Can you tell me about times you successfully or unsuccessfully picked up on girls choosing signals? For the guys who get hints and don't know how to deal with them.
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Can you tell me about times you successfully or unsuccessfully picked up on girls choosing signals? For the guys who get hints and don't know how to deal with them.
Shapes like a dog chewy bone
i agree
.t dog
Imagine the squeak when you bite it
A girl shook my hand after I cold approached her (never happened before) but it ultimately wasn’t successful. She does have a bf though. I feel that she knew I wasn’t just trying to be friends with her even though I was just having a regular conversation with her, not trying to be flirty or anything.
brehs
I only really learned to read the signs late in the game so I fumbled most of these but I am at least aware now
>She asks for your number instead of you asking for her’s. Or she just gives you her number without you even asking
>She reaches out first to make plans that involve you and her and no one else.
>She invites herself over to yours or at least asks if she can come over
>She very deliberately enters your space so that she can touch you with plausible deniability. (Or just goes for it anyway)
>Immediately after adding you on social media she posts cute/flirty/thirst trap photos of herself to get your attention.
Most of these are pretty reliable, the biggest one tho is if she starts "teasing" you, like the banter you see on here but more juvenile and less autistic. Verbal insults are a good sign, if she starts trying to "fight" you that p much means you're in like Flynn
You must be a teenager.
You must be seething that you're not a teenager anymore
Who wants to be a teenager? I own my house.
Plenty of adults still flirt like that though?
Can't recall a single instance of any of this happening
shit
>She puts more effort into her appearance when she knows she’s going to be seeing you. Wants you to notice and compliment her.
>Questions you about your sex/dating life and makes assumptions that you have dated many people before, had lots of flings, etc.
A chubby girl I thought was cute did some of this to me back in uni, should have fucking known better that's never happening again now that I'm bald and bitter.
OH NO
NOT ME
I NEVER LOST CONTROL
you’re face
to face
It always happens after we've already met, I've never noticed these things from a random girl. But it's just like the movies
>brushing her hair behind her ear
>exposing her neck
>lingering look then darting her eyes away
>initiating physical touch, like a play punch
>following me around
>playful teasing banter
>making exaggerated movements to show off a noticeable feature she has, like a tattoo, her shorts, piercings, etc.
>making up excuses to go somewhere more quiet or private
>pretends to be interested in things you're interested in
her hair behind her ear
her neck
look then darting her eyes away
these are a cope
lots of women do these and it absolutely doesnt mean anything most of the time
its like saying if a girl likes you she will smile at you.
women in todays society smile at literally anyone unless shes a cold/shy type and if those dont smile it also doesnt mean anything
>lots of women do these and it absolutely doesnt mean anything most of the time
because they aren't doing it to you in succession in a manner that this guy is implying you fucking retard
>because they aren't doing it to you in succession in a manner that this guy is implying you fucking retard
they do that often you sheltered incel
women like to groom themselves, it basically means absolutely nothing besides that they care about their appearance or are nervous
god some of you are so fucking retarded, good thing youre out of the gene pool
>pretends to be interested in things you're interested in
does giving you some lame compliment about your work counts? like "you made that thing we've been using? wow!"
The most reliable sign is the touch barrier breaking.
Women will touch you if they're attracted to you. Brush fingers against your hand, stand shoulder to shoulder, sit too close to you on benches/couches, etc. They hate being touched by men who aren't attractive to them.
When I was the hot guy at work once in a woman-dominated workplace, the single girls would always touch the small of my back when they wanted to pass by me, touch my arm to get my attention instead of just calling for me, and would lean over my shoulder to talk to me if I was sitting.
It's over if she ever apologizes for getting in your space though. That means that she was forced to touch you by circumstance and it's the polite equivalent of leaping away in disgust.
>Brush their tits against you.
Women often get a retarded awe struck look on their face when they really like a man. It's kind of hard to describe, but you should be able to recognize it when it happens. This has never failed me. It can happen when you're speaking to them, or you can catch them staring with that look on their face. Not every girl will do this though.
If she starts putting her hands on you, it basically can't get anymore obvious than that.
>Women often get retarded
yep
We had a language practice session and when we got the end she asked me if i had any more classes, if i had eaten yet, and it was around dinner time so in other words she wanted me to take her to dinner
Glamour shots session at the strip mall. Single mother of 3 mutts. Looking for a hard-working beta bucks provider who puts up with all her shit.
Women are literally meant for breeding Jesus Christ that bod...
Typically she does some self-deprecating casual comments like:
"I'm so lonely on weekends" -> so you say "I cant believe that!"
"Oh, my hairdresser failed totally this time" -> "Your new look is gorgeous, you should keep going to this saloon"
"Have a bad day. A little kid called me madame. Was horrible" -> "Kids have no clue. Sure clerks ask you for ID for buying booze"
"I want to attend that X band concert, but I have no one to go with me" -> "You like X? I'm a fan since I was a teenager! We should go together"
Shit like that.
Hope you get the point. You should be fast to say the opposite she stated.
you gotta be carefull with that too much praise makes you come off like a simp but jokes can also be too mean
>all of these supposed signals and not one has ever been directed at me by any woman
Based and natural-selection-pilled
I actually had questions about eye contact. At work I will sometimes see a particular woman in the office and I know a bit but not much. When I say hi to her she holds my eye contact for longer than I would normally think a woman would? I am a complete autistic sperg though so I doubt she is into me. However my friend was telling me that it very well could be that she is into me at least a bit. I feel so weird about it because I have basically trained myself to think "Any would be signal a woman is giving you is actually fake and not real. Take your fucking meds aspie." and then I snap out of it. Whats true though? Is eye contact in itself a signal?
If she's into you properly then her eyes will do something, like give you a sexy fuck me eyes or some cute shit that looks like water sparkling on a lake. Both are a great feeling.
It's pretty much this simple:
Does she pay attention to you without your solicitation?
I can tell immediately--even with clients at work in 30 second spurts--whether or not a girl would or would not.
If she pays attention to you, you're on the good side of the fence.
If you are on the bad side of the fence, she will always seem distracted, acting, or like she wants out of the convo.
If she is into you, her eyes will literally get all shiney when you smile at her. She will laugh if you say something funny. If she is a cohort, coworker, or student in your class, she will seek you out and try to interact with you.
She may give you shit randomly. She may try to breach touch boundaries.
It seems like a lot of technical shit, but really: does she pay attention to you.
Women are like children. Look at a child enjoying something and observe it for a bit. Women really only hold attention willingly for things they like on average. But even not so average women tend to do this
>Does she pay attention to you without your solicitation?
Yeah rule of thumb is just to assume any girl that gives you undo attention likes you. Women already know most men will take any amount of attention as an invitation to ask them out, so they are careful when and how they give men any sort acknowledgement.
You won't be right all of the time of course, but its the best chance you have outside of hard cold approaching.
>If she is into you, her eyes will literally get all shiney when you smile at her.
what if she has a nervous laugh? like, a sign and then quick "haha"
>be out with group of friends
>some girl comes and talks to me
>we leave
>DUDE ANON! Why didn't you get her number, she was flirting with you hard!
>wtf? no she wasn't stop fucking with me man.
>..........
>goddammit
this has happened multiple times .
they will start rubbing your crotch until you have a boner
women are crazy these days I'm telling you
I'm blind to signals so I just escalate sexually until brakes or flakes.