i'm looking for insightful reads about the mental condition known as BPD. any articles, books, anything that get at the core of what borderline personalities are like are much appreciated.
i'm looking for insightful reads about the mental condition known as BPD.
They're like schizos disguised as normies but incurable and completely psychopathic. No use trying to understand their dementedness. Just never date one. If you are one kys
Just ditch the bitch, BPD doesn’t exist, it’s just an excuse for women to be even more whorish and evil than their default.
dump this woman immediately
this is what chuds actually believe. is antisocial disorder just an excuse among incels for their vitriolic hatred towards women?
Doesn’t matter, autism primarily afflicts males and people do everything they can to cure the condition. If you mention anything about trying to cure BPD you either get deafening silence or get verbally attacked by nearly everyone. It’s time to address the elephant in the room.
BPD OCD attention disorders don't exist. What you need is a good beating and a week of actual hard work in a field. That'll fix your imaginary mental shit right away, you immense attention-seeking homosexual.
You're a fucking retard.
How so? Has anyone ever got ADHD, OCD, NLP, split personality bullshit, LGBT, MTF, CBT, PBBCSD, SLD, ASD, ODD, CD while being busy farming potatoes and doing actual work with their hands?
They only "discover" their horrible ailments due to having too much free time and unrestrained access to degenerate social media, where having a mental disorder is akin to having a tattoo.
No one in my school had any adhd lgbt ocd crap. Some kids were unfortunate to be down syndrome retards, many were just low IQ, few tried to wear goth/emo makeup. But no mental crap, because all of them had work to do at home.
This is true. I struggled with mental illness for years, but full time physical labor (in my case at a transportation hub) cured it. It's important that the job you take is full time or greater and that you don't have access to phone or internet while you're there, and that you go most of the days in the week.
Laboring simply forces you to be in contact with reality in a way that desk work and brain work do not.
her diary tbh
You aren’t looking for books, you are looking for a conversation
Watch Sam vaknins videos on them but take him with a grain of salt.
thank you, watched half a video, seems to talk about BPD with more insight than most sources i've found
you negros got it all wrong, i'm the one thats fucked up
unironically get exorcised
Oh, male BPD, then read this: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/44106
Sam Vaknin is amazing. If I didn't find his videos, I don't think I would have made it out alive and found healing after being abused by a BPD.
Watched like 100s of his videos. It's absolute kino.
>the core of what borderline personalities are like
'you're God, I'm trash'.
'you're so much better than me so please never leave me, I need you or else I'll dieeeeee'
'what kind of idiot falls in love with trash? you're just faking, you don't really mean it. i'm too disgusting to love. if you're gonna claim otherwise... PROVE IT'
>layer 1
eager to help, playful, energetic, quirky, creative, hardworking, fun, idealistic, puts lots of consideration into you, sympathetic to troubles
>layer 2
had a terrible upbringing/unfortunate life, depressed, massive guilt complex, transactional (ie, does nice things for you on the expectation you'll repay them), needs emotional support
>layer 3
vengeful, trying to read your mind, extremely resentful and jealous of others' successes/attention, keeping a tally on every thing they went out of the way to do 'for you' (that you didn't ask for) that you didn't reciprocate, more focused on their idea of you than the actual you, simultaneously blames self for everything wrong while needing to be convinced that nothing's their fault (ie, if only they manipulated the situation better...), generally ingenuine/shallow
>layer 4
completely untrusting. completely. just wants a captive audience who'll find everything they do so incredible and so compelling you'll never look away.
>layer infinity
it's literally demons
>the hell spiral
"they only like me because i went out of the way to charm them
"so they only like me because of how i flatter them, not because they actually like me
"if they saw how i actually was they'd hate me"
*does something nuts*
"omg see they actually hate me. omg don't leave *charms harder* (alt. omg i'm so awful i must disappear *ghosts* -> wtf why aren't they chasing me?? am i seriously SO AWFUL??)"
>nutshell
extremely extremely driven to be loved, as in being the centre of someone else's world, being the most important thing in their life, (above food, work, morals, friendships etc, always thinking of them first in anything), with a definition of 'love' that means 'does everything i want and never makes me feel bad' even if those desires are never communicated. tldr avoid
also has a 'I've suffered worse than anyone else in this room' type sympathy-complex that they really want justified because it's the main way they control people and feel better about themselves for poor circumstances/behaviour (ie 'it's not your fault, your life just sucks, it makes sense you'd do bad thing X Y or Z...') and seriously hate it when others get more sympathy or have more reason to have it (or call them out on not actually being helpless to regulate their behaviour, because they're not lol)
It's basically the opposite of autism. Their whole person is focused on the social world, social intelligence--they misread things and become delusional.
what would happen if somebody had both?
You get the alchemical hermaphrodite.
It's demonic possession.
>what borderline personalities are like
Constant and intense fear that people will discover that they are empty inside. Their only personality is to imitate the actions of those around them to appear "normal" and to abuse anyone who gets too close before they expose them for what they truly are.