I'm in what is, in all ways other than name, an arranged marriage. My fiance for this is a nice and reasonable enough guy.
He knows we're only doing this for our parents. I'm thinking of asking him if we can still just live at our own places and continue as normal after the wedding, but I'm worried for the off chance he might freak out and tell my parents and then it'll get a lot more difficult.
Should I just bear with it and move in and do the expected wife stuff, or try to push for a little more independence?