Is it true guys hate on pretty boys because they get girls?
Im 18, and a pretty boy who just lost 50 pounds and unlocked my true form after years of teenage rejection.
The thing is when I was fat and ugly men just talked to me like a normal dude but women treated me bad.
Now that Im pretty I find that women are super nice to me, but men tend to be dicks and roast me for my clothes, or skinny stature, the same way girls used to roast me for being ugly/fat.
Why is this?
I want to fuck her tight pussy
imagine the backshots
>her
Yeah...
yeah I just searched him up and first thing I saw was his balls hanging out.
I take back what I said.
hot
double hot a thicc boy who can spit
>I take back what I said.
Why? Just roll with it man
Thats a cis gay porn star lol
Its cool 99% of men are bi so it doesnt matter
Who? The thumbnail names are lies.
@playboyzachh on twitter
Thanks dude.?
Hes honestly hot.
I'm not gay but I'd have romantic sex with him.
He also gos off on beats too
https://soundcloud.com/ruexan/wannaa?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing
Yes and also no. You've sort of sold your soul to the devil by appealing to the female gaze, it's an advanced form of simping. This is what other guys don't like. I'm a prettyboy myself so I get the same treatment (girls are very picky though so I don't get laid very often)
>o I don't get laid very often
define not very often? also, my best friend is a pretty boy (literally gets mistaken for a girl at times) and don't feel what you said is entirely accurate. of course i realize you being a pretty boy has 1st hand experience, i can acknowledge that much. the thing with him despite having lots of interest from women, he's still a dude. not effeminate at all and doesn't get mistreated from guys. maybe light teasing, but we recognize he's a guy.
>define not very often?
well I became a prettyboy very suddenly a year ago at 20 and have since been laid 5 times from being a turbo virgin incel. It's okay but it's not Chad tier or anything.
>of course i realize you being a pretty boy has 1st hand experience, i can acknowledge that much. the thing with him despite having lots of interest from women, he's still a dude. not effeminate at all and doesn't get mistreated from guys. maybe light teasing, but we recognize he's a guy.
No it's not like I get bullied mercilessly or anything, in fact guys treat me better than before because I'm more attractive, it's more like you get less "respect", people think you've sold out. People think you're pussywhipped because you try so hard to be pretty.
>you get less "respect"
you gotta define this for me, pls. you get better treatment from men and women but you're hinting that it's worse? The math doesn't really check out on this one for me.
>a year ago at 20 and have since been laid 5 times f
That's kind of a lot, tbh. Not crazy mind you but defnitely getting up there at the pace you are going. You looking for someone longterm or have been disillusioned by your experience? Also, having lived both sides do you believe incels are right for the most part? Has your personality been as big as a factor as others like to proclaim?
>you gotta define this for me, pls. you get better treatment from men and women but you're hinting that it's worse?
Idk I guess it's kinda the same. I used to be bullied but now I'm not. It's difficult to explain what I'm trying to say, people may respect me more now tbh now that you mention it.
>You looking for someone longterm or have been disillusioned by your experience?
Yes, women don't want me basically. I can hardly talk to women, it's easier to just sleep with a girl who's dtf, but they just use me for sex, a ons.
>Also, having lived both sides do you believe incels are right for the most part?
Incels are right as fuck, I've known that since I was 14.
>Has your personality been as big as a factor as others like to proclaim?
Personality is a steaming pile of horseshit, I don't think it exists the way we think it does. My personality has aways been the same timidhomosexualry ever since I was 2 years old basically but the way people have treated me has varied accordingly. I was definitely very ugly when I was 18, the change is insane honestly.
>the change is insane honestly.
can you go into detail about what you've noticed. do you remember the first moment when you realized you were actually attractive.
>can you go into detail about what you've noticed.
Biggest thing is that people don't bully me anymore but to be honest that could be due to not going to high school anymore and I'm a universitycuck instead (we start uni at 19 in Norway). People are polite to me, even attractive people. There's not so much "I'm too good to talk to you" vibes anymore, despite the fact that I'm still the nervous timidfag I've always been. Another absolutely massive thing is that women will maintain the conversation by asking questions of their own, something I never experienced before.
>do you remember the first moment when you realized you were actually attractive.
It was a bit of a process to be honest, it happened in steps. There was a time last autumn though where I got rated by a looksmax user and he gave me a good rating and I also got approached by a girl at starbucks, so that could be the "first moment" I guess. Since the time I was 18 I had:
>got rid of acne
>got leaner (ie less puffy face)
>dyed my eyebrows
>got longer hair and take better care of it
Tell me more, pls? I want to hear your experiences where it was no longer a fantasy. Like you've heard of women approaching guys and actually wanting to talk to dudes, but now it's you. I would feel like an imposter in these moments if I were you. What about your unattractive brothers and sister, are you nice to them? Has their behavior also changed around you?
> I got rated by a looksmax user
you use to be part of that community? for how long? Have you done the smart thing yet and get yourself a job as a waiter?
>Tell me more, pls? I want to hear your experiences where it was no longer a fantasy. Like you've heard of women approaching guys and actually wanting to talk to dudes, but now it's you. I would feel like an imposter in these moments if I were you.
Tbh I do feel like an imposter, I'm not that attractive. I honestly still feel so ugly that I want to kms but then I'll see my face's reflection in the mirror and I'll think
>I'm attractive
I'm not attractive enough for bitches because their standards are so high and they don't want me. It's a brutal blackpill, even if you're good looking they don't want you because there's tons of good looking guys and there's no incentive to choose you. So yeah it feels pretty good when women approach you and stuff but it never makes me feel less repulsive.
>What about your unattractive brothers and sister, are you nice to them?
Yes I'm nice to them, wouldn't say they're unattractive though, it was just that I in particuar looked really fucking awkward in my teens.
>Has their behavior also changed around you?
No, they've always been nice.
>you use to be part of that community? for how long?
Still part of them. I'm mostly there for James Sapphire, he's kinda my friend. >Have you done the smart thing yet and get yourself a job as a waiter?
No, that's not so easy. Don't think people really find me that attractive, there's always someone else they could choose instead
I just recently heard about the looksmax community and was pretty shocked. An anon here had said that back in the day Legit male models use to post. Like actually famous professionals and shit.
>No, that's not so easy. Don't think people really find me that attractive,
you should at least give it a try
looksmax is pretty shit, I'm only there for my fren
>you should at least give it a try
nah I'm studying to be a civil engineer
ah cool, have you looked into Roark's Formulas? Also, there's a concrete class let me pull it up https://www.udemy.com/join/login-popup/?next=/course/concrete-technologycivil-engineers-lifeline-in-construction/learn/lecture/26633088#questions
i'm gonna be a structural + architect. I have collected a bunch of really rare engineering
you can get the cold formed steel manual online. Cold formed steel is engineered different from normal steel
>guys treat me better than before because I'm more attractive, it's more like you get less "respect", people think you've sold out. People think you're pussywhipped because you try so hard to be pretty.
It's not that you're pretty. Misery loves company. Humanity has a crabs in a bucket mentality and anyone successful at literally anything is seen as a personal threat. The men that don't respect you are all ugly skinnyfat homosexuals.
>The men that don't respect you are all ugly skinnyfat homosexuals.
ye I guess ya right g, it still gets me down tho. If people aren't even nice to you and toilets (f*males) don't want you, what's the point of even trying.
>girls tell me I look like Timothee Chamalet and tell me I'm cute
>it doesn't matter because they never approach me because they assume I'm gay (I'm not)
>Timothee Chamalet
Bug
I think it's a sunk cost thing for those guys. A lot of them buy into the "alpha male" gymcel aesthetic, and don't want to consider the possibility that it hasn't turned them into the desire of every single woman in the world.
You sure it's not just because he looks weak?
Built 4 'dat BBC.
that guy is very fat
i had a similar thing happen except with my personality from 7th grade to 10th grade really it peaked. I could get girls just by being popular & really outgoing.
In 2011 the gates kind of shut tho, chicks weren't willing to wait around to see what kind of personality you had
summer after 7th grade i made out with like 20 random girls, tho i've blacked all of it out
i'm not good looking, i have acne scars and yellow teeth, but still rarely (way less often then i want) there's that 1 chick who's just totally down
I've been referred to as pretty by both men and women, I get ragged on by my older male friends for my long hair, one of them even makes slightly rapey comments to me, despite me being muscular from the head down. Despite this I dont have the best luck with women to be honest, been on many dates but find it a graft to get pussy, I have awful luck, i doubt my own looks because of it but on soc I get rated high as well and from many peoples comments i dunno
It's genuinely disturbing how looks just change everything. I remember when I had a glow after high school was invited to partys non stop and had so many people approaching me but I never really could handle it
>but I never really could handle it
so what did you end up doing?
I panicked and barley spoke and didn't go because I never learned how to handle other people. Know I'm known for disappearing for 1-2 years and then maybe come to once hang out with them. It's depressing because they are my "friends" but they never think about me when they hang out I have always to ask now and I hate it
yeah that happened to me, not because i was attractive, but because of my prowess at getting chicks. They knew they were ostracizing me
if you're wondering why i'm here, i'm not really interested in sex anymore, i used to be obsessed with it. I got it under control. I'm not in touch with anyone from my childhood
that being said, sex is the only part of a relationship i'm interested in with just about any woman
feels good to not have tyler spamming the thread, that's one poster i won't miss
All I do is play video games now because if I don't it feels like reality will catch up to me and I will be depressed since no one of my friends seems to want to invite me and I always have to ask
you gotta forget them and start finding people on your own. find some independence, it'll probably hurt less than being thrown around like some kind of ragdoll
here's something that's true: people resist other people changing. sometimes you just gotta cut people out, but think about it: you also gotta cut out the ROOT-you can't have SITUATIONAL confidence, what if you run into one.
>having to ask
Yeah this happened to me in highschool. it was big fish small bowl. Even the girls were getting jealous so i was ousted from the popular group. When I had asked one too many times I just said whatever i don't have any friends. Made some friends the next school year after a humiliating semester of faking i fit in
i kid you not. I took the homecoming queen to homecoming sophmore year. Junior year I showed up on the first day of school without a single friend
one of my asshole ex friends who i later became friends with again said "Why didn't you sit with us at lunch?". Gee, cuz i haven't gotten a call from a single one of you in 9 months
the irony is junior year my reputation at being adept at getting women spread all the way throughout the school & it was said "Even the jocks can't get girls when he's around"
if you're wondering how this concluded. i lost my virginity after choosing to wait till i was an adult at 19. After that i just fucked escorts till I quit that 5 years ago & haven't had sex since
i have a vasectomy now. I'm kinda saving myself for the women i love (2 women), but at the same time kind of interested in trying to get laid cuz i have a vasectomy so it just DOESN'T MATTER
one of the girls says i can't cheat, and the other one (we're a three way relationship) says she wants me to fuck an escort / this one specific chick (her bestfriend)(not my girlfriend)
this is where it gets confusing cuz that best friend was trying to throw the girl who said i can't out of the relationship & get in. idk where it stands now cuz my girlfriends have had sex (i haven't had sex with them)
>o one of my friends seems to want to invite me and I always have to ask
are you that bad of a friend? a lot people here say they aren't but whenever i dive deeper. 9/10 times they are just awful
I think it's mostly because I life a bit father away and can't spontaneously come over they all live in the big city. A few of them also complemented me for being a genuin person and not trying to fit in. But than again they party and do drugs every time
looks will get you chicks that are up to an 8.5, beyond that, personality trumps
btw, ALL the chicks 8.5^ are virgins
I've noticed a lot of guys seem to call pretty boys sissies. Must be coping mechanism. I'm personally jealous of them.
guys will roast skinny dudes for being weak physically, yes, but we also see you have pretty boy potential.