I'm a girl in a relationship with a guy, I'm his first love and his first relationship and I don't question that for a second but I hav...

I'm a girl in a relationship with a guy, I'm his first love and his first relationship and I don't question that for a second but I have general doubt. How does he even know what love is if he never had it before? Aren't I just the practice until he finds something better after the first relationship experience? I just don't think he knows what he's talking about, he seems very optimistic about us and everything and says he intends on marrying me and wants me to be his first everything.
I have no hopes of this ever going far but I'm just letting him experience it until it fails, is that wrong?

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You seem envious of his experience. He's the one to love for the first time, not you. He has something special, and for you, it's just another relationship. He wants to marry you, the first love of his life, making you the last one too, and that wouldn't be what you get.
    Pretend like marriage isn't your thing and drive him away with no sex and craziness.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      You're a complete c**t. Pull the trigger and end it now. If you're too pussy to do that, pass his contact info along so I can have a very frank discussion with him.

      I adore him and want to be with him, why would I want to drive him away or leave? I just have a lot of self doubt and feel like I’m not good enough for the honor of being someone’s first everything.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly men are more simple than they appear, and being one I hope that I come off as simple lol. If you can explain how you feel to him in words of one syllable (very plainly) he will atleast be able to try understand how you're feeling. He will probably try to respond in a way that will validate your feelings and then he will endeavour to help you feel secure. Well I would anyway if I was the man in that situation, but who knows. I would prefer plain communication with my partner about things that trouble her rather than her bottling it, and being anxious and snappy for (what I percieve to be) no reason (because no communication has happened about it)

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You're a complete c**t. Pull the trigger and end it now. If you're too pussy to do that, pass his contact info along so I can have a very frank discussion with him.

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    The reality is, he doesn't know what love is. He has a chemical infatuation for you and a lack of experience. He'll get bored eventually.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >chemical infatuation
      that's literally what love is

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Will he though? It's not like it's a crush. The infatuation has been reinforced by being in a relationship with her. It is a simple enough thing to stop caring for a girl you've never spoken to, but one you dated? Not so much.

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I found a virgin bf who wants me for me and to marry me and genuinely loves me and wants to be with me forever
    >I'm going to ruin this by sabotaging it with doubt
    You are your own worst enemy, OP. In fact: the only person you are more dangerous to than yourself, is him.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >How does he even know what love is if he never had it before?
      I've heard this insecurity so many times from different girls and it's always a self-sabotage in a scenario that would otherwise be fine.

      I’m not really sure how to get over this, it feels like there’s a lot of expectations even though I know he isn’t like that.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Overcoming the feeling of self doubt is hard, the starting point would be to not act on it. Fake being confidant until it becomes real.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Send me his number, I so want a pure hearted BF like him if you don't want him, bet you had plenty of bfs before so I think you're the one that forgot what love is after getting dumped for the nth time

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        you get over it by stepping up to the task and being the good gf he already believes you to be.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >How does he even know what love is if he never had it before?
    I've heard this insecurity so many times from different girls and it's always a self-sabotage in a scenario that would otherwise be fine.

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    It sounds like you just want reasons to dislike him, honestly. Of course he doesn't know what love is. Have you considered that you are meant to show him?
    It is silly to hate him for being your first time because people don't get over their first time. I'm still in love with the girl after basically a decade and no contact for around that long too.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Is your BF name bell cranel by any chance? Also is he younger than you and cute ?

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    So, do you love him by any chance? If not please don't waste his time, and send me his number

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    If you're a girl, you don't know what love is period.

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    3 months into the relationship, eh?

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, once he figures out you fart and shit he'll stop loving you. Enjoy it while it lasts.

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