If gay men find me attractive, does that mean women find me attractive too?

If gay men find me attractive, does that mean women find me attractive too? I've been hit on boldly by several gay men, but I didn't want to frick them.

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    no. i have bad luck on tinder, very good luck on grindr. gay men and women do not (usually) look for the same things.

    but it means that someone does find you attractive and it makes sense that more than gay men would find you attractive.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    That's funny OP, you should use this as a pickup line

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Work out - it'll probably help.

  4. 10 months ago
    conveniently a feminine woman on 4chan

    yes, that means other people can see you cute. maybe some bisexual girl will go crazy for you. it all depends on tastes. what is sexy for some is not for others. just be normal (in your dress and way of being) and you will have a better chance of catch more people.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >yes, that means other people can see you cute.
      That's exactly what he called me. Now I have a confidence boost!

      • 10 months ago
        conveniently a feminine woman on 4chan

        then you lack confidence and have low self-esteem due to your lack of success with women. Maybe you need to talk to some AI who is a psychologist or something. And try to see yourself as someone who can be loved.

        • 10 months ago
          conveniently a feminine woman on 4chan

          I say this because it happened to me that before I had my first girlfriend, no girl paid attention to me, but since I was with her, the treatment of other women changed for the better. I guess when you feel at peace or good with yourself, others want to be around you too.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >then you lack confidence and have low self-esteem due to your lack of success with women
          Obviously. I was the weird smelly kid in school and felt disgusting to women, and despite getting into good shape and improving a lot over the years, I never had any positive experiences with women to undo the the belief that girls don't like me.

          • 10 months ago
            (no) conveniently a feminine woman on 4chan

            You have to understand that you are no longer that child and that you have grown up. perhaps you are emanating an energy of "incel loser" by the way you perceive yourself, which is reflected in your body language (sad face, humped back, etc.). try to be happier, smile more and love yourself as you are. Also dress up better, get a good haircur, take care of your face, be assertive, fun, confident and smart.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            No I think my body language is overall good, I'm a very happy positive person, but even if a girl liked me she isn't gonna let me know, and I lack the confidence to do anything either. Its my own fault though because I was content to just continue believing girls didn't like me based on past experiences.

          • 10 months ago
            (no) conveniently a feminine woman on 4chan

            then you have to understand something: maybe there are women in the past or present who saw you and liked you, but you didn't realize it. How? women use a lot of hints. They are not going to be direct because later the others see them as prostitutes. The way to see this is to have a radar to read the signals. One subconsciously realizes that but because of your lack of esteem maybe you don't see it. Think back to the times a woman was "weird" with you and maybe you'll see the correlation with what I'm saying.Now, you don't have to be desperate for women, you have to think about your business most of the time, like getting money, health, stability, fun, etc. But once in a while, turn on the radar to see if any girl isn't giving you a signal.

            This takes time, but you're going to calibrate to see the hints. Over time you will also learn to do the hints, which women love because it is their language of seduction.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men and women find different things attractive.
    So it's unrelated.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah it does. But women want to be chased so will give you the cryptic game. Men chase men which is why gays are so promiscuous. So you are getting approached by the people who are attracted and willing to chase you. Ergo there should be people who are attracted and expected to be chased. We call those people women.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's nice, I should put myself out there more and be more self assured, which is also what the gay dude said.

      Men and women find different things attractive.
      So it's unrelated.

      That's possible too. But its not like I'm a femboy or anything.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >That's nice, I should put myself out there more and be more self assured, which is also what the gay dude said.
        >
        He gave you advice too? What were the circumstances of this meeting? And yes he is right.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I was at the 5 below store and he greeted me but also complimented my headband, I said thank you. Having been hit on by gay men before, I felt he would make a move eventually. He seemed to hover around me in the store, asked if I needed help, etc. No big deal.

          Next time I go in there kinda the same, but this time he approached me at the self check out and said him an a coworker were discussing how cute I was. Very flattering, but again, not attracted to him. I told him about how girls don't give me attention, he says I should be more confident. Then he asked again if I really don't get compliments from girls, I tell him its a long story (I'm a virgin), and he says I should tell him about it sometime, and we part ways.

          It was a nice encounter, but now I'm afraid to go back lol

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well to be totally fair, he may have been bigging you up a little to maximise the flattery. But only a little. He night have acted particularly shocked so you know just how cute you are. That does NOT mean you are not attracting girls. The confusion is from women wanting pursuit. They will NOT approach you usually.

            https://www.tiktok.com/@melissathng/video/7108769078818508059

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I get that, I think I act colder to girls I like because I assume that they don't like me.

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If gay guys like you that's pretty much a guarantee that women don't.

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If gay bottoms are hitting on you, then you're probably attractive to women too

    If gay tops are hitting on you, then you're probably *not* attractive to women other than weird pervy fujos

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      They always seemed like bottom types based on the hyper feminine mannerisms. But they looked like regular guys

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know anon, maybe you could post a pic of your ass and we can judge?

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. gayfers go after the best looking guys. some just like to mess with them because they're empowered by the lgbt

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