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hi anons
i used to be 50 kg at my height of 168. i gained all the weight back and miss being very thin. right now im feeling really tired and hungry.
do you have any motivation? what do u think about bodies like in picrel
>tfw no cute holocaust survivor girlfriend
maybe soon. i already lost 3 kg by fasting for a week
That's not that thin anon. I'm 58kg at 185cm and i'm still not that skinny all things considered.
I still wouldn't try to be that thin if I were you, it's bad for your body. I'm only this thin because of an absurdly strong metabolism.
that just triggers me. i was xs size then but I guess that isn't enough. good motivation, thank u anon
>what do u think about bodies like in picrel
The person who's stuck in that body is incredibly unhappy and needs professional help and a support net to help them maintain a healthy weight.
My ex used to have an ED when she was a teen and I had to always tell her that she needs to eat, otherwise she'll have even less energy. And I was always happy when she listened to me.
>That's not that thin anon.
You shut your fucking gaslighting whore mouth, yes it is.
Just because you are malnourished doesn't mean the OP pics or weight are normal.
>not eating for a week
The worst thing you can do.
Your body will go into power saving mode, you'll be missing all kinds of vitamins (even if you take supplements) and you'll lose muscle mass.
Skeletons are peak attraction to me. I used to be very thin, but over the years hit 22BF%. I got down to 18% earlier this year but developed an eating disorder and am back to 22% with no hope in sight of being back at 18%. I hate my flabby stomach but I have no willpower anymore.
Jasmine? Anyway, that's the ideal body type. Or this, but a little skinnier and much smaller boobs. Pale skinny frail girls are my fetish.
these are my legs when i was 54?? kg not sure. what do you think anon?
You look delightful. I would lovingly starve you. I have starved girls before.
thank u anon...
please don't talk about yourself like that. ive had awful days. do some self care, you'll feel better
honestly anon i only felt pretty when i was at my thinnest, which wasn't even that thin. i just want to be pretty and have a bf and be normal
>thank u anon...
Anytime skelly.
>i just want to be pretty and have a bf and be normal
You don't need to be pretty or normal to be deserving of someones love though.
it actually made my body dysmorphia better. i hate my face but when I could see my collarbones it was tolerable. i don't remember a day from that time where i cried myself to sleep because of how ugly I was
***hipbones
this made me sound really fat. i meant see my hipbones.
but this thread worked. i didn't eat tonight
You can reach that weight again. I'd advise exercising more than starving, walking lots especially. Don't fret too much about looks, they really aren't everything, but I don't feel ugly so I'm sure I don't know.
>I was always happy when she listened to me.
>making someone elses personal struggle about your own feelings
Lmao
>but when I could see my collarbones it was tolerable
There's an easier way to get lean / low bf% without starving yourself 24/7. Eat clean and do cardio. Ask on LULZ for more details.
I'll be your bf.
Just joking, I'm ugly and boring.
>honestly anon i only felt pretty when i was at my thinnest, which wasn't even that thin. i just want to be pretty and have a bf and be normal
I understand that no words I throw at you will change your mind and that the change you need can only come from within you.
I want to tell you you are more than just your body. And anybody who reduces you to it, needs a slap in the face. Yes, that does include your thoughts too.
You know, not every day can be a win and some days just suck and you wanna starve, but that is alright, because what counts is if you want to take a road to a healthy weight or not.
Starving yourself to an unhealthy weight won't help you get a boyfriend and neither will severe self-esteem issues. You'd bring in baggage a normal partner can't just handle and lost weight doesn't mean you'll magically become a pixie fairy perfect gf.
If anything, not having a balanced life will make it harder for you to find a bf and also keep him, since you'll be lacking the energy.
Also, you do NOT want somebody who is specifically looking for somebody who appears to have an ED. The men who do that are generally abusers.
There's nothing wrong with being happy that a person you care about is doing better.
thank you for being nice to me anon
You're welcome, I have a soft spot for people with your problems.
Even if my words won't flip a switch in your mind, I'm glad I could make you feel a bit more welcome and accepted for a few minutes.
>because really people cant bare to watch someone slowly die.
Very much, yeah.
When I talked with my ex about it, I never let any of that on though. I'd never say things like "wow, you are hurting me by not eating enough", that'd be extremely countr-productive. When she had a bad day, I'd told her exactly what I told the other Anon, not every day can be a win and that's alright, I'll still be there to back you up. And when she did well, I tried to validate her and her progress as best as I could.
One of the main reason that killed the relationship was her starting to feel guilty, thinking she does not deserve me and she started to close herself off and shut me out. I tried to give her as much space as possible for several weeks, but at some point I couldn't take it anymore.
That's exactly why I said she'll have to get over her ED first, before trying to get into a relationship. For some, their ED is a life-long struggle, so they at least have to reduce it to a mininum, a background noise so to say.
There's also the problem that if you try to "fix" your ED via/during a relationship, you'll fall into a bigger hole if the relationship won't work out. It's not your fault for wanting to be loved, but sometimes we're just in positions where we can't afford to be loved.
>There's also the problem that if you try to "fix" your ED via/during a relationship, you'll fall into a bigger hole if the relationship won't work out.
yes, this is important. i made sure during my recovery to not use my ex as motivation because i knew if it didn't work out then that would just cause me to relapse.
>How come anorexics usually dont have sagging skin even after losing 50lbs?
they do, its why the thinspo you usually see is with clothes on and not naked.
>You'd bring in baggage a normal partner can't just handle
this, this anon speaks a lot of truths.
your ED will become such a main focus where you wont even be able to focus on a relationship, it'll just be you and your eating disorder. someone who is abusive will try and control you and be a dick to you about this and only dig you deeper into your ED. theyll get mad at you for focusing on your ED but if you try and recover then theyll get mad at you for focusing on recovery. which will just again will not be helpful for you. or you could get someone who just encourages you to engage in ED behaviors which is NOT okay. someone who loves you, will not ask you to change your body. someone who is a healthy partner will tell you "you need to get better or i need to leave this relationship because i cant watch someone i love hurt themselves." because really people cant bare to watch someone slowly die.
I really wish I could fast, I feel it's the only way to make proper progress. Damn being a creature of comfort. Regarding the pictures, obviously they are borderline what anyone would reasonably find attractive and it's at the desire for these weights that these thoughts do truly become disordered because it's grossly misaligned with health and social function. I wonder how some celebrities maintain low weights throughout life, sometimes well into middle age, and pull it off because in real life often I think it looks bad, in the sense that older people generally need more meat on their bones probably to plump out some of the gross skin. Why are we so backwards and behind with body alterations? All this talk of science and yet no fix for ugly.
bella hadid and selena gomez are good examples of celebrities who are not thin naturally. bella has a now deleted tumblr where she talks about diets/not eating for a week etc. some of them just fluctuate. some people are genuinely naturally (almost) that thin though
When you talk about being naturally thin, it's associated with youth (for both genders, if that's relevant to you). Adolescent boys fill out into adulthood, we all know women usually eventually get fat. It must have something to do with the metabolistic profile of growing. I think that lends to my original point, it doesn't seem to age well unless you have a lot of money and motivation to maintain appearance, motivation that falls outside of "my even fatter husband has been watching more porn lately".
Today I ate 1000 calories and feel like a fat pig. Tomorow I'll aim for triple figures instead 🙁
>what do u think about bodies like in picrel
my body used to look like that and then a lot thinner.
it was painful as heck. you are constantly cold even if you have the heat at max and are wearing 4 layers. you can never find a comfortable position to sit or lay in because your bones dig into everything but i couldnt stand because i would pass out. my boobs turned into deflated sacks of hanging skin, as did my ass. everyone looked at me like they were scared or had pity.
the only motivation i had to stay that thin was that i was going to die.
Really cute. I would love to see more pics if you don't mind
That's not her, it's from twitter.
Oh I didn't notice. I guess I'm way too starved for female attention
at that height I used to be 43 and still it wasn't that thin bit you do you I guess
>never going to get a skelly gf
It hurts
>never going to get any type of gf
It hurts
How come anorexics usually dont have sagging skin even after losing 50lbs? Is it because they starve and go through autophagy?
People in old war pictures where they were intentionally being starved dont seem to have sagging skin either.
Hey fasting retards, try keto. Not keto meme products but actual whole foods and leafy greens. The high fat will enable fasting easier and you'll still have all the nutrition you'll need
You're still a landwhale. Stick to the diet fatty.
>what do u think about bodies like in picrel
Bottom-left is somewhat appealing. Rest are gross.
At what height do you consider men as manlets?