Im a guy but walking alone at night completely terrifies me and I am constantly on the edge and fear of being attacked.

Im a guy but walking alone at night completely terrifies me and I am constantly on the edge and fear of being attacked. I carry pepper spray and know to differentiate the sounds of male vs female footsteps and am constantly jumpy
I really dont like when people follow me, especially if its guys and nobody is much around and theyre also walking or fast walking

Its fricking terryfing and I feel weak and I am weak because of my small frame and low t so literally anyone could actually take me down
I really dont know what to do about this anymore

This might seem off topic but I want to know what kinda stratgies you all use to alleviate the night fear of the dark streets, and I was thinking of hrt because im already not really manly but im too scared to start

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Just don't go out alone at night.
    Women almost always know not to do that.
    And maybe get a gun too.
    But more just don't go out at night by yourself.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Im not american guns are off the table
      And I have to go somewhere very important every midnight and come back at around 1am so avoiding the nights outside is not possible for a non driver aswell
      I would def stay indoors

      Are you a cute little boy?

      Idk

      Best advice is to get confident in your ability to defend yourself. As much of a meme as it is, bjj is quite well suited for fighting opponents bigger and stronger than you.

      If you're not willing to invest in that you could also learn some self defence concepts and carry a weapon with you.

      Not much else really. Just remember that it's usually those looking weak and timid that get assaulted because they're statistically most likely to comply in silence out of fear and not press charges afterwards.

      I do a self defense sport and I know a good balls kick hurts the most and you should kick then run but I would def if caught in a really bad situation just comply and I have no clue how to even press charges so u really are right

      Im so scared

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        What do you think is the worst case scenario?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Probably more than 1 person and a wall in a direction not blocked by one of them
          It would be a dead end

          I had to quit a new job just recently cause it was too far to walk at night. My main problem was a had to walk on a boomer road in the middle of the night and the guys looking for prostitutes kept trying to hire me.

          Wow thats fricking awful lmao I didnt even know people did that

          Aiming for the balls is such a bad idea in most self defense scenarios because it's the part men protect the most instinctively through flinch reflex.
          Balls are easy to get to as a second or third "move" but it's deceptively hard to hit someone's balls intentionally.

          Basically you gotta work on your b***h ass attitude the most. Die with integrity, that sort of stuff

          I know but my the point was more like the main hit should be a kick in the nuts

          I also dont eant to die beaten to death by strangers during the night either yknow and confidence never was my thing

          Nobody likes walking at night though

          Except weird guys and groups of teenagers

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Aiming for the balls is such a bad idea in most self defense scenarios because it's the part men protect the most instinctively through flinch reflex.
        Balls are easy to get to as a second or third "move" but it's deceptively hard to hit someone's balls intentionally.

        Basically you gotta work on your b***h ass attitude the most. Die with integrity, that sort of stuff

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/bTzU9pJ.jpg

        Im a guy but walking alone at night completely terrifies me and I am constantly on the edge and fear of being attacked. I carry pepper spray and know to differentiate the sounds of male vs female footsteps and am constantly jumpy
        I really dont like when people follow me, especially if its guys and nobody is much around and theyre also walking or fast walking

        Its fricking terryfing and I feel weak and I am weak because of my small frame and low t so literally anyone could actually take me down
        I really dont know what to do about this anymore

        This might seem off topic but I want to know what kinda stratgies you all use to alleviate the night fear of the dark streets, and I was thinking of hrt because im already not really manly but im too scared to start

        You deserve to get raped and youre gonna get raped, pls record it

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Are you a cute little boy?

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Best advice is to get confident in your ability to defend yourself. As much of a meme as it is, bjj is quite well suited for fighting opponents bigger and stronger than you.

    If you're not willing to invest in that you could also learn some self defence concepts and carry a weapon with you.

    Not much else really. Just remember that it's usually those looking weak and timid that get assaulted because they're statistically most likely to comply in silence out of fear and not press charges afterwards.

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I had to quit a new job just recently cause it was too far to walk at night. My main problem was a had to walk on a boomer road in the middle of the night and the guys looking for prostitutes kept trying to hire me.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Nobody likes walking at night though

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Do you walk around in shady neighborhoods often or do you look fem? If not grow a pair homosexual, nobody cares about you.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Its a shitty country all around and Im feminine looking and acting

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Which country? Also yeah, if you're fem looking then it's justified. Maybe carry a spare wallet you can throw in the opposite direction and run in case someone isn't interested in your body but still sees you as easy prey.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Then you’re right to be afraid because I would rape your femmy twink ass <3

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous
  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Same, women complain about feeling like an easy target but being a 5’4 man is only marginally better than being a woman in terms of defending yourself

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      You're fricking moronic, the chances of you being attacked if you're visibly a man even at 5'4 are infinitely lower than those of even much talle women and fem folk.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        my boyfriend, who's a tiny femboy, got molested by some moron, who then called him a homosexual and attacked him when he realized he was trying to rape a guy. my boyfriend put 4 in his chest. the guy survived, but ever since then when i call him my little killer his dick throbs right away. almost killing a guy was the most masculine thing he's ever done in his life.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          This is both unfathomably based and hot as shit.

          Well done, you got lucky with your little killer, treasure him dearly

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Nobody cares, I specified that you're most definitely getting sexually assaulted if you're a femboy.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          fake and gay
          that's an attempted manslaughter charge

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            we live in texas, usa. you must be thinking of california, soviet union.

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    its EXTREMELY unlikely for someone to attack you without provocation
    pepper spray is a good idea and extremely effective though, it will stop anyone if you get a good hit
    t. street rat who has been attacked dozens of times

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    common sense street safety guide:
    1. always try to stay near other people, you won't get attacked for no reason if there are witnesses nearby
    2. if there are no other people nearby, never let people you don't trust come within arm's length of you
    3. if someone attacks you, spray them and run, call cops first and then your relatives/friends asap, find other people, literally start banging and ringing on doors if you have to, don't hang around the area alone even if your attacker is neutralized, they often have friends nearby who will love to get revenge on you
    4. don't be afraid of looking people in the eyes, if you feel threatened by someone following you or something let them know you are aware of their presence, literally stop and look them in the eye if there's enough distance between you, it will puzzle them and reconsider if it's worth attacking someone who's ready for it
    5. don't get too paranoid, it will easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy if you treat everyone as an assailant, the guy walking his dog won't assault you, nor will the guy carrying his groceries
    make sure you know how to use your pepper spray, please don't use the shitty foam/thin stream ones, they take way too long to act and are harder to aim, fog/foggy stream works instantly
    tldr: you can relax if there are other people around to help you, else dont let anyone come near you and be ready to spray and run to other people

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    oh the diversity!

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Get a bike. You’re less likely to get jumped by someone or mauled by dogs if you can move swiftly and steadily.

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    source ?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      twitter.com/forsen/

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I will bite you, send me the real source

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    hrt is great but how the frick is it going to help with this problem?
    I walk around my apartment complex at night sometimes and that’s fine and I recognize that it’s relatively safe in reality due to factors like location and general socioeconomic class despite what people say about going outside at night but that won’t help you unless your fear is ungrounded and idk enough specifics to say that.

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    OP is scared for his tight little, frickable hole.

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