Early 20s male here. I currently have zero friends, still a virgin, have zero social media. Also in high school I had no friends, never went to prom, never went to a single party and was basically a social reject. I have been a shut-in for the past 5 years after a failed suicide attempt shortly after graduating high school. I am not in college nor do I work. Suicide feels like my only option, I’ve basically just putting off but will consider it very soon
No, it's not over
How so?
>How so?
NTA but you're early 20s
The only thing that's over is your high school years.
>he doesn't know
What doesn't he know? Is there some statistical thing I need to be aware of?
Man, I'm 25 and the same, basically the zero social skills is what ruined my life, feeling like an outsider and going out of my city to live on my own for college was a big mistake, trying to go to parties but only stood awkwardly on a corner, not being able to even participate in class gave me the stigma of someone who isn't interested in his career and was treated like shit by teachers and bullied by literally the whole classroom.
I dropped college on the last year and have been a NEET since 2020.
Have also considered off myself but I don't wanna go without putting a fight first, It took 5 years to drsg my life to the shit and I'm gonna give myself 5 years to fix it, been in the gym since May and already dropped 10 kilos, contacted my university and I'm glad to hear I can comeback whenever I want (planning to come back for next semester in February) and have realized the "right time" doesn't exist, when I was 22 I wished to be 18 again in the same way I wished to be 22 at the start of my 25. The reality is you just need to start doing things, you will feel like shit doing them or not doing them since you will feel like a waste, choose the pain that actually makes you grow.
jesus... it's the only one that really lasts into old age, and why it's popular
Solid advice, thanks bro
No problem. The second reply was just to the rest of what you said but I already said "none of it matters" so it's fine it didn't post.
One thing I did mention though, was that not being in college can be easily changed. But that it's not even necessarily important. The weeb former-loser guy I mentioned had to in order to connect with employers. We even did some research to make sure the schools he applied to actually had connections since he was already good at it and any new shit he could learn anyways. Point is, college was just a means to his specific end.
You might find something that doesn't need college at all. The worst thing you can do is just "go to college" cuz "you have to" without changing how you approach things at all, graduate with a degree you didn't want, debt, and feeling exactly how you feel right now except older which is worse. You might as well take a weird job in the middle of nowhere that pays for relocation because at least you get paid.
Get a gun and blow your brains anon it’s so easy. You will reincarnate much better.
Was thinking of roping actually, I’m unable to get a gun legally since I’ve been to a psych ward. But I think of the afterlife constantly
Stop being a little pussy fag bitch
You’re life isn’t as bad as you think it is AND you’re young shut the fuck up and grow a pair
>Early 20s male here.
So you're a blank canvas.
This is the best time to get started with your life. Some men start mid 20s. A few even late 20s/early 30s. Early 20s is good.
Most of what you said doesn't mean anything. It deals with being a loser in the past. None of that matters. You're harping on it and that's what it seems like it matters. It really doesn't. You can start now and try to build the life you want and work towards accomplishing that.
Your biggest problem is likely that you lack direction. Here's the reality: life is hard. Women and kids chase "feeling good," as men we have to change life building. This isn't necessarily wealth building, but wealth building is often tied to it. Some men just have a family business or were pulled towards one direction or another. Some find out later. There's no easy answer. A big part of it is self awareness, but there's also the fact that you don't know what's out there. But you will eventually find something if you keep looking. Again, you have to start building a life for yourself.
Will reply specifics in next comment...
I thought I sent a reply but it never showed up. A shame but I can get on with my third and final reply.
Anyways back in my high school days there was a total weeb nobody liked but I thought he was alright and, in particular, skilled with Photoshop. So I had him design shit for fun like party invites. He rarely actually attended them and when he did he'd just sit in the corner.
Anyways I ran into him at a 7/11 years later when I was visiting my parents and he seemed DOWN. Like he was gonna end it himself soon. I invited him for a drink at the shitty bar around the corner and yeah, basically what you said. I said well you were great at Photoshop why not be a graphic designer? He thought it was impossible.
It wasn't. With me motivating him he was able to put a portfolio together and apply for art school. Got in. I made him really rework his approach to things so that he went out of his way to meet new people, send his portfolio to job openings even before he graduated, etc. Guy is now the art director for some weeb shit making 6 figs. Has a wife and close friends. Insane to think that it's the same guy.
This is a 10+ year change though. He started small, like lifting weights, intentionally saying "good morning" to people, etc. Guy is unrecognizable now. And to think he had no idea this was a viable career. Which is my point, you have to be aware of yourself AND what's out there.
Hello, I can be your online friend
Im a 24 year old virgin.
Yes its over.
>zero social media.
That's a good thing
it might be but it doesn't have to be.
Skill issue
>is it over
Nothing about your life screams that it’s over. Get help, you don’t have to live this way.
>Early 20s Male here
>still a virgin after highschool ended
Depends what your exact age is but yeah probably.
>Never went to prom
Yeah I didn't either I wss kinda an outcast at that age but I still managed to fuck and I'm literally diagnosed Autistic so I'm guessing unless you thought you were gay or thought you were on the flipside a religious conservative that didn't believe in sex before marriage that it is in fact too late and over.
>Currently have zero friends
Well have you had friends previously? Like have you ever hadfriends? How many? Did you have friends at any point during teens or childhood?
>I am not in college
Same due to literal autism and I'm in my late 20s so yeah.
>Nor do I work
Like at all? Fuck. Unless you're good at selling drugs or making furry porn you might be really fucked on that one. Good luck annon. It probably is "over" sexually but try and get a fucking job. Make sure you have some life experience otherwise too,sex isn't everything.