I think in some ways I'm like the stereotypical chudcel that online leftists have come up with. Can't get a gf so seething at women. White but still low status so seething at blacks. And so on. I see no rational reasons to abandon the beliefs that trigger me (e.g. women are hypergamous and cruel to low status men like me and blacks are low IQ and violent) but I want to stop seething while maintaining these beliefs. I know it's possible because I've seen it done. I don't want to argue about politics here because I can go to /misc/ for that but can you give me some advice on how to accept "redpills" without losing my shit? The thing is I don't even hate women and blacks deep down because I wanna be nice to everyone so that makes my knee-jerk hatred even more painful to experience. I just love hating on these groups, blacks especially, because it makes me feel better about my worthless life. I have two ideas: improve my health, wealth and social status to the point where I feel so good about myself that nothing triggers me or, alternatively, try and become even more of a right-wing psycho until hate feels good without draining me of energy. I feel like the latter option isn't realistic. Are there any other routes to go down? Maybe logging off and becoming a chill normie but I feel like I'm in too deep for that now. Am I even asking the right question here??
what the fuck are you talking about? not reading all of that btw
Thanks for the bump.
Ok, I already know that because I'm not an imbecile lol. However, when I'm mad at women or mad at blacks, what I'm really mad at I think is, in the case of women, the judgement an average woman would make on me ("loser incel pathetic disgusting misogynistic beta trash") and, in the case of blacks, I'm mad at the behavior of the ghetto blacks who are worse and make our cities wastelands and are much worse, on average, than the white trash yet you can't call them out for it nowadays. What makes me more mad is that I can't vent my frustration at their sickening behavior and openly assert my superiority over them. I mean look at this recent subway incident where like half of America is acting like a white man accidentally killing an inveterate black criminal is like the second slavery/Jim Crow/Holocaust. It drives me insane that ten white people can get mugged and killed so some naggers can buy crack and it never makes it beyond the local news while one thug finally gets what he was asking for and the whole media except maybe Fox news will mourn him as a saint. Insane.
if this helps you somewhat - it's a femanon who's telling you this. I know I'm not what you just described, but I can sympathize with what you feel and acknowledge that what you need isn't a lecture on misogyny; but, rather, encouragement to keep pressing forward. I genuinely wish you can make amends with your own being. Please, be safe, and try your best to not let hateful ideas prey on your pain - that will only hurt you
Yes, you too!! Thank you <3 You're a nice girl and I don't hate you at all even if you think I'm disgusting and hateful. As long as you will be nice to me I will support you even if you would never date my trash body and soul. I suppose it's ok to despise me as long as you don't say it right 0_0
You are not disgusting, don't worry. Rough situations tend to lead people into extreme ideas, that is a fact. There's a lot of self loathing in your head and you relieve it through the sense of superiority.
Like that other anon said, try doing something good. Charity, in a way, is also a manifestation of power with the plus side that it won't make you feel bitter about life. Don't forget to also extend that care towards yourself. Even if you do a shit job at socializing, don't give up - it's a skill you develop. Even if you think you're ugly - there's outfits, haircuts, beard styles, muscle builds, etc that will make your appearance more pleasant. Good luck and good job at it
I didn't mean to imply that you are disgusted by me sorry. You don't know me so why would you lol. Yes you are so right and literally the nicest person I've ever spoken to online maybe. I have been thinking about volunteering recently so I think I'll give that a try! There's a Catholic charity in my town I believe, among others probably. Worth a try, right?
Definitely worth a shot, so go for it 🙂 It's a good chance for meeting new people, even.
You don't need wealth or status and you don't need to hate more. Stop to realize the universal truth that it is foolish to hate and entire group of people as within that group there are masses of individuals who are each different and lead their own lives and have their own beliefs. This is coming from someone who also thought like you before.
if racism is a cope for feeling worthless why dont you put some effort into helping your local community?
I'm not sure what you're implying? That's a good idea tho and if I can answer your question it's probably because I'm lazy and selfish.
Ok yeah thank you <3
>The thing is I don't even hate women and blacks deep down because I wanna be nice to everyone so that makes my knee-jerk hatred even more painful to experience. I just love hating on these groups, blacks especially, because it makes me feel better about my worthless life
im implying you feel worthless and use racism to feel like youre better than alot of people automatically just because of your skin color so you dont have to do any work to improve yourself and actually become a person you can respect
also alot of people who do great things are lazy and power through their lazyness and in terms of selfishness,its all about perspective you'd also be creating a group of people that would have your back if something happened to you + you'd have the satisfaction of feeling your life is meaningful
even if you dont help your community you have to actively do something to not feel like such a worthless bum,coming up with more copes is just going to make you misserable
Sorry, I missed this before but this was very enlightening actually.
Anon, it's not possible to hate such a great amount of people without also sacrificing your own wellbeing. That hate will make you continuously alienate yourself from everyone until you're miserable and alone whilst everyone you put down to stroke your own ego is doing just fine.
Seriously, improve yourself. Don't kill that part of yours who wants to be nice to everybody. Talk to people, work on your flaws, take care of your health. It's not worth it to waste your one shot at living so miserably.
>I just love hating on these groups, blacks especially, because it makes me feel better about my worthless life.
go outside and talk to people holy shit
ive been poor all my life and ive been abused by both genders but exploited by men. yet, black are still people and men arent evil.
people are people, and you can only know them and their intentions through experience. even just spending 5 minutes in a room with someone only gives you experience with that person.
ive found that ive met a range of people, both good and bad, smart and stupid, and what was in common was their perceptions of themselves and others. how one views others is what they become, in the end.
so, yeah. i dont see the benefit of holding onto beliefs that limit you and just keep you stuck in a loop of suffering. why does status matter to you, when things can always get worse? embrace what you have, start sowing the seeds for growth, and mourn missed opportunities so you can move forward with a clear mind. it is what it is.
Maybe this is cope but status anxiety is a relative phenomenon so it doesn't matter if things could always get worse because as long as you're above someone else you feel satisfied right? And the IQ of Africans is an empirical question and I'm not sure if that's what you're alluding to here but if it is then I won't accept this pablum about groups being the same. But ofc some blacks are smart! Thank you for your response, it's making me think which is very good btw 🙂
I'm good looking, on track for a good career, fit, and have friends and I'm still a chud (mentally). It won't be as pathetic if you're not a loser. Only difference is I don't seethe at women. I kinda seethe at the nature of relationships and the fact you can't fully trust anyone, but that's a human condition thing.
That's actually what I mean by "seethe at women" actually. I mean I'm not really a misogynist because I love women but I seethe because (in my imagination maybe) women despise me and it hurts my feelings.
Ok I promise cause I've had the same nagging feeling for years and I never tried that even tho I knew it was a good idea because I was too lazy and selfish but now I might as well do it because I have no other ideas.