shed stare at you at the very least.
women dont let their chance of chad pass by they seize it. if youre not chad then you have to make the first move and hope the girl finds you acceptable, even if youre not chad thers a chance.
If you are really hot, unironically yes.
So if I'm ugly women will never make the first move?
shed stare at you at the very least.
women dont let their chance of chad pass by they seize it. if youre not chad then you have to make the first move and hope the girl finds you acceptable, even if youre not chad thers a chance.
>tfw plenty of beautiful, kind women put the moves on me >tfw they were genuinely interested >tfw I rejected and scorned them cause I thought they were trying to fuck with me >tfw I probably hurt their feelings
Self-hate is a hell of drug.
>"Hey, I saw you around the office and I think you're really great. Do you maybe wanna go get some coffee later or-" >Why? So you can STEAL ALL MY MONEY BITCH!? MGTOW!!
I feel like I'm just hurting myself sometimes. I have a fear of close interpersonal relationships, any time I feel someone trying to get closer to me I like sprint away from the situation like it's a live hand grenade, because in a lot of ways, it is.
yes, they do so for the guys they actually like (chads).
"pursuing" women is a meme. if they aren't interested, you can't magically change their mind by telling jokes or some shit. in fact, they consider that creepy and stalkerish.
wouldn't a guy find a girl pursuing them kind of stalkerish? i haven't really made any irl moves just doting embarrassingly from far, far away and the once in a long while message to him that gets unreciprocated.
no, because guys aren't women. most of us would find it flattering even if we weren't interested.
i've had gay guys hit on me and it made me feel good and that maybe i am not so ugly, even though i declined their offer due to not being gay.
>even if we weren't interested
so would i take it as him ghosting/being uninterested or busy/sperging out overwhelmed if we used to be together? if he hasn't replied yet that is. we used to be in love so it's kind of embarrassing on my part. i want to tease him and be a butthead to him but have only done cringe expressions so far due to feeling awkward about admitting myself to him.
idk about how women's social games play out, i have autism, so i can't say if you should reach any conclusion.
but maybe if you were together and now he isn't engaging with you means he probably wants to move on?
just my guess, i don't know you or the other person and i am a sperg, so don't take what i say about your situation seriously.
what makes you a sperg because i think i may be the spreg. and will take what you say over him because he is not responding. i just want him to melt into me it is very stupid and gay. i am not sure but wondering if he sent me a penis on a sock account ;_;
Or maybe you should stop pussyfooting females and invite them places with their friends and yours, oh wait, you don't have any friends, nobody likes you
>Or maybe you should stop pussyfooting females and invite them places with their friends and yours, oh wait, you don't have any friends, nobody likes you
why are you (a normalnagger) on my board again?
>You're retarded and deserve your containment.
I'm already in my containment, normalnagger scum
I would propose this question instead, why are you not in you're normalnagger containment, exactly?
It appears to me that one of us is in the wrong place, normalnagger
He belongs on R*ddit but they banned him for being an actual retard, a rule which is specifically referenced in chapter 11 article 42069 of the R*ddit terms and conditions.
No one but left leaning retards browse reddit you fat dumbass
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Case in point. You're a fucking normie and you deride people for not being a fucking normie. You'd probably agree with all sorts of left-wing opinions if a group of left-wingers showed you any validation. Therefore, you belong on R*ddit.
Women generally aren't used to approaching men. In general they'll drop "hints" which might or might not be easy to read. Depends on the situation and the woman in question. Either way, if you're autistic you're SoL.
their "hints" are extremely obvious and can't really be overlooked.
guys who claim they "missed" hints of interest from women are just copers unable to come to terms with their own unattractiveness.
It really depends on the woman. I've had some girls that couldn't be more obvious and I've talked to some girls that would make literally no effort at all while gushing about me to a friend of theirs (who was also a friend of mine who told me about it). Changed her tone when I confronted about it though.
Point is, women are just as spergy as men when it comes to relationships and missed hints are definitely a thing
I spend a lot of time lurking female dating advice spaces and stuff and based off my findings 99.9% of women prefer the guy to approach and will assume your not interested if you don't make the move. "If he wanted to, he would" is gospel for most women.
What kind of man are you if you can't even make the first move? You are literally programmed to do that in order to procreate, do you not have a dick or something? You're pathetic.
>You are literally programmed to do that
no we aren't dumb roastie, as evidenced by so many men not approaching. >do you not have a dick or something
if we didn't we wouldn't be so upset about being lonely now would we?
as usual roastie is retarded and incapable of actual reasoning.
>horse-girl apu >dandruff
I didn't even realize that this was a female archetype. I thought it was endemic to that one girl in middle school, like the autistic wolf-shirt girl who made barking noises and wore a tail to school.
Make the first move if you have to, but remember this, women decide who they fuck, and men decide who they marry, and find a good one soon, because one day you might not have a sex drive or anyone to give your love.
I wouldn't mind approaching girls first but most of them use it as a power play tactic and feel entitled to men chasing them. The amount of ego they have attached to their stance on this is a big turn off and is another example of the manipulative immature nature of women.
Yes, but she probably doesn't like you.
That's why you have to make the first move, and show her why she should like you.
In other words, begin interacting with her, and see if your natural predisposition attracts her.
No. Even a girl that really liked me and I really liked her never made anything close to a first move. They get frustrated, they don't show it though, you see it in these invisible shit tests they start doing like they start ignoring you. They will literally do anything except ask you out. I mean I was hoping she'd come around and say something about how she felt about me but she never came around. Wait long enough and you'll see her settle with some other schmuck courageous enough to ask her out.
In most cases no. Girls don't do first move, since they can just wait for a guy that will do that for them. If it's not gonna be you it will be some other guy.
basically yes. A woman should reciprocate what you're doing if she's actually interested. If you stare at her a lot, then she should be staring back at you. All a woman has to do to "make a move" is make strong eye contact with a guy, smile at him, maybe laugh at his dumb jokes. If she isn't doing that then it's over
Think of all the girls you liked and never told, now multiply that by infinity. That's women.
So if I'm ugly women will never make the first move?
Unironically, yes. Why are you asking stupid questions?
shed stare at you at the very least.
women dont let their chance of chad pass by they seize it. if youre not chad then you have to make the first move and hope the girl finds you acceptable, even if youre not chad thers a chance.
If you are really hot, unironically yes.
>tfw plenty of beautiful, kind women put the moves on me
>tfw they were genuinely interested
>tfw I rejected and scorned them cause I thought they were trying to fuck with me
>tfw I probably hurt their feelings
Self-hate is a hell of drug.
>"Hey, I saw you around the office and I think you're really great. Do you maybe wanna go get some coffee later or-"
>Why? So you can STEAL ALL MY MONEY BITCH!? MGTOW!!
I feel like I'm just hurting myself sometimes. I have a fear of close interpersonal relationships, any time I feel someone trying to get closer to me I like sprint away from the situation like it's a live hand grenade, because in a lot of ways, it is.
Imagine the most socially awkward guy trying to hit on a woman. That's how she would do it. In any case, if she likes you, you'd know it
women only wants you if you're hot or already have a gf.
yes, they do so for the guys they actually like (chads).
"pursuing" women is a meme. if they aren't interested, you can't magically change their mind by telling jokes or some shit. in fact, they consider that creepy and stalkerish.
wouldn't a guy find a girl pursuing them kind of stalkerish? i haven't really made any irl moves just doting embarrassingly from far, far away and the once in a long while message to him that gets unreciprocated.
no, because guys aren't women. most of us would find it flattering even if we weren't interested.
i've had gay guys hit on me and it made me feel good and that maybe i am not so ugly, even though i declined their offer due to not being gay.
>even if we weren't interested
so would i take it as him ghosting/being uninterested or busy/sperging out overwhelmed if we used to be together? if he hasn't replied yet that is. we used to be in love so it's kind of embarrassing on my part. i want to tease him and be a butthead to him but have only done cringe expressions so far due to feeling awkward about admitting myself to him.
idk about how women's social games play out, i have autism, so i can't say if you should reach any conclusion.
but maybe if you were together and now he isn't engaging with you means he probably wants to move on?
just my guess, i don't know you or the other person and i am a sperg, so don't take what i say about your situation seriously.
what makes you a sperg because i think i may be the spreg. and will take what you say over him because he is not responding. i just want him to melt into me it is very stupid and gay. i am not sure but wondering if he sent me a penis on a sock account ;_;
>If she would like me she would make the first move. Right?
yes, literally always
do not listen to these incel retards
Or maybe you should stop pussyfooting females and invite them places with their friends and yours, oh wait, you don't have any friends, nobody likes you
>Or maybe you should stop pussyfooting females and invite them places with their friends and yours, oh wait, you don't have any friends, nobody likes you
why are you (a normalnagger) on my board again?
You're retarded and deserve your containment.
>You're retarded and deserve your containment.
I'm already in my containment, normalnagger scum
I would propose this question instead, why are you not in you're normalnagger containment, exactly?
It appears to me that one of us is in the wrong place, normalnagger
He belongs on R*ddit but they banned him for being an actual retard, a rule which is specifically referenced in chapter 11 article 42069 of the R*ddit terms and conditions.
No one but left leaning retards browse reddit you fat dumbass
Case in point. You're a fucking normie and you deride people for not being a fucking normie. You'd probably agree with all sorts of left-wing opinions if a group of left-wingers showed you any validation. Therefore, you belong on R*ddit.
I masturbate to steam pipes
I'll contain you in a fucking cum jar without airholes homosexual
Maybe you should have someone stand on your throat until you stop breathing?
Women generally aren't used to approaching men. In general they'll drop "hints" which might or might not be easy to read. Depends on the situation and the woman in question. Either way, if you're autistic you're SoL.
their "hints" are extremely obvious and can't really be overlooked.
guys who claim they "missed" hints of interest from women are just copers unable to come to terms with their own unattractiveness.
It really depends on the woman. I've had some girls that couldn't be more obvious and I've talked to some girls that would make literally no effort at all while gushing about me to a friend of theirs (who was also a friend of mine who told me about it). Changed her tone when I confronted about it though.
Point is, women are just as spergy as men when it comes to relationships and missed hints are definitely a thing
You're all fucking morons.
I spend a lot of time lurking female dating advice spaces and stuff and based off my findings 99.9% of women prefer the guy to approach and will assume your not interested if you don't make the move. "If he wanted to, he would" is gospel for most women.
>"If he wanted to, he would"
I always hated that because men can say the same about them. Women can be so silly.
What kind of man are you if you can't even make the first move? You are literally programmed to do that in order to procreate, do you not have a dick or something? You're pathetic.
>You are literally programmed to do that
no we aren't dumb roastie, as evidenced by so many men not approaching.
>do you not have a dick or something
if we didn't we wouldn't be so upset about being lonely now would we?
as usual roastie is retarded and incapable of actual reasoning.
I mean you're the one scared to talk to girls sooo yeah lmao
>scared to talk to girls
of course, there are adverse social consequences to trying to talk to girls while being ugly.
>horse-girl apu
>dandruff
I didn't even realize that this was a female archetype. I thought it was endemic to that one girl in middle school, like the autistic wolf-shirt girl who made barking noises and wore a tail to school.
No, they weak and taking the first move makes them sick from the stomach.
Make the first move if you have to, but remember this, women decide who they fuck, and men decide who they marry, and find a good one soon, because one day you might not have a sex drive or anyone to give your love.
I wouldn't mind approaching girls first but most of them use it as a power play tactic and feel entitled to men chasing them. The amount of ego they have attached to their stance on this is a big turn off and is another example of the manipulative immature nature of women.
Yes, but she probably doesn't like you.
That's why you have to make the first move, and show her why she should like you.
In other words, begin interacting with her, and see if your natural predisposition attracts her.
no, never. at least where I live. it's literally considered a taboo
No. She'll flirt, tease you, laugh at your dumb jokes, stand close to you and maybe touch you "on accident."
But ultimately, you have to make the first move. Ask her out anon.
No. Even a girl that really liked me and I really liked her never made anything close to a first move. They get frustrated, they don't show it though, you see it in these invisible shit tests they start doing like they start ignoring you. They will literally do anything except ask you out. I mean I was hoping she'd come around and say something about how she felt about me but she never came around. Wait long enough and you'll see her settle with some other schmuck courageous enough to ask her out.
In most cases no. Girls don't do first move, since they can just wait for a guy that will do that for them. If it's not gonna be you it will be some other guy.
Yes, women are very obvious about attraction. If you're not receiving any obvious signals, she isn't physically attracted to you.
basically yes. A woman should reciprocate what you're doing if she's actually interested. If you stare at her a lot, then she should be staring back at you. All a woman has to do to "make a move" is make strong eye contact with a guy, smile at him, maybe laugh at his dumb jokes. If she isn't doing that then it's over