I envy people with abusive gf/bfs. Like I want to get beaten and dominated by the person i love, i know its wrong but thats my place in life and id feel happy like that, i cant feel loved any other way.
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I envy people with abusive gf/bfs. Like I want to get beaten and dominated by the person i love, i know its wrong but thats my place in life and id feel happy like that, i cant feel loved any other way.
I don't really feel like sexually dominating someone, but the idea of beating someone up after a long day at work sounds kind of fun. Like slapping them in the face when they ask me how my day was when I obviously am not in the mood to talk, or throwing a plate of food they cooked (that was shit) at the wall right behind their head. Maybe punching them in the stomach once in a while, or punching their crotch with an uppercut.
They also wouldn't be allowed to have any friends.
Id like a guy like that except that he has to give me *some* affection once and a while so i know he really loves me
But i dont mind getting hit at all
I mean, yeah, of course, but I need a ragdoll to heap my impotent, meaningless rage against. It's more of a knowing I can just dump my frustration on someone and knowing they'll just quietly enjoy it even if they cry or whine.
Are you that femanon who wanted a boxer bf to beat her or something?
I imagine I'm living in a scenario just like that every night before sleep and jerk off to it a lot. The thought of being an abusive butthole, both physically and emotionally, makes me diamonds. Probably would never do anything like this in real life though
i like his nails
I want a gf that will thank me for each bruise I give her. As a my punching bag I'll leave some near her neck so she can proudly display her awards and after each steamy rough frick we have we will also hold hands
just asked about this on /adv/, how would you feel about being hurt/cut?
how do i find a gf like this? and do i need to establish healthy boundaries etc?
Id be ok with getting slapped, punched, but no broken bones i guess, but they could leave bruises
Also i could get cut but nothing too deep
yeah i think for me it's blood, and i'd like to leave scars
definitely a psychological element to it: love the whole "tying someone up in my basement until they BEG for sex" fantasy, but i also need to actually harm someone
just not sure how to go about this
>how do i find a gf like this?
idk how to answer this, maybe in bdsm circles that would be easier, or u could just wait for another anon like me to post, cuz im not actually trying to pull from here
>and do i need to establish healthy boundaries etc?
Probably if u dont want to go to jail
>Are you that femanon who wanted a boxer bf to beat her or something?
boxer? no
that sounds amazing, actually
both r good
thanks
>cuz im not actually trying to pull from here
yeah just to be clear i'm not interested in you, i don't know you
just looking for advice really. is Fetlife the place for this? it's not a role play thing, it's real.
Physical violence are for repressed cucks.
Real Chads use psychological violence and manipulation
Stan Edgar >>>> Homelander
ooh could you be happy if I want to treat you nice even when I whip your ass or tie you up?
I don't like the sound of pure abuse, but maybe more playful and if you let me dote on you in between.
Do you like big fat wieners too? I can give one to you.
More importantly, are you male?
I could never get my dick up for a filthy female.
>treat you nice even when I whip your ass or tie you up?
Yeah, but u can be mean/assertive once and a while anytime u want
>Do you like big fat wieners too?
Size doesnt matter to me imo, its kinda how u use it, but that sounds cool
>Fetlife
Idk what that is
>are you male?
Yeah, but most ppl dont like that ig
>Idk what that is
BDSM website but i think it asks for real life ID and stuff. not something i'm comfortable with.
>Size doesnt matter to me imo, its kinda how u use it, but that sounds cool
what if someone had a small penis but didn't want penetrative sex? just to use you, maybe jerk off while you're in pain/crying
>but didn't want penetrative sex? just to use you, maybe jerk off while you're in pain/crying
That sounds kinda boringg
>I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.
Id love that too, but you cant rlly get a committed relationship from this site. I just post abt this stuff to kinda vent
Id be ok with slight cutting and the other stuff u talked abt but not broken bones, thats too much i would say
Heh, you're exactly what a dominant guy like me is looking for.
I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.
i dont think id ever want to be burned, cut, or have my bones broken by anyone, but being shoved, slapped, and cursed out would be nice. i can be really dense and clingy so it would help i think
how do i find someone like you? i want someone to text me at 3 in the morning saying they'll kill themselves if i don't validate them.
find someone quiet, kind, and sensitive with both mommy and daddy issues. i think its better that you stay away though because we aren't joking when we say that. or we do worse when it doesn't work
>i think its better that you stay away though because we aren't joking when we say that. or we do worse when it doesn't work
hard pass. I don't need that emotional abuse in my life. A girl once pulled that early on in the relationship, and I told her I would block her ass so fast it would make her head spin, and never look back. She stopped after that.
had a BPD gf and i had to learn a lot about it. i know it's 'real' and valid. it was draining and she cheated (heartbreaking) but i miss it. wish i took things further when i had the chance.
>That sounds kinda boringg
yeah i guess it's boring for the other person. might also be different if you're a guy, but you could get off to it later if it's your thing.
im scared of getting into a relationship and fully letting myself go because idk what my bpd is going to turn into. i'm very unstable. i think i could get away with it if i was a girl, but that sadly isnt the case
I don't wanna be actually abusive, but consensual bedroom abuse is fun. Does that work for people like you, or do I have to actually be unhealthy for you to be into it?
>I don't wanna be actually abusive, but consensual bedroom abuse is fun. Does that work for people like you, or do I have to actually be unhealthy for you to be into it?
Im ok with consensual but if they wanted to be forceful i would let them for sure
I can only do truly forceful with some kind of sign that it's okay, maybe continuous use of a "green" safeword or something