Is it bad form for a woman to make efforts to 'win back' a man?
I'm in love with an angry man. He's volatile and gets stupid, cruel and even hateful toward me when angry. Otherwise he's smart, talented, hilarious, genuine, vulnerable, and has a completely beautiful soul.
When he gets angry, lecturing, socially abusive, I don't know how to handle it and I fuck off. Am currently in 'fucked off' zone.
I bought him a christmas present. It's meaningful and I think he'll really like it. But is it bad form for me to give it to him, as a woman? I'm an active person, I go for what and who I want. Too much masculine side? Should I just sit here moping and waiting for him apologize and come back? Is that the feminine thing to do?