I'm an ugly male who has approached over 3000 women from 2015 to 2023.


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I'm an ugly male who has approached over 3000 women from 2015 to 2023. 100k plus if you include left swipes and I've still never been on a single date. Should I give up or keep approaching for the lols? Rejection doesn't really hurt me anymore and I expect it from the get go

  1. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Share some horror stories of your worst rejections please

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      >there was a girl who was playing along but what I didn't realize her friend was recording. They put it on FB and it went kinda viral, I was being called disgusting by 10000s of women in the comments section. It hurt but it didn't really faze me
      >some girl threw her drink at me in a club
      >i once approached a girl in a cafe and the moment I said "hey" she cut me off and yelled "WILL YOU JUST FUCK OFF?" and like 2 white knights were like "dude back off, time to leave" and there were a solid 20 people laughing at me
      I think that's about it. Most women, believe it or not, are kinda polite with their rejection

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        Based on the cafe story, there is likely a history that you are leaving out for whatever reason. Something you are doing is making you disgusting to other people, and you won't be able to fix it here.

  2. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Bumperino my threaderinnno. This comment is not original

  3. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    why not make yourself more attractive?

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      because he's insane.

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        >because he's insane.
        Many such cases!

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      I'm already lean, not much else I can do to make myself attractive

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        You can dress better, possibly improve hygiene, almost certainly get a better haircut. There's plenty of shit you can do

        >there was a girl who was playing along but what I didn't realize her friend was recording. They put it on FB and it went kinda viral, I was being called disgusting by 10000s of women in the comments section. It hurt but it didn't really faze me
        >some girl threw her drink at me in a club
        >i once approached a girl in a cafe and the moment I said "hey" she cut me off and yelled "WILL YOU JUST FUCK OFF?" and like 2 white knights were like "dude back off, time to leave" and there were a solid 20 people laughing at me
        I think that's about it. Most women, believe it or not, are kinda polite with their rejection

        There's no way in hell that was the whole story in the coffee shop

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        find a hair style that works, wear better fitting clothes are a few options

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      Hes probably non white and or short, not much he can do to change those

  4. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    I would stop it anon. Not because you won't succeed but because you may succeed one day. When you hit that statistical one in a million you will either not know what to do and fuck it up which will make you sad. Or you will know what to do actually score and then you will be so underwhelmed by it because of all the effort you put in that it will also make you sad.

  5. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    This is gonna sound silly but I think you should watch some guys on YouTube and let yourself catch their vibes and behaviours. Matt Hsu from Upright Health; Magnus Midtbo; Elliott Hulse, Jad T Jones, Arash Dibazar, Sadhguru. From personal experience, also being an ugly guy that gets rejected, I believe you can become attractive enough to get a girl, and that you are doing things the wrong way. You probably need to do some real, tough work on yourself, leave the approaching and swiping for a while. I actually went through a longer period of that kind of self-work and I'm a changed man, basically. You're obviously not going to become handsome if you're genuinely ugly but unless you are horribly disfigured, there is much hope for you.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      Like what? I'm already lean physically, at 11% body fat. Only thing I can think of now is roiding but I doubt it'll make much of a difference

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        Work to get wider shoulders and more defined forearms and hands. For face, lifting is good, also doing facial warm ups that actors and singers do, and smile more and practice your smile if you need to. I mean, these are small things but you can use any help you can get. But most of the work will be on your outlook on life, mood, behaviour, communication. If you haven't put much work in this area yet, you would be surprised at what kind of people you can meet, become friends with and through them meet others and eventually get a girlfriend. People who have good qualities like honesty, understand, patience, wisdom, etc, and highly value those, like to be around the same kind of people. The higher up that ladder you go, the rarer it is to find similar people, so no matter your looks, if you cultivate those qualities, you will be welcomed by such people; they don't care all that much for looks, even though most of them are good looking. There is a path and a way and you have to know where to look.

        • 3 days ago
          Anonymous

          when you are ugly you dont get the opportunity to show your personality to people. You cant network like youre suggesting because they never interact with you.

          • 3 days ago
            Anonymous

            Well you gotta reach out, it's working for me
            At this point I want to see just how ugly are we talking about
            I understand coming across people that don't really care about looks is rare but there's gotta be ways
            On top of being ugly in general, genetically, I also let myself go, looking like a zombie with a pube beard and so on, and it was at this time actually that I started making connections

            • 3 days ago
              Anonymous

              How exactly am I supposed to reach out to people who wont interact with me?

              • 3 days ago
                Anonymous

                Have you tried being yourself?
                Omx4t

            • 3 days ago
              Anonymous

              How exactly am I supposed to reach out to people who wont interact with me?

              If really no one wants to talk to you, then the only path you have left is skill, i.e. becoming really good at something and attracting people that way
              You should anyway reach out to people in the areas of your own interests, having something to offer
              I know what it's like and you just have to do your best until death
              You can become a monk or devote yourself to spirituality which is something I do too
              I mean, getting a girlfriend is not going to bring eternal happiness, most of the time only mostly more trouble which you endure or don't mind because of the benefits
              As cringey and normie as it sounds, maybe you need to focus your attention within and reach a point where you're comfortable and happy just by yourself

              • 3 days ago
                Anonymous

                Nta, I'm a software engineer at airbnb

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I can't start a family by myself, so being alone for my whole life is not an option.

  6. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    damn, its not often I find someone who has approached as much as i have. I'm in the same position of having no success. I don't have any advice, but I'm going to keep trying personally. Either way, hang in there op.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      Have you ever been on a date at least?

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        Nope. I had one woman agree to a date with me, but she never showed up. Other than that its only been rejections.

  7. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    I think there is an easy way to judge what is the problem. Next time you approach a girl see if she is defensive or receptive before you even say anything. If a woman is defensive before you say anything it is your looks and you won't get any good result without improving those.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      I mentioned 4 times in this thread, I'm lean already and at 11% body fat. I can't improve my looks beyond this. And I can say it's not all women that have been defensive. Some of the sweetest ones who'd entertain me would reject me

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Some of the sweetest ones who'd entertain me
        Then I would lean towards you should just give up. Women don't have tastes in men. Or more specifically they do and some prefer a blonde chad while other prefer a black haired chad. The ones that have been defensive should tell you that you aren't good looking enough. The ones that humoured you did this to get a boost in their self esteem that guys approach them out of nowhere.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      >you won't get any good result without improving those.
      Unless his flaws are rooted in genetics such as an ugly face or manletism

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        I'm 6'2" tbh. It's more like my eyes are too far apart so look uncanny and my face is long

  8. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    Why don't you try praying to God for a girlfriend?

  9. 3 days ago
    Anonymous

    I'm supposed to believe that you "approached" a woman every day for 8 years. That sounds like a Herculean task even for a normal person.
    I'm calling bullshit. Perhaps it's time to download Grindr and get TOPPED.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      He would have atleast ran into a hooker or a drunk party girl who'd let literally any brave randos spitroast her. It's like the rockefeller guy who peppersprayed those whores, he had plenty of video of actually getting laid, and from my experience drunk girls are fucking savage.

      • 3 days ago
        Anonymous

        Hookers don't count and drunk party girls are still the same

        • 3 days ago
          Anonymous

          >Hookers don't count
          You need to be 18 and up to post here

  10. 3 days ago
    The original Amyfag

    Definitely try cosmetic surgery now. You should invest in stuff that will fix your face and or your height. You already have the right attitude down, so you just need to splurge on improving your looks.

    • 3 days ago
      Anonymous

      There are no surgeries that will bring my eyes closer together or fix the length of my midface

      • 3 days ago
        The original Amyfag

        You can get nose bridge fillers to create the illusion of a shorter IPD, and you can use the LeFort I osteotomy to shorten your Midface.

  11. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    tanya isn't real. You'll never find her. Trust me I've tried.

  12. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Have you considered the possibility that you have poor hygiene, off-putting mannerisms, generic/obvious approaches, something else besides pure looks? Those are just as likely options

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      No, I'm pretty chill, not autistic and have no issues finding friends.

      >It's another thread where OP's a whiny bitch that stops replying the moment he gets real advice that requires some work
      Many such a cases

      No one really gave me solutions apart from the LeFort 1 guy though and I'm looking into it

  13. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >It's another thread where OP's a whiny bitch that stops replying the moment he gets real advice that requires some work
    Many such a cases

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