I'm getting FFS this summer and have finally almost all the money needed.
How should i tell my family ?
I still have a decent relationship with them but i really feel bad making them go through me going to surgery.
I'm very very very affraid they would be angry at me or leave me.
Hello motherfucker you are so sexy don't worry family just come live with me sweetheart I have big cock and money
you don't know me + you probably live in ameribad
NO I AM NOT AMERICAN DO NOT CALL ME THAT
Oooooh haha I knew that, was just pulling your leg lol. I love Belgium! I've been living here my entire life!
I assure you I am no fool, nor is my name Tom. In fact, it's Jean! Pretty handsome sounding, I know.
Don’t tell them early like I did. I’m getting FFS near the end of this year and it’s already been months of them:
>Asking what I’ll do if I die
>Telling me to make a will (I have no assets)
>Telling me Facial Team are a scam and not reputable surgeons
>Asking me how I know FT are good and whether I’ve met them
>Trying to talk me out of it
>Asking how late I can still bail on FT and get a refund
>Saying I’ll get addicted to lip fillers and botox
>Asking me if I know how they do surgery and then getting disgusted and freaking out when I actually do and start describing coronal approach forehead reconstruction
>Showing me pictures of cis drag queens and saying they’re beautiful just the way they are
Just dump it on them a few weeks before and disappear on them until you come back tbh.
Cissies literally don't understand, my mom kept saying
>buut why do you need surgery?
>you know I think you're beautiful the way you are right?
>you don't need surgery you look feminine now!
Sadly i cant really do that as they pay like half my rent and I dont want it to be problematic$
exactly ! once i mentionned FFS and my mother said i was feminine enuf but then contradicts herself when the subject isnt surgery
Fine, tell them now and have fun just like I am.
at least your dad didn't tell you that he'd never call you his daughter and that you will always be his son to him and that if you ever get surgery you'll be committing a cardinal sin or something
god i wish i had like even the tiniest bit of fucking support from literally ANYBODY IN MY LIFE
I didn’t get that but I got the “dad in a screaming rampage and smashing plates in the kitchen so I ran away from home and slept on a bench in a park for a while” and the “parents finally accept me years later because I didn’t give them a choice about my medical transition and now they say they always accepted me.”
Why tell them? The nurses will take care of you while healing, your family isn't needed there. Just say you're going to visit a friend for a while and then come back and act like nothing happened.
just tell them you're getting a septum correction to fix your breathing, then wear slightly more elaborate makeup in the weeks after surgery. blame everything on your nose just looking better.
You are already pretty. Why do it to yourself if it causes you and your family stress?
Be happy with your successful bottom.