I've avoided this board like wildfire because it seems like a bunch of frustrated, socially stunted jaganoffs, ceaselessly venting and boosting their self-hatred with made-up moronic terms for no reason other than they don't know that they can or feel like they can never accept themselves.
Is anyone on this board legitimately happy or content with the crab bucket they've found themselves in, and how?
I've spent enough time on this board to safely say no. No one who uses this place is legitimately content with their life
no
>accept themselves
What use is there in accepting myself as a woman if no one else is going to do that?
I think I'm overall pretty happy
I use this place to vent sometimes and i can talk about stuff that i couldn't ever talk to ppl about irl because people get freaked out when you talk about real shit but I'm actually doing ok despite being a drug addict troony i manage pretty well i think
You post every day crying about how you're a traumatised junkie shut up
We’re collectively undergoing an attitude shift because enough of us have gotten therapy/stopped repressing. Not great but good
is this real? i came back after a long hiatus and it seems pretty bad still. plus /agpg/ is back.
No, just look at bpd general
Probably not. Judging by how much they make fun of non passing trans women who are out living life, careless and happy.
Yeah I'm actually pretty stoked on life like I have my ups and downs but feel like my life is generally heading in the right direction and I'm excited for the future
Idek why I still spend so much time here honestly pretty much just I love shitposting and you're here forever issue
Try shifting to another gay board like NSFFW you can always come back if you need more /LGBT/-specific insight
What why
I like the food I make already I don't need some circlejerk of wannabe "chefs" ew
the crab bucket self sabotage shit is too real. I am very miserable rn but my life is getting better; like have a job, malefailing, going to college on jan, just nice stuff. A matter of voice training and changing my self hateful nature and I could leave this board :3
Leave here the first chance you get
leave and never look back
Nta but how do I leave? I feel compelled to check the board frequently out of boredom. I have a bf and my life feels happier but I can't seem to make the push to never come back.
>Is anyone on this board legitimately happy or content with the crab bucket they've found themselves in, and how?
i am so fricking unhappy, but honestly i don't think this place is the issue in my life
its bad, don't get me wrong, and it tears a lot of people who could be happy down, but its also the only home i have
I'd honestly take the corny happy discord groups or whatever gay shit than this smorgasbord of just pure pathetic malice
>corny happy discord groups
i don't have these(other than my personal discord that i'm not out to anyone in), and i am incredibly shy so discords make it difficult. versus here where you just kinda show up without pretext because no one cares about usernames here
also, if i were to post a pic in that "happy hugbox" discord, and i got compliments, i would feel nothing. it was the expected outcome, not earned, just what would happen no matter what.
>if i were to post a pic in that "happy hugbox" discord, and i got compliments, i would feel nothing. it was the expected outcome, not earned, just what would happen no matter what.
this.
if I had a chance at happiness I wouldn't be here
no, thanks for asking, go away
Yeah I'm only ever occasionally sad about things that don't really matter. Most of the time I'm having a killer time.
yeah I mostly just come on here to shitpost when bored (only healthy way to use NSFFW tbh)
I am happy.
>28 year old dude
>Engaged to trans girl
>Relationship is a dream come true
>Post here from time to time because I don't know anyone irl in my situation
I'm havin' a good time. Just ignore the /misc/ repressors who show up to shitpost as a coping mechanism for the fact that they're secretly trans but can't accept it.
Does she let you frick her butt?
I'll only be happy when I get metoidioplasty so until then I torture myself and others by coming here every now and then and being as miserable and hateful as I possibly can.
You’ve described a lot of this website beyond just this board. You’d be doing yourself a favor if you just left it behind entirely.
im far more happy now than when i first discovered this board. /tttt/ helped me a little to go for it and i met some nice people irl that frequent this place. i have to consciously choose to ignore some of yalls hatred and self loathing though. need some therapy animals assigned to you headcases frfr
Reasonably enough. Work is stressful and I'm definitely of a mind to look for something else but that's it.
I’m pretty happy, but to be fair I mostly just hang out in hrtgen for the science and anecdotal stuff.
Not interested in all the dumb culture war shit posted here most of the time, or the live journal whiner posts.
I am a bpdemon so it's very difficult to feel happy most of the time. I've been going out and drinking more to fill the void but the depression has been getting harder and harder to deal with.
Overall I'm happy. But the board is a good place to unload insecurities and barinworms with like-minded people
the only board on this website full of genuinely content people is /po/ and literally everyone accuses that board of being even gayer than ours
Unironically, the diaper girls on this board are the happiest.
i was very happy last year and in the early part of this year, but over the summer i have declined tremendously and my physical and mental health is on their last legs; this decline is mostly unrelated to my transition though
Limerence has destroyed me, i chased the sun and got burned to a crisp
Spoiler: it’s because you have a cursed fricking name and your life will be cursed until you accept that and change it.
Shut the frick up. How dare you speak to our resident priestess that way?
Yeah I’m pretty happy but I don’t spend time on here consistently.
Happy? eh.
Content? yeah, things are fine, I've pretty much put out all of the fires in my life, I kinda just exist now. I wish i could live as a normal girl, but this is sufficiently close that i'm not all that dysphoric.
Hell yeah I'm happy, but as far as transitioning goes I'm done, so now I cismode and never interact with trans stuff at all anymore unless to find funny memes
I would say yeah, I gradually became happier and better off irl. I barely get any Yous here so maybe I'm becoming a normie now?
I'm happy sometimes but it's never when I'm on this board. People's lives are multifaceted. And this has become the emotional toilet for a lot of fricking miserable gays. Including me. It's not good it's just easy.
>/tttt/
>happenis
>not laughing/enjoying others in misery with you
HAHAHAHA
I mostly lurk, but i am happily married to the man of my dreams. right now he's cooking dinner for us. i literally only go on here to remind myself of how bad it could be if i hadn't met him.
This is the saddest larp of all time :'( hang in there girl
I've actually been doing pretty good. I'm mostly on here cuz I need a less hugboxing place to talk about being FTM. I wish I had the balls to join one of the discords
I've been here 7 years and I'm happy but that's totally in spite of this place except for how I met my bf here and that's the reason I've been happy the last 3 years so partially but that's more like an exception to the usual impact this place has had on me
misery is a strong tool that can be used to change your life
the first step of changing your life is deciding you are unsatisfied with it
this place will bring you down, but if you don't crumple and can withstand the pressure, you can emerge from this place stronger than you entered.