I miss my ex should i kms
It’s been over a year, I took time to mourn and even met some people randomly (didn’t deliberately seek out a date or anything)
The guys are taller than him (he was 5 ft 7 and always insecure about it), or as rich or richer etc etc etc but none of them come even close to having his personality and heart of gold.
Like I literally fucking hate interacting with anyone other than him (despite the fact I haven’t interacted with him since we broke up).
Everyone else sucks to talk to. They just don’t show they care in the same way as him. No one else cares about me the way he did. He put so much effort into helping me and caring about me.
Yesterday I hung out with some guy and yeah he’s super cool and adventurous and he goes to the gym and he’s tall and funny I guess and productive and goal/productivity oriented but he’s just not my ex
My ex was insanely smart and hilarious, we actually had a connection, we had so many things in common like weird sexual hang ups and he understood all of my jokes and actually cared about what I had to say
I went home and cried for hours even though it was 11:50pm when I got home. The guy even bought us Ubereats or whatever without me even suggesting I’m hungry or anything and he already had food I’m pretty sure.
Idk what to do. I think I lost the love of my life. I don’t think I’ll ever be happy with anyone else in my life. No one understood me like he did.
How long has it been since he broke up with you and why did you break up?
Have you tried seeing a psychologist?
It’s been over a year, last May so .. a year and 5 months
Psychologists aren’t a thing here and I can’t afford it
We broke up because he had severe anxiety and didn’t feel like going through the US visa application process because he didn’t want to spend several years of his younger years living with anxiety because of it (to bring me over to him)
Also he was basically fine just dying alone and was worried to have commitments, also he was very appreciative of his parents and they wanted him to marry an Indian girl who is rich and successful so he sort of wanted to just do what they said in a way
Idk his parents were pushy about marrying an Indian girl at first (mostly his mom) but she seemed to warm up to me a lot idk
It was a lot of things ig , but I think he feared commitment
How often did you meet in person? Was it mostly an online relationship?
We talked every day on video call and on the phone for hours. He flew to visit me twice (tbh his work didn’t allow for more). We only dated for about a year.
Nice. How soon into the relationship did you meet in person? How long were the visits?
I think the first time was a few months into it and the second time was a few months after that? The first time he visited for like a few days I think and the second time was like a week and a half or something? He left early tho and that’s how we broke up.
you won't get over him until you fall in love with someone else. but to be fair, it sounds like he wasn't that crazy about you
Idk why the fuck he wasted that much time pretending to like me and be nice to me and trying to help me
Also why tf would i love anyone else
I just don’t get how you can put so much time into someone and be so nice to them and never snap out of character but not actually like them
that exact thing happens everywhere, everytime, in the world. countless of other people are feeling what you're feeling. you're not special.
i dont want to be mean, but its been a fucking year. maybe its time to move on from the "poor me i will never find love again i will get hurt 🙁 " and realize life and love sucks for everyone else, and now you need to put yourself out there like the rest of the fucking people on this planet.
Joe breaking up with her means it's truly over for Swift's love quest imo, she'll never get a more perfect set up even if she's the biggest popstar in the world
Why is he a perfect set up? She’s literally the most perfect beautiful and talented woman in the world
If she can’t find a good man all women are screwed
>Not a fame fucker leech
>Stuck with her through loads of shit
>Wasn't overshadowed by the famous sex symbol men shes dated
>She's 33, even beautiful celebs in their 40s like Charlize Theron admit they can't get a boyfriend
>She's more career focused than ever rather than looking for a partner
Safe to say she's screwed and will only realise too late because she'll consider anyone who brings up the last two points misogynistic
Yeah and he dumped her.
She’s always been looking for love, she just can’t find anyone to stick around. Charlize Theron is in Hollywood too which makes it worse. Obviously it’s harder to find someone as you get older as most people are married.
She is just trying to distract herself from the pain. Who are you to judge her?
I'm not hating on her, literally a Taylor fan for nearly a decade lol
I just think it's more likely than not that she's not gonna find a husband now, and it'll be sad to see her cope and pretend that she doesn't want/need one when romance is such a core part of her life
The only reason she wouldn’t is because hollywood men are complete shit and all Hollywood women get treated like garbage by both Hollywood and the men in it
>Charlize Theron can’t find a bf
Actually looks like she doesn’t want one and she legit said she “doesn’t want to deal with that shit again”
https://people.com/movies/charlize-theron-reveals-she-hasnt-dated-anybody-for-over-5-years/
hey op, how did you guys meet?
Why?