I have a bad shopping addiction.

I have a bad shopping addiction. My dad had gotten a great raise when I was 16 years old, and he told me that if I didn’t feel spoiled before, I will now, so I bought whatever clothes I wanted on various websites.

Over time, all of those clothes (a lot of which I didn’t wear but once) costed upwards of $4,000 in just one year. It hasn’t really gotten better since then, and now I have tons of clothes I think I’d want to wear but just leave in bags forever. How do I change and stop being stupid?

TLDR
>21 year old female
>dad has given me loads of money since promotion years ago
>I spend it all recklessly on clothes
>90% I don’t wear
>I still buy more that I don’t wear
Picrel but not mine

40 thoughts on “I have a bad shopping addiction.

  1. Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

    You have an addiction. No doubt purchasing clothes makes you feel good, like taking a shot of heroin would.

    You need to replace your addiction with something else, something healthy.

    But to be honest, most young "females" have messy and gross rooms now like that. Your Father messed up too, by treating you like a spoiled brat.

    This no doubt will carry on well into adulthood for you, in which you expect this standard.

  2. Anonymous says:

    Make a handful of fits with what you got and gonna actually wear and sell the rest. Force yourself to save that money instead of spending it on more clothes.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’m already starting to think about traveling the US with my cat, but my parents warn me against the “big, dangerous world”, and they’ve instilled me with fear since childhood, so I don’t do anything myself or by myself. I’m not at all independent and I can’t stand it any longer. So that’s one plan I have this summer, is to make them teach me how to ride a train and bus at least.

        • Anonymous says:

          Because it’s the hecking country I live in dude, of course this would be the first place, and my cat is the best companion I have. You seriously think I want to go with people anywhere?? I need some kind of time off from them.

          • Anonymous says:

            if you cant keep up with the simple stuff like taking care of yourself, learning basics like driving a car, train or bus, still believe you have to free up from your "bad" parents – do you think you can stand up against the outer world?
            you are utterly hecked up and skillless if you are 21 and still on this website asking for helpful advice.
            now take your meds and get a ASD and ADHD Diagnosis, therapy might do wonders for you

          • Anonymous says:

            As if people can’t hecking learn skills, dumbass. I’ll have to start doing this shit somewhere obviously, and therapy is the most copout, bullshit advice anyone can give. All they’re going to do it say I’m mentally ill, give me pills, and talk down on me like most people.

            If I were to see the cunts like you die, on live stream, that would make my hecking day, you demeaning gay.

          • Anonymous says:

            life is not a race, just a marathon keep working on yourself slowly
            there is no cure for autism just therapeutic help to minder your weaknesses and get aware of them..
            adhd is the most easy thing to find a treat for. if you are neurodivergent you are more eager to substance abuse, divorce, depressions and delinquencies.
            dont give up and get along

      • Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

        >but my parents warn me against the “big, dangerous world”

        LOL. Please be real. This "chick" is going to end up in a dumpster somewhere with her photos on some gore site.

        >empowered travelling cat woman

        Yup. We sure got a zoomie here with zero street wise credibility.

        Might I suggest an empowered woman walk across Morocco? Iraq? Afghanistan? Maybe Somalia?

        Or sure, keep it simple. One night in Detroit after sundown.

        DESU, this sounds more like INDRE larping.

          • Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

            >her

            As if people can’t hecking learn skills, dumbass. I’ll have to start doing this shit somewhere obviously, and therapy is the most copout, bullshit advice anyone can give. All they’re going to do it say I’m mentally ill, give me pills, and talk down on me like most people.

            If I were to see the cunts like you die, on live stream, that would make my hecking day, you demeaning gay.

            I’m ignoring your ass for a reason.

            Yeah, because you’re clearly a tranny or Indre. An obviously mentally ill edgelord who needs to grow up. I can smell your stank from here.

            Clean your room, and wash your penis.

            Hurr durr people talk down to me!! Imagine my shock. Lower your tone when talking to people on here.

          • Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

            > Lower your tone when talking to people on here.
            Unfortunately I saw this sentence.

            and what are you going to do stupid-sounding b***h?? You might want to shut the heck up before I find who you are and slit your damn throat. How’s that for lowering my tone??? You don’t like it, slag, go somewhere else where people will treat you all high and mighty with respect and ass kissing. stupid hecking slut. You need to suck it up and get over it. “LoWeR yOuR tOnE”. You sound dumb as shit.

            Did you just turn up today? Everyone knows my name, face, location. You’d piss your pants even making eye contact with me.

            I said lower your tone when talking to me. You are below me.

            Aww mommah and daddeh tweat me like a widdle baby and tell me I am mentally ill.

            Yeah. Because you are lol.

          • Anonymous says:

            > Lower your tone when talking to people on here.
            Unfortunately I saw this sentence.

            and what are you going to do stupid-sounding b***h?? You might want to shut the heck up before I find who you are and slit your damn throat. How’s that for lowering my tone??? You don’t like it, slag, go somewhere else where people will treat you all high and mighty with respect and ass kissing. stupid hecking slut. You need to suck it up and get over it. “LoWeR yOuR tOnE”. You sound dumb as shit.

        • Anonymous says:

          So what exactly do you want from us? Sell your unwanted clothes on depop or other reselling websites. Keep the high quality basics and staple pieces that will last and look good in any period. If you cant sell any donate to a goodwill or a charity shop.

          heck off Cecil and change your trip name, you got priced out of seattle ages ago you broke heck.

          • Anonymous says:

            Is this a bait thread? I had no attitude, it is just that you never gave us a question to answer and I assumed you were asking a question since this is /fashion/, the fashion board. If this was just a blogpost or something it could have gone in /r9k/ or another board, maybe /adv/

          • Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

            >heck off Cecil and change your trip name, you got priced out of seattle ages ago you broke heck.

            heck you! 100 miles South still counts. I am saving up again.

  3. Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

    >too stupid to even ride a bus
    >needs mommy and daddy to teach them aged 21
    >i’m coming to get you

    lolololololol. The epitome of internet edge lord.

  4. Anonymous says:

    Indre hasnt even been active on here since like 2020. Sidenote: damn it felt like just yesterday her and sieg were polluting the board with their stupid back and forth, but really its been almost 4 years. heckKKk im getting old.

  5. Anonymous says:

    >4000 in a year
    >over 5 years
    I could spend up to 3K on a coat. I hope you spent the money on essential timeless pieces, otherwise you are most likely going to have to just donate most unwanted clothing to a donation bin instead of trying to sell off on resell sites.

      • Cecelia Drakensang In Seattle says:

        HAHAH GOT YA!! It wasn’t really me.

        >An obviously mentally ill edgelord
        Pot calling the kettle moron

        Term applies for some anon teen dweeb acting tough online. I am a chad, who posts videos, photos, and my amazing wit, charm and charisma. So check yourself.

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