I like a girl who doesn't like me back and just sees me as a friend, and has no idea how I feel about her


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I like a girl who doesn't like me back and just sees me as a friend, and has no idea how I feel about her
She literally helped me set up dating apps accounts because she sees I'm lonely. And I know this tinder shit will lead nowhere because nobody would ever want me anyway.
This is fucking painful. How do I cope

  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Accept it. There’s benefits to this because you’re probably a sperg, so this girl might be able to help you succeed more socially and relationship wise. I had an experience with a girl like that, and she ended up helping me talk to girls more and even helped me make more male friends.

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >who doesn't like me back
    >and has no idea how I feel about her
    Well something's not adding up. Why does she not know how you feel about her? And how could she be in a position to like you back if she doesn't know you like her to begin with?
    You didn't shoot your shot with this girl apparently so don't complain. Even if a girl likes you, she's not gonna just declare it out of the blue you know.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I came home this morning after having been the third wheel to her and a guy she obviously likes. Absolutely pathetic
      She also sent me cues that I'm so deep in the friendzone it would be useless to even try getting out

      Disregard females. Acquire currency. Focus on building your self worth by improving your skills and become a positive role model in your community.

      This is such shitty advice. I have money and good social status. Who gives a fuck when you come home to nobody every day

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I came home this morning after having been the third wheel to her and a guy she obviously likes. Absolutely pathetic
        Ah, well you didn't mention that.
        That is pathetic, but you're also doing it to yourself at that point. Have some pride and self-respect and move on. There are other women out there OP.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >you're also doing it to yourself
          I can't help it, I have real feelings for her
          >There are other women out there
          I'm in a field that is mostly masculine. I have no relationship experience despite nearing my late twenties, I'm not charming or attractive and my self image is so fucked that any woman would run as soon as she'd get to know me. I'm trying but I feel like it's pointless.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I have no relationship experience despite nearing my late twenties, I'm not charming or attractive and my self image is so fucked that any woman would run as soon as she'd get to know me.
            And whose fault is all of that? YOURS, nagger, and your field is irrelevent because it assumes you can only meet women from work. (Stemfags, every time).
            But the larger issue here is that if you really are this desperate and don't think you'll ever have a chance with anyone else, it might also mean that the feelings you think you have for this girl aren't even genuine. You're raking yourself over the coals and putting yourself through a lot of heartache for possibly nothing. You have to be honest with yourself if you really have feelings for her because there's stuff about her specifically that you love...
            Or if you just have "feelings" for her the way a drowning man has "feelings" for the nearest piece of driftwood floating at sea to hold on to...

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              >whose fault is all of that
              Who cares? It is what it is, I'm pretty sure I'm fucked in the head in some way, why is it so natural for other people and so foreign to me? I don't know if I would even want to be with a woman at this point, I wouldn't know what to do, it'd end up being a painful experience rather than a pleasant one.
              >because there's stuff about her specifically that you love
              Yes. It's because it's her, not because she's a woman and I'm desperate.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Yes. It's because it's her
                If you say so, but I don't know what other women you're comparing her to.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Just because I have no relationship experience doesn't mean I don't know other women

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Quit being a beta orbiter. You may have money and social status but in your mind you are just as pathetic as any jobless loser. Get free of those chains that are binding you.

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls and guys cant be friends.
    Unless youre gay or a girl.
    She doesnt see you as a "friend"
    She just thought maybe you could possibly be a proper mate for her. But you screwed that up. N now shes just stringing you along because shell feel guilty telling u to fk off

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Disregard females. Acquire currency. Focus on building your self worth by improving your skills and become a positive role model in your community.

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    if this girl is socially competent and/or has experience dating SHE KNOWS

    accept it and get some free advice

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    What you incels fail to understand is that THIS is how you meet women. You see posts on here every single day "How do I meet women? Where the women at? Do they even real?" You meet women by knowing OTHER women. This is your in. Don't fuck this up, let her wingman you, and take a win ffs. Just because you can't have one specific one doesn't mean you won't get one by not sperging. Be cool with her. Become more close as a friend, go out and just hang out together. Yes it may hurt, you got your hopes up and got let down, you did it to yourself and that's just how life goes. Now that you've established you're not getting anywhere with her, make the best of the situation and come out ahead.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I like a girl who doesn't like me back and just sees me as a friend
      Ask her if she has any friends you might like.

      Our friend group is the same

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's practically incest then.
        Also wouldn't all your friends know you like her?
        Stop obsessing over this girl it's pretty creepy behavior. If you can't stop yourself just ditch your whole friend group then. It's drastic behavior but the only you come out of this not being a cuckold.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Some of my friends figured it out but she hasn't.
          How is it creepy to be into someone? What a retarded buzzword

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's creepy to stick around when in a one-sided attraction "waiting for your turn". If your best male friend turned out to be gay and told you he just wanted to pump your ass full of cum, how would you feel in future interactions with him?

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'm not waiting for anything. I know she doesn't like me that way

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I like a girl who doesn't like me back and just sees me as a friend
    Ask her if she has any friends you might like.

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been there.
    Truth is hard to swallow but it remains truth.
    Girls NEVER change their minds unless there is a DRAMATIC change in your appearance, success, or popularity.
    So stop talking to her right now and force yourself to think about other girls.
    Believe me, the moment you meet a reasonably attractive and interesting girl who likes you back, you will completely forget about the previous one you didn't even date.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >the moment you meet a reasonably attractive and interesting girl who likes you back
      That's the problem.

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    You have more important things in your life. You're not measured by your sex life. Do not cope with anything, you are yourself.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >You have more important things in your life
      Like what? It still bothers me a lot. I'm not just talking about sex, this is about relationships as a whole. Being alone and having nobody while hearing my friends talk about their romantic and sex lives is starting to kill me inside

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Like being a man and pursuing your own interests and not the empty existence of pleasing another individual. You need to change your cuck perspective.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >pursuing your own interests
          What makes you think I don't? One doesn't exclude the other. Your post sounds like a cope, you can have interests and also pursue relationships

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >hearing my friends talk about their romantic and sex lives is starting to kill me inside.

        So you're 15 and share sex stories?

        >pursuing your own interests
        What makes you think I don't? One doesn't exclude the other. Your post sounds like a cope, you can have interests and also pursue relationships

        Mostly because you sound like hermit homosexual who stalks your friends Facebook profile to see if she's still single. You're on LULZ asking for advice. That's the lowest cope aside from HRT.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          So you've never had any close friends, apparently. People talk about these things unless they have a stick up their ass
          >you sound like
          You're projecting and obviously extremely resentful and angry. Fuck off

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao yeah let's talk about Cumming on our friends faces at the dinner table and pretend we respect each other after lmao what kind of coom brain logic is that?

            Top kek rabbi time to close the thread.

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              You have serious issues, seek help

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                No I've got a gf, a career and friends outside of work. You can either take my advice and move on or wallow like a bitch.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                You are obviously a neet venting his anger and frustration by projecting on the internet. Your posts are worthless. Last (you)

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Post interests rabbi.

  10. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Almost everyone has experienced this. You won’t get anywhere by dwelling on it. Look for other women and maintain your friendship with her and it’s entirely possible she will become interested in you in the future

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is this actually likely or even true? Don't give me false hopes man

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        If she sees other women being attracted to you she is more likely to become attracted to you, that is how women work. It’s not a guarantee but she’s almost certainly not going to wake up one day and decide she wants you unless you change your own situation

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm trying to change my situation. But as I said I'm not an attractive guy and so far I haven't had any success at all

  11. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >because she sees I'm lonely
    Go interact with more women and you’ll automatically have less oneitis for this girl. As a possible bonus, if you hit it off with other women and can brag about it to her, she may want you for herself. Possibly.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'd like to do this but so far no girls seem to give a shit about me. I'm trying dating apps but I don't think this shit works.

  12. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >has no idea how I feel about her
    she does
    >helped me set up dating apps accounts
    you should take that as a sign that you're never getting in to her pants.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >she does
      What makes you so sure?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        because you didn't say she was clinically retarded. unless she is, and you just "forgot" to mention that little tidbit.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Is it that easy to tell usually?
          What could I do to know if she knows? She doesn't treat me any differently right now than she used to for the past few years, I assumed she'd feel betrayed and become more distant if she knew

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