Is it possible to get a girlfriend as a neet?

Is it possible to get a girlfriend as a neet? I'm not ugly, i'm not short, i'm not insane, i don't smell.

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah you can if you looking good.
    But mostly it will only last as long as she thinks she can 'fix' you, so expect relationships to usually fizzle after a few months

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      of course. get yourself out there man, find yourself a danm girlfriend.

      I want to be fixed... but i'm not some druggie or criminal, i'm just apathetic towards the real word and lacking any marketable talents or interests.

      depends on what you mean with neet.
      if it's that your a bum living in your mom's basement then you will not get one.
      if you live in the forest raising chickens, it's a better chance.

      People who work in subsistance agriculture aren't neets.

      Yes but it ain't gonna last since she will have to pay for everything and will get bored of you quickly

      Pay for what? I like to take long walks in the forest or cook toghether or watch anime and movies. There's no expense in any of it.

      I did by lying and then actually getting a job. It's only part time and she knows

      that's disgustingly immoral

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >that's disgustingly immoral
        Why does it matter if I got a job

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Nothing wrong with being unemployed, everything wrong with lying, especially to a romantic partner.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >everything wrong with lying, especially to a romantic partner.
            Your relationships are going to be eyeopeners

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I absolutely despise lying. I think it's always worse than telling the truth, and in fact commend people when they own up to their mistakes.

            get good at writing and going alt dating/sex sites.

            Fetlife, okcupid, etc.

            There's a certain subset of women who you can get your foot in with just being a good writing conversatyionalist/penpal.

            But make sure you make a move eventually.

            I heard e-dating is a hellscape where there's one woman for 5 men, and she's fat, insane, a catfish or most likely just there for male attention and an ego boost.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Like I said, it's not normal e-dating. OK cupid encourages peop[lke to have detailed profiles and filters so there's a way to play that game, and I did.

            Fetlife similar it prvents spamming.

            Basically you are more likely to be able to play to your stengths.

            At the very least you'll get inside some women's heads and learn a lot for your own benefit.

            I did. Married with preggo now.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            That was the only thing I lied about. She knew I was a broke loser who lived at home lol

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >People who work in subsistance agriculture aren't neets.
        Depends on what you mean.
        If it's a business then of course he will not be a neet, however if it's just him out somewhere raising chickens for the sake of it or food so may he still be a neet.

        Would your mothers garden in the yard make her a farmer or is it just a hobby which gives fruit from it's labour?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        You might get a one-night stand but a gf... I doubt it. Women aren't fond of guys who cannot provide. Or they will take you in and get tired after a few months, blaming you for doing nothing.
        There is still a chance to get a girl if you are really lucky but what are the odds?

        >Pay for what?
        Do you have a house? Can you get enough to eat? Pay the bills? For how long?
        If you stay a NEET she will have to pay.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          >Do you have a house?
          I live with my parents.
          >Can you get enough to eat? Pay the bills?
          They pay for that.
          Also, has a man ever made such consideratons? There are thousands, no, millions of men who are DREAMING of a neet gf to take care of.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >I live with my parents.
            And you're gonna take her in? Say to mom and dad "that's my gf, she's living with us now, of course you will pay for her expenses, this is for my happiness"?

            >They pay for that.
            For life?
            >Also, has a man ever made such consideratons? There are thousands, no, millions of men who are DREAMING of a neet gf to take care of.
            A lot of men like when their girl get some money, yes. And for the rest, they can provide. They have a job, somewhere to live and can pay for another person. And that other person is then supposed to take care of the house.

            I am a NEET too but reality isn't kind. Love isn't enough to be together. (If you want a long-term relationship, that is.)

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >And you're gonna take her in?
            Is she gonna take me in?
            >And that other person is then supposed to take care of the house.
            I love cooking and gardening, and i'm okay with house chores. Now where is my bussiness-woman-wife.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >Is she gonna take me in?
            That kind of woman is extremely rare, Anon. Don't get your hopes up.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I'm married to basically this type but like I'm not a NEET, just someone with a laid back white collar job that lets me have more time to do househusband things and have my own entrepreneurial projects.

            Essentially you need to "have something going on" to make that dynamic work. No woman dreams of a tradwife dependent or trophy. Even the old musty ones who actually do get trophy husbands IMO are doing it out of some weird revenge/to spite men.

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    of course. get yourself out there man, find yourself a danm girlfriend.

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    depends on what you mean with neet.
    if it's that your a bum living in your mom's basement then you will not get one.
    if you live in the forest raising chickens, it's a better chance.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >if it's that your a bum living in your mom's basement then you will not get one.
      Wanna bet?

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    define "insane"
    normie is considered "insane" here buddy.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Yes but it ain't gonna last since she will have to pay for everything and will get bored of you quickly

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    i had one during the brief time i was a neet years ago but that was a pretty different situation.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I did by lying and then actually getting a job. It's only part time and she knows

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    get good at writing and going alt dating/sex sites.

    Fetlife, okcupid, etc.

    There's a certain subset of women who you can get your foot in with just being a good writing conversatyionalist/penpal.

    But make sure you make a move eventually.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >Fetlife
      You're just gonna encounter a shitload of hookers and "dominas" with inflated egos who get DM'd by 200 thirsty guys a day.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        if you can't tell the difference between them it's your own fault.

        Also they are not the type that want to chat freely.

        Trust me I literally had references from other women publicly on the site and recruited my now wife there.

        What you are saying is a very surface level take of it.

        It's not a sure thing though. Like I said alt -people often use okcupid and similar "high effort" sites. Including fetlife people.

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Stop caring and just do something, anything new.
    Stagnation is what will get you.
    If you have the time, use it.
    Go make something, go outside, blow some shit up.
    Learn how to do tasks normally not performed anymore.
    Smash rocks together. Take a hammer and smith some shit.
    If you have the time, then use it.
    Its the most valuable thing you have, and if you become lazy or unmotivated then your life will fall between your fingers as sand.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I do go outside often, it makes me feel better, but changes nothing.
      >blow some shit up.
      glowie.
      >Smash rocks together. Take a hammer and smith some shit.
      If i had a talent for manual work, i wouldn't be a neet. I am neet excacly because i'm bad at most money-making endevours.

      If your in your early 20s, you can get an older millennial woman easy.

      My very own Misato gf?! I'm in. I don't even care how many men she's had as long as she loves me and stays loyal to me. I'm 23 so she should be 33 or younger.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >glowie.
        frick off Black person, I didn't mean blow up someone else's property.

        >If i had a talent for manual work, i wouldn't be a neet. I am neet excacly because i'm bad at most money-making endevours.
        It takes time and effort to become master in one's trade. You have to start somewhere, even it that is rock bottom.
        If you are weak, then get strong.
        If you are dumb, then get smart.
        You got to have control of both your body and mind.
        What are you good at then?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          It's not that simple. It will take me much, much longer to learn those crafts, and i may never achieve proficiency, just as it took me longer to learn to swim or tie my shoelaces. If i was good at something useful, i wouldn't be a neet.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Dont care, what are you good at?
            Also when I was younger I was not as fit, and had less muscles.
            I thought I would be working a static job, one where you dont use your muscles as much but now I work in trades and my muscle mass has increased.
            The body is adaptive you just need to start and continue to do it.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah something like that. I knew a 28 year old girl with a 22 or so year old boyfriend that is a neet. She actually knew him from church since he was like 15 or something. I think it would be considered grooming if the roles were reverse but whatever, good for him, he's a neet anyways.

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    If your in your early 20s, you can get an older millennial woman easy.

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    kek if you are neet the only thing you have going for you is too looksmaxx.

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm not ugly, i'm not short, i'm not insane, i don't smell.
    I'm none of those things, I'm not a NEET, and I'm still a KHV. I don't fancy your odds OP, but good luck.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      where the frick are all the women then, i thought we had a 1-1 distribution and everyone wanted to have a second half
      then where is my neet, shut-in second half?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        It's not evenly distributed nor will it ever be.
        If you want one you got the make the change for we all know women won't.

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I used to be this, yeah it's absolutely possible. I dated a lot while having no car, barely a high-school education, no job, and no plan to change any of it. I would take the bus to first dates and typically they would pick me up from my house or just come over after the first date so I never had incentive to get a driver's license. I finally got with someone who has "fixed me" I got a car and a job and am studying IT now for a future career. It'll happen bro just get really good at first dates

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