I envy people with abusive gf/bfs.

I envy people with abusive gf/bfs. Like I want to get beaten and dominated by the person i love, i know its wrong but thats my place in life and id feel happy like that, i cant feel loved any other way.

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I don't really feel like sexually dominating someone, but the idea of beating someone up after a long day at work sounds kind of fun. Like slapping them in the face when they ask me how my day was when I obviously am not in the mood to talk, or throwing a plate of food they cooked (that was shit) at the wall right behind their head. Maybe punching them in the stomach once in a while, or punching their crotch with an uppercut.

    They also wouldn't be allowed to have any friends.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Id like a guy like that except that he has to give me *some* affection once and a while so i know he really loves me

      But i dont mind getting hit at all

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I mean, yeah, of course, but I need a ragdoll to heap my impotent, meaningless rage against. It's more of a knowing I can just dump my frustration on someone and knowing they'll just quietly enjoy it even if they cry or whine.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Are you that femanon who wanted a boxer bf to beat her or something?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I imagine I'm living in a scenario just like that every night before sleep and jerk off to it a lot. The thought of being an abusive butthole, both physically and emotionally, makes me diamonds. Probably would never do anything like this in real life though

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    i like his nails

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I want a gf that will thank me for each bruise I give her. As a my punching bag I'll leave some near her neck so she can proudly display her awards and after each steamy rough frick we have we will also hold hands

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    just asked about this on /adv/, how would you feel about being hurt/cut?

    how do i find a gf like this? and do i need to establish healthy boundaries etc?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Id be ok with getting slapped, punched, but no broken bones i guess, but they could leave bruises

      Also i could get cut but nothing too deep

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        yeah i think for me it's blood, and i'd like to leave scars

        definitely a psychological element to it: love the whole "tying someone up in my basement until they BEG for sex" fantasy, but i also need to actually harm someone

        just not sure how to go about this

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >how do i find a gf like this?
      idk how to answer this, maybe in bdsm circles that would be easier, or u could just wait for another anon like me to post, cuz im not actually trying to pull from here
      >and do i need to establish healthy boundaries etc?
      Probably if u dont want to go to jail
      >Are you that femanon who wanted a boxer bf to beat her or something?
      boxer? no

      yeah i think for me it's blood, and i'd like to leave scars

      definitely a psychological element to it: love the whole "tying someone up in my basement until they BEG for sex" fantasy, but i also need to actually harm someone

      just not sure how to go about this

      that sounds amazing, actually

      Physical violence are for repressed cucks.
      Real Chads use psychological violence and manipulation

      Stan Edgar >>>> Homelander

      both r good

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        thanks
        >cuz im not actually trying to pull from here
        yeah just to be clear i'm not interested in you, i don't know you

        just looking for advice really. is Fetlife the place for this? it's not a role play thing, it's real.

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Physical violence are for repressed cucks.
    Real Chads use psychological violence and manipulation

    Stan Edgar >>>> Homelander

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    ooh could you be happy if I want to treat you nice even when I whip your ass or tie you up?
    I don't like the sound of pure abuse, but maybe more playful and if you let me dote on you in between.
    Do you like big fat wieners too? I can give one to you.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/JesoxXu.png

      I envy people with abusive gf/bfs. Like I want to get beaten and dominated by the person i love, i know its wrong but thats my place in life and id feel happy like that, i cant feel loved any other way.

      More importantly, are you male?
      I could never get my dick up for a filthy female.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >treat you nice even when I whip your ass or tie you up?
      Yeah, but u can be mean/assertive once and a while anytime u want
      >Do you like big fat wieners too?
      Size doesnt matter to me imo, its kinda how u use it, but that sounds cool

      thanks
      >cuz im not actually trying to pull from here
      yeah just to be clear i'm not interested in you, i don't know you

      just looking for advice really. is Fetlife the place for this? it's not a role play thing, it's real.

      >Fetlife
      Idk what that is

      [...]
      More importantly, are you male?
      I could never get my dick up for a filthy female.

      >are you male?
      Yeah, but most ppl dont like that ig

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >Idk what that is
        BDSM website but i think it asks for real life ID and stuff. not something i'm comfortable with.

        >Size doesnt matter to me imo, its kinda how u use it, but that sounds cool
        what if someone had a small penis but didn't want penetrative sex? just to use you, maybe jerk off while you're in pain/crying

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >but didn't want penetrative sex? just to use you, maybe jerk off while you're in pain/crying
          That sounds kinda boringg

          Heh, you're exactly what a dominant guy like me is looking for.
          I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.

          >I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.
          Id love that too, but you cant rlly get a committed relationship from this site. I just post abt this stuff to kinda vent

          i dont think id ever want to be burned, cut, or have my bones broken by anyone, but being shoved, slapped, and cursed out would be nice. i can be really dense and clingy so it would help i think

          Id be ok with slight cutting and the other stuff u talked abt but not broken bones, thats too much i would say

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Heh, you're exactly what a dominant guy like me is looking for.
        I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    i dont think id ever want to be burned, cut, or have my bones broken by anyone, but being shoved, slapped, and cursed out would be nice. i can be really dense and clingy so it would help i think

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      how do i find someone like you? i want someone to text me at 3 in the morning saying they'll kill themselves if i don't validate them.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        find someone quiet, kind, and sensitive with both mommy and daddy issues. i think its better that you stay away though because we aren't joking when we say that. or we do worse when it doesn't work

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >i think its better that you stay away though because we aren't joking when we say that. or we do worse when it doesn't work

          hard pass. I don't need that emotional abuse in my life. A girl once pulled that early on in the relationship, and I told her I would block her ass so fast it would make her head spin, and never look back. She stopped after that.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          had a BPD gf and i had to learn a lot about it. i know it's 'real' and valid. it was draining and she cheated (heartbreaking) but i miss it. wish i took things further when i had the chance.

          >but didn't want penetrative sex? just to use you, maybe jerk off while you're in pain/crying
          That sounds kinda boringg
          [...]
          >I'd love to make you feel helpless with me, and to give you affection when I think you're too scared.
          Id love that too, but you cant rlly get a committed relationship from this site. I just post abt this stuff to kinda vent
          [...]
          Id be ok with slight cutting and the other stuff u talked abt but not broken bones, thats too much i would say

          >That sounds kinda boringg
          yeah i guess it's boring for the other person. might also be different if you're a guy, but you could get off to it later if it's your thing.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            im scared of getting into a relationship and fully letting myself go because idk what my bpd is going to turn into. i'm very unstable. i think i could get away with it if i was a girl, but that sadly isnt the case

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I don't wanna be actually abusive, but consensual bedroom abuse is fun. Does that work for people like you, or do I have to actually be unhealthy for you to be into it?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >I don't wanna be actually abusive, but consensual bedroom abuse is fun. Does that work for people like you, or do I have to actually be unhealthy for you to be into it?
      Im ok with consensual but if they wanted to be forceful i would let them for sure

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I can only do truly forceful with some kind of sign that it's okay, maybe continuous use of a "green" safeword or something

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