Do you have any advice for me, fore I am seeking to "become a man" and I'm paying a girl to help me do it, prostitution.
(It's half legal where I live and easy to access)
I'm going to see a lady of the night.
Do you have any advice for me, fore I am seeking to "become a man" and I'm paying a girl to help me do it, prostitution.
(It's half legal where I live and easy to access)
I’d tell you not to do it but you probably wouldn’t listen anyway, so you do you.
You can give your reasons.
Not that anon, but sex without mutual desire isn't any better than using a fleshlight. You'll find it very disappointing, and you'll have to interact with a woman who hates you for making her fuck you, and risk diseases on top of that.
I think sex without mutual desire is better than porn and masturbation. I'm not emotionally intelligent enough to have real relationship with girl so no gf. And for some reason I find the idea of hookups more ignoble than prostitution.
There's something classic and poetic about a real whore which I don't mind participating in.
This isn't always true. Fucking that way can be harmless and even a great, harmless release. Plenty of people in areas with good policy regarding sex work should be able to argue with you, I am in the US so I'm speculating. Plenty of such cases
That can be interpreted in plenty of ways. If someone is just doing that to lose their innocence, that could be good or bad but even if it's not ideal it's not always going to be without even lasting benefit
If you're OP this website is for people 18+ and you should leave. You will probably get reported and your access will be removed
If you're OP, I would suggest looking into sex surrogates. They are professionals who aren't looking to barely get you to cum for all its worth, but people who work are really adept at helping people in all kinds of ways with their livelihood. They can introduce you in a way that's ideal and nurturing, and it is received often as quite beneficial and even life changing by clients. Good luck
Imo that's kind of an immature or ignorant way to look at it. It's valid but the fact that this platform doesn't give information enough for you to gauge what should be ideal for someone asking for greater perspective unfortunately allows as many of us realize for misguidance and even eventual distress or greater misfortune. It's understandable that you are at a point where sex is sacred to you in this way and that it is indeed ideal as it is for many people to do that with someone you're both physically attracted to and emotionally attracted to, and with a strong tie. Even if one's partner isn't interested in a client in these ways, it doesn't mean that sex can't be mean certain benefit
How do I find one of these sex surrogates. Imo that's kind of toeing the line on a mommy Dom fetish which I'm not too interested in.
Well if you're OP it should be simple as visiting or calling your area's community center.
I'm in Missouri and I googled it the other day and there's one that's operating legally here. Note that brothel's are legal only in sparse areas centralized hundreds and hundreds of miles away from me.
There are loop holes and you should just consistently research it until you do, if you don't find it your first time outright.
>If someone is just doing that to lose their innocence, that could be good or bad but even if it's not ideal it's not always going to be without even lasting benefit
I wouldn't consider a 22yo going to a prostitute for sex a "good" instance of "loss of innocence". Also, what benefits are you suggesting here?
>sex surrogates
Have you done it?
Good could mean plenty of things, in many cases sex surrogates are workers who operate not for entertainment but as sort of "counselors" as wonky as that may sound, to help people with intimacy sourcing from a variety of contexts and makeup. From the little information here, it seems that OP is not acquainted with physical intimacy but is curious and would like advice for a way to do it that's safe, certain and secure.
So, a surrogate here would serve as a guide to his entry into the world of sexual relations--that's what I'm understanding anyway, and this I think at least could be good in some outcomes.
Sex surrogates also help with problems like erectile dysfunstion, cumming too quickly, fear of women, understanding and familiarity breaching for people (mostly men) with issues broaching the activity, who have conditions such as say autism or social anxiety
Personally I'd prefer doing things with a really hot prostitute if I didn't have the option to fuck a partner or even if my partner wasn't perfectly phsycially attractive to me, but that's just me.
If your sole reason for seeing her is
>to "become a man"
then it's pointless. Your life won't suddenly get better because you did it, your confidence won't shoot up and give you the motivation to make great life decisions (you might think it does in the moment, but it's a fleeting feeling), and so on. All you did was pay someone to use as a fleshlight for a little bit.
How old are you?
>How old are you?
Im turning 16 in a couple months and i want to become a man before i get my learners permit
I'm 22
I'm not this guy.
Look at it this way: you've gone 22 years without sex and it's not like you'll spontaneously explode without it now.
>There's something classic and poetic about a real whore which I don't mind participating in.
Are you sure you haven't simply romanticized the idea of sleeping with a prostitute in your head without actually thinking of the consequences?
>I'm not emotionally intelligent enough to have real relationship with girl so no gf.
We all have to start somewhere. Work on your emotional intelligence first.
I'm not going to explode, that was never a concern. I want to have sex because it's a part of life and, imo, a good escort can actually make it a nice time. It's not like I'm going to shag some crackhead behind a dumpster.
And I am working on my emotional intelligence, I'm doing that by exposure therapy towards women and sex via escorts.
becoming a man means NOT having to pay for sex
Not in my book. I'm not concerned with Chad memes I just need to have a sexual release and lose my fear of women and intimacy.
The only thing you'll lose is the fear of paying for sex, sounds like simpmode to me
Paying for sex doesn't hurt my pride. What's made me feel like a bitch in the past was always when I got too emotionally interested in a girl when she didn't care as much as I did.
Is she an "escort", or a hooker? An "escort" is going to cost more, but she'll act like she likes you, talk/snuggle, and is more likely to be clean. A hooker is cheaper, but she'll hate herself, hate you, will try to finish you as fast as possible, and is more likely to have a disease/infection.
Escort. But I'm not doing the whole fake date with dinner thing.
Please eat that shit up n keep it between your cheeks learn to be social talk to all types of ppl get comfortable getting rejected you’ll be number than Yuji in the sorcerer’s society I get you sexually frustrated but as men the only way is up
Go to the gym study and get money
Become your best self n flaunt your shit girls are money hungry in this economy