how did I do bros?
The first time was in person. I asked her for lunch at work and she agreed but said it depends on context first so I just went ahead and asked her for lunch outside and she said I am afraid I can’t and seemed sad afterwards.
The second time was on chat because she was still friendly and I couldn’t help but take another chance.
I know I shouldn’t try to date at work but she seemed like a great women and I only have access to women via dating apps
I know it’s not a political thread but some of you guys tend to care and give genuine opinion
ask her out a 3rd time but do it in the parking garage.
Dont forget chloroform
>excuse me my nose is clogged up can you tell me if this rag smells like chloroform?
>all this text
It doesn't matter what you write or how you write it. If you're a gigachad she will get wet for you, if not then you're just her beta slave. The only two categories women truly group men in: "want to fuck him" and "may be useful to do shit for me later".
Just work on your appearance and maybe a 30yo single mom will have you one day. You already lost when you weren't born a chad. This is the hardest, but most important blackpill to swallow as a male.
this pretty much ends the thread. imagine spending minutes or hours planning out what you're gonna say and trying to game out the conversation ahead of time only to overlook the fact that you were simp zoned the moment she laid eyes on you, and you never had a chance from the get go. just accept your lot or you're gonna catch a rape accusation one of these days for allowing the cones of your eyes to intercept photons that bounced off of her body before meeting yours.
You have some reading to do:
You talk too much.
You are too formal, there is no connection and you aren't breaking any barriers.
You're heading straight into colleaguezone/friendzone.
Next time, keep your messages shorter. Stop being so agreeable and soft, show some personality. Stop using emojis like a homosexual manchild, you're not a 14 year old chatting up a classmate on MSN anymore.
Lastly, if you ask a girl out and she refuses you, stop showing interest and move on. Chances are if she was ever even slightly interested in you, she will start chatting you up herself once she realizes you're ignoring her, so never double down after getting rejected. It makes you look desperate and easy to manipulate.
PS: hit the fucking gym, I can tell from the way you write messages that you lack confidence.
OP if you wanna flirt with women at work you can't do it like that, they have written proof of your shit she can send it to HR and you automatically get fired. It's not worth the risk bro
Not your personal blog. If you're too dense to appreciate her disinterested one line responses are a direct clue of her non interest, pity for you. She's responding only to keep bare minimum work relationship intact. Your understanding her better text was truly cringe worthy.
Fuck off with your boring, uninspired shit.
is this what office ppl talk about/ sound like?
fug thats depressing...
seriously get a better job
Wrong board fag.
Also dont just go naïve and ask women out as if you are in a holywood movie. Real life isnt movies.
Make some play, some scheme and trick her into a it by a plot that is composed of smaller subplots.
Such is the way of Tzeench, the Lord of Change
You need to find another one, this will never work. Do you even like her? People who have a natural chemistry do not talk like this to each other.
>I realized I fear the act...
>I am grateful :)...
This is where you went wrong.
Dude stop talking to her after the rejection! I know on my end id feel humiliated if I kept going. You and I know that her attitude of
>I dont date coworkers
Would drop the instant she met someone she likes there
>Thank you Kathrin
if she were into you she would never have said "depends on context". she sees you as a chat buddy and nothing more. there is no magic combination of words you can type to her that will change this
this, under no circumstances does a "no" eventually become a yes.
Biggest waste of time and energy is trying to get a girl who rejected you to change her mind.
Accept that avenue is closed and spare yourself the mental and emotional anguish of trying to make something work that wont.
What did Kathrin even have that you didn't, OP
This is sound advice.
You did the brave thing anon by asking her out, she politely said no, just take it on the chin and move on.
better luck next time.
>just agreeing with each other
>the dialogue barely makes any sense
>muh I think so yeah I agree with that
>thank you for the conversation
She already sees you as a beta in the best case. Stop writing her that stupid shit, stop talking with her at all for some time - you can ping her in a week, but with some "work" purpose and your dialogue should be as short and formal as it could be. If she won't get interested in you eventually and won't start giving you signs and starting a dialogue first ( even in that case still be short and formal ), that's over. If you'll see continuing interest from her side, you can ask her out for a dinner, but not like "muh... maybe... umm... we can eat our lunch together", try to at least pretend you have balls and ask her to go out with you directly. If the answer is no - forget and move forward.
God this is sad to read. I was like this but I was like this at 16 I bet you are in your 20's or 30's.
It's a simple rule. Do you like a girl? Then ask her out ASAP.
You did this. You fucked up the next part. Did she say no? Ghost the fuck out of her or do the minimum with her if you work with her. Make your relationship professional and thats it.
You do this for 1 of 2 reasons.
1. Maybe after you give her the cold shoulder, she will realize she did actually like you and will give you a shot. If you like a girl she knows even if you didn't tell her and what you are doing is giving her the BF experience but getting none of the benefits. She is literally a monster stealing your time from you. See this clip:
2. Nothing happens, you don't get with her but distancing yourself from a woman you like who doesn't feel the same is what you want to do instead of deluding yourself that she will ever change.
You talk awkward, like a robotic homosexual, and exhude big nerd energy. And not the sexy kind. The bad breath mouth breathing annoying laugh kind with no redeeming qualities. I get the feeling you like to argue and prove (you're the bigger asshole[only with words]) you're right. This is a turn off for women. You talk too much and are talking about yourself, nothing interesting, and she's not biting at all. Responding to you is a chore. I'm sharing this with you, not to rip on you, but so you can get it out of your system and just talk like how you actually think instead of trying to show off how work focused you are but also somehow maybe a slacker? That was cringe bro. You don't even know who you are and talked in circles in that short amount of time. She denied you TWICE because she's not into you, bro. Get over it and focus your energy where it belongs. Somewhere else. She's not going to change her mind and you're going to be toxic for both her and yourself, if you keep trying. Get out the vicious cycle while you still can.
You are boring. I couldnt get past the second screenshot. Stop caring what women think
Lol wtf is this nagger???
'Thank you Kathrin, I feel like I know myself even better trough this conversation and for that I am grateful :)'
How fucking beta autistic do you have to be to write that shit down baka.
Just leave her alone before HR starts to get involved
>Thank you Kathrin
>I know myself even better through this conversation
>no problem lmao
she hates you
I can imagine after she sent that no problem message Tyrone in her bed is asking her "Yo bitch what you doing" and she is telling him that she is giving some clingly incel useless life advice.
Don't think this is a unrealistic scenario, I watched a girl who friend zoned me who I thought was a nice girl, I watched her let two fat Dominican guys grope the shit out of her and she didn't regret it at all. They are not our equals.
Drop the porn you stupid nagger
Had to be nice, I got rejected anyway. If I acted indifferent it could have pissed her off and she might have felt like an object. I am at work bros.
you could improve yourself a lot by being aware of your autism
if youre aware of it then people will cease to notice it because you will withhold your autistic comments.
next time think before speaking. its a thousand times better to be a quiet autist than to be a complete cringeworthy sperg. know the difference
>posting cringe on pol
>harassing female coworkers
Not for long. I'd fire you instantly.
No normal guy reacts like that. You are overthinking it. How big of a problem is your autism?
>Had to be nice
You didn't *have* to, though. That's a thought crime and you should punish yourself for it.
Say 3 our fathers and 5 Hail Marys before you go to bed.
And if you're wondering why I capitalized 'Hail Marys', that's because you already know the answer to that.
>If I acted in a way that's attractive in the battle of the sexes
>I am at work bros...
How can you not see it? You should see it now: Work does not equal dating pool. Never will for zetas like you.
>HR starts to get involved
HR has already gotten involved, but he just isn't aware of it as it's all on her side as of now. The thing for him now is how much involved they are.
He is bong. they are fully cucked
What a fucking homosexual yeah. Even I hate him already
classic pussy on a pedestal
You come across as boring and monotonous, overly professional for a chick you are trying to bone
>thank you Kathrin, I feel like like I know myself even better through this conversation and for that I am grateful
You are an absolute hopeless homosexual. Seriously just give up now, you’ll never be with a woman ever talking like that. Gayest thing ive ever seen ever.
you talk like chatgpt you beta ass motherfucker
Damn man, that is the saddest chat ive seen in a while
What the fuck man WHAT ARE YOU DOING
Boring as fuck, balless walls of text. Tell her that she’s cute and you want to take her off, if she says no, then move on. Fag
Bro you need to LIFT. you can’t woo women with words anymore, only masculinity. Do you and succeed and she will be attracted to you doing your thing (as long as youre winning)
Jesus, guy. The fact that her responses were so short should have given you a clue.
Did you just thank a woman and spoke shit about knowing yourself better? what are you, a homosexual? Way to let her know you are a formless personality she can influence, aka, a bitch.
damn it, why are people like this.
Kathrin doesn’t like you
How did you figure out her name? I thought I hid it well enough.
Welcome to LULZ, master of capturing flags.
The fourth picture.
Why do you lie to yourself?
Ah, missed that one.
People are just that incompetent these days, and that lacking in attention to detail. This was probably a conversation about something he fucked up on the job anyway.
Don't put a woman on a pedestal, and don't /b/ post on /misc/. If you were mutually friendly, and you thought there was attraction, and you made it explicitly clear your intention was a date, and she said no, then you never ask again. You can be friendly and charitable without ever going out of your way to indulge her with attention or to actually be her friend. Single Men and Single Women cannot and should not be friends. It's always a exploitative relationship. You move on and you find someone else. Don't be sad. God gives you what you need.
And stop /b/ posting on /misc/.
Belongs in /bant/ but OP posted her because it has the most traffic.
If she is not interested she is not interested. What advice do you want? Do you think there is some secret crabby patty formula which will get her to like you? No. Woman make up their minds quickly whether they are interested in someone.
I just want to ask if I did something wrong as I have never asked anyone out in my life.
You did nothing wrong until you asked twice.
Well you were also wrong to continue induldging her with attention because she's just so heckin neat
>just want to ask if I did something wrong
Absolutely do not do that.
No, you did nothing wrong in what you posted. I don't even think asking twice out is a big deal like some of the other posters are suggesting. But that would largely depend on the context.
don't chase girls. Focus on yourself and become a Chad, dripping with confidence. Then the women will chase you and you will have a whole new set of problems.
I did this and now I can't use elevators
is it because they keep going down on you?
why do you keep repeating this boomer meme lmao. this isnt the 80s or even the 2000s anymore, women are so self absorbed and narcissistic now that CHADs dont even get attention unless its at the bar or club where all the girls are drinking.
Hypergamy isn't a boomer meme lmao. If you put yourself in the top 20% of men, then pussy finds you. Not that achieving the top 20% should be based on your desire to get women, but it does work. I agree that most women aren't worth a serious relationship, however there's a large portion worth sport fucking.
you are misunderstanding or misinterpreting what im saying. women are not outgoing whatsoever unless they are in a forced social setting, such as a bar or a club. women are socially closed off now due to the internet and feminism. they do not like being approached, looked at, or talked to out in public life and this applies to CHADs. if youre a CHAD and dont believe me then go take a stroll in the park or go to a coffee shop and approach women and see how it goes for you out of 10 tries.
wouldn't approaching women go against what i originally said? Modern women are very different that just 10 years ago, I am keenly aware. The less you care about getting a woman, the better your chances are, even in today's climate.
okay, fine. dont approach them. go out in the same listed public settings and wait for women to approach you.
protip: they wont
Chase checks not bitches isn't boomer advise. Future says this shit too and you no ones having more sex then Future in this thread.
OP doesn't have game.
really makes you think. i guess that means every male needs to become famous to save humanity.
"in what context"
Why is your "say exactly this" message so long? Convey the point with less.
Also, body language IS the best way to get a woman's attention and attraction. ((You)) have to tell her you like her to satiate your doubt, who has the power in that interaction? You'll already know how she feels about you based on her reciprocation to how you appear and behave, immediately. If you're talking for results (other than setting definite, concise propositions), you're already getting fucked around.
Sad. You either won the genetic lottery, or you didnt. You can move from a 5 to a 5.5 or even a 6, but you cant “become” Chad.
are you telling me that being in peak physical condition, or wealthy is lottery driven or something you can't become? Women value these things, the latter more than the former.
No gym for your face.
women aren't AS visual as we are. A multimillionaire who is a 4 will fare much better than a 6 who makes 75k.
Coping retard, women are visuals ONLY. They only care about looks. Foids can make more money from camwhoring online than a subhhuman like you makes in a lifetime.
He was talking about their interest in men not being as visual as our interest in women, then to counter that, you brought up an example of females using THEMSELVES visually to make money. You sir, are dumb.
Yes, “thank you for helping me…” stop this homosexualry
never ever ask a woman if you did anything wrong, but frens is ok. you tried and struck out, all you can do is keep working, treat her professionally, and maybe she'll come around one day and ask you out, maybe not. don't try to get with women at work if you're not 1000 percent sure she's into you
Nobody has to do anything wrong for a person to not like another person romantically. She's her own person with her own preferences. If she's not interested, it's a bummer for you but nothing much you can do about it
You were writing to her like you were a platonic friend, this dried up her pussy. But I get it since she's your coworker and you can't exactly experiment with flirting with your coworkers, without getting in trouble. like you once could.
I made a joke about my virility to this woman I had met only a week or so earlier. We cooperate well on everything. She would bang me but there’s not really a point in me pursuing that since it will literally always be available.
Simple after the first rejection stop talking to her. If you work together just keep it business like in person. No texts since I doubt thats part of the job.
Also dont ask why. Imagine being asked out by a fat chick and she asks you why. Now you know. Shes not attracted to you, its that simple.
>but i want to change
No, you want to change for her. If theres something you want to change about yourself you do ot need a woman to tell you so, this sounds more like trying to change so she says yes to dating you, that looks bad even if some women might find it hot. After all you dont want her just dating you to use you as a Ken barbie doll, right?
t. Never had a gf but observing stuff has given me insight imo
you should at least be able to look up her insta or fb and see if there is a man
if not, then perhaps she is just a ho or doenst like you
give more info?
are you both the same race?
are you above her in the workplace or at least not below her?
odds are its no go since she prefaced the lunch with it depending on the context as in she didnt want you thinking its a date
you can probably still salvage it but this will take a very long time and concerted effort to not look like a cuck on your part
I am below her in workplace. She is older than me and makes much more than me. I am actually just an intern.
God this just gets worse and worse.
If you get laid off within the next year it will 100% be because of this despite what they tell you. In the future if you flirt with woman at work do it in person or not through work chat. This bitch can literally get you laid off now with a single email.
Yeah, she really could get me kicked out just by a phone call. Just 5 months left in my internship though so should be fine and we work in a different department now so no more interactions.
What kind of work do you do anon?
Software engineer, if you can’t tell from my autism.
Stop sharing personal details OP, they already have your interest's name and your occupation. How many more pieces do think they'll need before they send an email to every Kathrin they can find working in software in the UK?
nagger plzzz, nobody cares. We all frens here
Kek. And whats your age? Maybe you should try some dating masterclasses or something. Start working out a little bit, get shaved, buy some nice clothes and go to a bar. Practice there on drunk girls idk.
Bro ur a homosexual
You should start eating picrel.
>She is older than me
I knew it. I fucking knew it.
Every fucking time, it's in their goddamn pheromones.
wow this is fucking cringe bro, don't ever use emojis
If you have to ask twice, she's not into you and you're going to get H.R.'d.
Don't fuck with the tramps in the business, they're already proving themselves to be garbage because of the fact that they're working in the first place. You're going to get slammed by the feminism resource.
not really no
If you keep up like this you should get through without trouble and someday one will say yes and if you are lucky that´s all you needfor a lifetime so don´t let it drag you down if some refuse at first
Nah man. Nothing wrong with asking twice and you did nothing wrong. She just refused for whatever reasons she has. Don't give up. You will find another one
Do you want her to think you're more pathetic? go for it
I am asking you guys not her
You asked ans I answered
She is not viewing this thread and it’s over anyway. She can think what she wants. I just told her how I genuinely felt.
>I just told her how I genuinely felt.
never EVER do this
W-Wait, D-Does she know you're posting this right now?
That's the UK for you. They're known for having a 'stiff upper lip' for a reason.
You didn't flirt. You didn't escalate. There was no "fun".
You supplicated to her, and so gave her higher social status than you and by implication you made yourself inferior to her. This turns female hypergamy off instantly. Women want to trade not down.
Practice flirting, double entendres, jokes but don't fixate on one woman in particular, spread it around. Never let one get the idea that they are somehow special regardless of how you feel.
There's no problem with asking her. Doing it twice gets a little much but anon probably won't get into trouble over it he wasn't very overt. He needs to stop now though.
To all anons: there's no problem with asking a woman out but since a lot of you have autism, I'd avoid doing this with coworkers altogether. Mainly because your autism makes you naive and often socially clueless and women are cruel and there's a sex based power differential at work. A lot of women won't feel sympathy with the fact that you're a little awkward and if anything will use that as reasoning to put the boot down on your neck with even more force.
Can’t I be equal to a woman or even worse than her at some things? Do I really have to show them I have superior social status if I want to get any women?
>Can’t I be equal to a woman or even worse than her at some things?
>Do I really have to show them I have superior social status if I want to get any women?
You dont have to but in my experience if you make less than her then its already a hard sell. Especially in a intern/actually employed dynamic that youre in.
Wrong it's easy to fuck women who make more money than you
It's easy to fuck women in general you just gotta be a cool dude
I think OP was looking for a committed relationship and not just sex.
Yeah, I just want someone who I can love
you should be focusing on younger girls, not old hags anon
make yourself into someone who you love as cheesy as that sounds, be such a cool dude that you'd want to hang out with yourself. start working out, stay with it, do not give up after 5 months - it takes years to get a good physique. eat healthy, don't give a fuck about women and stop caring about finding "the one". you'll be surprised once you turn yourself into a respectable man how much easier it is to attract women.
I'm out, dont take it too hard. Improve yourself and your situation and just keep trying. Just be aware of certain hierachies like age and money. In a relationship its not just about you but also what you bring to the table.
She's a dead egger. Find someone younger who makes same amount of money or less if you can.
Yeah I mean my stuff still applies there too though
Op you come across as a very boring, dull person in your texts to that woman. If she is sending short replies and yours are paragraphs it means she doesn’t want to be talking to you, end the conversation with some dignity. Don’t thank her for the privilege of talking to her either that made you sound like a fucking psycho axe murderer.
I’m sure you aren’t boring and being an autist you probably have hobbies and interests that would make you more interesting than a lot of normies but you have to be able to sell yourself. Don’t talk about yourself too much, but also don’t machine gun them with questions. Also ending a conversation is MUCH more preferable than dragging it out with surface level shit like the entirety of your text messages here. Re-read the pics you posted. You both are just waffling on about trite meaningless bullshit but the difference is you are the one keeping it going and she is trying to disengage from you politely. You need to talk to more women just for the practice of it. Try talking to women at work or whatever but without aiming to hook up with them. You first need to be able to hold a basic interesting conversation or you will never get anywhere.
Yeah, I need to become an interesting person but got a long way to go because of lack of inexperience and isolated past.
How old are you?
You're the same age as me and are basically sounding exactly like me, I managed to get a gf, but realize, it's not all perfect, you're a broken person and will still continue to have insecurity and doubts if you suddenly got a gf, if anything your mental health will become worse since you'll put so much value on her it'll break you when she does typical woman shit.
At the same time, I never felt more alive than when I finally got a gf, being isolated for so long you don't feel like you really exist, but I exist with her.
I'm not bragging, but just offering advice as I did the same as you at one point out of crushing loneliness idolizing a woman that gave me the barest minimum of kindness but it was nothing like that, if you care less about women you will be more successful.
Yeah, you describe it well. I feel so alive when I get to talk to someone I love because I have never done that in my whole life.
last bit of advice kid: STOP USING EMOJIS/SMILEYS ITS FUCKING GAY
just don't do it
Be careful of one thing that tends to happen to autistic young men: love bombing yourself. Meaning, maybe read about hypergamy and get some reality to counter what's in your head. I know you just want love and that's natural everyone does. But sometimes that desire can consume you and then you wind up seeking out love in bad options and people you realistically barely know. There's nothing wrong with wanting love but if you want it too much you'll look for it in places that make no sense, and women really don't like when they think a man is trying to force love on to them.
You never loved them, just intensely idolized them because you so desperately want to feel a genuine deep connection to one.
Seriously, go inside your head and break yourself down and work out the reason why your mind works the way it is, self awareness is important if you're cursed with autism, if you're also aware of yourself then you can become aware of others.
Trust me as well, if you suddenly got a gf, it would be perfect for you for some time, but if you were isolated and suddenly got ONE thing that made you feel like you matter, then you will be TERRIFIED of that ONE thing leaving you.
True but I feel like only by getting one and losing it will I be able to grow. As you can be aware of things but unless you have experienced them you can’t really grasp them.
This is true too but you can still prep yourself beforehand by getting the proper mentality. For example my first few breakups I acted like a psychotic little pussy because I had that "love" shit in my head so it broke me down completely when it ended. That caused mad problems for me and if you can avoid that it will be better.
I’ll give my best.
This anon is right OP and I hope you take this advice in more than anything else on the thread. He's probably been there and so have I, so have most of us, probably. It's a balancing act. Again, wanting love is normal, so don't beat yourself up. Don't call yourself a loser or a freak for wanting love. But recognize that you might do weird shit sometimes bc you want it too much, and that's counterproductive.
absolute last bit of advice:
read "the Rational Male" by Rollo Tommasi
search for the Chateau Heartiste archives and read them all
good luck kid
Thanks, I’ll read it.
You didn't roofied her water, that's where you fucked up brah
At no point in the texts did it seemed like you "asked her out". It really did not even seem like flirting. Just normal office talk. With that being said, the way she talks with you shows me she has no interest.
if shes not getting on her knees and sucking your dick she isnt interested
if you have to beat around the bush and pretend like youre not interested in her just to talk to her its not worth it
99% of all women just want to play games so they can gossip with their girlfriends
It’s funny how 99 percent of women are like this yet man wants to be with woman to make kids
i still wonder if he had any idea of how to actually finish this manga
He had an ending all the way back the late 90s. The guy finishing the manga was privy to it. Its likely that story bloat is what caused the manga to run this long though.
i wonder, we'll never know if the guy that took over actually was told everything or if he's making up some or most of it
Jesus fucking Christ I remember this exact thread from 6 months ago from the same bong poster
Stop harassing her and move on she can sense your obsessive autism from miles away nigga
Yeah, that was after I asked her out first time. She was still afterwards and thought I was just too early when it comes to asking her out. I am not harassing her.
Was on work laptop, so safer this way.
Stop wasting your time on her.
Don't engage with her outside of a professional context.
If the conversation/questions aren't profession related take your damn time responding and if a response isn't really needed don't respond.
She doesn't like you but she seems to like you enough to be nice about it. If you really want a chance then leave her alone except for work and next time you see her in person compliment her but don't force a conversation let her lead it.
I wouldn't get involved with anyone at work, ripe for drama and jealousy fueled self-sabotage.
I hope you rape her next.
>takes photo of screen instead of screenshot
We're done here, OP
Just like Griffith you know the truth but you don’t want to face it. Like a smoker who smokes a fat person who eats. The truth is too hard for people to handle. Nothing matters
I accept it now, it’s just that seemed sad after she rejected me the first time so I thought she had conflicted feelings.
Women don't like direct confrontation. They aren't ever conflicted. If she liked you it would just be a yes. The no is always her beating around tge bush and making excuses.
The solution is to go out with someone else. Make sure that she notices, but dont act like you're showing off. Women only like men who are desired by other women. They are like porn addicts who can only see themselves as your gf if they see you intimate with girls. Hire an escort if you have to
>Make sure that she notices
Why would she care? She isn't interested.
This thread is going to get deleted but wtf OP.
I have a coworker who after I mentioned having *some* feelings for her, she started to tell me how little she found me attractive and constantly referred to herself as rejecting me. I didn't even fucking ask her out, I just mentioned it because of how sweet she was being to me. Then I asked her to leave me alone personally, and she began to spread rumors about me, and fucking stare at me at meetings. Then I ask her to leave me alone at work and she tells me how little she has ever thought of me, and how we were never friends and that I'm some creep. I hadn't talked to her in 4 weeks at that point! I report her to HR and HR starts to take her side, when all I fucking asked for was to be left alone. Like she's fucking entitled to my presence, but only as some servant. I tell my family about it and they all say "She likes you bro", well fuck she has a way of showing it!
I'm fucking leaving my company because of this shit, I swear my fucking hairline receded by a quarter of an inch too and you have a normal woman that you got rejected by twice?
HOW IS THIS POLITICS
It reminds me that women can’t understand men but men wants to have woman so he’s not lonely but man hates woman
So basically hell
No you’re just a fucking loser. Every other guy has no problem dating. The retarded studies that get posted are just bad data. Absolutely nobody reports their dating life on a thorough study.
youre completely delusional if you believe that the dating scene isnt completely fucked, either that or youre a kike or a troll because its pretty fucking obvious
Are you a boomer?
It's politics because it's a reminder that we're surrounded by retards who's vote have as much weight as ours.
You know exactly what you have to do to get a real marriage but you don’t want to do it
Kathrin doesn’t like you because you’re insecure. Stop giving a shit about what people think. Fake nice isn’t real.
Climb or die
This. The exchange comes off as ass-kissy and a woman will never respect you, no matter what, if you come right out the gate kissing her ass.
So, I shouldn’t try to say what I feel about women who I think is interesting and great?
>Interesting & great
You're fucked mate
>I asked her for lunch at work and she agreed but said it depends on context first so I just went ahead and asked her for lunch outside and she said I am afraid I can’t and seemed sad afterwards.
You need to plan it before asking. Where to go, what to do. Have alternatives. If she says no and does not give you another day ("oh no I can't this day, but maybe next Friday?"), it probably means it's a hard no. So don't try it again.
By the way I’m not an Incel I hate everyone and everything that’s not me.
>depends on context
Yeah she either is repulsed by you or you're getting pegged lad
Dont settle for bullshit if she doesnt like you its not gonna fucking change
don't shit where you eat
do not insist, you will get into a problem.
I mean you just suck at talking to women and it's not really something that can be taught it has to be learned. You're talking with her about all this drama about work or whatever an dyoure putting off this huge needy vibe that is overwhelming pressure conveyed through text. She's a bitch for milking you're attention and quite frankly stringing you along but that's the way of things. That's her nature and not her job. You're jon is to be the best man you can, to know how to talk to women and the nest way you do that is by largely being not interested. You should focus on going to the gym, crushing it at work and then on the aide you need to find anonymous avenues where you can seduce and fuck women so you can get experience.
This experience translates and you'll carry it with you into You're daily interactions. Being good with women is like fishing. You have baits and jigs and things that imitate fish to catch their attention bur for the most part you're just sitting there not really doing anything. Then when the iron is hot you'll know how to strike and be able to pull it off.
The best thing you can do is cut off all interactions with her. Maintain a basic level friendship. Never hit on her again unless she makes the first move and then you should be always open to reciprocating and advancing but for the most part you're hand off. If you feel so inclined you can maybe apologize for asking her but then you carry on and keep working on yourself in the gym and at work and focus on other women.
use chatgpt to talk to her. its the only way.
>chatgpt get me laid
OP please post a picture of your face and preferably body. Like a full size mirror pic if possible. This is imperative.
Not naked, we need to see how you dress as well.
Without the face and any tattoo or distinguishable details. He's trying to dox you.
How can we tell if anon is worthy of mating without showing his face?
No doxxing. How about he posts a full mirror pic fully clothed but he can scribble over his face with MSpaint. The haircut and clothing is what matters.
How you present yourself is very important in life; women or not.
Then why are couples walking around everywhere? Why do I see “ugly” guys with girlfriends? Why is it that everyone I meet has been in a relationship? Not everyone is an incel, the israelites want to consistently put out “science” discouraging young men from trying.
>israelites want to consistently put out “science” discouraging young men from trying.
This is why this thread is political while we laugh at OP. Look at how many feds are saying you MUST wave off or there will be CONSEQUENCES.
That's exactly what women spill their guts for is someone who realizes the israelites published so much shit to demoralize, censor and control men you get swarms of she's not into you feminized man children unable to pleasure the one you want
>Then why are couples walking around everywhere?
they arent in my neck of the woods and ive moved locations several times in the last 2 years. the dating pool is absolutely the minority of society. women who are not dating (most of them) are whores, ugly, follow the "independent woman" meme or are a combination of all three.
>but said it depends on context first
Wew Id have ended it there. If she liked you she wouldnt have said that.
Never had a gf and was very oblivious to when a girl had an interest in me. Noto nly that, Im ugly and had a few attractive ones show interest
I told you in the last thread to move on after asking her out because she wasn't interested, why did you do it twice?
Gimme a hug, man.
Because she was still flirty at times after that. I was ready to move on.
She was milking you for attention, in the future you need to show complete and utter indifference after being rejected even if you don't actually feel that way internally.
That’s what I did. I completely ignored her man even when she tried to talk during meeting but afterwards we were in office and I greeted her and she looked away in front of my manager and everyone so I thought I shouldn’t completely cut all contact.
Don’t do that retard these people don’t go outside and don’t have jobs stop listening to them
>so I thought I shouldn’t completely cut all contact.
You have to ignore those impulses no matter what, you have to maintain a take no prisoners attitude with that kind of shit.
If you ignored her completely the odds would be far higher that she would pursue you as a result of your indifference.
Also, I read your happy go lucky thank you message, don't do that, ever, seriously. Think about of that behavior as if it's condescending, even if on the surface it doesn't seem like it.
Imagine you're the king and everyone kisses your ass all day everyday and someone asks you for a favor and you deny them. After you refuse they slather you with praise about how wonderful you are, would you accept that praise as genuine? No, women have everyone kissing their ass by default and it's not only boring to them but condescending and signals submission. When you throw out signals like that it's repelling, you want to be the cool guy who doesn't give a fuck what a woman thinks.
You need to react the same way to a woman's rejection that you would if you asked your friend if he wants to hang out on saturday and he said he's going out of town to visit family. You wouldn't react the way you did in those messages with that woman in that situation in response to that would you? Of course not, it's no big deal, that's the vibe you need to give off when rejected even if you don't actually feel that way and eventually you'll become so desensitized to the whole thing that you will naturally think like that, it's all your head after all.
It's to keep the simp around because he will do stuff for her she also gets validation because of the power she has over you. GTFO you stupid nagger or you'll get royally fucked up your arse m8
You play long game with her. She is friendzoning you so do it back. Start going out with other girls and telling her about it.
So what you're doing is making her a priority without her reciprocating, essentially, you are a safe bet, an orbiter, plan B. She'll throw you a crumb or two of attention here or there to keep you hanging on because she knows that you do not have any other options.
What you need to do is signal with confidence that if she is not interested in a romantic / physical relationship, you are not interested in maintaining a friendship, and you cut contact to professional levels. You do this for two reasons:
1) As mentioned previously to show you are confident enough to refuse scraps. You deserve a full relationship and if not with her then you'll go without, and seek it elsewhere.
2) To distance yourself from her and give you time to kill your feelings. Imagine her in unpleasant situations, acting rudely, etc.
As this is a workplace, do not show any kind of resentment or hurt in your actions with her and DO NOT WITHDRAW PROFESSIONAL CONTACT. You do not want to come across as a child who cannot separate emotions from your work, or face repercussions.
>As this is a workplace, do not show any kind of resentment or hurt in your actions with her and DO NOT WITHDRAW PROFESSIONAL CONTACT. You do not want to come across as a child who cannot separate emotions from your work, or face repercussions.
I doubt he can do this from what we seen so far. He will just end up getting fired. He just won't listen to any of us and keep hoping and treating her like a princess and honestly if I was forced into his position that is probably the game I would play purely for job security but that won't be his mentality.
Just as a follow up to this advice OP:
>You did this. You fucked up the next part. Did she say no? Ghost the fuck out of her or do the minimum with her if you work with her. Make your relationship professional and thats it.
>Maybe after you give her the cold shoulder, she will realize she did actually like you and will give you a shot. If you like a girl she knows even if you didn't tell her and what you are doing is giving her the BF experience but getting none of the benefits. She is literally a monster stealing your time from you.
This is exactly what I did with a woman I was interested in at work and this is exactly what happened, you've signalled your interest and been denied, cut off your personal relationship and if she is interested she'll chase you instead
Most men don't have the ability to walk away, which is why they fail with women. Not just in their ability to pick up women but I'm their current relationships. If you don't have the ability to pick your shit up and leave with any relationship you have the other person indirectly has power over you, end of story, and I reiterate "the ability to." You don't always need to walk away but what's important is having the ability to and how that positively effects your behavior (absence of need) in your relationships. How many men here actually in a relationship could with 100% certainty say they can break up with their girlfriend or wife in 10 minutes and not be messed up from it. Women can do it no problem if she falls out with you.
One time in college my gf broke up with me, I was in a near crazy state, drunk as fuck. Went to a crowded bar hit on every woman there, the first couple rejected me but they still watched me go woman to woman chatting with them and eventually I found woman that accepted me and even laughed at my stupid jokes and what do you know, some of the girls that rejected me came back to me and started flirting with me. To that day I understood you just can't see woman as rational and equals or give a fuck what they think at least in the dating game.
>pussyfoot around what you actually want to say
She knows what you want to say. The fact that you're not saying it is making her like you less. Type the following: "Hey, would you like to meet up at the weekend for a drink or coffe?"
Best thread on /misc/ right now even if it’s a LARP for (you)s
You are all retards. Do you know what Chad actually does all day when he's hustling? He's actually drooling over his iphone 13 lovebombing 20+ targets for his next two months
Stop being a pissy little baby when you text, or the israelites in this thread saying don't push it. You will have a reaction if you push it. But if you want someone it doesn't matter even if they block you. Nothing on your phone is real. It's psychic contact to them and "game" is making sure they get the picture that your one desire is their pleasure. Don't give into self censorship, girls will punish that up to YEARS. Not joking.
Gimme an example of how to text, then.
Get escort, happen to be within view of your crush while your escort gropes you. Women hate being your only hope they want to compete for you
Escorts all look pretty boring tbh. Not really sex-crazy and I'm broke so that doesn't help either.
>Women hate being your only hope they want to compete for you
Believe me, too many older women think of me as a snack.
Let me tell you something about women:
Something about women.
You have to watch Nardwuar videos and emulate his research shock value. W/e leftist musicians all girls are like that now. If you can tell a girl their innermost thoughts they fall in love because they know there is no escape and they are prey. OP is a victim of the washing of romanticism from society for homosexualry. Go read Dr. Zhivago and start writing poetry.
God, this Nardwhal looks like some cringy-ass Hip Hop Family Rree bullshit.
I appreciate you telling me about Dr Zhivago. I'm glad somebody has taste on this board. That ending made me cry like a bitch.
As for poetry, I'm a Richard Yates man. Another author I fucking love.
I never say this as much as I should, but I love you, man. I fucking love you.
This is the most cringe fucking dialogue I've seen in weeks. if this is legitimately you, kys
>fucking around with women at your work
You're literally the definition of "Fuck Around, Find Out" right now. You need to stop and go looking for your vaginaisraelite elsewhere outside of work.
The problem is you keep asking.
You are socially retarded. You are going to drive off women left and right, even if you're decent looking. You cannot be helped swiftly, you need a lot of work and help.
I only read the first couple images and can already tell why you will never get this or any woman.
You are boring, you talk about work far too much, you write paragraphs instead of short playful replies, women find you boring, exhaustive and annoying, what a woman wants is someone that is flirty, fun and cheeky, you are none of those things, I feel sorry for that woman having to sit there and listen to your boring shop talk.
It's time for the final solution, anon
Just quit while you're ahead anon. I speak from experience. You're just going to weird her out. Move on and find someone else. All women are basically the same anyway.
Holy shit you autistic fuck
Never try to get a woman back after she rejects you
>I asked her for lunch at work and she agreed but said it depends on context first so I just went ahead and asked her for lunch outside and she said I am afraid
WTF is that mess putting effort on women is a recipe for failure.naggers get laid because they rush straight to the point and treat women like shit ( spoiler they love it )
>I got rejected by the same women twice
If a woman wants to be with you, she will change her plans or tell you when she's available. If she finds an excuse, she doesn't want you but is trying to back out without looking mean.
Shitting where you eat NGMI anon
she actually believes she "works"
Destroy your feelings. Look inward, and burn every part of your soul which is capable of being hurt. It's only painful once, then never again afterward. What emerges from this process will be something strange, alien and wonderful.
Women don't It's a numbers game anon, she said no, move onto the next pretty girl. Also
>Thank you Kathrin, I feel like I know myself even better through this conversation and for that I am grateful
Okay, even if you feel like that about something involving a woman NEVER say that kind of beta feely shit or thank HER for that kind of thing. She should be the one thanking YOU for emotionally helping her.
I did try to move on bros but I made the mistake of completely ignoring her so it backfired. Should have kept some contact while being professional and distant.
if you move on it doesnt matter if shes ignoring you
It backfired because she refused to greet me in front of everyone at office so I had to talk to her again. I had no choice because I didn’t knew what she would do next.
It doesn't matter. You're not gonna be friends with her. It's fine if she ignores you. Just communicate on work related things and forget this whole thing ever happened
You should quit that job and be a shut in neet on welfare. Use your texts as evidence that you need neetbux
You are an idiot for not only trying to hook up with someone from work but doing it in a WFH environment. At least in person the shit you say to her isn't being recorded. You are a developer how are you this fucking stupid?
This is one of the craziest threads ive seen in a grip. Yo not only that but he posted the screens to a public website that archives it's posts lmao
You're way too insecure. You're projecting your hopes and desires on some chick. Get some hobbies, work out, go for a walk, do something other than pining after some random chick.
How did it backfire
You shouldnt ignore her completely. She is your coworker after all. SO when there is work to be done, you interact. Other than that you don't pay attention to her.
This’s why you don’t date girls you work with. I had one girlfriend in school and she cheated on me and then dumped me. I obviously went no contact but she legit flipped her shit. Make no mistake though. The misc was right. When a woman treats you like shit then no contact is the best option. Just make sure you don’t have to interact with them everyday.
What the fuck did Kathrin have that went over this guy's head?
I mean leave her alone bro damn what the fuck
> the context is lunch. I don’t mix business and pleasure.
Where was he gonna take her to lunch, anyhow?
>some of you guys tend to care
Hit on a different woman and rejected, do it so many times you can no longer cry, eventually some used goods woman will give you a pity blow.
I hate women so goddamn much it's unreal
you're pushing it
she said no
Let this thread be a lesson to everyone here that you should never shit where you eat. You HAVE to go and find someone else outside of your workplace. Power couples don't exist.
You can fuck your coworkers but it depends on the kind of job. An office job I would never do it but when I worked retail I took so many coworkers to the backroom to fuck. It's just a different environment
Who did you take to the bathroom? How hard was it to fuck without getting caught or the piss and graffiti stains laying around?
At my job we had a giant backroom. I organized the boxes in a way where it created a path almost like a hedge maze. When soeone would come in, you would hear the door slam so if you fucked a chick from the absolute end of the path you had about a minute to put your pants back on. Never got caught but it did start smelling back there
Idk every gf I ever had was met at places like work where we were both in proximity for long periods of time. It naturally developed, there was no asking out for dates, it was like it became obvious we were attached to each other and that was that, it was never so formal. Still I wouldn't cold approach at work, that seems disastrous.
>I asked her for lunch at work
Don't shit where you eat retard
Is your name Mark Woolen? Known Horse Pervert?
remember, 1 yes overrides 1000 no
you're too desperate OP. you shouldn't have to say much of anything if she's interested, shit you should be able to say anything if she's actually interested. you could say I hate israelites/love hitler to a girl that is attracted to you and she'll giggle & laugh. move on, and don't give up
>you should be able to say anything if she's actually interested. you could say I hate israelites/love hitler to a girl that is attracted to you and she'll giggle & laugh
This is 100% true. My friend's wife fucking does this. And she's a full blown leftist. I can tell that she's into me. I can literally say anything and she just eats it up.
Other girls that aren't into me, I couldn't get anything from them at all but the same shit you'd expect to get from a doctor's office receptionist.
you won't be able to get rid of a bitch that likes you. she'll show up wherever you do, all "coincidentally" tehehehe. if the attraction is not blatantly obvious and outside of she's not playing hard to get, she's not into you is a good rule of thumb. life really is simple once we stop overcomplicating things
I asked out a classmate in uni and got turned down. I don't get it bros, she was always staring at me and would even do double takes. Despite her rejection I still catch her giving glances of me. What do I do? Why are women like this?
Youre probably a freakishly weird looking motherfucker
Also Americans don’t say uní you double homosexual
We need more details anon. But its possible by the time you asked her out she was already getting piped by some other Chad
>What do I do?
fuck another girl and talk about how much fun you've been having with this other girl around her. but dont linger on it and then go do something cool and random in front of her. she will be sucking your dick before you know it.
Dude you are a fucking weenie. This is what you should say:
Hey, just wanted to let you know I'd like to go on a date with you if you are interested. I'd really like to date, but it's cool if that is not what you are about. So no stress if you are not sure. If you'd like to try let me know and we can do something and see how it goes. If afterwards we decide it's not a good match that's ok too. I guy has to try you know?
Just write this. Tell her exactly what you want. If she doesn't want to ok. Who cares? Go find another girl. I can guarantee you this; if she turns you down and you just nonchalantly say hey that's ok and go date another girl she will never stop wondering what she missed out on.
Just relax. If you like a girl tell her. If you want to date. Tell her. If she rejects you move on. Find a new girl. Don't get stuck on just this one.
That looks like an incel guessing at how to start a conversation
Only to your gay incel homosexual ass. I've date tons of girls. And if you date enough you learn to be straight forward to now waste time. You sound like you never dated in your life. I just don't give a shit. If I like a girl I will tell her. If not I can be acquaintances with her knowing I like her. It's not like its fucking crime to want to date someone.
Stupid ass fuck. Sure just all weenie like beat around the bush and come off as a total beta bitch. Girls love that. You give a girl the option. If she doesn't want it move on.
Fucking LULZ beta bitch.
Sure sure, we have another insecure loser that want's to be reassured his failure with women isn't his fault. That its the hypergamy blah blah. So anyone who tells him the truth, that getting girls is not that hard...well that makes you insecure right? You feel like a loser. So you just want people to reassure you that it's not your fault that it's just all unfair. Fine rest easy in that nest of cope you have.
But for those who want to know the truth. If you respect yourself, don't act like a fucking weeneie then getting a girl isn't that hard. Finding a good one who isn't crazy is really difficult but getting a girl to be interested in you to date. It's not hard at all as long as they are not single and you are trying to punch way above your weight.
Bro someone made fun of your gay little love letter you posted here and now you're on the warpath. Lmao internet tough guy shut the fuck up man, call your mom tell her someone was mean to you online cry for a bit and then get back to work.
Dude I could scrap you into the afterlife. Stupid bitch. It's the ok the next time you masturbate into your hand just tell yourself it could never be any other way. You are right! It's not your fault.
I got no beef with people who stay away from women because of the financial risk or the headache. But edgy little weeners who just have big inferiority complexes and project onto other people to the point of personal attacks are plain pathetic. And women can sniff that shit a mile away.
Fuckin crying pussy
Naw Im not. I just know who you are. I know why you act the way you do and what you think. It's your pathetic life. if you want it to get better you better look at yourself and be honest. Right now you take comfort in not trying. It's not a good way to live.
If you date enough you will not give a fuck after awhile and it becomes easier.
Nigga I slay pussy regularly because I'm fuckin good looking. I just called you out on crying bc you got made fun of, that's all
That sounds even more like an incel larp comment
Nah you just want people to tell you that your beta status and lack of female companionship isn't your fault. Anyone who even suggests you can actually get a girl must be attacked because you feel like a fucking loser. That is all it is. Just the shit nobody needs to be listening to.
Women are not that difficult. They are crazy and of low moral character these days but scoring a date isn't hard. It's mostly in how you present yourself. Be forward, non threatening, and easygoing and confident. if its going to work its going to work if not find a new girl.
You make a lot of assumptions and words.
Na, just easy to tell what the mental damage is with posters here. And what motivates them. You are just a demoralizing shill trying to pull everyone down around you because you have deep seeded inferiority complexes that other people can remind you of if they do what you are unwilling to try to do. Seen it before.
kek don't listen to this guy lmaoway too many words
"go out with me" that's all you have to say
they'll either say "sure" or "no thanks"
Nah bro. You fucked up with being you in the first place. Next mistake was starting with "Hey"
Don't do that.
Next, if you made an incelagraph to explain what could be simply stated in under 7 words, you also have fucked up.
Don't do that.
t. Another autistic retard that has done that.
We learn as a unit, nagger.
What is your relationship with your mother like?
What do you guys think will happen now? Hopefully this is the end and we won’t ever have to talk again.
Send her a dick pic. The ol hail mary
Yea do it on Teams whats the worst that can happen
Hes a bong, that’ll be like 20 years in prison probably. Actually yeah he should do that
Answer me, I am a loser like this too
The worst thing that can happen is maybe some office gossip or she reports you. Either way it doesn't matter, stop obsessing over this chick and work on yourself.
I have been in this situation. I told a girl I really liked her. She did not reply in the affirmative then I ghosted her (no more friend shit) and started dating a little hottie from overseas. After a few months my girl had to leave and you will never guess who was blowing my phone up wanting to get romantic.
I dated that girl two years.
Don't worry about it. You just had a brief chat, nothing interesting going on. Just say hi and bye when your see her, interact in a professional way when you have to work with her.
She doesn’t work in my department anymore so the interaction will be very rare even online. Probably won’t meet each other ever again in Office especially if I avoid going to events. I guess that’s a plus.
Oh my God, that's even worse. You scared her off.
How do you flirt or what's your preferred way of flirting.
No, I didn’t there was restructuring going in my department so everyone changed roles.
>Probably won’t meet each other ever again in Office especially if I avoid going to events. I guess that’s a plus.
yes, it is. move on and learn from this mistake. and dont obsess over the failure either. just work on yourself and move on.
anon she's not even going to think about it more than once from this point forward. so do yourself a service and don't waste any brain resources thinking more into it than there is. it's not a big deal whatsoever
Don't worry about the social cringe, that shit doesn't matter, fuck her; but yeah to avoid getting in trouble at work I would simply never talk to her again. If you have to, keep it factual and professional and brief. You'll probably be fine man. Avoid workplace dating though.
And don't let this crush your confidence or turn you off from asking women out. One will go out with you. Maybe spend some time learning about women. Being rejected stings but is NBD. I was only shitting on you bc doing it at work puts you in harms way.
>What do you guys think will happen now?
you will ignore her until she approaches you at some point or another for a work favor and then you will be shit tested. you do what she asks, or you get reported to HR for being creepy and she shares these texts with the HR department months later. if you're super unlucky, she accuses you of rape.
that's on you. if you make it awkward it'll be awkward af. if you act like nothing bothers you and that it never happened and stop paying her any special attention besides for work shit, everything will be fine.
Dude, just stop fucking talking to her. If she innitiates the conversation and it's somewhat work related, fine deal with it on a professional level. Show no interest in her and move on with life. Use this as a learning experience not something you must correct no matter what.
I would need to see your total chat history with her to give you an honest answer.
Basically if she initiated a lot of the conversation then I think nothing will happen.
However if it turns out you are the one mostly bothering her I can see her getting fed up by that guy who won't stop messaging her who she had to reject now twice and she will get you fired. You keep saying "it's just an internship" no anon getting laid off/fired for harassment is not a minor deal and they will probably tell other companies.
>What do you guys think will happen now?
You start looking for a new job right now and get hired on before the H.R. report gets put on your permanent record. You can already kiss a decent work reference goodbye, as you already shat where you eat.
I dont get it. Why do you feel the need to share such a basic interaction? Is this special to you?
Yeah, it is considering I already asked her out in person before. I was isolated most of my life so things like this are still new to me.
If this is your first time talking to a girl then it's a long way to go dude
You'll have to try and fail and try again and again until you get a solid idea of what's the dating is all about
Man, thats sad and actually stings me a little. You shouldnt be posting this, even if the risk is low it could backfire on you and its just such a tiny interaction that you seem weird to make a thread out of it.
If it works, doesn't work: whatever. Fact is you actually tried. Good for you. If you keep doing that, I promise you will find a mate eventually.
You were asking her out in the screenshot?
Stop being retarded.. you’re investing way too much time writing messages and responses to her. Just flat out stop talking to her. She will eventually come around wondering why you lost interest. Once that happens just be short with her and she’ll gain interest. Quit being a homosexual.
Ignore her for a week or 2, make her crave your attention. Stop talking so formal, learn to get your point across without writing out a full paragraph like a female, if every Convo you have is about work, you're fucking boring. Find out little nuggets about her personal life, and vice versa, let her get to know you. But that's the problem most zoomer men have, there fucking boring, because all they do is consoom media and don't have real life experiences and stories to tell.
It's over. he sealed his fate.
>Did you work in a warehouse or something? Was that how you managed to have more time on your hands (figuratively speaking) than you should?
No I worked in a retail store with a lot of down time and 80% of the staff were woman and I was just there to move heavy things,
Mayb use ChatGPT to create sentences
I like the chat gpt girl.
Where is the part where he asks her out and gets rejected twice?
I asked her out in person so afterwards in the chat I just hinted at it instead of asking her straight way to get an answer and move on.
Avoid doing it at work anon it spells trouble for you. Next time you find a girl you're interested in, strike up a small conversation with her where you can make a witty remark. Make her laugh basically. Could be anything, maybe you just comment on some goofy shit someone else is doing around you. If she laughs, immediately ask her if she wants to hangout. If she doesn't, then move on.
No one is 100% successful. I do well with women and still get rejected all the time. First few times it stings but eventually you don't care. Don't let this blow your confidence. Try again. Just not at work
Man I wish I could get rejected by women. I feel like I am being stocked all the time and have to keep my blinds closed and hide my car. When I see them in public like at a supermarket I have to play some type of pacman game to avoid them. I just wanna work on myself and not have to deal with some silly floozies and their child like games.
why are you talking to her like a girl of course she wont have sex with you now move on or troon out
Another one nagger
Is she cute?
Kathryn sounds like a granny name
My opinion is that you're staring at a fish. As a fellow angler, i prognose you with the fish-eye condition.
If a woman isn't interested in you, don't ask her out, she'll just reject you.
Kathrin is definitely not interested in you.
Indeed, but she's open to him somehow becoming a millionaire tomorrow. They keep announcing that they're fish, doesn't matter if you can't get em on the hook.
I think it's better not to date people you work with
because it's a lose lose
you either ask her out and she turns you down and it becomes awkward
or she says yes and you start dating but you also have to see her all the time at work which is too much
find some girl outside of work
I agree. Dating at work can become a nightmare. I have had it happen before. Everyone knows your business. People will fuck with your relationship. If you break up it becomes hell on earth to work with that person depending on the situation.
Thanks bros, I know I am a mess now and very cringe at times but I’ll move on and get much better.
Which company are you interning at? Is it Lloyds bank? And what is her role, product manager? I'm a graduate here and there are so many qts.
Yo rule number one brother never talk badly about yourself or put yourself down. You should keep yourself in check but thats different. Youre not cringe or whatever you're just young innocent and inexperienced. There's nothing wrong with that. No one in this life will ever advocate for you as hard as you will advocate for yourself. So even if you wind up in a wheelchair with no dick or something crazy like that, you have to believe in yourself. You have no other choice. You'll get it homie just avoid creating trouble for yourself at work
Thanks bro, appreciate it.
Treat em mean, keep em keen. Don't espouse/do/agree with any of the degenerate or hateful shit/opinions you read on ~~*some*~~ threads on LULZ though. World needs to become a better place and its nice to be nice.
just give you and stop feeding into your shitty 6/10 crush's ego.
you should try a third time but with the tongue out emojis. So she knows you go down
I shouldn't be telling you this, but as a man on my 4th marriage (all of which i ended out of my own desire) who has figured out the secret to bedding any wench that I choose, I will grace you with a tidbit of knowledge. We, just as the dog, duck, or cow, are animals. It is true that we do indeed posess an advanced level of cognition, which has allowed us to fool ourselves into thinking that we are something special, something more, however, the truth remains that below these metaphysical talents, when stripped of the dishonest hubris of humanity, we are animals. We possess the same instincts and urges as any other mammal, and we are the same subject to equal hormonal stimuli as they are. If you truly wish to slide your girthy winky into her smelly little stink tunnel, here is what you do: do not, under any circumstances, masturbate. From now and for 7 days hereafter you shall not view any sexual content, you will try and avoid sexual thoughts of any kind. After the 7 days is up, take a jar, sit at your computer and view whatever sexual content arouses you most. Do NOT masturbate, just sit there. When you feel that your sexual excitement has reached it's climax, urinate into the jar. This jar will now contain a potent mixture of pheromones, a concoction which the weaker sex is biologically designed to be attracted to on a subconscious, instinctual level. Immediately refrigerate your liquid gold. Every morning before you go into work, dip your fingers into the jar and lightly rub some of the mixture into the sides of your neck like a good aftershave. You will have any woman that you please. Good luck.
what the fuck did i just read
>Women are known for sniffing out desperation in guys.
Not only that, but they despise it. Women have admitted to me that they take pride in being able to identify desperation because of this weird fucking concept of love that they have: "Only women can love because men's love is based on desperation, and women's love is based on selection".
Women are garbage.
Those are just insecure fuckin cunts like female incels. They have sex so incel isn't the right label but they have the same petty bitter rage that male incels have. No normal woman is thriving off of shutting down men, cunts who feel badly about themselves are doing that to feel some sort of power that they never feel normally.
>"Only women can love because men's love is based on desperation, and women's love is based on selection".
Not to mention, society also has this fucked up philosophy that only women can love and or are the only ones needed to raise children. Thus, severely neglecting the roles needed for fathers.
It's all hogwash and balderdash.
btw be careful with chatting on Teams (or anything similar) where you potentially could lose control of who sees it. Wrong word and suddenly you have a sexual harrassment charge on you.
stop otherwise you're gonna get your stupid ass fired or worse
just be honest and say you thought she was interested in you and thats why you asked her to lunch. game isnt rocket science, naggers do it all the time.
If I was this woman. I wouldnt have taken it as you were asking me out. Just reading the interactions you shared.
It's rather code like. Not being direct with your intent.
I understand asking someone out that you work with can be taken out of context and possibly misconstrued to be harassment.
This however was so indirect. I don't believe she picked up on the fact you were interested in her.
Generally speaking. Working with a partner or dating within the company is considered a conflict of interest. However this depends on the company you work for and their guidelines. I would be careful. Because if by chance she is interested and things were to progress in a romantic way. There is a chance that one of you could get fired. And work is a livelihood that should be taken seriously.
Depending on what you do specifically as well. It could be detrimental to you and your public view or following.
It is important to be mindful of these things as a whole.
We are anons here. But don't for a 2nd think they can't find out specifically who you are.
This is not said to cause fear. Just to remind people that how you act online, and in real life. Is never private, completely. So stay mindful.