for never having a sandbox in the backyard, never building a treehouse, never getting a firepit, never taking us camping or fishing
how could someone make these unforgivable mistakes as a father
I don't forgive my father
for never having a sandbox in the backyard, never building a treehouse, never getting a firepit, never taking us camping or fishing
how could someone make these unforgivable mistakes as a father
if you live with that then you will develop mentall illnesses. forgive everyone for they are retards auch as yourself. everyon is human amd the world does not revolve around your weak ass
you're so autistic you took a post about parenting and the things happy kids should have growing up and you focused only on the comedic exaggeration - there is no hope for you, you are too autistic
If my kids turned out like me I would jump off a bridge in shame. My parents would rather convince themselves that I'm special needs than admit that there is a single fault in their character.
Our generation's parents will be remembered as the parents of the generation who cut their dicks and tits off. It that doesn't make you bow your head in shame I am at a loss for words.
You are a huge pussy.
>not building your own treehouse out of old pallets at 10 years old.
>local kid fuckin dies
That's the point of a treehouse, jackass. To learn NOT TO DIE MAKING A FUCKING TREEHOUSE.
This generation is fucked. Fucking sissy.
Why do this generation expect to be handed things on a plate?
If I'd have asked my dad for a wooden tank in our back garden, he pointed at his shed and said I could have as many nails as I wanted and the building materials they were using to make a house next door were only a 'leaning over the fence' away.
Because they're spoiled rotten by millennials who think discipline is child abuse.
I once got shouted at for coming back from the park and NOT HAVING MUD ON ME.
My mum thought I'd been smoking or up to no good.
We'd been drilling holes in trees trying to 'collect maple syrup' but didn't know what a Maple tree looked like... then found a Magpie's nest so never got dirty in the mud.
Se told her about the little chick and how I stopped my brother touching it and getting his smell on it.
She was pleased and she stopped strip-searching my brother looking for cigarettes we never had.
I found later most people are raised by cretins and not real parents and it came as a complete surprise to me.
I thought everyone was best friends with their mum and dad.
People are idiots.
They're best avoided... or set on fire, as my grandfather used to whisper.
Boomers didn’t teach their kids anything and started the whole zero tolerance thing and as a result this generation was extraordinarily soft and hovering around their kids. It’s a natural progression and easy to see. The thing is until you’re a parent it’s easy to say “I’d let my kids be kids” but harder to do so when say all the other parents and kids think the same way and your society looks down upon letting kids be kids. I’m not excusing anyone here but this is the world we find ourselves in.
I’m doing my best to break the cycle but it isn’t easy and finding the right balance is always out of grasp.
Like mine, he gave you many examples of what not to do. Do better for your kids, bro. Been taking mine out in the outdoors since they got out of the hospital and they love it. Just being present and involved with them is heaps better than the hand we were dealt.
that's awesome to hear man, sorry they were in the hospital, but that's the plan when I have my own youngins
dad: "hey don't touch my tools you're gonna lose em"
mom: "youre gonna hurt yourself put that down"
neighbor: "hey where's my pallet?"
the only example he gave me is an irrational urge to kill him
My dad bought me all the latest video game consoles and games
Go and do them, except the adult version
Make your tree house
Visidt forests
Go hiking
my father raised 3 kids on his own with government gibs, legos, snes, and eventually a PC, homosexual
all his kids became successful
my dad could barely afford a PC let alone a tv, 25 years fast forward today, I live like a poor person despite being a millionaire.
I had a sandbox as a very young kid. Never had the tree house. Built a firepit with my dad when I was a teenager. Camping was something I started doing on my own as a teenager and I've only been fishing with him twice, I'd go fishing more with my friend's dad who owned a boat.
And my dad was a fucking hardcore libtard when I was younger
>I will never forgive my father for not falling for marketing slop
his only mistake was having sex with your mom only to have ungrateful homosexual of a son.
I know your father never loved you more than money, Moishe
I get those feels. You don't need to lash out at random anons anymore.
>be me
>never allowed to lan parties
>never allowed to go to sleep overs
>never allowed to host lan parties or sleep overs
>not allowed to join any clubs
>fast forward to when I get my first job
>dictated how I must spend my money
>not allowed to use my money to join clubs/gym
>not allowed to buy gym equipment which I have room for in my own bedroom
>when I mention I'm gonna buy it anyways I don't need your permission they pull the "I'm gonna kick you out the house card" if I do
>eventually move out
>parents act sad when I leave
>more time passes
>ask parents during a visit why I wasn't allowed to do jack shit as a kid
>they play play dumb and pretend that never happened
For what fucking purpose?
>For what fucking purpose?
You cant be more successful them then, you make them look bad.
Welcome to the individualistic modern hellhole we live in.
They were probably afraid of you getting hurt. They thought that if you were out of your sight something bad might happen and this also translated in a need to control every aspect of your life otherwise you’d make a poor decision and get hurt. It’s funny in a sad sort of way: “anon can’t make decisions yet, he’s not old and experienced enough, so we’ll prevent him from making his own decisions until he’s ready” Of course you’re never going to be ready if you’re always shielded.
You lived like the opposite life of me
Man i wish i grew up with a father at home
they sound like narcissistic assholes, like they were afraid of you growing up and not being their little baby anymore, parents like that set their kids back a lot
it wouldnt be so bad if you could just move out and be independent at 18 but in this economy...
>Your father’s behaviour is probably a mirror image of how his father acted although probably better
100% - I got to know my grandfather well for the first time when I visited him abroad and he's the exact same grumpy asswipe as my dad but moreso
I’m a father and I’m always struggling with breaking the behavioural cycles of my father (and his father and so on). We all inherit behaviours from our parents and some are good, some are not so good. Your father’s behaviour is probably a mirror image of how his father acted although probably better (you are just unaware of this).
Instead of bemoaning your childhood you need to learn to forgive and move on. And most importantly you need to recognize these behaviours in yourself and work on reducing or eliminating them. If you have a family you need to remember these lessons and feelings and act appropriately. Be better in other words.
It’s easy to point fingers at parents especially boomers but they came by it naturally. My parents are pretty absent grandparents and it really bothers me and my wife. I tell them and sometimes they try but the truth is they are boomers: as a whole this generation is more concerned with consooming and travel than family and community. I’m doing my best to break the cycle and I tell my kids all the time how family is so important, having children is so rewarding and joyous and why life is so much more than materialism. I don’t expect them to absorb my outlook but I want them to be raised with at least this as a subconscious belief system or standard as opposed to “don’t have kids when young! Go to college and enjoy yourself! Don’t have kids when too young it gets in the way of fun and consooming! Choose your gender! Have furbabies!”
stop being a pussy, all of us are some product of what came before - his father wasn't perfect, his grandfather neither, you are crying about what class you were born into
They were perfect though. It's why parents are so terrible these days. Their parents were so could they didn't even notice that parenting was something that people do
Your father was in your life and he didn't beat your ass or suppress your voice?!?
at least you had one some aint got that
My dad took me camping though. great man
fair point
When I have a son I'm getting him a gaming PC and introducing him to FPS's and League as soon as I can
hes gonna get pwned by negros in middle school
Whatever you do it can't be worse than forcefully cutting kids' dicks off and in injecting experimental drugs into them while convincing them they are special needs just so they can keep them as a slave like psycho bloodlusting modern parents do these days
You can't condemn what you don't know.
Buhuhu crimea river homosexual.
I am your father.
you and me both anon. it fucking hurts being disposable
they shit you out on the planet and say, "myeaah, fuck off and do whatever, but dont leave either. just sit in your room and replay lego star wars"
>League
someone stop this man and save that child
>how could someone make these unforgivable mistakes as a father
Be a better father
(and feel free to handle negroids and israelite)
you were a useless shit, get over it loser
Q. As a child I was always borrowing tools from my dad's shed and making things, like a jeep/tank/APC/helicopter out of wood in our back garden to play in. SO WHY DIDN'T YOU MAKE YOUR OWN SANDPIT OR TREEHOUSE, YOU USELESS nagger?
(t. became an engineer)
not your personal blog
To much monkey business, you father probably worked his ass off and didn't had to much time to himself
First world problems
Thank him, such things are stupid, ugly and not even used most of the time. I will forever thank my parents for nagging me to get friends. It led to me wanting to do the opposite and study more. .
nagger the fuck? a child's treehouse would look better than half the shit in your ikea country
Never spit upwards.
What thing will or would your children blame you for doing or failing to do?
I dont forgive your father for not beating you daily until the homosexualry was beaten out of you.
MAYBE THE FATHER WAS WAITING FOR HIS TO STOP BEING A WEAK homosexual... AND MAKE HIS OWN TREEHOUSE LIKE A REAL BOY.
>he disappointed his parents
scared cuck taking his anger out on the internet, return to india
>"I'm subhuman"
we already knew by the flag but thanks for posting
Kys. I grew up in a commie block. Get over it.
Boy named Sue
i had a sandbox and a treehouse with a zipline
but all i wanted was for my dad to play with me and spend time with me and he never did
you sound like a material centered cunt
I listed only outdoorsy things that provide an experience, as opposed to forcing their kids to sit inside with video games all day
and the dipshits of this board think that's whining about wanting more vidya, how low has the IQ of this place fallen
camping and fishing are gay. i hated that shit as a kid. would much rather play sports and vidya with my pops.
>dad did all those things
>did nothing to mentor me for adulthood
i wish playing in a sandbox helped me understand why I'm paying for insurance that denies my claims
your dad doesn't teach you about israelites thats what LULZ is for
>LUKE
>/misc/ is your father
>...and it's the israelites!
>"YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES!" screamed Luke.
My dad showed me how to pick locks and how to kill someone in seconds with a knife.
Mind you, he's been in the military.
I thought everyone's mum knew how to bake bread and make pies out of rabbits we snared.
I just couldn't understand what my schoolfriends meant when they said their mothers 'went out clubbing' or 'to the pub'?
I thought everyone had parents that loved each other.
get a grip you homosexual
You don't need those things. Thank your father for not having wasted your time with all these bullshit.
Eh, mine was an alcoholic who walked out on my narcissistic mother and never looked back for his kids. I don't judge him, a man's gotta do what he's gotta do.
He recently died. Of liver failure, go figure. At least I'll get his pension I guess.
You mentioned a load of shite. Fishing or camping are worthy but everything else you said is lame or useless.
>mom and I take IQ tests when I was eight years old and she was 30 something
>I get ten points better than her
>she tears them up, beats me, tells me IQ tests are meaningless
This is one of the lighter stories from my childhood. I spent most of my childhood and teen years locked in a room under constant supervision.
>for never having a sandbox in the backyard, never building a treehouse, never getting a firepit, never taking us camping or fishing
>how could someone make these unforgivable mistakes as a father
i hope you are trolling
life is not always perfect like in the movies