I'm 28 rich af (>500k net-worth), paid off my ranch house in a very nice area, 6 figure programming job, luxury sports sedan, marathon runner, and world traveller. I get hundreds of matches on these apps based off my pics, but am mildly autistic and fail conversion every fucking time (3 girls have directly offered me to come over and I somehow fuck that up?). I've had a few gf's before but only had a sexual relationship with one women. WTF do I do?
I have none of those stats but get matches to no end and routinely ghost women because I am also a sperg.
I went on a few dates with a gal and she told me explicitly to come over wearing my onesie and to use her however I wanted
Ghosted her.
You have deeply embedded fear of intimacy stemming from Your negative childhood experiences. I would love to give You advice, but i have no fucking idea how to overcome it myself.
Ya, Dad cheated on my mom after 20 years of marriage, she khs and then I got cheated on and my relationship fell apart. Sister also cheated on her bf at the time who I saw as a brother.
Now I have a hard time trusting anyone at all and it makes me sick to think about. So instead I drink and smoke weed and hope one day it’ll just be better
Sorry to hear about that. It's common for people with poor social skills to be taken advantage of, and that is what your ex did to you. Drugs aren't going to make it any better though. If you really do want to eventually find a good relationship, you need to build your social skills so you can tell if a girl is good or bad. A way you can start is learning about red flags and listen to people discussing them.
I have/had decent social skills. Dad cheated my first year of college, whole family fell apart, few years later lost my Mom, kinda shut down from the initial shit and didn’t really “recover” until last year. I think I avoided people basically from 2014.
Like I was totally normal in high school, had friends, had gfs, no problemos. Now I can’t even text my friends to hang because I don’t trust that they actually like me. lol, sorry for derailing your thread
i’m op and basically that’s my scenario except it wasn’t my dad but my sister going insane and i had to drop out because she tried to kill herself because of how successful i was doing, i fucking hate women man
Hey I dropped out too, even more similar scenarios.
Even more similar is I’ve only been in a sexual relationship with one gal too!
But I hope things with your sister have mellowed out and gotten better.
I wish I could give you advice on how to navigate your own situation when it comes to dating.. Or to give you any advice at all, I feel a bit stuck right now and I think my next steps will probably be going to therapy again. When I was in it before it helped immensely but I mainly focused on the loss of my Mom, but only really recently started noticing all the other ways her death and what happened to my family has impacted me in more subtle ways.
if not larp how did you get rich?
>6 figure programming job
Anon just saved up for a few years, probs has stock options as well.
I was also cs, forgot to mention. Dropped that shit hard because it’s soulless and rots people from the inside. Leave while you can anon,
So, you have poor social experience and you're not sure how to talk to and find the right woman?
I assume you're a smart guy, so you're going to have to do some thinking. What do you want from a woman? Is the woman you are seeing going to give you what you want? What does the woman want? Are you going to be able give her what she wants?
psychadelics.
(re?) learn how to be an emotional human
people really falling for this bait? all op did was make a mid female account.
that's the amount of matches girls get on their first 2 nights.
i made the profile like 2 months ago and matched with like over a hundred girls by now and fucking suck
Use AI and let it do the texting for you
i actually tried that with an instagram model and she unmatched me lol. she had like 5k followers got as shit didn’t have words
putting any of that information about your job, cars, money in a dating profile is cringe as fuck. no one cares about any of that.
all you have to say is something discrete like "i'm completely financially sound, and will be for the foreseeable future, but I don't want to make that a focus of my profile."
i don't directly put it. chicks can just tell from the pictures. i do state i own a house though, which is a good thing to mention so you aren't a fucking loser who's 28 lives with his parents
captcha: SSKG0Y
the other thing is, are you trying to communicate over text? if you are failing to get into real contact with women often its because one or both people get bored or disinterested because of the text communication. if you are attracted to the girl, you should move to in person quickly.
so what just ask all the matches I get out for the same time and pick whichever one says yes and keep the rest as backups?
Autism makes pussies as dry as the Sahara. It was joever before it began.
Whatever you do, don't fall for the "premium" meme
>Hundreds of matches
>3 even showed interest
this is so sad OP