Well, i am younger then most people whom clam they have philophobia... I have been in some long distance relationships, and have gotten hurt in most. There are people who do put those dreadful three words out there at times.."i love you" I can't help but feel sick. Nor do i feel anything..most normal people would feel a sense of joy...but i feel nothing. It's like those words have had their days. And worn off. I don't know what to do. I am still very young. And that fact that i am afraid to get close to people, scares me. I didn't know this was an ACTUAL condition. I knew i had trust issues...i just never thought this would involve my happiness.