Is it weird for a 25 year old to date a 19 year old?

Is it weird for a 25 year old to date a 19 year old?

  1. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Only to women

  2. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    fuckin do it. most people reason taking an experiment is justified for a 99% survival rate.
    >with that line of thought who cares what people think

  3. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    yes. once you can go to bar/over 21 events it's weird to date people that can't. gives the impression you're okay with doing juvenile activities all the time for fun, like an adult Disney person. part of being adult is finding adult exclusive stuff

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      25 is the magic age when 20 year olds think they're not longer 20 year olds they're now suddenly wise and mature old adults whose brain turned to cement after they blew out the birthday candles and a 24 year old child could never understand how old and mature they now are.

      case in point: cool posts like

      yes, it is weird. 6 years of adult experience is huge at that age range - the power imbalance will basically always tip in favour of the 25 year old. the older partner (usually) has
      >more money
      >better social skills
      >more relationship experience
      which often allow for
      >more manipulation when the going gets tough
      and all relationships will have their bumps. two 19 year olds will have an innocent, coming of age fight. in the other scenario the 25 year old has a headstart in arguments since they have way more leverage / experience.

      do with this information what you will. but trust me mate it's fucked and most people will talk behind your back about it regardless.

      Only to women

      maybe on the rest of the internet, but on 4chin it's really just 25 year olds trying to pretend they could never understand what it's like to be a 19 year old in 2022

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, there's an experience gap. I would date someone closer to your age or slightly older. They're still figuring out who they are around that age and life hasn't hit them yet.

        That's not really how that works, also they're right. Eventually you have to grow up and part of being an adult is recognizing when there's an imbalance instead of using your experience to take advantage of someone.

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          19 years is adult in 99.9% of countries, If she made a decisions she wants to join the military , waste their time in college or date a 50 year old man, Theres nothing you can do. so idk.

          i think most people equate age gap relationships Boss to employee relationship. i have no idea why. like this one

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            There's a lot fallacies here, besides your lapse in logic. Just because something is legal doesn't mean it's sensible. A lot of young girls get in over their heads with someone who they're not equipped to deal with. If you really want to date a teenager that badly go for it. OP doesn't realize how it can be an issue so he's probably underdeveloped himself, but most people wouldn't approve for good reason anon. It has nothing to do with a boss and employee relationship and you completely miss why it's not really appropriate.

            • 5 months ago
              Anonymous

              Im not making fallacies, im telling him 19 year old can make their own decions, thats pretty much it. and the last part i guess i was wrong. i was just comparing power dynamics

              You need anything else cleared up

            • 5 months ago
              Anonymous

              And when i say 19 years old can make their own decisions , They're accepting whatever disadvantage they may have(, including your experience analogy. If not, they'll simply say no

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >stop being juvenile and come get into 2AM drunken fist fights like a real adult

  4. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes it's weird

  5. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    No, you're winning. Who cares what anyone thinks. Only butthurt males who are unattractive and can't do it, and jealous roasties would be mad. But then again, who cares what they think?

  6. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    I would say that yes it is strange, but maybe it can work

  7. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    No. Why would it be? I'd date both 19 years old girls and 40 years old women, I, for one, don't put too much importance on my partners or friends ages.

  8. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    No. You could go even younger and it would still be okay as long as it was legal. It's just one of those things that some people will screech about but if you ignore them nothing happens.

  9. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    i dated an 18 yr old at 23-24 year old. You'll be fine. the only people that will complain are older women lol

  10. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    yes, it is weird. 6 years of adult experience is huge at that age range - the power imbalance will basically always tip in favour of the 25 year old. the older partner (usually) has
    >more money
    >better social skills
    >more relationship experience
    which often allow for
    >more manipulation when the going gets tough
    and all relationships will have their bumps. two 19 year olds will have an innocent, coming of age fight. in the other scenario the 25 year old has a headstart in arguments since they have way more leverage / experience.

    do with this information what you will. but trust me mate it's fucked and most people will talk behind your back about it regardless.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >dood power dynamics lmao lmfao
      kys yourself

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        right? that only works if the older person is like the subway manager or karate teacher or something

  11. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    No?

  12. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's not weird to date a 19yo as a 35 guy, you are fine.

  13. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes.
    Half your age plus 7

  14. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    when my parents 1st met mom was 24 and dad was 30
    in my country i already saw a 40yo marry a 17yo

  15. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Crazy, Im 29m and I came across a 21f and we hit it off pretty well. She actually has more sexual experience than me and it's always a fight about who is really in charge. It's a lot of fun. At the same time I'm afraid she might have way too much energy even though she claims to want to take things calm and easy. She even looks older or as old as me which is strange. Still hot though. I don't think anyone can tell us shit. Only thing I'm afraid of is embarrassing myself, I think she has a free get out of jail card and I'll be stuck with all the responsibility if things go south. I just put it on the table and she put it in her mouth, what was I supposed to do?

  16. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    yes

  17. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    no agematchilly?

  18. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    25/2+7=19.5
    you are fine

  19. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Half your age + 7, round down. This is the socially acceptable age gap. If your partner is within this range its not weird.

    25/2 = 12
    12 + 7 = 19

    Not weird.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      20 and 17 goldenzone.
      Imagine not having had a girlfriend who only showed birthyear in order to scam herself a couple months of age.

  20. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    No

    next thread please

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