I got sexually harassed

>11 months hrt "boymoder"
>start a new job at a gas station
>day 4, doing good so far, all of my coworkers are nice, im getting called she instead of he a lot by the customers
>some old guy comes in and when im getting his cigarettes he says something like "oh yeah baby girl"
>tell him "don't say that"
>he ignores me and keeps making weird moaning sounds and saying stuff like "you're looking fine"
>keeps going even though there are customers behind him and i told him to stop
>deal with his order, he leaves and i keep my composure and help the other customers until my boss gets back from running an errand
>go cry in the bathroom
>cry again at the end of my shift
>cry again when i get home
I genuinely feel like I got raped with words
I have to go back in 7 hours, I hope I don't see that guy again

  1. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    If that ticked you off so bad you're in for a treat, people are cunts better to just accept it

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know I'm probably overreacting, I'm sure it's just worst the first time and I'll be able to deal with it better next time

      • 4 months ago
        Furioso

        I don't think you're overreacting, but yeah these things happen quite a lot as far as i know ymmv. What I did was find a job at a place that only hires women, haven't been harassed or had any bad comments since I made that switch so maybe smt you can look into as well if it affects you that much

  2. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I genuinely feel like I got raped with words
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      He was saying really gross stuff and kept smiling more the more I got uncomfortable. I'm sorry for exaggerating like that though.

  3. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    im sorry anon im about 5 months in and am starting to experience similar stuff of men asking me for really sexual stuff or teasing me in an inappropriate manner especially at work. its really weird and i wish i could say it wont happen again or that its uncommon but its not and you will have to learn to be strong and to not let people walk all over you. have you brought this up with your manager or something? maybe if you remember this guy you can point him out next time and there can be repercussions idk

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      What about voice? Why he didn't realize you are actually a guy when you told something to him with your male voice?

      Same question

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        My normal speaking voice is fairly androgynous. I guess I could have lowered my voice to make it clear to him that I'm male but I was scared he would make a scene if he realized.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Are you intersex or youngshit? Could you post your voice pls? Friend tells me I have Andro voice, but for me and others it's clearly male, just a bit faggish.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            https://vocaroo.com/1esQRjXVdds6
            I started hrt 3 months before I turned 20

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              https://vocaroo.com/1alBPuffiLcQ
              Idk, you sound male to me. I also started hrt 3 months before 20 lol.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I definitely sound male to myself too. I don't know why I get called she though because the people I deal with at this job aren't generally the liberal type. One lady said to me the other day "your voice is deep but very soft" and I don't exactly have a loud voice so I guess that's what it is. Maybe it's the same for you.

  4. 4 months ago
    Ayden

    Welcome to being a foid, it sucks

  5. 4 months ago
    it is over (repressor, honorary)

    thats right baby girl
    see ya tomorrow

  6. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be a troon
    >people start treating you like a foid
    >nooooo that's literally rape
    Kill yourself

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      its called rape culture sweaty, ask any ciswoman

  7. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I genuinely feel like I got raped with words
    WOMAN MOMENT
    But seriously, you'll get used to it, it is in the end just cringe, icky and awkward.
    also give up the boymoder bs

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Boymoding is life, especially if you work/live with assholes

  8. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    That's part of being a woman unfortunately.

  9. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well, you're definitely fembrained. Congratulations for that, I guess.

  10. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stories like this make me not want to transition ;-;

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's worth it. It's just part of being a woman too, which sucks, but it's true.

  11. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    woman experience, usually girls start experiencing this at around 11 lol

  12. 4 months ago
    Kathrin

    Men, especially old ones, will often not take you seriously, and treat you almost like a child or an object. Get used to it, and try to use it to your advantage. As long as you play along nicely, this kind of guy will be happy to help you with almost any physical task you can think of, so long as you ask nicely (and sometimes without you ever asking).

  13. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Learn to say "fuck off and get outta my store! Next!"

  14. 4 months ago
    bartender

    Never become a bartender

  15. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Misogyny
    It comes at ya fast

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