So my girlfriend was telling me how one of her good friends (who has a boyfriend) would sunbathe naked except for a thong in front of her grandparents whenever she goes home to Colombia since they have a big house and pool there.
I told her that's obviously weird as fuck and not normal at all and she said while she probably wouldn't do it she didn't think it was weird.
I told her being dressed that way is sexual and she said it wasn't.
So thinking she would immediately say no and I would win the argument I told her to invite her friend and her boyfriend over and all four of us will only wear swim bottoms and the girls will wear thongs the whole time but we won't let it be sexual at all we'll just do normal things.
I figured she'd immediately say wtf that's weird and then I'd hit her with a, "Fucking see? That's what I'm trying to tell you." Then we'd forget about the topic forever.
But she actually told me, "Ok, sure."
I was like, "What the fuck, really?"
And she said yeah it doesn't bother her.
I told her basically I know she's lying and it won't happen and I'm right to just try to salvage the victory and can the situation but then she just insisted and I ignored her.
Well 3 days later she told me they agreed and we're doing it this coming Sunday.
Should I just accept defeat and tell her to call the whole thing off?
I'm not sure how I feel about doing this tbh.
The other guy I'm not worried about, he's a nerd compared to me and I know my gf feels nothing for him.
But still is it not weird as fuck? I'm correct, aren't I? It's obviously fucking not normal, right?
Pic unrelated. The related pic I want to post will get me banned.
granddaughter was sunbathing while visiting her grandparents big house by the pool you think that’s sexual ?
OP certified coomer
Yeah because her grandfather was sitting out there watching her while drinking a mojito. It's different if she did it while they aren't home.
but thats his blood fucking relative, you know in some cultures its not sexual, I mean, if hes had to look after her whilst the parents went away sometimes as grandparents do hes probably cleaned up her shit, piss, been part of raising her, at that point how is there anything sexual at all whatsoever?
Weird is subjective. If the girl and her grandparents don’t see an issue, then it’s fine. Admit defeat, anon.
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Do NOT back down, shes testing you. In fact wear a thong yourself, fuck the haters.
Nah I'm not going to do that.
women will go to any length to be right, so you just turned this into a game of chicken. the only way this ends with you proving to her that this is too sexual is if the other girl starts trying something with you, but your girl might still stick by her guns saying "its not sexual"
I don't think anything sexual would really happen.
The other girls bf is a fat, nerdy dude who is boring and would buzzkill anything.
Take the L, OP. You’re too autistic to realize this but how you perceive things isn’t universal. Believe it or not, something being sexual is subjective, and in this case, your gf and her friend don’t think it’s weird or sexual to sunbathe at a grandparents place. Other anons are right, you’re a coomer. Enjoy trying not to pop a boner while hanging out with them, you coomer.
Sexual content of anything is culturally determined, not a given. Almost everywhere in the world outside the USA, women go topless on beaches without causing a stir, because breasts have been de-eroticized in that setting. On the other hand, in Middle Eastern countries a woman's hair is treated as a private part, to be covered in modesty.
Chances are that you will be the only one of the four to find the situation sexual.
These guys telling you you're wrong are all retarded. You're absolutely right, but she's just being stubborn to fuck with you. She's probably going to win out in the end too, unfortunately.
Live stream that shit and monetize it, sounds hilarious.
when you passed the threshold into swinger did you feel a shiver or a breeze or something?
what did it feel like to lose that piece of innocence?
lmao ur gf is based
post pics pls
OP why would you try to trap a girl in a discussion or argument? Just say your opinion and it's fine if she has other opinion. Both of you don't have to convince the other. Save yourself the hassle.
Don't listen to all these people, you've completely checkmated her. When they come over, walk out proudly with your boner, point to it and say loudly "see? Sexual."
Alpha as fuck.
Also to OP. I am convinced that keeping a girl loyal involves never losing an argument. Even when you are wrong you still have to win. In this scenario you need to be creative. But you cant lose. IMO just make her forget about it by making other plans that weekend and let it blow over.
You never stood a chance, your girlfriend would sooner blow a bunch of strangers for a bet than admit she is wrong.
But she’s not wrong. OP sounds like he’d rather turn into a fag than admit he’s wrong. Oh wait.
She is obviously wrong homosexual.
You don't go flaunt your naked body in a thong in front of your grandfather.
No she’s not, you puritan retard. Stop being a coomer.
south/central americans are very funny when it comes to nudity or sexuality sometimes, one kid growing up he would just jack off with his door open sometimes we'd go to his place and his parents would be like "oh, jyes, he upstairs" and we'd go upstairs and sure enough he's sitting there just "oh hey guyse I'm mastorbaéting, look at de naked wimen"
Also it's ironically less weird to have a topless pool part with your gf and another couple because then it could turn sexual and that would be cool.
Showing off your young bronzed colombian tits to gran papa & mami isn't so cool and presumably you wouldn't want anything sexual to happen.
I wouldn't really have a foursome with the other couple. I mean the other girl is hot, but her bf is awkward and would probably ruin it so I wouldn't consider it really.
This seems like a potential actual solution, I'll try it.
I just hope she doesn't realize what I'm trying to do.
She reads me well.
Fuck off , I'm not looking for the opinions of the bitter and sexless.
sorry? you quoted my post but didnt write anything?
im whiter than you, mutt
imagine having brain rot of the american type about nudity
yikes, my man!
So you think it's normal for a 25yr old girl to run around in only a thong in front of her grandfather
It’s not about it being normal, it’s about it being sexual (which it’s not given the context at hand). Keep up with the premise of a simple thread.
Dude, you get to see tits, why the bellyaching?
> Get shit-tested
> Argue like a bitch
lmao did she lose her respext for you yet. You're supposed to humor it hahahahahaha do normies really?