Is 27 too late to meet a guy
I’ve met like 1-2 good guys in my entire life
Currently the only guy that is/was speaking to me is kind of a giant asshole. I just feel like he has no conscience or something, like he’s a robot or abstract of some kind. I feel like I can’t tell him anything as a human. I feel like he has no empathy or real self. I feel like everything he does is an act, and I can’t speak to the real him. Or there just isn’t one. I don’t know.
His lack of empathy is deeply hurtful. He mirrors a human but I don’t feel like he is able to genuinely connect with anyone on an emotional level.
It makes me extremely sad, because I do enjoy having him around and I do like talking to him sometimes but it’s just basically impossible to have any form of relationship with him.
He is extremely psychologically draining. Yet he is my only friend and I miss the good parts of him. I wish we could have an actual relationship or connection, but it seems like he just cares about his own ego and getting validation.
Weirdly enough he with his lack of empathy seems more people centered and oriented than me. A big part of me likes being alone and doesn’t want to live with anyone. Another part of me in my animal brain craves human affection and belonging.
Im not very hopeful for the future or sure about what could make me happy. I meet people who lived their whole lives with their husband and he does and they’re left completely alone at an old age with no one to talk to.
I dont know what to do or how to cope. I don’t feel like I am able to meet new people or maintain any friendships. Maybe deep down just one friendship is enough for me, and that friendship ends up being a relaitonship, because I genuinely don’t need more than that.
I’d rather spend time alone than with another person, other than my partner. I’m not sure what to do.
tl'dr
you probably ignored 10 good guys on your way to write this post and you will ignore another 10 on your way to chads house to suck his cock while he denigrate you and the female gender in general
>t. the guy who calls virgin and even bodycount 1 women sluts
kek
did you read her post? I just skimmed it
>dating an self admitted asshole
>probably sucks his dick and licks his nuts
>"ive only met like 1-2 guys in my entire life"
i dont feel sorry for women that get opportunities with good men every week, shoot them down because they arent top .1% of the population, and then come here and complain that they cant get any guys
this is like me going to an african country and whining that there are no 3 michelin star restuarants in my hometown
These copypasta posts are getting real old, men are fucking stupid
I accept your humbly accept your concession.
>Is 27 too late to meet a guy
No
>I’ve met like 1-2 good guys in my entire life
Modern society wants to normalize casual sex and multiple divorces. I think that it's a personal preference.
Wants hoes to suck 10 cocks cus his might be one of them.
Have you considered as how he is more people centered and you prefer to be alone, that your view on empathy and human emotion is the one that's skewed? As in, that you are putting way too much feeling into interactions and that's why you find them more draining? I am not outright saying you are wrong but we as humans rarely consider that we may in fact be the one with the problem.
Have you considered you’re an incel and blame women for everything? And that OP knows way more about the guy than you do?
>Incels incel you don't have sex
>I can't refute your point so I'll just say you don't have sex because that's the only thing of value to me.
Really proving to us why you currently sleep with a supposedly unempathetic psychopath. Dumbass.
that lady kinda looks like lana del rey
You’re fucking dumb, kys
dont tell me thats lana
>too late to met a guy
Of course not.
>the rest of the drivel in this fucking post
I'm not sure what advice do you want.
You don't like the guy and that's ok. If the guy is such a bother just let he be, I'll never understand why people keep friendships that are draining. Just remove yourself from the situation.
I know guys who are good; honest trustworthy, never fucked anyone over in their lives.
By your standards theyre also probably losers; dead end jobs. Not destitute, just not going places.
I bet youd rather have the assholes. So quit bitching and live with your choices.
FYI, when choosing between a girl whose hot or one whose nice, I choose the hot one. So I dont complain either.
> I’ve met like 1-2 good guys in my entire life
Ive met tons you heartless slag. You dont know anything about anyone.
Since when did adv become an incel cesspool where no one gives advice and people just bitch about women? It’s super fucking cringe
Has the question ever ran through your mind to wonder if maybe the guy you're seeing DOES have a conscious and Empathy but is used to being alone/suppressing emotion (like he IS a man this is drilled)
Have you ever tried to just reach out to him like a medic to understand/inform each other needs in a relationship with examples.
Your dating pool will drain further and further but I wouldn't say your glass is empty, just a little under half.
No because he’s abusive and treats women like shit
I’ve dated girls like you before.
You know you’re going to be like very fat soon?
fuck that guy
give me a whirl, i'm the guy you want
your move souly
>I’ve met like 1-2 good guys in my entire life
ad yet you had way more sex than just 2 times, am I right
you don't even like the dude you're obviously fucking right now lmao
>Is 27 too late to meet a guy
you WILL NEVER meet anyone decent, and if you do, they will ignore you, or worse, they will kill you
I'm not even joking, your life is in danger
What are you even talking about you literal braindead retarded idiotic piece of shit
i tried to fart and i shitted
> Is 27 too late to meet a guy
There are people who find love in their 50s, it's never too late.
The question is however, what do you want from a relationship, and are you actively seeking these things.
Ensure you know what you want, and discriminate heavily for it. Don't waste time on relationships that don't fulfill your needs.
That being said, don't fall into the trap of shortcuts. Most women don't like "tall guys" they either like the feeling of physical security or the social status of a tall man. Get to the root of what you actually desire and why and then select for that itself instead of falling for tropes.
Lastly, if you're passively seeking a relationship, you are unlikely to ever get what you want. You must seek and approach. You must go into spaces that you have not normally been to in order to find men unlike the ones you've met.
>Weirdly enough he with his lack of empathy seems more people centered and oriented than me. A big part of me likes being alone and doesn’t want to live with anyone. Another part of me in my animal brain craves human affection and belonging.
yeah precisely because you are empathetic and crave a real connection with people is why you don't immerse yourself in it because to have an actual real connection with people is exhausting as you already know
highly socialized people gamify social connections and get satisfaction from manipulation and the image they put out
in other words you're completely right that in essence there is no 'real' him in the way you're thinking about it to know or speak to
You should be meeting lots of guys. You shouldn’t be seeing just one or two guys.
Exactly. Go sicko mode on the hoeflation