a cuddle buddy if I had a gf.
Really? I haven't seen her anywhere else. I guess if your given a shitty script and a director who doesn't give a fuck there isn't much you can do.
Question for women, do you think or recognise anything about young men these days complaining about western, specifically white women? about their general attitudes towards men?
do you think something is wrong and there is some truth to it or is it all just useless rage.
You could blame incels but just from talking to guys regularly I can tell a lot of men think this way, and theyre not all basement dwelling incels
nope, guys being bitches and can’t move past it even though it’s the path of least resistance
Not really. Honestly I lived a pretty sheltered life, half of my friends have been with the same guy since middle school/high school, most of my male friends are married or have a long term girlfriend.
I feel like a lot of guys get their understanding of women from dating apps and social media instead of fostering relationships with women IRL, especially after high school.
>I feel like a lot of guys get their understanding of women from dating apps and social media instead of fostering relationships with women IRL, especially after high school.
goddamn, thanks for sharing your view but thats just so wrong
working with women makes it even more obvious than social media
you too thanks for sharing but again if you think its just because of the internet you'd be severely wrong
If you have some counter-points or ideas I'll hear them out
just at my last side job:
>lots of female staff (I'll focus on the bad, keep in mind there were 5 or so normal decent girls)
>one is a slut whose dating another coworker and she brags about how she lies to him to go out partying
>other one is a manager and hires her boyfriend, constantly berates and bitches at the guy for minor fuckups or just to stir shit (not the typical beta type, its a buff but friendly dumb tool type)
>another talks about the guys shes dating with disdain
>all of them occasionally have bd moods that they take out on everyone around them and they expect everyone to accept that behavior because thats just a bad mood instead of learning to control themselves
I think it was /y/ or whatever that has the highest concentration of wom*n
anyway theres like 5 boards with a lot of women, theres /soc/, /adv/, /y/ and one or two other porn/anime boards
>working with women makes it even more obvious than social media
Really? Not my experience, but as I said I live in a pretty small community. The guys I've met who had healthy relationships with women into adulthood (mixed friend groups, good relationships with female siblings, good relationships with female coworkers, etc) all had girlfriends and such, and in general were better socially adjusted.
The guys I've met who have the most vitriolic hatred for women just never had any women in their life.
Why are you this mad by some women finding some men attractive? Men find women attractive too and lust after them all the time.
Men find more than 50% of females attractive, but you females only find the top 10% of men attractive then you complain about those men not being loyal to you, kek. You dumb cunts are just morons and shouldn't have equal rights, you're the reason why the world is so shit right now.
>you females only find the top 10% of men attractive
Close to 80% of men are sexually active.
these usually seem to be based on age (like ages 18-30), but women date older and that's the issue with these graphs.
>le older men maymay
Explain why older men are also more single than older women
they aren't
Yes they are, only demographic with less single men than women is 65+ you dumbass
nta but yeah you can see the young male loneliness epidemic in a nutshell right there. The number of women willing to date us is way way lower than the number of men we’re competing with
well men can only blame themselves. who could guess that literally every man aged 18-50 going for early 20's women could cause some issues with dating demographics.
nta but bro you just said women date older men
You're a demoralization shill, possibly a bot.
stop aging so badly then
>men cause other men problems
>wah wah womyns fault!
Tranny moment
>getting upset over a joke whilst denying the reality about dating
roastie who never had her prime moment
I'm sure it's womens' fault that you're a tranny lol
oh yeah, there is definitely a middle age and elderly female loneliness epidemic. but they have become complacent with it and cope with pets, plus they usually have really low sex drives anyway
Single and sexually active is not the same. Over 80% of men 35 and under had sex in 2021.
It’s probably lower than 50% btw. More than half people in the US are fat.
Men still find fat females attractive though.
Mmm yeah I guess so. But it’s the same for women too somewhat.
Bullshit.
High school is where they see the females lusting after a few Chads and plenty of you females do it openly in public too if a Chad walks by. You're such a stupid cunt for trying to psyop.
The men you talk to aren’t Chad and thus aren’t human to women
I think there is truth to the notion that it is harder for men to find a woman for romantic partnership these days, but its not some secretive conspiracy, it's just one of many symptoms of our increasingly fractured society. Before the Internet, communities were local people who were mostly on the same page about values and motives. Now, you can find your hyper-specific niche group online and everyone local seems boring and NPC by comparison
Tonight's the night.
I've had a weird friendship with an autist girl for the past few months. I gave her a birthday gift, now she's giving me one. I've gotten mixed signals all over the place so I'm just gonna be direct and ask about our relationship. I think it's for the best since I'm also an autist who overthinks everything and I'd like to figure out exactly what the fuck it is we have between us. I can't tell if I should just treat her as a friend or if there's something deeper developing here. I'm 30, she's 25 and I know her from church/uni. If she says yes I'm gonna invite her to go to the fair.
Wish me luck, anons.
gl bro, cute webm
why do women like /adv/ so much? i dont see this many females on any other board ive been to
Females love to gossip about relationships and drama due to their smaller brains.
there used to be less redpillers/incels here compared to other general boards, but now that's kinda changed.
I don't say I'm a woman anywhere else on LULZ, it's not really relevant anywhere else. Plus women enjoy talking about relationships and feelings.
You're here too buddy.
doesn’t it just seem like a more natural female interest? imagine an actual woman going to /misc/ to talk about ukraine or something kek
It's why they're on /x/ too, just stupid cunts with easy lives.
Because they're chill, have orbiters to stroke their ego when/if needed, and they're cozy.
Girls would you partake in a revolution in your country?
sure. I'm a neet anyway so at least i would have some purpose and be able to feel like i belong somewhere (irl).
Only with a personal army of boyfriends.
describe how you tongue kiss someone
its been ages since I I tongue kissed someone and I kind of forgot
You open your mouth, gently touch and brush your tongues together, and go back and forth between you pushing into their mouth and them pushing into your mouth.
>start out with closed-mouth kisses, either start right away with soft, relaxed, loose lips, or work your way up from more dry kisses to letting go
>when going in for the kiss, tilt your head a little (most people tilt to the right, I think) to avoid noses bumping
>after what feels like the right amount of time (can be ten seconds or half a minute, probably something like that), you open your mouths by opening yours while applying light pressure on their lips - don't open wide, go about half as far as you can go
>lick their lower lip and/or flick the tip of your tongue across theirs (don't reach far into their mouth if you don't already touch it when going in a bit)
>once you touched tongues, depending on the mood you either leisurely get used to it and build up the pace for touching, or you frantically start making out
>the "make out motion" itself can vary, some people only really like to twirl tongues, others include stuff like stucking on the other's tongue, slow or fast strokes, plunging their tongue in (I don't recommend trying that on a first occasion)... if you want to be safe, try waiting long enoug between moves to take their cue for how fast/intense to go, e.g. you can spend a long time just twirling the tip parts of your tongues before the kiss deepens
When in real doubt, withdraw, give her a compliment about how she looks or tastes or smells, and ask her to show you how she likes it best.
thanks anon thats good
Girls, what if I like being objectified (as a guy)?
If your question is
>I like this, is that a bad thing?
then the answer is no, you just like what you like. However if you enjoy being objectified, that will attract (which you also want!) people that like objectifying others, and assholes (M/F) are pretty overrepresented there, so be mindful of who you trust enough to do this with.
If your question is
>if I like it, what's women's issue with it?
then the answer is that as a man, especially if you are straight (or appear to be straight to others), being objectified is an experience you can seek out (or maybe even want to seek out and cannot). For women, it is an experience we at times cannot escape, coupled with a very real threat of force or violence that we are not physically up to compete with. That is different, even when the objectification going on itself might be similar or even the same, the context and lived experience it happens in differs.
I've been wondering. I come from a family of tall people. My bf also comes from such family. I became 2+ inches taller than my mother, but I matured and grew before I was 18. He became 3inches taller than his father and he said he grew until he was 21 years old boys in his family mature late or something. He has a younger brother who grew 2+ inches taller than
their father. My two sisters are also exactly as tall as I am.
I am 6'1 and he is 6'3 at the very least. if we had kids, would we have 6'3+ girls and 6'5/6'6+ boys? The genetics are there I think. I love the idea of it at least.
Is there a more accurate way to predict this?
Doctors usually do (mother height in cm + father height in cm + 13 cm)/2 for boys, and (mother height in cm + father height in cm - 13 cm)/2 for girls.
So in your case it'd be 194 cm boy, and 181 for a girl. Obviously it's not precise.
You're supposed to practice eugenics in secret, not say the quiet part out loud.
>wanting tall daughters
you know that the equivalent of being a manlet is being tall as a woman right?
ofc its not as bad as being a man, but they suffer more than other women.
personally I also think the female body loses parts of its beauty at certain length proportions
You clearly haven't been near cute volleyball players before
I am 6'1, I think I am very tall when it comes to women.
I maybe came out wrong, but I dont particularly want tall daughters, but I wondered how the math works in biology.
>worst part are guys who want to call me mommy in bed, ew.
tyvm, seems like heightwise we're likely getting mirror copies then
lol. Its not like that at all, I didnt order growth hormones from wish for this at all
Should women be randomly split into large groups and each group be given a quota of short men (under 5'9) they need to date per six months and if they fail to meet the quota, the entire group be punished with increased taxes for example?
I identify as small government libertarian btw, not sure if that matters.
No, nobody owes you a relationship or sex just because you didn't grow up after 7th grade.
Even if I control the army and the police?
Bro you need a stool to reach the cabinets in your kitchen, shut up lol
What would you do if 50 armed men grabed you from your home and brought you to a church to marry me?
Look down at you, laugh and walk out of the church.
There would be guards at the exit not allowing you to leave. Wouldn't you be forced to marry me?
No, I'll just die. Sounds more pleasant.
I brought up the solution here already:
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/29354090/#29354290
Adding more because I have great posts and men would be happier if I was the universal leader:
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/29354090/#29354352
Or, you can check my solutions without killing anyone. And good luck coming after sexually frustrated men, kek, it worked out so well in the past, right?
It's pretty clear that 30% of the male population just needs to be quelled
How is that clear?
The fact that twice as many women as men have reproduced
The fact that society was built on men dying as cannon fodder to rid society of the weak
The fact that most population booms came from women trying to tie down a man due to a lack of available husbands
We're just navigating society as if for most of human history a quarter of the male population had been shed
Incels are clearly dead weight
>The fact that society was built on men dying as cannon fodder to rid society of the weak
And also women getting raped/enslaved when a city was conquered. What then lol?
Is that worse than death?
No butbit gets rid of the weak. Should we bring that back too lol?
I said 30% of men need to be killed so yeah
Even if women are raped?
Only if there is a war
>And also women getting raped/enslaved when a city was conquered
And they got turned on by it lmao
I know how to fix the incel problem
every year in every country about 0.00001% of the populations women between the ages 14-25 are selected to become temple whores for a year
they must work in a local temple where they cant refuse sexual intercourse with a man, but they are offered abortions for free and healthcare+all men are checked for STD's beforehand
after that year they get some money, a mental health counselor and a T shirt commemorating their service
Just shoot the men who can't fuck by the time they're 21. Problem solved.
society needs a lot of men, your idea wouldnt work Im afraid
We can exist with less men. You guys used to die in wars a lot, we survived just fine.
No.
>No.
Okay. Can you just bully me then? (I like strong women)
Women would shill for this if it was socially acceptable
slay
Hi, I am 22 and I still can't fuck. But I like it when women are berating and even abusive towards me. Do you think it could work out between us? (You could keep me a virgin if you want)
Or we cull all the men with glasses under 5'10.
Let the superior specimens live free. Both ideas as viable
If everyone's over 6ft, females would just raise their standards to being over 7ft. Do you fail to realize that females are the problem and them having too many rights?
>Do you fail to realize that females are the problem and them having too many rights?
Shut the fuck up, already, about "WAMEN THIS, WAMEN THAT".
Cry more.
I've literally never been proven wrong. Check out my solution to the incel problem as well:
You raise a good point when identifying that standards will always go up, but you err when seeking a solution that uses force, coercion or even violence.
It wouldn't be violence if governments just turned it into a new law. Females have never gone against what the government tells them to do, they would just obey the new powers like good little slaves, as they've proven to do so biologically for thousands of years.
>Females have never gone against what the government tells them to do, they would just obey the new powers like good little slaves, as they've proven to do so biologically for thousands of years.
Right, feminists don't exist.
Men allowed them to have power and men can disallow that as quickly too, as you saw with Roe vs Wade where females seethed that they can't murder babies anymore.
Heartbreaking: The Worst Shitposter I Know Just Made a Good Point
All I hear is that you're a little bitch who can't get chosen by women, so he wants to take away their ability to choose
State gender
How do you trim your pubic hair?
F
with 4mm trimmer. I am quite much never hair free, but I keep it down so it isnt everywhere.
I usually ask bf's to do the same, because I dont want to blow someone whos pubic hair goes up my nose.
M, I use a beard trimmer for the pubic region and a razor for the balls and gooch
F
Epilator, I have to be completely perfectly smooth all the time or my sensory issues go out of control 😛
Does it hurt? How long does it last before regrowing? Does it get every nook and cranny?
I already have really fine body hair, it hurt the first couple times but it doesn’t anymore! You have to adjust the angles and I have a precision head for the delicate areas but so long as your are stretching the skin properly and being efficient it works the best out of anything I’ve tried!
You aren’t also the girl who wants guys to be totally smooth too are you?
Nope that wasn’t me lolz I don’t care about other peoples hair choices!
Nah that would be me
oh hello! I spent an amount of time this week thinking about being smooth together which was very disproportionate to how long we discussed it
Wow wasn't expecting that..but I guess it has come back to my mind too a few times since
I keep thinking about it at work and getting all flustered… like, the textures of our skin and… haha
Heh, yeah..sounds pretty nice
I keep thinking about using some oil and massaging each other… it sounds so romantic
It does.. though I would only want to use a little oil so it won't be greasy..
just enough to moisturize properly… making sure we keep up our skincare, all over
Sounds good..
F wax
F. Laser. I hate body hair.
M
i’ve literally never done it once in my entire life, and i’m a hairy dude
am i supposed to?
and funnily enough, i find pubic hair on women pretty repulsive. if i were to discover that an 8-10 had armpit hair and a bush, i would be at least significantly less attracted to her, if not turned off completely
M
No.
I don't see any reason to, and I don't think that will ever change.
And I wouldn't even know where to start.
F
I don't
How do I tell my fiance that I want her to act like I'm raping her sometimes when we have sex? She is always really into it, which I don't mind but I want to act like I'm forcing her sometimes too. It's really weird because I have no problem telling her about many of my other sexual fantasies and she has done everything I've asked her to do: public, anal, cosplay, etc. but I just feel really weird asking her to do rapeplay with me. Should I just fully send it and tell her what I want like I've done with all the other fantasies I have or should I approach this a bit differently? And for the record, she has never been raped so it's not like I'd be digging up old memories.
Just rape her for real. Half measures are for pussies.
>Just rape her for real. Half measures are for pussies.
She never says no tho... Even when I can tell she's not into it she just lays there and let's me get off at most if she's not in the mood.
Sounds like she's mega submissive and wouldn't mind if you tell her about your fetish.
>Sounds like she's mega submissive
She's a switch. I think she just really loves me. But maybe that's all the more reason I should just tell her.
Women are scientifically proven to be less good at critical thinking and rational thinking than men
however ideally you'd also limit dumb people in general from voting.
even more ideally, you'd get rid of (sham) democracy entirely and replace it with a technocracy, but we all know that would just fall to corruption also
Who asked?
Let's allow only married people with children with an IQ above 120 to vote. If you're unmarried, childless or stupid you cannot vote.
i should probably give up trying to make online friends. i have no friends irl either but i thought that maybe this would be easier.
>always get too excited and start infodumping and typing too much
>then feel like the other person finds me annoying
>even if we share 1 interest, after an hour of talking the chat seems to get very boring, maybe my fault
>end up ghosting and hoping that next time i'll feel some kind of connection and the chat won't feel so forced
Online friends are like online LDRs, not worth it. It's always better to get face to face feedback, online people are too fickle and always operate on some level of dishonesty, so just make an effort to make friends IRL by integrating yourself into social gatherings that are happening, some hobby groups featuring plenty of new people to meet and hang out with, etc.
yeah that seems like the best answer here. idk what's wrong with me really. I actually went to this one club at university at some point, but even there it started to feel like the others were forming a clique and I was kinda just existing there and didn't even want to talk to them anymore. haven't gone there for almost 5 months now.
>but even there it started to feel like the others were forming a clique and I was kinda just existing there and didn't even want to talk to them anymore. haven't gone there for almost 5 months now.
Sometimes it do be like that, anon. But you gotta keep trying, you'll come into your own with time and meet people that you'll click with.
yeah, it's just that i'm not very social and have specialized interests, so something like finding a hobby group i'm genuinely interested in is not that common. this one felt like i could've found a social group there, but maybe i'm just too negative and shy. i felt annoyed when i saw others there doing this fake nice shit. when i try to pretend to be overly excited like that around strangers, it just feels weird. and when people do it to me, it just feels like they're portraying to others around us like "look at me guys, i'm nice to this loner so i'm a good person".
I'm in the similar boat, I have lovely friends, but still lack people who I can talk at liberty about my interests, my passion for art, etc. My friends are great for filling that human void, but I am still to stumble on someone who is into the same stuff I am with such fervor and passion. Thought I found that in my ex, but nah, and that's the worst, when you get disappointed because you put expectations into it. Reading essays and watching YT vids is nice and all, but I miss that human dimension in it all, those face to face talks that I never quite was able to have with anyone other than my professor and an ex crush I frequently msged with.
Oh boy it’s gender war again
Why can't we just get along?
Because females keep lying about everything.
Is it over if you're a butterface? Like to the point where when you smile people get away from you as fast as possible because your face looks smooshed in and deformed.
If F it might be over yes
Yeah I'm female. I don't want to go the plastic surgery route but im worried about how bad my smile makes my whole face look. Idk how to make a good impression in my future career when I look like a caricature of an ugly witch when I smile.
Is it bad even if you smile with your mouth closed?
It's not as bad, but it's still noticably bad. I only smile with my mouth closed for this reason. I have a short and small mouth.
I don't think it will harm your professional life too much, you will just be treated like a man (which can actually be good for a career woman). Dress professional
I know how you feel. When I was a teenager I got dental problems because my jaw couldnt accomodate all the teeth I had, and they started to get mushed together. It caused me headaches so my canine teeth got surgically removed and I had to have braces. my open mouth smile looks weird imo because I lack teeth, even if there arent gaps.
My SO literally has a huge jaw, and room for teeth on top of his wisdom teeth. Genetics are weird
It's not the teeth that are the problem, it's my whole facial structure. I have a big droopy nose.
I feel like there's a golden range for that. Once you start to look actually unpleasant it's more of a detriment than a benefit.
>tfw extremely dominant sexually and into rape play and domination
will this be a problem?
I saw a statistic that only 93% of women are into dominant men in bed
seems shitty for women then that most modern men are subs these days lmao.
I’m glad for it
You want rights? No domination for you
>if you want human rights you can't be a sub in bed
Tranny take
Shame me all you want, I know you feel that way about male subs lmao
How are my fellow uglies holding up?
Sorry can't relate, I'm a handsome man
A question to both genders.
If you feel like playing a character in a game of the opposite sex, do you try to make them as "conventionally pretty/handsome" as possible, or just try to recreate your SO?
I just started playing Bannerlord, and I try to customize my character as my SO as often as possible
> just try to recreate your SO?
pretty much never, but that sounds cute. i only ever really play as male in military games since it feels more realistic. usually there is no customization though.
I play bannerlord with a character I customized to be as close as possible to my BF. I know women can lead armies too, but I like the realism of it.
>I also cringe a bit at the female "warcries" and commands for a reason I dont entirely understand
I try to recreate my crushes/ fan crushes.
M
I try to make them into what my preferences in females I am attracted to are or what fits my character in terms of role-playing purposes.
I think if we had more fem*le cops in court, police etc crime rates would drop for men
just is based on my personal experience about getting away with things when women are the authority but not with men
however, Id have to look for statistics on this and places were women have increasingly become part of the authorities
I think its a good thing because punishments can be overly harsh
I didn't wear a bra at the park and I got wet and you can imagine what happened. What should I do about this? Does anybody care?
Buy an umbrella.
It depends. Post a pic so we can give you better advice
Granted I'm F but men are already allowed to go shirtless, why should it not be okay for your shirt to be wet (braless or not) on top of not being allowed to go shirtless? Why is it our problem when men get excited?
Obviously pick your time and place. If you go to a park at night, you 100% want to bring stuff you can use to cover up and not feel exposed going home or even just lounging around. Just a hoodie and maybe even sweats if you were wearing a short skirt out earlier, also depending on how safe your area is generally.
I thought you meant you were turned on at first lol
I'm F but wear a bra in the future, also bring an umbrella.
Why would you not wear a bra?
Oh, I definitely saw your Pink Areolas.
I mean I can't help but stare if your nipples are showing through your shirt, especially when it's wet and I can see the color and areola and not just the outline.
Sis I don't know how anyone does this; my tits aren't big and I can't not wear a bra for more than like an hour because it feels so annoying
Free the boob(s)!
What’s something that I could do to scrape up some cash?
I can’t hold down a job due to personal stuff I’d rather not go into. I don’t want a ton of cash, just some sort of way to earn money.
My brother buys and sells stuff.
Do you guys have any ideas? Like something I could craft and sell on marketplace for a profit?
>something that I could do to scrape up some cash
Craigslist has a "gigs" section where people post odd jobs they need done. You could try that.
I was actually going to recommend this.
Here where I live, people post odd jobs like that on the local weekly newspaper too. like
"I have this huge thing I cant move with my car, willing to pay a person with a truck."
That sort of stuff seems to always be available, but I live in the countryside. I dont know how it is for city people
I’ll check it out again later, but it looked like a lotta duds.
I’m a 27 yo male. Nobody’s gonna want me to babysit.
If you have any DIY skills, you can find odd jobs through that. Otherwise, babysitting and tutoring is great.
Seeking some advice started seeing a girl 2 days ago and haven't broken the touch barrier. How do I salvage this relationship? How do I escalate things to make it clear I want a relationship?
Femanons do you want a handsome turbo manlet bf?
No thanks, I already have this in the jumbo size, I don't need the travel edition.
Turbo manlet sounds like a car part.
"Excuse me sir, what is wrong with my vehicle?"
-Your Turbo Manlet is wearing out, I cant really let you drive this out of the shop Mam
I was walking uphill in a city on sidewalk. A girl on a bike rode past me. Since it was uphill, she was not sitting down properly, but stood up to use her bodyweight more to pedal probably. She had a short dress. I could see her panties as she was riding uphill.
This made me realize how much I want a gf. She would wear dresses and I could just flip it up anytime when we are alone to have a good look at her beautiful butt.
How wet does your pussy get when you find out hes forklift certified?
Pink ATOGA
London
Spain/Portugal
Switzerland
Russia
Femanons that have seen Fleabag, what does it mean when a woman tells you "I'm literally her"?
If they mean literally-literally, they mean a sarcastic woman who drowns out her existential dread through lots of sex with different men.
But a lot of women just really identify to her, I think, because she is a good portrayal of a very much flawed but also charming and talented woman and she uses irony and her own imagination to feel in control of situations... which I feel is something a lot of especially younger people relate to.
She meant literally literally and it's my ex we're talking about. You're right about the existential dread angle, as well the character capturing the nihilistic 21st century female in a way similar to that of Brenda Chenowith in Six Feet Under. She said it was her favorite show.
>spend 2 hours preparing for a date + shitton of non-productive hours at work thinking about it
>oops I forgot tee hee
why are women like this
You were preparing for 2 hours? Why? The first date is supposed to be something simple to see if you click.
Women, is it more arousing when your bf makes bigger cooms or smaller cooms? I'm trying to make the bigger cooms because I like the concept, but I wonder if to women it's just "great, more to clean up" or if it's hot to them too.
I'm asking this as stupidly as possible so nobody hornyposts.
Bigger cooms are always better and more gratifying to the ego.
Neat, wasn't sure
I get how they'd suck to clean up, but how do they suck to swallow? (Kek)
>I managed to be the first girl according to him to get him to coom during cowgirl position
It's possible, I've had 3 gfs and none have actually ridden me to an orgasm IIRC.
Idc
Breeding purposes and what not.
I prefer if they taste better.
That requires a man to eat fruit and drink water, which is attractive.
brb eating 3lbs of pineapple
*writes down notes*
OH.. I see.
Bigger loads are definitely hotter, but like you said they can kinda suck to clean up/swallow, and usually my partner cumming signifies the end of sex anyways.
as long as he cooms.
is right tho.
One of the best things about current relationship is that we are very open what we want in bed, and I managed to be the first girl according to him to get him to coom during cowgirl position.
I dont mind he has had girlfriends before, but sure felt good I was the first to get that out of him, literally and figuratively, even if it isnt exactly true
Any God-fearing women who listen to Satanic music ?
If I feared God, would I listen to Satanic acts? Probably not, my dude.
Omnia ad dei gloriam
Credo, quia absurdum
Coincidentia oppositorum
Altum silentium
Worship what you’ve burned
Burn what you’ve worshipped
Women
Do you think about what your crush's cum tastes like?
I'm not sure they would have good tasting cum. I haven't seen him eat fruit. I think he drinks water tho.
State gender, and spill a secret you're not supposed to know.
F.
My bf might have an illegitimate daughter from a one night stand in Norway.
One when he was at work, I tried to shut his tablet so it would stop giving off extra light, I saw a picture sent by a woman with about a 10 year old girl, and she has his eyes and nose.
The e-mail was open already, didnt snoop.
I have no context, but I know that this woman and him are not related. This "daughter" is from a time when him and I didnt date, and figured he will tell me in due time if its his or whatever the context is.
I know I could have at that point read all of that e-mail exhange, but it felt like its not right to snoop into someones private business. I saw the pic and the message below it, and I think I saw enough
Damn...
How long have you known? Do you plan on asking him about it, years from now? Or perhaps before you are going to get married or something like that
Its been about a month now.
I dont have anything planned. I dont know how to bring this up.
"So I touched your tablet, saw another woman posing with a kid that has your eyes and got really insecure"
The picture title was "Little <SO's name>"
Those eyes are quite distinct too. I'd ask my friends/sisters, but I am afraid of ruining his reputation if I asked them for advice.
Just sit him down and ask
Make sure you understand your feelings towards this
But it is your right to know about children his has
M
well one thing I know is [[CONTENT REMOVED BY THE UNITED STATES FEDERAL BUREAU OF INVESTIGATIONS. THIS THREAD IS NOW MONITORED.]]
We will take your women (and breed them accordingly)
The rest of you will be our mass labour force.
Earth is our new clay!
Agreed fellow sectoid!
Earthsissies lost this one!
M
Most, but not all, of the anons shower naked.
M, my parents were in very serious financial danger during the 2008 housing crisis, like close to losing our house and declaring bankruptcy. I was pretty young still, 10 or 11, so I didn't notice anything amiss. They never mentioned anything about it and they're evasive about money in general so I don't want to ask I only found out about it when I overheard them reminiscing about it.
M
nothing because i’ve had a cushy, boring life and am also a boring person. in terms of stuff that Isn’t To Be Talked About With Others, though, when my parents took me out to dinner on my 19th birthday they told me that i was nearly aborted because my mom didn’t have enough fluid in her womb and there was a large risk of me being retarded or having some other kind of defect. i did turn out pretty fuckin stupid tho so they probably should have gone through with it
Women, for the next year if anyone compliments any woman on her appearance he or she dies instantly, how are you holding up?
women compliment each other all the time, congrats on the female genocide
> more women die than men because they can't shut the fuck up
Plot of A Quiet Place, innit?
WDYM?
Anon said that anyone that compliments women dies instantly.
Women compliment women a lot.
Therefore, billions (of women) must perish.
Does that include fake compliments?
I was "told" women tend to do that a lot, too.
Fake compliments would apply to the instant death criteria. The criteria would be the woman receiving the compliment, not the speech or the intention to compliment. So texting a girl that's she's pretty to manipulate her would kill you instantly under this scenario.
haha, good!
not well.
appearance wise I might legit like what someone else wears and ask where she got it from to get it for myself.
Might die for a t-shirt. feels bad
I compliment all sorts of strangers all the time and get complimented all the time I’m not living either way
Femanons would you date someone who had a cuddle buddy?
Most Zoomer girls don’t want to be in a relationship, but they thrive off of male attention. It’s the only reason they’re on dating apps.
Also, gaming websites/game streaming.
>go back to school so I'm in my 30s
>go to study session with a few girls
>They rib me playfully about the subject material
I forgot what being around girls in the early twenties was like. It's kind of nice.
Good, good, let the happiness flow through you, become hope and joy-pilled. Go and seethe no more, my child.
>Aw but it's fun being mean to you anon
Literally diamonds
You WILL make it.
Oh this reminds me. When I was at some work sponsored education thingy for three months. There was only one guy, at his early 30s, the rest of us were mostly girls in our early 20s.
We immediately started to call ourselves a flock of hens and that he is our cock. Good times. I'm glad he was in on it.
Ok, which one of you got the rooster's cock
none of us afaik.
He was married, we had a small party for our "graduation" and invited his wife too. I think she got enough of it to satisfy the rest of us too. lol.
Legit a good guy. he has a "superpower", he can open a champagne bottle without the cork making a sound
This only works if you're handsome. Ugly dudes do not get playfully teased by girls. Fuck you.
so glad im not ugly
BOOOOOOOOOBS!!!!!
Pink Areolas
TFE (Total Female Enslavement)
This post just gave me a blackpilling realization about men. Even the most normie tier men never seem to talk about sex slavery, or sexual violence. I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
>Born without all the rape hole and enough strength to defend the ones we do have
Sucks for you.
Honey it's so much worse than that. Many of us aspire to sexual slavery and violence.
Women are naturally subservient. What's wrong with that? Kill yourself if you don't like biology.
This.
>despise submissive men and actively make fun of virgin men and shy men
>omggg how can men be so cruel and violent :((
Women are a meme.
I knew that already retard. Men who think like this are a lost cause. But I’m talking about otherwise normal men still feeling neutral about it at best.
The thought of some dumb bitch sitting at a computer playing with her tits calling people a retard makes my dick so hard
>I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
That's not true, though. And it isn't fair to say it's neutral for all men, that mostly applies to those living in first world countries.
That isn't accurate, I think about it a lot, how many women are being abused and are in sex slavery, how they're being trafficked out of the countries they live through Balkan counties like Albania to Israel and other middle eastern countries where they're forced to work as prostitutes, how there are children that are taken and abused and the amount of child prostitution goes up dramatically in a city if there is a superbowl game there.
I think about it a ton, idk what to do about it, I've never engaged in it or even been to a stripper.
sir, i’m gonna have to ask you to hand over your man card
I think about it and it makes me want to vomit. no one wants that to happen to their sister or daughter. don’t really know what else to say
you’re right. i’d never admit this irl unless it was with another guy that i was sure was also based, but talk about sex slavery, violence, and just women’s issues in general bores me for the most part, unless it’s some truly heinous shit like the torture and murder of junko furuta. that being said if something were to happen to my mother or sister i would be furious
>junko furuta
>nobody got more than 20 years
We should've dropped a 3rd bomb
>impregnate slave girl
>have slave babies
Pretty basic genetics. Meine Kinder sie werden Übermenschen, danke schön.
Men are evil sis
Let's pack it up and go home
Nothing can be done about them
They are irredeemable monkeys
>Even the most normie tier men never seem to talk about sex slavery, or sexual violence. I’ve just realized that men don’t even really think about this at all, they’re not hurt by the idea of sex slavery or sexual violence for the most part. It doesn’t make them feel sick, it doesn’t make them want to try to help in any way, it’s mostly just a neutral feeling for them.
Women don't think about bad thinks happening to men at all so it evens out
I think about it a lot tbh. One of the reasons I don't watch 3D porn
I assume this is just dumb bait. I think most men would happily kill anyone who would rape or sexually exploit their wife, daughter, sister, mother.
Then why aren't most men murderers considering how prevalent rape is?
i've come to the realization that if i was a soldier and my unit was committing atrocities, at best i would be idly standing by as my comrades go gamer mode
Make no mistake, men know where the criminals are in their neighbourhoods, and if the government was on their side, they would do something about it
Nta but this post actually gave me a slight bit of hope back
>your gender
>on a scale of 1-10, how rough is your ideal sex? (with 1 being kissing slow making love and 10 being porn-levels of hard pounding)
M
as deviant as we want to make it.
>metric for 10 is porn
Lame.
M. I like to start nice and gentle, around a 3, then escalate to about an 8.
M
It should start at a 1-2 and then go up to whatever, just start slow and gentle most of the time (being pounced on and then forcibly made out with is nice too, but not everything is a race)
Using "porn rough" as an upper limit means nothing
F. Between 1 and 6 maybe. I don't like anything painful or degrading, passionate is fun.
women will never know the feeling of being close enough with your bros that you all say nagger, homosexual, etc freely. when the slurs start coming out that’s when you know shit is ride-or-die
You incels are so deluded, have you never had a girlfriend who talked shit with her friends?
nope. every girl i’ve met has been a pearl-clutching leftist
No 🙁
What do they do?
They have their own locker room talks, too, and can be nasty. Guys are no exception in that regard and that dude's solipsism is very naive in that regard.
Do they say the n word?
Do you even say nagger or are you afraid to?
The Black girls do.
that doesn’t count. needs to be girls that aren’t black saying nagger, not niggA
True, women can be just as racist/dumb about things.
Case in point: Billie Ellish, Jenna Marbles, etc.
Listening to records and shooting guns over endless Busch beer and cigarettes at my bud's 60 acres saying nagger all night is truly bliss
Do men think this is special? lol
Remember where you are.
If you still think so, you are hopeless.
The therapist called back and said some people dropped out so should could take me
I'm so relieved
Women, what do you think about free use?
I love it and would want it to be a part of my relationship. Only with him though.
Absolute white pills
Not mine. All I got was teased.
in a sense that I am washing dishes and he comes from behind me, pulls my pants down and just has his way with either of my holes. Hot af.
The idea that I am just there, not prepared and he finds me hot enough to go for that is a turn on.
I know that this doesnt come with terms and services agreement with all girls, but damn, love the idea
Men should be free use and women should be in complete control.
That is already what is ahppening
You are just salty you cant compete with stacy for top men
No I need some sort of pear ring but for free use simps. I don't want to be a rapist female.
hot idea, stupid in practice
I mean... possibly.
Celebrities/Musicians are a strange, hypocritical bunch, and it's great to see people starting to shit on all of them, lol.
>that 00's meta where every A-list celebrity had an African stepchild
That shit was so fucking weird.
Exactly.
my mom is unironically a chud, wat do?
give her a hug
Do parents praise sons for things daughters do all the time?
The only things I've ever been praised for are learning another language and I think I got an awkward "thanks" at most for supporting my parents through homelessness twice (while in college)
So if they do, I did not receive this praise
My SO said that the closest thing he has ever gotten to praise from his parents was that he defended another kid from a bully and got in trouble for fighting.
his father said
"You did the right thing, but I really cant have you punching other kids"
And then he was expelled from boxing club that his father ran, and was grounded for a really long time.
He still doesnt know if his father was proud of him or disappointed in him.
So is it universally considered annoying/creepy for girls when a guy to comes up to talk to you in public? Like say on campus, in the library, or on the subway or whatever? I'm generally just an outgoing person to everyone around me and when something catches my eye I feel like asking people about it. Hell, got a gf once that way. Most strangers I talk to -guys and girls- seem to enjoy talking to me but I always have that concern that I'm off-putting or come across as some desperate weirdo by being extroverted like that. If it at all changes the calculus (memes I see seem to say so) I'm in shape, well dressed and groomed, have been told I'm actually kinda handsome, and usually pretty good with words. Assuming all that is true, am I overthinking it?
Ladies what's the point of lingerie? Why wear something your gonna take off within seconds?
it's literally not even attractive from an aesthetic perspective, i'd rather rail my girl in one of her sundresses if we're going just on that
but it's a symbol of her trying to be sexy and bring something new to the bedroom. as a symbol, it's amazing for that, and that symbol is sexy in and of itself
Undressing her in her regular casual clothes is way sexier than some disgusting wired underwear that makes her look like she's cosplaying as Leia from the third star wars movie
lingerie is just capitalism selling women something they thinks makes them look sexy but is actually cheap polyester trash made of recycled parachute cord
Not a girl but lingerie is fucking hot and sexy and I love seeing it enhance a woman's form. Feels really nice to the touch too.
sailor/school girl out fit is better
briefs are for man whores
>briefs are for man whores
is that why you like them?
men
all else being equal, which of the following do you think would make the best partner?
(please choose one, no pussy "i wouldn't be fine with any of them" cop-out answer)
>girl with 20 previous sexual partners who never had a boyfriend
>girl who had 4 previous boyfriends, but never had any other sexual partners
>girl who had 1 ex-husband (divorce, not death) but who never had any boyfriend nor sex besides him
2, although maybe 3 depending on circumstances. 1 only if all the other women are dead and we need to repopulate the earth.
2, 3, 1
I'll admit, the lack of sexual experience on 3 is nice, but the total lack of any relationship experience outside of her former husband is concerning unless she somehow found a great guy who ended up losing his mind or something
I have dated a woman with a similar build before
easy 1
despite what LULZ says about sex making it difficult for girls to pair-bond, actually, you know, pair-bonding is probably much worse
plus you can be her first for a lot of cute romantic couple things. in the other choices, you aren't her first anything
what’s pair-bonding
to me at least the one with 4 is probably the best. We all get it wrong a few times but at least it wasn't entirely meaningless random sex. The one divorce is a second place. The 20 a distant last.
I'll be fair as far as the other 2 go.
20 makes me suspect that sex and relationships mean little to you or that you have no impulse control or sense of propriety. But maybe that's not always true. I definitely had one or two meaningless hookups when I was a teen and everyone my age measured worth as a guy by getting laid. But it's hard to shake that initial gut feeling though.
The divorce implies a willingness to do something extreme like marriage without fully thinking it through first. Again caveat here of a guy who falls off after marriage and becomes say a violent drunk or whatever.
>>girl who had 1 ex-husband (divorce, not death) but who never had any boyfriend nor sex besides him
This one
2 or 3 is she isnt too old
Max 25
>girl who had 1 ex-husband (divorce, not death) but who never had any boyfriend nor sex besides him
This, depends on the reason of the divorce, else
>girl who had 4 previous boyfriends, but never had any other sexual partners
yeah, hot
i'm not fussed about body tbh I'd date an obese girl with a cute face
For M
How do you feel about this womans body? Is it bad? Would you date a woman with this body? This is from a tik tok and my body looks like hers before her glow up 😐
The booty is :L but what her face looks like? Her boobs seem big though.
Is it that bad? Would it disqualify points from a girl who is otherwise pretty or okay looking?
>how do you feel about this obviously attractive woman
Not sure. I'll have to get back to you.
She'd be cute if I could see her face! Anyway, there's no way you can just make your ass bigger and nothing else. Spot training is just lies.
Girls just don't get it anyway. Any girl can be cute or cool, but it's how you dress and present yourself not your physique that matters! Unless your Holocaust survivor grade of skinny or something.
>spot training is just lies
Wait, so i can just like, do triceps extensions ans my legs will grow ???
Holy shit thanks buddy
There is no known exercise thats gonna make your ass bigger simple. If you want that you have to put on pounds but the fat builds all over your body and then all of a sudden girl wants to loose weight again. You can inject your ass with synthol like a brazillian oil builder and die of a tumor down the line if that's your thing.
Holy shit shut the fuck up
Romanian deadlifts
Hip thrust
Back extensions
Bulgarian split squats
Leg abduction machine
Deadlifts of any kind
Squatting
Caloric surplus and some protein
ANY hip extension movement
Just stop fucking discussing shit
Exercise scientists and strength and conditioning coaches have figured this shit out years ago
But pencil neck anon on LULZ will STILL spit his retardation here.
Im sorry your genetics made it impossible to gain muscle
god i fucking love yoga pants
I like it, she has a good body.
Its mediocre
She needs on bulking diet and work her ass off
Luckily her base seems nice, just needs more meat on bones
Also would like to see if her hips are wide
Unironically seen worse, she has a lot of potential (which shebprobably realized)
She looks damn good, the leggings are probably helping significantly tho
Don't try to "build a booty" that's fucking stupid
Body looks fine as is. Just being in shape is enough. You don't need to build an ass
Men who are just obsessed with their biceps look fucking stupid too, it's the literal same thing
Ladies assume you are in the subway in an unfamiliar city and you need directions. How do you decide who to ask?
Assuming I don't have access to my phone, I'd ask an employee at the station
Why are men so retarded? Why don't they pick up on literally anything? Like you have to speak as if you're communicating with a toddler for them to understand anything. Can't rely on just tone or subtleties or nonverbal communication. Are their brains different or something? I just don't understand how we could've evolved to be so different like they're another species.
If I misread a cue, I've burned a bridge socially and may have put myself at risk in terms of employment and legally
I'm not going to just mess around with half-cues, be a little overt
Communicating effectively is for women and gays.
Hunting woolly mammoths doesn't select for subtle communication styles
Because nobody wants to talk to men unless they look like models or are celebs.
This is why therapy or some kind of communication class needs to be compulsory for all men. Please just learn what a hint is for the love of God.
I think they get it.
But
Depending on the age of the guy.
The younger they are, the more readily they jump on ques.
But the older they get they become careful, one mistake and they are afraid of being labeled "sex offender" and ruining the rest of their lives, and would quite much hear "Fuck me already" than "oh you have a handsome smile *winkyface*"
society has drilled it into me that women do not want men coming on to them. not being seen as a creep is the number 1 priority. "she's not interested in you, she's just being nice" is something i've heard and read more times than i can count. you women made your bed with #metoo, now lie in it
This
Just look at any thread when someone asks where he can approach girls
>not at grocery store, they are in hurry bro
>Not at her work, dont shit where you eat or "shes smiling because shes getting paid to do so bro"
>not at school, shes just trying to educate herself bro
>Not in a park, thats serial killer vibes
>not in a bar, shes just there hanging out with the girls bro
>Not online, thats groomer behaviour
>Not on tinder, thats Reserved for top 1% chad
>Absolutely not at gym, that's sexual harassment
At this point i dont even look at women, apparently im a sex offender by just being in their proximity
fucking crickets from the women in response to these facts
lmao
I didn't respond because that's not what I'm even talking about but you dumb moids immediately think about sex first thing. Can't even have a conversation with any of you here either, you're all retarded. That other X chromosome must hold all the social skills you lot are lacking.
you're in a recurring thread where 75% of the conversation is about sex and dating, and you're a woman complaining about how men need to "learn what a hint is for the love of God." any human being with half a brain cell would think you're talking about a romantic hint
You do know that there are relationships after the initial approaching stage right? Men are retarded and can't take hints throughout the entire relationship life cycle, not just its initiation. Romantic relationships, friendships, all of it. Never met a man who wasn't socially retarded.
>approaching stage
>relationship life cycle
goddamn why do you women put so much thought into this shit? isn't it tiring?
stage
life cycle
These sound like simple concepts about relationships to me, ooga buuga anon.
why do relationships have to have "concepts" just talk to people and see where it goes lmao
Do you know what the word "relationship concept" means, it's simple. It's a concept about relationships that someone has. Everyone has these, even you.
i don't think about relationships of any kind except in the context of me getting laid. that shit's boring
>Inability to handle even the simplest of abstract concepts
I can't, I just simply cannot today
I agree it's absurd that as society becomes increasing atomized and individualistic, as well as this being the first time in history that men and women spend so much time together side-by-side as equals, that men are also increasingly being told they can't romantically approach women in any of those settings. I almost wonder if it's the company that owns all the dating apps that's partially behind it.
>ugh i rotated my head 12.5 degrees to the right and my tone of voice was 1.3 Hz higher than normal, how could he have missed that?
this is how you sound
idk I can't help it anon, I try my best but I'm a bit slow...
>tone or subtleties or nonverbal communication
yeah I don't understand any of this lol, use words please
>tfw 25 and have crush on 40 year old
I don't understand, are you not human? Even animals understand body language.
I'm human but probably autistic or something
a girl I dated (who asked me out) got pissed at me for not understanding body language
I can't accept this as an excuse anymore because then literally all men must be autistic
I've never met a non-autistic man. Even my male family members are retarded. I wish you all had to take a "how to communicate with women" class in like middle school. It would've saved us so much trouble.
>would've saved us so much trouble
sorry for causing you trouble I guess ):
why can't you ppl just be direct tho
estrogen compels them to be unnecessarily convoluted in their communication
>monkey blames monkey brain instead of learning how to be a person
Checks out
if we're the subhuman monkeys how come the only reason why you have the same rights as us now is because we let you have them kek
Or maybe women could learn to be direct instead of passive-aggressive because they're so utterly terrified of being assertive for once in their life
And like the other anon said, if women are so upset at men not reading hints then maybe they shouldn't have made the social penalty for misreading them so high
Instead of demanding that half the population be more robotic how about you just learn to be more human?
There's nothing robotic about clearly expressing yourself instead of relying on obfuscations because you're too cowardly to actually take a firm stance on something and potentially get humiliated. Women don't do this shit because it's some evolved form of communication, they do it because they're afraid of social ostracism and acting like this gives them plausible deniability ("oh no I didn't REALLY mean, that you just misunderstood me!").
The funny thing is when men DO act like this (see: men interested in a woman thinking if they befriend her she'll pick up on his intent and understand what he really wants) women complain about how unmanly it is and say that men should just be direct about what they want.
>just emasculate yourself!
no
When I was 18 and a girl kept saying she was busy I just assumed it was true and would ask her if she was free the following week. This went on unnecessarily for months because I had no prior experience asking out girls and didn't know a girl won't directly say "I'm not interested in you" which would've saved us both a headache. But I guess because I'm a tall black male and she was a small asian girl she didn't know I was someone who only understands people who don't beat around the bush.
Is that so fucking hard to understand?
Each month has 4 weeks.
>this went on for months
>months
>plural
You're telling me she had to reject you at least 8 times for you to get it?
for me its, do i really give a shit? why bother? and equally, why cant you just say what you really want to say?
I want an older girlfriend..
t. Late 20’s male.
femanons
do you like to feel sexy or do you think it's objectifying?
I might put on an attractive outfit after I wake up to just feel pretty and look good in the mirror while staying at home, but then switch to something less attention-grabbing if I'm going outside later in order to grab less attention when around strangers. It's complicated lol.
I'm a guy and I do this, but not attractive outfits I just rehearse cool outfits I'm too scared to wear outside (i love insurgentwave/terrorwave style).
ah I get that since in most areas it's probably not an ""acceptable"" style to wear, still looks cool though. for me it's usually closer to something like initially putting on a coordinated outfit with a nice skirt, but then switching to just jeans and a shirt because I don't want to look like I'm putting in effort to look "sexy" while going to my local grocery store lol.
the idea of strategically wearing shit based on how you want to feel and how much attention you want from others is utterly alien to me. i just put on comfy clothes that i like and fuckin go. these threads have been eye opening for me. i really need to touch grass and feel the touch of a woman
nah I think your approach is better and probably healthier. I think I was like that when I was in my teens, but at some point I just started caring more about clothes and fashion.
why are women more passive aggressive than guys?
They cant be aggressive aggressive because they are physically weaker and in caveman days that would earn them a slap or two
you'd think they'd be less passive aggressive in that case, since a guy just unleash some domestic violence on them in response
Need a girl who would like freeuse
I would purchase her gymshark shorts and encourage her to wear them around the house ans just aggressively grope her and more many times a day
Oof
How was life on easy mode today, girls?
M here but was easy as usual thanks, just had fun all day
Also I'm going to a work party tomoz at a nearby pub as someone's last shift is tomoz. I only work til lunch, the party's around 7pm. Any general tips on prep and what to do there?
Do women even have intellectual interests?
I only have intellectual interests
I guess it depends on what counts as intellectual
Are there women who read anything other than social media posts and trashy dime store novels and tabloid true crime chic lit?
Of course there are, but you knew that already
Rape isn't that prevalent, at least not in western countries, and vigilantism is incongruent with civilization
Bye femanons, gonna go to school and get my labs for the semester printed, gonna retake my college id photo probably, and get a food voucher.
Old lady politics is fucking crazy.
We know that men hate women already, you aren't special
He said, she said! I don’t hate you, I don’t even know you!
Bye femanons, gonna get drunk and play vidya
Bye anon. I’ll be waiting for the tornado warning to stop
I went running today and saw a skinny tanned brunette with fake eyelashes in grey shorts that showed her ass cheeks. I slowed down so I could watch her ass. Her age may have been in the early 20s but the tan made her look like she was in her 30s and she had wrinkles on her forehead.
Femanons would you date someone who has had a cuddle buddy of the other sex?
Did you pay to cuddle a hooker?
If she was a "friend" I wouldn't trust you around even your straight friends.
What about a person I didn't pay and I met her on the internet because I was looking for someone to cuddle because I'm touch starved.
No
Why?
No, I find the whole cuddle buddy/cuddle party thing to be really gross and creepy. I can't wrap my head around how people can divorce it from romantic or familial love.
>romantic or familial love
some of us have never experienced this, but cuddling is still nice
You can't, it's stupid.
need lonely gf.
go to /soc/ and pray
what's it like having regular physical contact with another human, or humans? i'm a guy that just learned about the concept of touch starvation
Great while it lasts, terrible when it ends and you lose it.
Said it better than I could
thanks for letting me live vicariously through you guys. it's the closest i'll ever get to that experience
A girl crashed into me like a truck this year, totally unexpectedly. We broke up, but it still happened, so that means there's more hope for you too, anon. Don't despair, just do the things you ought to be doing and life will present such opportunities in due time.
>just do the things you ought to be doing
that's the thing, i don't (aside from the bare minimum). i have 0 drive and ambition. i am a slave to instant gratification
Change that, otherwise no girl will take to you and find you appealing and alluring. Also do them because you owe it to yourself, first and foremost. Why should you spend your time wallowing in self-pity and feeling pathetic when there's so much to see, to do, to experience and to get to know in life?
because it's easier and it's really all i know
It's time to stop and to get to know more of what life is offering you.
I dont ever talk about this here because I will just get called ugly or a liar. But I am a moderately attractive woman who was a virgin until I was 25 because I didnt ever feel comfortable being physically intimate with a man. I had a few boyfriends here and there but they were mostly online relationships so I didnt have to worry about the physical stuff. I only lost my virginity when I actually fell in love with a guy I met on LULZ and he pushed me into meeting him despite how terrified I was.
Im not the typical femcel stereotype, Im mostly normie passing. I have a normal job, I went to college, no one ever would have guessed I was just edating and a virgin. So my point is dont assume that youre some rarity and it will never happen for you. Your situation is probably way more common than you would ever realize. People just usually keep this stuff to themselves.
>I'm a woman
You realize it's a completely different world for you right
Way to completely miss my point.
>don't worry,
>yes, I am an attractive women and the only reason I was a virgin was purely mental, but trust me it's the exact same for a guy who can't get girls to give him a chance
I'm not the original anon btw but it's just not the same. If a guy thinks he'll die alone he probably will, no girl is going to do all the work for him like a guy did for you
this “literally me” shit is kinda intoxicating. it’s an identity that you have to do zero work for in order to maintain it
It's like suddenly breathing air after realizing you've been suffocating for your whole life.
It's nice and I miss it.
As a woman that spent a great deal of my previous relationship in a long distance relationship due to covid, I didn’t realize how much I missed physical contact until I had it again
Like while I didn’t have it I got used to it and missed it a little, but it was only because I had forgotten how comforting it was to have it
It’s not cuddles. We spar and sweep each other.
I'm 27 and never had sex or kissed. the only time I went to a prostitute I simply froze and gave up on the act due to extreme anxiety. After some age your illness cannot be fixed
Gonna inflict my post-work stench on all the qt grils at the grocery store, and nobody can stop me!
Femanons, briefs, boxer briefs or boxers?
Boxer briefs 100%
Briefs are for old men, boxers are for teen boys
>Briefs are for old men
I get this too, my friend's dad used to wear them and they'd be hang drying everywhere, it's what I associate them with, and also wearing them until I was like 7.
I like to wear boxer briefs.
I'm feeling wistful and loving.
I ran into a local friend at Starbucks just a few moments ago. I'm dressed like shit, she was dressed nice for her other job. She still greeted, approached me and gave me a hug. We chatted for a bit and she left "see you around" she says
The girl at the Gelato shop was nice too, for a zoomer
I still smell like the first girl. It's the little things that color your world, for a day.
What's your favorite type of ice cream? State sex
girls
how would you react if you caught your bf hacking away in programming socks?
What are programming socks?
Probably kiss the shit out of him if they're as cute as I'm imagining
What if he's too fat/muscular to look good in programming socks?
Show me the socks
Femanons would you ever agree to a date with a guy who has a hairy back and neck?
Like if it isn't shaved you can see it wearing a t shirt or dress shirt, anything really.
Not my type
So he'd need to shave it for you to consider a date?
I would not stop liking a guy for this reason, and if we dated I would probably ask if he is open to me waxing or shaving the back of his neck, I thought that was part of a hair cut for men anyway
Whatever. I'm gonna make Philly cheesestreaks tonight. Gonna get some thinky sliced steak, red bell pepper, white onion, some white mushrooms, gotta refill my black pepper grinder, a French roll (sorry Italians) and idk.. I guess some Provolone cheese. I used havarti the first time and I thought it was perfect but my friend from Philly rolled her eyes at me for that. Whatever
Gonna wash it down with whiskey and coke
>my friend from Philly rolled her eyes at me for that
You should consider this a compliment. Philly is grimy as fuck.
How do I stop developing a crush on every funny guy who is sweet to me and makes me laugh? It is ruining my life
Get a bf, they are free
I never actually want a bf that is too scary and serious, I just want these guys to like me
Anyone here like cannibal corpse? I feel if I tell girls about this they'll freak out
If my ex didn't freak at all the satanic bands, vinyls and merch I had around my place, doubt yours will at a schlocky band like CC. Women generally don't care about those things if they don't listen to metal, it's whatever to them.
Despite the album art they use cannibal corpse always struck me as remarkably tame.
They're like Jason movies, harmless.
I love the album art and collect it. I even have the album art of that one gay who actually killed himself with a shotgun and his bandmates used the crime scene photo on the cover, even though their music is pretty shit.
Anons what do you do if you don't like yourself? I really hate myself and I feel like it's justified as to why I feel the way I do towards myself. I feel like an utter loser.
How do I improve myself into a person that people actually like?
>How do I improve myself into a person that people actually like?
Why do that when it's easier to just fall into an alcoholic death spiral?
I've never had to use substances to cope with my emotions. I feel really numb to them though.
are you sure people don't already like you bro?
I don't have any friends though. I'm 22m and I haven't had any for 2 years now.
that doesn't necessarily mean you're unlikeable
I feel like a really ugly person though. Internally is what I mean.
At what date is it kinda safe to assume talking about exclusivity and start dating? 2 or 3?
As in, if I go on oje date, we vibe well, is it wrong to sleep around in between?
Do you like my temporary tattoos?
I like your skin
Thanks. I have 10 others, including one on front side of my left arm but since my arms are hairy, I don’t think it’s gonna stay on very well.