im almost 20 and I've never been in a relationship with a boy. im a virgin too. i am shy and i don't know how to approach people but I'm scared of rejection so i don't try to pursue anyone at all. boys don't look at me and I'm ugly and i know it. im extremely skinny and my face is ugly. what do i do
get topped, just download grindr and start swiping right
Im a biological girl 🙁
Just get on tinder and you will have hundreds of likes in 3-4 hours
If I wasn't old I'd chill with you. Life sucks when you feel unloveable.
The internet is really depressing sometimes.
how ugly?
>skinny
Eat more
>ugly
Learn to do make up and do it every day. Get some nice perfume and a haircut. Be clean every day, smell like roses.
Lighten up, ask guys for help with stuff, smile at them.
That's it, eventually someone will show interest.
Disclaimer. Don't give them sex until you're in a real relationship. Otherwise you're gonna get used. Some guys will notice you for your insecurity and they will want an easy frick.
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go to the gym and hit legs, eat more, and take better care of yourself. After a year of doing this, post yourself on twitter and you'll get over a thousand matches
+guys like shy girls, it's a good trait to have nowadays
Online dating favors women, so just window shop until you find what you like. Be as picky and have whatever standards you want and you'll still succeed.
>so just window shop until you find what you like. Be as picky and have whatever standards you want and you'll still succeed.
It's ironic because this is the reason women hate online dating. You know how PUA always write about how it's important to be decisive, pick a place and a time, and just tell the woman to be there, etc... There's some truth to it because women hate to make decisions. This is why so many of them are terrified of online dating. Because there are a lot of options, and men on online dating generally put a lot of effort into marketing themselves, so the illusion is that even if a woman increases her standards to impossible levels, there will still be a fair amount to pick from. Now how would she vet them?
They would much rather have someone picked for them so they don't have to do the work.
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Giving a guy sex won't make him stick around. It just gets you used. Don't let that happen to you.
Sorry I'm late but OP, please listen to
The only sensible person in this thread.
Hey I said it too
Are you Canadian?
>but I'm scared of rejection so i don't try to pursue anyone at all
Meh, i generally look at it this way.
Whats the worst thing that can happen? they say no.
Don't be scared of rejection, its pretty normal for everyone to get rejected.
> i am shy and i don't know how to approach people
Small talk isnt very hard to do, generally small talk leads to more in depth conversation
I.E: What kind of music do you enjoy?
Breaking the ice with someone is the hardest part, a simple Hey i like xxxx about you.
Men take compliments very seriously, if you compliment his cloth, hair, eyes, ect he will rember that compliment for the rest of his life.
>boys don't look at me and I'm ugly and i know it. im extremely skinny and my face is ugly.
Self confidence is extremely important, everyone thinks they look ugly, even myself, personally i stare at myself in the mirror for atleast 10 minutes a day and 5 minutes of it is me saying to myself i look ugly and the other 5 minutes is myself complimenting myself
Awesome be my gf OP I'll take care of you, I even don't mind that this whole thing is LARP either. :
Pls be in Los Angeles and into 40 year olds
I'm in LA and 40 too. I claim the front hole.